₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
▢ Why does "life has to move on" need to translate to people having kids they obviously lack the resources to raise?
▢ You admit that well over 50% of Nigerians ought not to concern themselves with having children at all given they lack the financial capacity for such so, why does "Life has to move on" need to mean it is Ok for them to have kids?
▢ Why does "life has to move on" need to be translated to mean foolishness, and obviously wickedness should continue to thrive and reign for Pete's sake?

Those Nigerians who chose not to have kids at all after carefully examining their pockets and environments, do you think of them as imbeciles or something??

2. The government does that because the people consider themselves worth such; they are the government after all. Do Nigerians think of themselves the same way? With people having kids they cannot afford to raise, who do you expect to pay for such programs? The handful of Nigerians who made the wise church not burden themselves with more than they can carry? Or are you under some sort of delusion that these programs in developed countries sponsor themselves?

Haha you must have 3 children atleast in Nigeria. Even if you suffering, homeless and your meal pattern is - 0 1 0

You must born. You must release sperm. So you can be proud about it to your fellow friends and family.

Go to church on Sunday and say 👇

“I Am Happily Married With 3 Children, Praise da lord”

Theres no plan whatsoever for these kids though. Even God is offended with these antics in Nigeria.

Nigerians have a long way to go man. That country in my mind is forever a hell hole. You can do yourself a favor and leave when you can.

hardon1:
My guy ur still in this . Relax abeg. I guess you are previledged and comfortable to some extent, that's why you are talking like this sha. If you know the difficulty people are going through, you wouldn't blame them for certain things

If we want to talk of the requirements for bringing up a child, 50% of adult Nigerians including me would not meet it due to poverty

By standard, a Nigerian earning a minimum wage of 30k cannot adequately cater for himself let alone a child. You go come because of that say make person no marry or born pikin? No na. Live has to move on

In western nations, government also make inputs towards the development of every child, we don't have such here. We do everything by ourself here.

If you don't have the means, you have to struggle through the process

Cc Lexy2014

Being privileged and comfortable isnt my own fault. Are you blaming me for that?

My dad and mom are a hardworking duo.

Bro those people like working. Up at 4am and driving out for work in their different cars mostly after a kiss. I am still in my 20s and those images of my childhood still stuck.

I see them at night tired but they still make time to play with us.

Then we go to the beach during the weekends with Uncle Mike

Bro i didn't lack jack sh** and i am proud to say that. Its not that I work hard right now. Me that i am lazy but i had or maybe still have hard working parents that despite being above middle class, they gave birth to what they can handle - Two boys and were very disciplined and committed to raising their wards.

My elder bro is a Frogman for the U.S Navy Seals, i look up to him badly. Infact I think i am the most laziest of my family cause i spend my hours on Nairaland.

So What i am saying is i can never settle for less and i got high taste.

In hell hole Nigeria of a country, if you want to have a family both parties need to be working.

Like working hard and having a trust fund for the kid. If you don't have a trust fund then why bring another human being? That’s wickedness and selfishness.

But if you believe you can handle 100 kids, go ahead. Just dont go around begging other people managing their lives and then try to play the emotional fanfare when they turn you down!

Nasri100:
Ignore the lexy2014 guy

Hes run out of steam so the village man thinks hes doing something by trolling.

You mean a black nigga (Lexy2014) stuck in Nigggerian and getting f****ed everyday by sh*t hole policies in that country will troll me? Haha he is too small.

I was only saying if he wants to have unlimited number of kids go on and do that.

Just don't always beg innocent people for money to take care of your wards and make sure you are not spreading your kids about - Those are signs of a useless father.

lexy2014:
Offpoint. How does all you have typed negate the following or related to the following?

That's not true. These families will make do with what they have and raise their kids d best way they can. They might be drinking garri but there's love in d family, that will fill their bellies

My friend. If you want, born 15 children. Give them Garri and be happy. If theres love in your family and you can take care of them, thats you and your family’s business. Nobody cares.

