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RedCreme21:
Hollywood exaggerates. Love is the couple who aged together for more than 8 decades. The wife died one day after her husband and was buried besides him.
Love exist. Modern day generations dont get the true meaning behind it. So we deny its there.
As for the redpill, being moderate is the key. Like religion, ethnicity and such, dont be extreme, if not the concept would lose its meaning.

Red pill knowledge is simple: Men should value themselves and understand female nature.

I really want to understand what you mean by “extreme” in this culture?

Then, sure, Love exist between a mother and her child. And family too.

“Romantic love” on the other hand is buried under exploitation & selfishness.

RedCreme21:
in terms of romance

Romance is Hollywood fairytales for profit.

RedCreme21:
The recent Onitsha fire on wednesday was a devastating incidence, that became to me, a bitter wake up call to the fact that life and living is no longer a right but a privilege that most are denied.
Whether intentional or by sheer bad luck, our life is often cut short by a myraid of reasons most of us would, if we knew the consequence, avoid.
When it comes to reality, the best advice one can give is, 'Live life to the fullest.' Although taken lightly, this is a great commandment every human ought to imbibe.
In terms of romance, this simply means that majority of the rules we set to guide ourselves, prevents us from seeing the beauty that surrounds. The concepts behind 'feminism' and 'redpill' are beneficial on their own, saving us from the heartaches that usually accompany love. But in a long run, we practice the above and their doctrines to the extreme, that they become more obstacles that both prevents us from true living.
The truth with life is that nothing good comes free. Stress, heartbreak and the tears are all aspects to romance that makes it perfect. It's that little bit of sour that brings out a more colourful flavor.
So stop taking love as a risk to be avoided entirely. We fall down and stand up more stronger, what's a sin is sitting on the ground our whole lives because we're scared of being hurt.
Life is a privilege, no longer a right. Ensure to live it, make a couple mistakes and savour each and every moment. We don't know which would be our last.

“Truly living and exploring life” doesn’t center around relationships.

The passion of Working hard at your job and learning new skills is also living life to the fullest. Helping the next man is also living life to the fullest. Traveling is living life to the fullest. Enjoying your favorite beer and food is living life to the fullest.

The red pill knowledge is sacred. Nothing will change that. Your mental health is your greatest tool in life. You must protect it. That is the tool you need to explore life in the right way.

Everyone will die oneday. Don’t force people into relationships because of that.

Soccerbliz:
I sold out my business shop when i was thinking I'm going to settle down with a lady who plan to marry me. I asked her to come and be staying with me in Lagos where I'm working cos I'm doing fine and ok here, but she reasoned out that pregnant may enter and she doesn't have any relative in Lagos to be with her during pregnancy. Then we both decided to relocate to kaduna state where her relatives lives. That's make me to quit my business and sold out the shop.

I have gotten to another state and have rented an apartment to stay with the lady. But no job yet, no business yet, due to the environment. but still hoping to see one.

One day, we had misunderstanding, she left the house and didn't come back for two days, she only sent message to me that she's pregnant and she will get rid of it so that it will pain me. I was shocked when i received the message.

I can't imagine quitting my business and relocated just in case she get pregnant and now the pregnant has come, what she could go for is to get rid of it.

When i called her to know her where about she will shout at me that why i'm asking of her where about.

She finally came back and i didn't know she has been taking abortion pills. Later in the evening that she came back, she rushed to the bathroom and piss out some blood and thick clots. I entered the bathroom and i saw it, and i knew it. She has gotten rid of it!

I asked why she did this, she said because she was annoyed at me. I cried and cried.

I quit my business, i relocated, i rented an apartment all in case she get pregnant. Now the pregnant came and she wasted it and she knew she has really hurt me and finished me and make me feel bitter pain. She packed her things and left me alone.

I don't know what to do again, i lost everything. I keep thinking and thinking for many days but don't know what to do. I regret my life.

To my surprise, Today, i got a call from the guy that bought my shop that he's willing to sell out the shop cos he's traveling soon.

Now i don't know if i should buy the shop back and relocate back to continue my business. What of the apartment i have already rented here. I have only spent 2months and have already bought TV, Matrass, rug, electronics, kitchen items and fully furnished the apartment.

Please, what should i do? I'm so confused and depressed now.

Get back to your shop. Resume business. Get your stuffs from the new apartment to Lagos.

The girl? I wouldn’t know. If I gave you an advice you may still follow your head.

Life experiences should teach you better.

Goodluck.

Martinez79:
Don't mind him.


@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.

At some point you might need to stop helping these boys. Atleast for free.

The bold part i highlighted is why Women always win. And they will continue to win. They think abundantly, they know there are many many guys out there that will make them feel special.

These simps put themselves in a cage. They follow the hollywood fanfare. Shes special. I cant find any girl like her. Bla bla bla.

Do you think Women think like that?? They just explore the world and win.

Lastly no one is special. Doesnt take a lot for someone to be in a body bag. We will all die someday so whats the fuss?

Sigh.

lilwetdick:
even if he was paying 12% of weekly income on child support he will still not meet up

Know that, that man is a deadbeat dad

I guess that is the part of the luxuries of being an irresponsible NIgerian father. Freedom to be useless.

Love892:
Thank you. You are very right. My only pain is I knew how my parents struggled to have 3 of us. God gave him freely and look at it.

You guys would need to stop that swelling population. It’s a farce. It’s going to be something the government won’t be able to handle in some years. There’s no plan. Sad many Nigerians are not enlightened on the problems ahead. “God dey God dey” won’t solve anything.

Goodluck.

Advice him to do what? You lots in Nigeria have it easy. Can decide to answer to no one and be useless. What a useless man.

If he was paying 12% of his gross weekly income on child maintenance, surely he wouldn’t have given birth to what he cant handle.

Just a joke of a country.

LOOOL Sigh.

Always use protection mate.

This is unacceptable. He allowed that?

Read this post again.

Sad Martinez39 is giving these for free. It’s costly. It should be in a book. People should purchase this.

Many guys will never learn though. Women are at big advantage than the average man. She can look hot and the world will come to her aid. Men are like disposable tools.

You as a man don’t have that luxury. You must work to make money. Nobody gives a damn what you do to be rich. Just be rich. Then you can pick a wife. Women are fucking much. You won’t lack. You won’t lack pussy if you are rich.

People fall for these lame Hollywood scripts. Behind the scenes of those movies, you would find cases of directors in sexual relationships with these actors. Everything they are acting is for their own profit.

Just know the truth guys. I beg you. Life is too short to be scammed and manipulated. I was in the past. I had to suffer to get here.

Good luck.

It was a nightmare

Martinez39:
Every female miseducation is dead on arrival. It's just emotional rumbling trying to appear intellectual and logical. There is no impact and the females are just patting each other on the back saying "good job. Wonderful write up" after every laughable miseducation. I don't just have their time anymore.

RT

Sandra8:
Good, then remain lonely, that's even a faith worse than death!!! I have my own money but add yours or your fellow guys and become richer. But remember I still love you

Oh God. The manipulation begins. Remain lonely? If you don’t have women around you you will be lonely? I don’t have other things that keep me occupied aside women?

I don’t hate women. Don’t make it seem like I do. I just understand them better. And I won’t lie I disdain how easy it is to get vagina these days even with the women that would tell me they have a boyfriend.

Women are not honest and are very very careless.

I don’t love you. I barely know you.

Sandra8:
Let me you in laughter dear , truth is if you play the sex game red pilled or not with someone like me, you will lose all through dear, cause you will play by my rules to get to the cookie or you lose
And even playing by my rules you may still lose and not get any cookie, after wasting your time and money dear

You don’t get do you? There’s no game. There’s no need for the cookie. I don’t want your cookie. Reserve it for whoever you want to give it to. I don’t have a problem with that.

I just think it’s Quite surreal you lots think everyone is all about your vagina? This is really pathetic. It’s not even exclusive to NIgerian women, the white girls over here also have such habits but at-least they try to be independent.

Even when you decide not to play the game the women won’t go away. These days my whatsapp/telegram is filled with unreplied messages of women forcing you to give your attention and surprised you don’t want anything to do with them.

Not everyone wants to penetrate your hole sweetheart.

Sandra8:
Nature's true purpose for man is to propagate his lineage at his detriment. Nature's paints exciting yet grueling stories of these, especially in the animal kingdom. FINDING A MATE can be exhausting—so much that some animals die after finally meeting that special someone.

The poster child for this phenomenon is the male antechinus, a tiny, short-lived Australian mammal. The critter goes on a mad mating spree (sometimes as long as 14 hours), after which it suffers a fatal immune system breakdown and dies a ragged wreck.

Pacific salmon die after spawning.

Some male spiders sacrifice their bodies—literally—to make sure they're the father. Male spiders “have two sperm-transfer organs, called pedipalps,” which they insert one after the other in the females’ two sperm storage areas, male orb weavers of the Argiope genus die upon inserting that second pedipalp.
After death, “the male’s body hangs from the female’s genital opening,” so other males have a tough time mating with that female.

And so it carries on in the world of humankind. Powerful men have died for sex down the aeons of history. Mark Antony , lost any empire and his life for this. Abelard a tutor in Britain was castrated cause of a girl 20 years his junior. Coming home the mighty general Abacha himself was fallen by a woman cause of sex. Pastors, religious clerics fall on a daily basis because of sex etc. Sex holds more power even men hate to admit it has upon then!

Men will literally kill or be killed to get inbetween a females legs. SEX IS AS IMPORTANT TO MEN, AS HOW MARRIAGE WAS AS IMPORTANT TO WOMEN IN THE PAST!!! Therefore ladies if a man must get between your legs he MUST PLAY BY YOUR RULES OR LOSE!!!

so the real value of men, is to MEET WOMEN'S EXPECTATIONS in order to get inbetween our legs, that is why they go through all the stress of daily life to take care of their ONE TRUE PURPOSE in life, their GODDESSES, their WOMAN!


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Guest007

Which is why women can’t stand red pilled men that don’t see the big deal in s*x

Everything is still about s*x and vagina. Sigh.

Nothing creative. No discussion on how to empower women so they are independent.

Guest007:
What if she can guarantee that this doesn't happen?

Dead on arrival... threat right

Be safe.

Guest007:
Typical, you had to come out here and prove op right

I read the article with so much concern.

I understand the thirst and anxiety to match the Miseducation movement but all these still makes the woman inferior (which NIgerian ladies do like) and she needs to pretend for what? A fruitless endeavor that will still see her vagina overworked.

Sigh.

All these are useless for a red pilled man.

Between all these flirting antics could get the woman into trouble. I just hope somebody doesn’t get r*ped practicing this.

Regiomontanus:
I learnt this from Martinez39 in one of his topics and this is a core truth.

Ubunja, Martinez39 and other red pill men have done much for some boys here, especially Ubunja.

Most NIgerian men especially don’t value themselves. They always feel inferior. Even the so-called rich ones. It’s pathetic. Is it low self esteem? Blimey!

The women will continue to win cause they have an abundance mindset. They know if this lad fails, they will still find someone richer and better. They always dream of a richer and better person.

Most NIgerian men think a woman is doing them a favor dating them.

Regiomontanus:
You are deceiving yourself. Everyday, females are dying due to illness, accident, war etc. Whose soulmates are these females? Hollywood and Nollywood are great disservice to the male gender. They brainwash male children and make them live in an ideal world where true friendship and true love exist. They hook the minds of male children and detach them from the reality that people are not moral agents and are very selfish. This brainwashing makes them vulnerable to brutal manipulation and after investing so much in a relationship and realising that they've been used, they get depressed and suicidal.

Lol you are a wise man. Sad that People are yet to figure out that this world is controlled and manipulated for greed.

I am just glad I know some things.

Good write up.

Regiomontanus:
Perhaps, you haven't read enough to see the reasons behind the "bashing" of women.

This doesn't make them the best. If men were the ones changing their names, do you think it would make them the best? Beside, a lot of women these days are no longer changing their surnames eg. Joke Silva, Chimamanda Adichie etc. These two examples are better than most women. So how does a change of surname makes them the best? This is ridiculous.

Gullibility doesn't make you best in any universe. Are you trying to imply that woman are gullible compared to men? There is no way to know for sure which gender is more gullible. However, the fact that women mature faster than men and men are the ones that fall in love SUGGESTS that, at crucial points in their lives, men can be taken advantage of ruthlessly.

Lies. Women love opportunistically and men love ideally. A rich man will look at a woman that has nothing and lift her up from wretchedness because of love but a rich woman has no time for a broke man.

Men do this too, am I lying? If men and women do these, are they both the best?

Women are too emotional. Being emotional doesn't make you the best.

Men do this too. In fact in most marriages, men provide and protect. Beside, not all mothers do this.

Men too sell out their properties during hard times to take care of their families. During hard times, a lot of women insult and belittle their husbands. Even worse is when these women are earning. Sometimes it happens that the husband trained them in school and got them their jobs.They don't appreciate their husbands. Does this make women the best?

Not true. In most cases, the mother would choose their lives. Fathers are more likely to die for their children. During war, men come out to defend while feminists run away. Beside, most women didn’t give birth because they wanted to have a child that they would love. They did so to hook a man and collect money. The money is their main focus and their children were pawns in their hook up game. The only reason why baby mamas are taking care of their children is because these children are the only thing that ensures continous flow of cash from the man.

This is very stupid and ludicrous. Doing this does not make you the best. Are we still in the age of firewood? Fathers go through a lot to play their fatherly role by providing. Beside, many women no longer cook in the house as they are now pumped with feminist ego and the "I am not my husband's slave" mantra.

If any woman thinks being in the kitchen is hard, let her swap places with the husband and become the provider. You think it is easy to make money? Is cooking harder than making money?

Men too can do this. SMH. Are men and women both the best then? Abandoning your biological family to start a new one is an act of wickedness and irresponsibility.

Lol. Pains of pregnancy my foot. No one is forcing any woman at gun point to get pregnant. A woman made the choice to get pregnant. Besides, the real pain is on the day of labour.


This thread is rubbish and garbage. The op might as well say women are special because they have a vagina.

Thanks for this. No need engaging the sissy of a lad op.

Ubunja is really living rent free in these girls’ head

Ikpeabujo:
I understand what he meant to say and I do appreciate

Dont worry, you are probably HIV negative. Nothing will happen to you.

Aonkuuse:
Bro it will be a positive result, confidence!!!!! Or you slept with a corner girl without protection

I understand your good intentions but I hope it isn’t banter with the “Positive” thing??