dingbang:
hahahaha.. Am happily single please

nikkyharry:


We have d best moment together , best call conversation that he wouldn't wanna end , that is y it looks weird when he changes all of a sudden agaim

Nma27:
True True, but its still sensible not to string people along.

nikkyharry:
I don't rily know what to do ryt now , he is active nd ignored d message I sent since morning ! Should I just watch or keep asking for reasons

nikkyharry:


We have d best moment together , best call conversation that he wouldn't wanna end , that is y it looks weird when he changes all of a sudden agaim

nikkyharry:
I don't rily know what to do ryt now , he is active nd ignored d message I sent since morning ! Should I just watch or keep asking for reasons

fumisko:

Babe I can relate. I had someone like that I used to like. All nice n all for one one two months...chat all through...calls n all...then he withdraws...n am confused:...does it mean he doesn't miss the time we shared and all that... Bottom line is I still can't explain it o.....but some men are immature and commitment phobic and some don't even know what is doing them. Try to fall in love with another man Abeg so u get ur attention off him. It's obvious u love him more than he loves u. And that's why there is this warning to ladies. Never ever love a man much more than he loves u. If not u r d one Dt wld b hurt. We are emotional beings...don't b deceived by his coming Bk n leaving...he is doing it Cus it isn't hurting him...infact he doesn't feel he is doing anything wrong. He loves u 30% u love him 70%
Run for your life or ur marriage wld b in shambles

fumisko:

Babe I can relate. I had someone like that I used to like. All nice n all for one one two months...chat all through...calls n all...then he withdraws...n am confused:...does it mean he doesn't miss the time we shared and all that... Bottom line is I still can't explain it o.....but some men are immature and commitment phobic and some don't even know what is doing them. Try to fall in love with another man Abeg so u get ur attention off him. It's obvious u love him more than he loves u. And that's why there is this warning to ladies. Never ever love a man much more than he loves u. If not u r d one Dt wld b hurt. We are emotional beings...don't b deceived by his coming Bk n leaving...he is doing it Cus it isn't hurting him...infact he doesn't feel he is doing anything wrong. He loves u 30% u love him 70%
Run for your life or ur marriage wld b in shambles

HARDDON:


Buh how can a man let d b00ty go if itz so ouch?!

How can a lady let d wallet go if itz so fat?

$ee? We cant.

nikkyharry:
I don't rily know what to do ryt now , he is active nd ignored d message I sent since morning ! Should I just watch or keep asking for reasons

fumisko:

You have now made your self as shit in his presence...by going so low to keep begging n asking why he is treating u like dt. From now on. U tell him from now hence forth that: I demand ur love care n attention full time n if u ain't giving me I ain't begging for it no more. I am self confident n I know Wat I want from my man. D pain of moving ahead maybe deep but it's better dan being continuously hurt o. U wld find a man Dt wld truly love u and treat u as his queen. Change dp.let him see u happy with another boo.U deserve nothing less. Even if u r 35 yrs now. Desperation is never a reason to settle for this emotional abuse u r going through. Better to get sperm donor have kids n b happy n fill ur life with ur profession

RadiantBae:


Sweetie, stop thinking about him. If he is online and completely ignoring your message then take the fact for what it is and answer this question, will you ALLOW someone to treat you like that?

Later he will tell you he was busy... he was chatting to a family member... blah di blah.

One very important question though.

Are you guys official boyfriend and girlfriend? Have you established and verbally agreed to a monogamous relationship? Did he say to you "You are my ONLY girlfriend and I love you and I promise to be faithful to you and always try to make you happy?"

Answer me those and then you'll know what is happening.

Jacksparr0w127:
You're a m0ron

Nma27:
Oya go and sleep

nikkyharry:


Exactly t those were what I told him the very first time he ignored nd he said he was sorry nd cooked up reasons .

nikkyharry:

Hmm

nikkyharry:

Exactly hun! Not that am worse buh I try as much as possible not to make myself needy , I asked what I did wrong several times , I tell him how much it hurts if he ignores me . All I think now is that he enjoys the chase buh ama stop even if it hurts

AntiWailer:
U are dating urself my dear.

When a guy act like that, you are not Number 1.

Try and get the true state of ur relationship.

Are u a shareholder ?

What is ur stake in the relationship. I mean how many percent.

Lunagirl:
Silence kills a relationship faster than most things. No matter how busy you are, you'd always find time to reach out to someone you supposedly love.

I dated a banker once and they were prohibited from using cell phones during work hours which is a lot of hours. But, he still found time to talk to me, during his lunch time, when he uses the toilet, he shoots me a text or something.

What would have made more sense is if someone says that they are not in the right frame of mind to communicate, that, I understand.

Give it a little more time and try to relax okay?

kidman96:


Your wh0re mother.

nikkyharry:


We have d best moment together , best call conversation that he wouldn't wanna end , that is y it looks weird when he changes all of a sudden again

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes . I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other . The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

Slimzjoe:
Every man with his problem.

All I want is for her to return my calls

Slimzjoe:
Every man with his problem.

All I want is for her to return my calls

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes . I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other . The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing