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sexybash: must you use capital letter? it will only sound as if you are shouting at the OP and not the other way round

lol

Ask google " why do jerks get all the girls?" Take your time to read them all, I used to be like you but the article changed my life when it comes to women, you need to see me now, I really got game,am not asking you to be a jerk but you have to apply a lil bit of it in you

A jerk is selfish when talking to a woman, he doesn't care about her rejection, if a girl rejects you, move to the next girl even in her presence there, and don't take asking girls out too serious, see it as a game

There was a day I was talking to this chick and she was playing hard to get, I called another girl while both of us were still sitting down in the same table, she was suprised of what I was about to do, when the girl came, I asked her to leave and ask the new one to take that seat, guess what I told the new one

I was talking to this girl and she was playing hard to get when I saw you and you are far better than her so I had to drop her for you, I hope you won't play hard to get or else , she was humbled and over shadowed by me, I didn't even take her number, I gave her my card to call me, I even gave her instruction of when not to call because am a very busy man, I didn't give her the privilege to play hard to get

This gurl called me the same evening to ask if I got home safely and kept calling to know me better

chronique: @ OP: I hope say nepa/phcn never take light for your brain? You just want another man's child that wants to plan for the future,to stay with you and waste her life being your gf when it's obvious you dont have a direction you're heading to? How old are you? If your sisters are wasted like that,will you like it? Sometimes,I wonder how you guys manage to reaso stupid things like these. So you have a problem with ladies cos they want to know what they're getting into? Smh. Some parents gave birth to children shaaaa. Very annoying thread.

The first girl you dated,did you have any plan of getting married to her? I guess no, why? Because you were not ready for marriage then, simple, the same thing is applicable to me, am not ready for marriage(will never be though) why can't I find som1 who's also not ready for marriage, or are you telling me that every girl just want to get married?

[quote author=chronique]@ OP: I hope say nepa/phcn never take light for your brain? You just want another man's child that wants to plan for the future,to stay with you and waste her life being your gf when it's obvious you dont have a direction you're heading to? How old are you? If your sisters are wasted like that,will you like it? Sometimes,I wonder how you guys manage to reaso stupid things like these. So you have a problem with ladies cos they want to know what they're getting into? Smh. Some parents gave birth to children shaaaa. Very annoying thread.[/quote
The first girl you dated,did you have any plan of getting married to her? I guess no, why? Because you were not ready for marriage then, simple, the same thing is applicable to me, am not ready for marriage(will never be though) why can't I find som1 who's also not ready for marriage, or are you telling me that every girl just want to get married?

lawrenzoo: O ye foolish galatian, wise up. What is stopping you too from having a serious relationship, must you stick ur boloko in every vagina u see. Get that stupid mentality of counting girls on u and stick with 1. Mtcheeew.

Guy we r not fighting

tayyibb: so be on social network is what u called civilization!den I don't hav anytin to say...

its part of civilization, how many of your grand fathers were in a social networks?

Smartie gurl: Sagamite, hello!! Don't you think you ought to love someone before dating the being?

Lol.. Loving som1 b4 dating or dating som1 b4 loving? I taught u should know som1 1st, go into a relationship b4 falling in love, how can you love som1 you just see? Or are you mistaken attraction for love?

Am just asking o, you people that believe in love. Cause as 4 me all I know is fuckkkkk

Candis009: .. I jst lyk ds Mynd44 cz he mst atyms say d truth,by d way d truth s always bitter

What's the truth there?

jmoore: you are a slave to sex. Real men control their urges, upgrade yourself.

Real men control their urge all their days of being single? You are a big joke

[quote author=drake99]The same thing was happening to my cousin, he got frustrated and start lying to them that he will marry them, you need to see the range this guy way 4uking women, one of them agreed having baby for him if he wants, I don't just know what this life is turning to, are men that scarce? I tire o

Op, its like you are so straight forward in telling them you don't need a wife that's why they run, next time just tell her you don't know what future holds for you, that if both of you are destined to be together no man can stop it, by saying this the Womanliness is yours[/quote promising marriage when I don't mean it is difficult for me

Ogbeche77: Cardinals, Rev Father, Pope.. e.t.c

so you actually believe that these people don't do it?

