₦airaland Forum

sabama007:
You level of ignorance is pathetic!

It's not a crime to wish or plan building a house but with an earning of 60k n responsibilities that's attached to it....

Pele madam to know...no need to brag God can still help him

sabama007:
Stop dreaming n start being realistic.

You cannot save to build your house this year. Even in 4yrs time, it's an impossible mission except you're given a huge monetarily loan, you earn like 400k/month, or you indulge in acts like yahoo, yahoo+, yahoo÷, yahoo!, Yahoo×, yahoo√ etc

Thanks

Wonder how u guys just call money yeye for even said it's in 4years it's impossible pls did he mentioned that he want to build duplex or two storey building before you conclude those facts....





@op pls don't mind them ooo because there mouth is to wide I even like you because u are a strong,good and ambitious son with those responsibility on your head may God take you to a higher place more than where you are in Jesus name...at this point u have to be economists.first try to buy land i don't know where u based if it's osun here I can tell you can see a plots of land for 300k or 250k depends on how links u get the land,u can buy half of it and plan it small small,used 50k for foundation till you will finished it God will open a room of blessing for you,don't mind them here Awon omo pantan ona tan..no economy for there lo po nibi...

Ota aje

shollay09:
I doubt if there is any! although we have teaching jobs and banking jobs here in osun state!

Yes,though one of my friend just finished her national diploma in esa oke but result is not yet out if u get any kindly mail me ooo

You can create a thread for it And write your discipline..there might be some placement

Justiceleague1:
Head harvesting
skull mining

Oti un bu gi je di e di e

adekennis:
How do such people survive in January or don't they spend during Xmas??

That is how gullible he is.....cuz God blessing cannot be measure..

Ipod haters every where, they just hate good news ni ti won....




Good blesd Nigeria
God bless Odua
God bless Ipinle Omoluabi

Why all this for christ sake

SnakeXenzia:
Greetings
Please I need your help guys.
Can I run a degree programme in noun while working and living in another city?
Like running a programme in the study centre in osogbo while living in Ilesa? .
How often must I show at the centre?
I need a detailed explanation please..

Chck ur mail

That country men na real scammer even Yoruba demon here they learn lesson compare to them....and the most funniest part is that they won't even show sign at all...sebi here u go know if house one fall,but there na buah u go here.....talking from experienced

Lexmane:
remember,not a Nigerian lady that u can tell to forget d husband and focus on ha growing kid,outside there, they deal with love love matter...me and my husband.even with no kid they are satisfied

Yes.i knew about that,that is why I told her to keep praying that God can touch his heart...

[quote author=peacefull post=63799106]Yes!
My child is not small baby.
Child is my treasure! My everything!
I'm very proud my child!

I got phone call from my husband.
I was so happy when I heard his voice.
But once I remind about maybe he has wife, feel so down.

I'm so confusing now.
[/quote


]eahyah....stop thinking about that,God is your strength

What nonsense is this....Can't gorvernment create a state of emergency there like Obasanjo reign...they should fill that place with army that they wouldn't even breath,this is total wickedness......Buhari should do something because I don't know why their state gov. Didn't release force for the peparation for eve,he should aware of his bad state nah,even osogbo fo here,each big church are assigned with force even they are passing around up and down when we are going home at midnite....it's unfair ooooo

Let them confirm this news first!!!;

jconsulting:
I will never admire nonsense in 2018 in Jesus name.......Two children, two father's, presently no husband I reject it Amen

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This is 2018 stop making jest of people leave all the trash for 2017 to carry they too didn't wish so...we can't know how to do it all..




Beautiful momma4 0

Martin0:
@ Op

The Yoruba traditional marriage ceremony
even though a serious affair, is full of playful
banter, rich contemporary Nigerian music,
graceful colours and sumptuous meals.
Weddings in Yoruba land is an occasion to show
your best outfits, handbags, jewelry and even
dancing styles.

The traditional wedding is an occasion to
alleviate the drudgery of normal life and are
greatly anticipated by friends and well wishers.
It is carried out in different stages which will
be discussed extensively below the line .
The Introduction: The families of the bride
and groom meet long before any engagement
ceremony takes place. The groom visits the
family of the bride in company of his father
and some family members. The occasion is an
informal introduction without fanfare but a
cordial atmosphere to know each other. The
informal introduction does not require much
except some tubers of yam and a few bottles
of wine; the family of the bride hosts the
visitors with a simple meal of their coice.

Apart from all round introductions, they might
discuss when the event would take place, this
is not a hard and fast rule and such discussions
might take place later.

____________

Bride's Outfit: The bride's outfit is a reflection
of what the female guests will wear, she might
choose, damask, lace, Nigerian wax fabric or
any fabric that appeals to her. The outfit
consists of gele which is the head tie, the buba
(the blouse) and an iro which is a large
material tied round her waist and is usually
ankle length. The colours she chooses reflects
the colour theme her family has chosen but
should also complement the groom's outfit
and look identical. She can wear accessories
like gold necklace, beads, bangles, gold
earrings and shoes to match.


____________

Groom's Outfit: The groom could decide to
wear an Agbada which is a two layered
material of heavy dimensions like the Aso-Oke
(traditional hand-woven material) , it might be
cotton, and damask or he might wear lace or
even wax fabric (Ankara). His colour
combination should complement the bride's
and reflect the colour his family has chosen.

_________________


The Traditional Engagement: The traditional
engagement is carried out by a contracted
professional called the Alaga ijoko which
translated, means the traditional master of
ceremony. The professional could be a
member of the bride's family or a complete
stranger. The Alaga Ijoko is usually a woman
and her duty is to properly officiate and
coordinate the proceeding so each provision of
tradition is strictly adhered too. There are
different stages she coordinates and each
stage might elicit a collection of cash which the
Alaga keeps, various fines are paid and formal
introduction of the groom accompanied by his
age mates and friends which also involves
prostrating to the family of the bride to
formally request their daughter's hand in
marriage. The groom's family also hire a
professional called the Alaga iduro which
means the standing master of ceremony, who
follows the groom and family to ask for the
hand of their daughter. The Alaga iduro is also
a professional custodian of Yoruba wedding
tradition. She could be a family member or
hired for the occasion. Other festivities include
the letter reading which is read by a young
lady from the groom's family also asking for
the hand of the bride in marriage. The bride's
family also responds with a letter of their own.
The engagement is an integral part of the
traditional marriage and as the ceremony
proceeds, items listed for the engagement
that was given to the groom's family is
presented. The items vary slightly in each
Yoruba traditional wedding but the general
articles are the same.


___________


Items Requested By The Bride's Family:
Some of the items demanded by the bride's
family are; bag of sugar, bag of rice, alligator
pepper, large number of bitter kola, bag of
salt, kola nuts. If they are Christians, a bible,
keg of honey and about forty large tubers of
yam are included in the items. Non edible
items could include expensive materials like
lace, several pairs of shoes, wristwatch, a gold
engagement ring and head tie.

____________


Bride Price: There is no fixed amount of
money for the bride price, as it is usually
dictated by the bride's family and is subject to
negotiation. However, there are other fees to
be paid by the groom/his family (which are
also negotiable); Owo Isigba - N500. This is
used to open the packaged gift items brought
by the bridegroom, Owo Ikanlekun (entrance
fee) - N500, Owo Ijoko Iyawo - N1,000. This is
the money given to elders in the groom's
family, Owo Isiju Iyawo (fees paid to unveil the
bride) - N500, Owo Baba Gbo - N500. This
amount is paid to ask for the bride's father
consent, Owo Iya Gbo - N1,000. This is the
amount of money paid to ask for the bride's
mother consent, Owo Omo Ile Okunrin - N500.

This is the money given to all male children in
the bride's family, Owo Omo Ile Obinrin -
N500. This is the money given to all female
children in the bride's family, Owo Iyawo Ile -
N500. this is the money given to all wives in
the bride's family, Owo Ijoko Agba - N1,000.
This is the amount of money reserved for
elders of the bride's family, Owo Alaga Ijoko
(amount of money reserved for the MC) -
N500.


_______


The Groom and Bride: Some of the
engagement protocols officiated by the Alaga
ijoko is carried out in the absence of the
groom, the professionals go through a
question and answer format were the bride's
moderator puts the representatives of the
groom through some hoops. At one point the
groom's presence is needed and he comes
forward and goes through the introduction
process to the bride's family and parents.
When all requirements are met the groom is
led and allowed to seat on one of the two large
chairs conspicuously placed in from of the
guests. The chairs are artfully decorated in the
chosen ceremonial colours by the wedding
planner.
_______


The Bride: The bride is then heralded into the
venue of the ceremony followed by her
friends, all dressed in traditional attires like
buba and iro, as they join her in a boisterous
dance down the hall. The bride also goes
through a few protocols but money is only
given to her and not taken from her as in the
case of the groom. She is introduced to the
groom's family before she takes her place
beside the groom. At this stage, they may
consider themselves married. The wife
displays some wifely traits by feeding the
groom some cake and wine, even a kiss to the
amusement of the guests.