The only reason why people care is 👇

If you have these kids and go on begging money (or spreading these kids to other people) from people that are very careful with their life and plans, then you are a selfish and useless person if you do that.

Enjoy.

lexy2014:
Offpoint. How does all you have typed negate the following or related to the following?

That's not true. These families will make do with what they have and raise their kids d best way they can. They might be drinking garri but there's love in d family, that will fill their bellies

My friend. If you want, born 15 children. Give them Garri and be happy. If theres love in your family and you can take care of them, thats you and your family’s business. Nobody cares.

The only reason why people care is 👇

If you have these kids and go on begging money (or spreading these kids to other people) from people that are very careful with their life and plans, then you are a selfish and useless person if you do that.

Enjoy.

VTJN:
off point


You contradict yourself endlessly trying to be a questionnaire

Love will not pay your bills
Hunger doesn't recognise love nor hatred
Illness is a respecter of no one
Christ fed thousands of people with bread and fishes not only with love

Go to correctional centres across the 36 states and FCT and show me 1 single child from rich home

Take a walk in your community and show me one single rich amongst those Yahoo guys walking elmlessly with short knicker and phone

Take a walk on the high way and show me 1 single out of school children hawking on the street or begging for aims that belongs to a rich man

Take a walk to public school around and tell me which rich man children you will find there.

I know my community more than you. Likewise you know yours more than i. These children had become nuisance as a result of poverty.

The girl follow men to feed and buy clothes. The boys are tools, errand boys to those Yahoo guys

Continue with your questionnaire. I won't respond to you anymore

Even in countries like UK and States, things are not very smooth. Inflation is biting.

People are still contemplating having a kid. Max these days around me is 2. And that 2 both parents are earning a huge sum yearly.

Now this is UK AND US O. Where if another COVID strikes people will still get bailout cash from the government.

Imagine that hell hole Nigeria where the government is working everyday against the people yet Nigerians decide to be stupid.

So stupid.

Kobojunkie:
Far from it. Every body pays for it eventually!

Well i agree a bit with Everybody Pays cause the Nigerians who decided to have kids with no trust fund or bailout plans are always on my messages begging for one favor or the other.

Have you noticed the Hardon1 guy you talkin with kept on talkin about accident, ill luck and bla bla

Apparently Nigerians DONT know theres something called a trust fund for a kid or kids and having a partner who is also earning where if you die the kid is set for life.

All some Nigerians know is to give birth without a plan, suffer, then blame the government as if this hell hole Nigeria has ever functioned well since inception.

Them noe dey tell person. If you like born 15 na you alone with your kaya

RaptorX:
Why do you think the VO needs to know your father earns 50 million annually. That is called name dropping and unnecessary information.

Likeeeeee

I know the white lady already saw the red flag with the capping prices. He probably practiced this interview that would be on her mind.

I know someone that got a US Visa last year and didnt even have to say much.

You saying 50m and they know you aint comin back for any yeye NYSC

Contekbbc:

I shall know your mouth no go send your helper away,you wet suppose dey do babiala you self dey form big man.
Simply say you're broke,who knows you also need some donations.
Stop waiting for @Seun or the Mod forever.
Do the needful, boy.
Always making mouth wey you no even get.
You might be wondering how I know you're poor, I actually studied psychology at a point and I'm experienced when picking lies or truth!
Good night,kid and don't disturb me with your rant anymore, Yankee boy

Do the needful? I work hard for my money dont worry. I wont just give it out without confirmation.

I am different from you. You havent worked a day in your life so how can you relate?

So even with your degree in psychology, having SIX KIDS in a one room apartment was in your cerebrum plans since campus days?

Enjoy.

Contekbbc:

When did I promise to enter into a duel with a simpleton like you.?
Do your own first and don't attach my own with it.
Finally, you're getting some sense.
Ask the op and send your own 100k, after then,I'll take you serious
Always making mouth, empty barrel
Poor and uncultured rat!
Spit!

He say na do your own first

I will actually. If he sends his details. He’s getting the money tonight and you will see a screenshot. All i need is a Nairaland mod to confirm his authenticity. I already tagged Seun the owner.