HARDDON: OP, Ʊ cud come out straight and Saч it! Gurls r no fools. Guess we all nid a lil som som. You nid s3x, matured ladies wano get married! If Ʊ aint prepared, go ƒoя gurls of your class: teens, cos dey r wild and free!

вч d way payer player, hawz dεм HH rag tags working ƒoя ya?

I don't understand your last line, make me understand

ihedioramma: @OP AND OTHERS, YOU WANT ONLY HAVING SEX WITH THEM THAT IS WHY.IF U DONT ASK FOR SEX SHE WILL NOT ASK U IF U WILL MARRY HER.IF U LOVE UR SELF AND U WANT TO BE LOVED BY GOD KEEP UR SELF OUT OF SEX.IF U DONT HAVE SEX BEFOR U MARRY U WILL NOT DIE.

guy I will die, show me a man that can stay with out it and I will show you a man that has no d1cck

Sonia4love: This is serious issue oh what is really happening to u guys, so u just wana date (use) and dupe them cos ur not ready for marriage? Oh God almighty come to our rescue.

Let me ask you, all the relationships you have been through, were you expecting marriage from all the men you dated? For crying out loud, every relationship must not lead to marriage

freecocoa: I have told you to go abroad and you'll find such girls there, they hardly exist in Nigeria.

na waa o

jmoore: @op keep searching for someone that got no plans for her relationship. Why jump into a bus that is heading nowhere? smh. It is not all about being a passenger but knowing that you have a destination to reach. @op you have no destination.

actually you are right, I don't really have destination when it comes to relationship, if you open this thread, I addressed the issue here www.nairaland.com/974264/contract-marriage-anyone-me-thought, marriage is not in my life diagram, so why can't I find (not ashy) who can date just 4 a dating sake? Or don't they exist?

[quote author=Mynd_44]In that case, go for the women who are not interested in marriage then. The yound ones[/quote]if you read my story again you will understand that I went for a younger one who summoned me 2day to ask for the future of the relationship which prompted me to open this thread

[quote author=Mynd_44]Well you date with the intention that it will lead to something meaningful na[/quote]its not true, when we are not ready for marriage, we date for fun

kitty kat: Date a runs babe. She will never bother u abt marriage and she will shower u with luv.

am looking forward 2 that, am tired of over decent girls, na dem dey bring all this marriage wahala

Dede1: @OP


You are a confused and wimpy gigolo. If you do not want to hear the talk of marriage, why are you in any form of relationship with a woman?

Let me ask you a question, did you had intention of getting married to all the woman you have ever dated? Answer this question and I will know what next to tell you

IZUKWU: you want a wife without the obligations of a husband. You want a lady to have a r/ship with you for two year without the lady yearning to have you for keeps. I understand your wants ,may probably desire the same but how feasibly is it to see such a woman who will be in a loving r/ship with you without a future. It seems like a waste of time and emotions.

You are right but I have seen people dating just for dating sake, why can't I find people like that? Relationship must not lead to marriage, and I have this bad luck of meeting women that has experienced heartbreak before, whenever it gets to my turn every1 sits up

Am not planning to play any1 nor break any1's heart,am only scared of lying to any woman that I will marry her when I know its not gonna happen, I have conscience

wissezy: You are the problem, not the girls. If I'm with a girl for jst 5mins, she already knws what i want.

I don't really understand you well, elaborate pls

[quote author=Mynd_44]I advice you patronise love peddlers then. They always want a relationship and won't ask you where the "relationship" is heading[/quote]Ashy dey collect money, these girls are not even asking me 4 money, all they want is marriage, funny enough I taught my dress code (hip hop) will make these girls not 2 see me in that way yet marriage is what they want , this contradicts what I read on nairaland about what type of men they wanna marry

Am getting tired of this, when ever I have anything to do with a girl she keep bugging me with the question"where's this relationship leading us to?"
If I made it clear to her that I only want a girlfriend not a wife, next thing she run away

A friend of mine said its because I go for matured girls(I don't like lil girls) because of this I cut down the age category I normally go for and went for this girl (about 22 or 23 years of age) I even went for her thinking she would not have that marriage this marriage that mentality because of her age

To my greatest suprise, she ping me last night asking to urgently see me today,we are together now and she's asking to know where this relationship is leading to, if I ever thought of settling down, that she has waited to hear such thing from my mouth but it seems like its not in my plans

When I made her know that our relationship is just 4 months old, she said she's not asking me to marry her immediately that she's only trying to know the future of our courtship

My people am tired of this because I see my mate having gf without marriage plans, some even get intimacy mates that are not interested in marrying them

why can't I find som1 who's not interested in marriage or should I start lying to them?

