ModCaller:
So on point.

But the main thing is she must be very ready for heavy sex. That's the only reason I'm gonna pay her bride price. Just sex. I repeat, just sex, because most ladies are essentially useless but for sex.

Go get yourself a hoe bro

AlexCk:
If u really love the person, u will do whatever it takes to make it work wella, hence having those qualities

To love is not by force.

never wanted to open this thread coz I was thinking it will be a waste of time, space and ma precious MB...many threads have catchy heading but with stupid content...but, this is superb! Kudos OP

Marriage has no graduation. A lady or guy can pretend for years but not forever
You knew it would be over soon didnt u?

cbrass:


Do I love the maths I did while in school? No I was committed into passing them so I can graduate

Op, you try. Nice job

good article I agree with every content of the words

OP you are just too good. Will send you a bank alert asap.

ModCaller:
So on point.

But the main thing is she must be very ready for heavy sex. That's the only reason I'm gonna pay her bride price. Just sex. I repeat, just sex, because most ladies are essentially useless but for sex.

And you are useful for what exactly ?
If you go into marriage with this mindset,
you will end up crying your eyes out.

so on point this is one of the best on relationship I have ever read on nairaland thanks op

fumisko:
Marriage has no graduation. A lady or guy can pretend for years but not forever
You knew it would be over soon didnt u?

yes but i just used that as an example of commitment .you can pretend to love someone but you can't pretend to be committed to them , commitment requires work,sacrifices,compromises etc.

ivolt:

And you are useful for what exactly ? If you go into marriage with this mindset, you will end up crying your eyes out.

Sorry for hurting you. LMAO

Segadem:
Ok

Why is it that all DOS and don'ts in relationship are meant for women to obey?

Oh, everything is the women's fault. It's only expected of them to do all the bending. If they dare to point out the madness behind this treatment, they get lynched by the mob.

ModCaller:
So on point.

But the main thing is she must be very ready for heavy sex. That's the only reason I'm gonna pay her bride price. Just sex. I repeat, just sex, because most ladies are essentially useless but for sex.

Common Sense is not common

cbrass:

Stop wasting your time, in fact I will say stop wasting her time. What should be paramount for her is her studies

You are right, her studies is paramount. But do you know that what she learned in school alone can never make her a better person in life? In fact, what she is studying in school right now can never make her a good wife material or a completely successful woman. So if I don't date her now, how will I make her learn the basics principles that can make her successful in life? How will I get to teach her and mould her to be a good wife material? How will I get to correct her whenever she succumbs to peer pressure and make mistakes as a teenager?
My brother, as the saying goes "catch them young", I'll advice you that with the kind of things happening in today's marriages, if you want to marry and have peace of mind, get a teenage girl now and start working on her. They are the easiest set of girls to influence. Teach her, guide her, correct her and mould her to be the kind of woman you want to marry. Then settle down with her once she's matured enough. I have seen most men did this without regret.

gentlegenius:

You are right, her studies is paramount. But do you know that what she learned in school alone can never make her a better person in life? In fact, what she is studying in school right now can never make her a good wife material or a completely successful woman. So if I don't date her now, how will I make her learn the basics principles that can make her successful in life? How will I get to teach her and mould her to be a good wife material? How will I get to correct her whenever she succumbs to peer pressure and make mistakes as a teenager?
My brother, as the saying goes "catch them young", I'll advice you that with the kind of things happening in today's marriages, if you want to marry and have peace of mind, get a teenage girl now and start working on her. They are the easiest set of girls to influence. Teach her, guide her, correct her and mould her to be the kind of woman you want to marry. Then settle down with her once she's matured enough. I have seen most men did this without regret.

you are so funny, let her enter the university then you will know howfar

btw will you let your own daughter start dating in secondary school

Nice one. I also need this e-book. my email is mbahelias@gmail.com thanks

blaqboi01:
correct guy. so i guess datz point 3b (sex ooooo wonderful sex

Una well atall? Na to nackk una sabi.

ijayebonyi:
Lol. How about he?

He must be a good nackker

True
So it's possible to love without commitment
But is it possible also to commit without lovin in a relationship?

cbrass:


yes but i just used that as an example of commitment .you can pretend to love someone but you can't pretend to be committed to them , commitment requires work,sacrifices,compromises etc.

praise1705:

God de look you

he said his mind

what being a God fearing person, or is that one not also important?

My bae has all this and more!

fumisko:
True
So it's possible to love without commitment
But is it possible also to commit without lovin in a relationship?

The capital answer is NO but you see the definition of love by some people these days is scary. Exactly this question u asked popped up in my mind in my last relationship which I just left some weeks ago. I was committed in various ways - money, time(even though am a programmer) , sacrifices with her doing nothing other than her just saying I Love u nw. But when I ask her about commitment she goes crazy on me and start the "you nag too much talk", so if we look at it again from your angle I can conclude that the love wasn't there or probably was there but somehow got lost in transit

Lewaluv:
My bae has all this and more!

Do you have them too?

Trexnemesis:


He must be a good nackker

Okay nah

emusmithy:


Hmm, mind games!

guess is better, abi you're thinking otherwise?

Yea true especially one and three

ModCaller:
So on point.

But the main thing is she must be very ready for heavy sex. That's the only reason I'm gonna pay her bride price. Just sex. I repeat, just sex, because most ladies are essentially useless but for sex.

what is your mama good for since she is a lady? Unless a man don born you...

gentlegenius:

You are right, her studies is paramount. But do you know that what she learned in school alone can never make her a better person in life? In fact, what she is studying in school right now can never make her a good wife material or a completely successful woman. So if I don't date her now, how will I make her learn the basics principles that can make her successful in life? How will I get to teach her and mould her to be a good wife material? How will I get to correct her whenever she succumbs to peer pressure and make mistakes as a teenager?
My brother, as the saying goes "catch them young", I'll advice you that with the kind of things happening in today's marriages, if you want to marry and have peace of mind, get a teenage girl now and start working on her. They are the easiest set of girls to influence. Teach her, guide her, correct her and mould her to be the kind of woman you want to marry. Then settle down with her once she's matured enough. I have seen most men did this without regret.

What if she leaves you for a younger guy when she gets to the University? At a point she may feel trapped or something and want to explore being that she's young. Plus she may not even know what she wants yet

nice piece. god bless you richly

cbrass:


you are so funny, let her enter the university then you will know howfar

btw will you let your own daughter start dating in secondary school

So you think everyone is interested in university education? What about the millions of graduates that are on the streets jobless?
Anyway, to answer your question, I'll say that once my daughter enter senior secondary school, I'll personally encourage her to date a responsible, God fearing matured guy. A guy who will have a positive influence on her life and help her overcome the peer pressure and mistakes of teenage age. I'll give her the clues to choosing a good guy and She has to introduce him to me and I'll talk to him. Then she has to undergo virginity checks and test regularly to convince me that she is not sleeping with him or any other guy.
Dating does not destroy young girls but sex does. Once you set this standard for your daughter very early in her life, she'll just get on with it till adulthood. You won't have to advise her again in her University.