And going with a duel with you? No o.

You were slamming poverty above and i am just thinking the best way to get your friend out of it before we come to you.

For your own case we will do gofundme cause yours is a special case of suffering

Contekbbc:

I don laugh tire!
Pls enjoy YOURSELF.

You see what I like about you is your power of imagination,by the time hunger give you better slap, you no go dey sweet-talk the paupers you call parent.

I have already settled my family so all those things you see as big deals because of your misery is not even on the table.

Keep forming big boy when you never know if anyone here could help you ND your family out of poverty.
Keep forming,ok!
We shall see

Haha another contradiction. He say na help out of poverty. Mumu

You started by supporting the OP on his ridiculous poverty generating adventure ostensibly cause you are in the same boat.

You have not helped yourself and your 6 children, or the OP, na me you wan help?

If you promise to send the OP at-least 2k out of the money you have been saving since 2019 this night, and a Nairaland mod will confirm it, i will credit a token of N100k to the OP to help his ministry this night.

Lets help instead of all these long talks 🙏

Cc Seun we need a mod.

Contekbbc:
Don't be shy kid.
It shows you're mummy's boy
You're still staying in with your failed parents and forming mr somebody when you're actually nobody.

You have no class boy and I am sure poverty has changed your personality.
Hungry people are often-times, aggressive, so, I'm not bothered by your aggressiveness.

Learn to respect men who takes care of their family and don't ever put mouth in what you're not in the best position to give advice.

Say the truth,your pale and male gave birth to many of you.
Next time, respect family men and women.
It's not easy taking responsibility over kids and wives.
Stop being a NUISANCE behind keyboard!
Rest well!!
Empty Brain!

My nigga is mocking poverty

Thats the topic of the day - Poverty

But you know what this rat nigga does? He goes behind to support his fellow friend whos breeding like rats in this hell hole Nigeria but atleast his friend has a job and making less than $100 a month.

What do you have? Nothing. Your kids will resume school by September yet you dont even know what they having for breakfast tomorrow because of poor decisions you made.

Not my fault.

Then you talking about respect to men that raise families? I dont need no better role model like my dad. Retired early. Gave birth to what he can handle. Enjoying life with his wife in his retirement. His two boys already independent and making him proud.

Finally please try not to lash your wife this night so the kids can sleep 🙏

Contekbbc:
Clap for yourself,always forming mr somebody behind your phone but in real life you're a site loser and a failure.
Let me ask! How many of you did your parents give birth too,if you're more than two,then,they are a complete failure too and your miserable life won't be a surprise to me.

Good night, the wisest fool!

See how you type so incoherent

No wonder you supporting a fellow suffer head (Actually the OP is even better cause he has learnt his lesson) like you. You are actually worse cause i have a feeling by the end of next year it will be 9 kids in that one room apartment of yours.

I know your wife is tired and fed up. But shes just managing to stick with you out of love. My brother go and hustle and lift your family out of poverty.

And mumu man, we are only 2 in my family.

My mom was very smart. Thats why i have freedom to reply goats like you

Enjoy bro.

Contekbbc:
I blame you for taking your life issues to these unresponsive,untamed, uncultured,immature set of people.
My advice is pray more ND try to use whatever (positive) things you have to get money In return.
My prayers are with you and don't take several bashing here seriously cos most of them are still under their parents' roof and can never understand your plight.
We're all in this together!
Shalom!

You will know them by their contributions.

Probably this one too has 6 kids that he cant feed.

In your own timid line of thinking, Lets clap for him for having children he cant take care of in a country already facing 70 million people in extreme poverty.

The OP is even considering running away from his responsibilities.

You are here talking about people bashing him.

You should ask for his account details before i can even take you seriously since you a fan of his antics. Misery loves company surely.

Nonsense.

You are alone in this life

Nasri100:
As I said earlier, you talk a-lot of nonsense. Watch how you cropped a line from what I said and went on about your usual jargons

Something I already discussed. Something already known. Women are sorted in life. What else do we not know?