What a life, what we don't like is what always comes our way, how do I change this because marriage is not even in my life diagram.

valicious1: So as he come back am he rush go call cameraman mak dem kari im pic put NL mtscheeeew.

Call camera man? For dis century? Na em bb joor so he can snap as casually as he wants

Temi 23: I found this interesting and will like to share.

1. Shop Where They Shop

All metro areas have a part of town where the wealthy cluster together. You may not be able to afford $200 dinners, but that doesn't mean you can't meet a guy who does. Start running your errands, buying your venti lattes and doing your grocery shopping in upscale neighborhoods. By frequenting the same spots as the rich, you will increase your chances of meeting them.
2. Attend Charity Events

One of the best places to meet someone who is both generous of heart (and of wallet) is at a charity event. Polo matches, galas, and anything involving a cultural institution are great places to start. Besides potentially meeting someone, you can also feel good that you're giving back and helping a charitable organization.
3. Volunteer

Like charity events, volunteering is a great way to meet quality and financially stable men. For example, volunteering at a hospital exposes you to a large pool of doctors and surgeons whom you might not otherwise meet. Political organizations also attract ambitious, successful men.
4. Take Up a New Hobby

Although you shouldn't take up any activity that you really hate just for the sake of meeting someone, luxury sports like golf, sailing, tennis, and scuba diving tend to attract the type of men who have disposable income to burn. Spending time on a golf course or at a marina can only increase your chances of meeting a successful man and, as a plus, gives you something to talk about when he asks you out on a date. Likewise, don't bother looking for your next boyfriend in places like bowling alleys, diners, and bars that offer two for one specials, unless you are okay with always going Dutch treat.

5. Dont sleep in your house and be praying for an oil company man to be locking at your door.

Wish us all single ladies best of luck in our search this year...

It will be a big suprise to you after applying all this methods and nothing happens, I remember when I used to fool my self applying all the mumu strategies I red online and magazines just to get a girl, none workout, immediately I got tired and face my life, girls started showing up

Dear poster, when it comes to relationship there's no strategy that will get you a partner when you need it, that's why I don't even reply on all this dump post people post here about how to get a partner, just be your self and what will be will be

Ninejaywon: most beginners in body-building do complain about dis problem of yours.it boils down to only one thing,dat is achievement of good form(positioning) wen gyming,wen bench-pressing for example hold d barbell at d centre of gravity I.e d mid section of d iron 2 achieve good balance and don't tilt d barbell 2 either d left or right position for gyming comforts.
In d body-building world,pain means result.go and ask ronnie coleman,phil heath,jay cutler,kai greene,warren branch,arnold schwarzeneger dey will tel u.

Thanks my man, your opinion is on point , but I use the same bench others are using and place my hands like them but still experience this

Must we pass through all this test before getting a woman? what we read online is always different from what happens in real life, if passing through all this is what we must do to get a girl/woman then 70% of men will never get 1

Op. all these things are not applicable to real life, I get chicks up and down with out all this sermon, things have changed so getting a woman is no longer hard that one should apply all these tales, even women in this forum know that guys don't have to pass through all this to get them, they are even struggling to get we guys these days.

CandidSeeker: It can happen as a result of one or combination of any of these:
-Opeating a machine constantly with your left hand/arm.
-Playing a game that makes you swing one arm continuosly without swinging the other arm at all.
-Masturbating with your left hand!!!!!! (No offence intended)
........and lots more.
Just take stock of your activities.

Nice 1, I actually self service with my left hand, but does that made my left getting big? I don't really understand because self service is not a something I do with muscle, and how can I correct this?

seledafti: Connect it with outlook..it works fine or synchronize wirelessly.........

Thanks.

Please explain this outlook

1.. Dropping the idea of traveling to usa with my cousin because of school

2.. Not settling the beef with my roommate before he died

3... Not finding and killed the aroo that made me nak egede(though am happy I did)

4... Letting my mum went to church on that faithful day,which led to her death

5... Giving my life to christ when my turkish maga was about to pay me but back slide 4 months later after I have lost the deal

6... Letting her abort the baby, my child would have been 5 years old now