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Tell your ex to stop calling you regularly. if you really don't have any thing going on with her.
And respect the fact that you are now married and reduce the no of girls you talk to WEEKLY.
Imagine your wife doing the same?

Since she is honest with you,
you guys should sit down and her a long conversation.
Its either she breaks up with you,or she breaks up with him.
Or she wouldn't mind you having some one else.

In sufficient information.
How did you find out?
How long has he been guy?
How much do you love and want to help him?etc
these will help us give you better advice.

I will chose my friend that once saved my life cos i own him one.
Also the dying old lady may still die on our way to the hospital,
And that perfect partner may not be that perfect after all.
So the devil i know,is better than the other 2 angels i don't know.(my opinion)

You are 41yrs and so?
You also expect us to tell you ours? you are a big joker.

What is your point?

Men! Men!! Men!!!
Stop doing this pls.

Watin you dey feel like now?

Follow your heart.
That younger one will soon get matured.

Poster should i call this senseless?
it is actually.

If i were a Man,to better my relationship, i will always listen to my girl.
And i will try being truthful and faithful.

Pls dont be tied for love ok.
Hahaaa.

190 and odiaero,
you people are just nuisance to this site.
When will you two grow up,God save us.
Stop changing peoples topic so we can learn here pls.
@ poster,pls dont mind these arrogant boys.

She is not that into you,and wouldn't want you to show her off as your babe.
Ter her its over and see how she reacts to it.You will be so disappointed.You can do better than that pls.

([b]it can be hard at first, but have this in mind: If you don't ask her out, someone else will do so very soon
So man up and tell her you want to be more than friends, etc.
And don't be scared of sounding awkward. Even the most experienced guys get cold feet once in a while.)[/b]
I strongly support this statement.
Let her know about it first,Maybe she even fills the same way abt you.

What are you thinking.
Do you think you are better than the woman he is trying to divorce?You carry GOLD
Even if he marries you,he might still divorce you.So why do you want to destroy your life with your hands?

If he is hardworking and trying to help himself find a job, keep praying for him.
But if he is a lazy man that prefers to eat from a woman,my dear run for your dear life.

Maybe she should play along for a while and know what actually the guy wants from her.
She cant keep running cos the guy is obviously ideal.

Let us assume he is playing around,
ask him how he will feel if you just play around like him.
Let him put the phone on speaker the next time the lady calls,so you can hear the tone of their conversation.
After that you can then make your decisions.

Marriage is more about love and comparability.
A virgin that you don't love and can not tolerate makes worst home.
So,if you love her,her child should not be an issue.

Its very clear what you are to her.
Take it,be it or leave it.
That is what she wants you to be to her.

What a question??
Moderator pls help us.

How old are you?
Wait a little and mature so that you will know how to do it.

Both of you are in the same age brackets.
She is not older,since its the same yr.
Meanwhile Grow up or she might help you grow.

i don't think u do luv her enough
love should not b a thing of convenience.
if u really love her as u claim,then u can even sacrifice finding a solution to her ill health.

You need to hear from your girl friend what exactly happened.
Make her understand that she is more important than your friend so that she can open up.
If she still refuses to open up,then something else is going n.Open your eyes very well.

She does not love you my dear.
She is simply using you.
Love is more about sacrifice.
She obviously has someone else she is in love with that she uses your credit to call.

Are you cheating on her too?
If you are,then she is.
If you are not,then she is not.The answer lies in you.

You no get work.
Love her the way she is,or let her go.
Cos even if she lose it now,what if she gains it back in future?what will you do?

Story Story Tory~~~
Were did you copy this from.

I think the relationship is too close for comfort.
She should fine love somewhere else.
Or if the guys wants to marry her,let him come out straight.
He should not use and dump her.Its a slap on the sisters face.