I am even questioning if you are really a Man. After all, men know how difficult it is to attain wealth and will never mock another man for being broke. The same Dangote you are praising will probably think you are an a s s hole.

I don't see any other man that doesn't have what I have as broke or poor. I know life is a process. I know women get the advantage in life while men have to earn it.

Now lets say I even want to go in your level, why are you so pained the user is advising Nigerian men on what to do with their money? Why aren't you allowing a debate? Why the dictatorship?

If you think in your little world that Men should be allowed to do what they want with their funds as regards sex, why are you so pained someone else is advising the same Men not to be careless with their funds. You keep saying broke and poor. Relax.

Go outside, take some fresh air. Its a democratic world these days. People are allowed to have opinions. Heck the country you are in is practicing democracy. Follow the route.

This is my last response to you, little man.

I was reading everything as Guest but decided to login in!

I blame u this guy. U already won the argument from the start and you kept talking and talking, Guys don't talk too much like that na.

Even the guy that dropped the earlier take you agreed with has left the thread since.

Mrbrownjay1 is a billionaire and the richest man on Nairaland…. Hes friends with Dangotes and the rest… he knows their circle and how they live. Let him be abeg.

KingDash09:
He will sell it use the money to gamble some more...

Exactly. He will sell it to gamble. And he wont feel bad cause he didnt buy the phone with his money

Larry1960:
My brother that is the case my initial budget for Canada and uk was 10m and 14M
As it stands now I need 17m for Canada and 28M for UK . I just had to abandon my travel plans. I would be removing my money in the bank now I kept for 1month in HiDA account this Friday imagine the stupid bank gave me 30k interest on Millions wey I put I wan Carry money make I go buy land . Tinibu na idiot

Honestly saving in Naira is rapidly becoming a fruitless endeavor.

Just have money for bills and emergency funds. Saving in Naira is worthless.

Sirchiboy:
I earn 35k working as a security man with 5 kids

PLEASE ADD ONE TO MAKE IT SIX 🙏

The lengths Waymen go to attract high value men

Nice content

Men are not valued. Unless they are popular or have money.

Don't joke with your finances. Guard it like you crazy. Thats all we got.

Be very very choosy and demanding when you deal with women too. Go for the very best. TALK TO A LOT OF WOMEN

Dont go and suffer and then settle with one entitled fellow.

OP is not “my Girl”

Its “Our Girl”

Xenry:
No worry, after Bryan run am finish, she go change am for you totally.
Give to the street what belongs to the street and you will have peace of mind.

My friend is not holding back.

“Give to the street what belongs to the street”

We all learnt this the hard way and living better hahahhahaha

See how Keke Palmer’s husband is getting roasted by American women cause he said he's angry his wife wore that dress out and was slugging with Usher.

Simps will never learn. I am always happy when they get burnt.

Any man who tries to deny female nature will find out one day hahahahahah

Hmmm

Ade1177:
350k monthly earning

Save more than half

I don't enter transport and I don't have a car

I am single and have different girlfriends

Life is good

With 1 serious girlfriend the money will finish in weeks
Getting married with kids
Money will finish in days

You are smart. I started to see more money in my account when i followed these steps. No more entitlement from any girl, onto the next.

IMPORTANT TIP: Whenever you want to have a kid or kids make sure you are 100% ready financially. Then pick the best out of all the ladies you are talking to. Make sure shes educated and also have a job and ready to contribute so nothing will choke you in raising your kid(s)

Life is one opportunity. Live it right.

Hmmm

Change that headline op. Nigeria is a hell hole and ain't no better than any European country.

You need to stop worrying about broke ass Nigerians having kids they cant take care of (Do they even pay child support?)

So far it doesn't affect you, let them take the risk and have success or burn.

Goodluck to you people doing relationship with Nigerian women

On a serious note Nigeria is a jungle country so its not surprising seeing women go into dating for financial benefits.

Sort your finances out before courting women. Nobody dey for you nigga!

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