__________


Conclusion: Yoruba traditional marriage is
seen as an occasion for family members to
reunite and catch-up on current happenings.
They also see find old friends and
acquaintances. It is a fun filled and
meticulously planned period that announces to
the world the union of their loved ones. The
couple can choose to include a civil union
through a court wedding and also go through a
church wedding and a separate wedding
reception. Muslims who also form a large
number of Yoruba people have a more
simplified wedding protocol which involves
Islamic scholars and religious leaders who
offer prayers to the union followed by
merriment in form of a party.


Op I hope u will understand and learn how it done in yuroba!

Am not a yuroba oo am just helping out.

Wooooooow.....nice one

Nice shape....

Yoruba marriage ni yen.....events planner should cm here ooo

peacefull:
Happy new year!

Thank you for advised me.
Bcoz of baby...
I lost a his baby long time ago.
Pls do not ask me about details.
I never ever forget about that day.
Once I remind that day, my feel like...
I have no words to explain about that my pain
Sorry I can't explain very well.

Maybe that's why I can't leave him.
Bcoz I'm still very sorry for my baby.
I think I have to stay with him bcoz of my baby.
And responsibility for his permanent visa.

Anyway,government support for single mom have deadline.
That is until when kids will be 18y/o.
So I can't get it anymore.
Bcoz my child is almost 20y/o.
(I'm sorry about I can't say daughter or son. Coz if my husband will this my topic, he will know who am I. I wrote in here is not lie.he can find out me.)

God has already favour you my sister,ur child is not a kid anymore...and also keep praying God can touch his heart..i pray your marriage his back this new year,try to save cash and plan for ur travel...



Happy new year

TheManOfTheYear:
Don't just jump into conclusions advising her to divorce him.
Remember she hasn't found out the truth yet.


We can't say for sure that he has a wife in Nigeria. Don't be quick to break marital bond

And did u read all my quote?

Happy new year thou..

peacefull:
Sorry for late reply.

If his family already know about he married with me, they still don't care about he has 2wives?
Bcoz of they don't wanna accept me and they want him to get another wife?

Is too much difficult to understand it.
Is that culture?
Polygamy is criminal in Japan.
Also fake marriage is criminal too.

So they accept for criminal who is their member of family will do or doing?

I really wanna know what are they thinking about that.

That's their culture they will want him to marry their own tribe and they won't even care about u since u haven't born a child for him.... My advice for u is to forget about him sister, begin to leave a new life though u can sit him down and talk to him about those issue that u didn't understand his behavior anymore that if he can't do his responsibility again maybe he should quit and u divorce so that u can have some benefits from gorvernment as a single mom..wait and see his reaction,if u didn't see any change or take u to his parents try and divorce him


My own opinion thou....
Happy new year

tobida:
But the lady in the pic is Igbo though.


I asked u to post mainly Yoruba not half or other tribes.

And how many did i post half or other tribe...I said so you won't gree...may God let u change even.... if i post all of Yoruba pics for here u will still complain

Neenie:
Yoruba girls, we sef dey try nah. I am an average Yoruba girl nd Lord knows i’m not even photogenic

You are cute sister

Proud of Yoruba..
Proud of Odua..
Proud of Omoluabi...







Happy new year in advance friends

Sisters full of hatred,from yam legs trb dey here ooo

Beautiful momma

[quote author=tobida post=63754464]Leave the half Yoruba.


Yemi Alade said she is dat Igbo-Yoruba girl.


[/quote



] bearing okechuku...why would she neglect her mother tribe

nkwuocha:
The dark skin woman looks great,I must confess.Others are looking like overscarred Christmas chicken. Over bleached,layers of cheap make ups and unfortunately, I don't see those as beautiful.I'm sure youretway finer

Is just that u guys love trouble eh eh...even if they convinced you,still won't accept the fact...have a nice dream...emon gba fun oga yin

nezzar:
remove this thing or u add graphic please

Makeup isn't beauty

lol.... so me ur own girls without makeup and will see what I will do....

..

nkwuocha:
There are better yoruba women to compare with igbo women.Apart from omotola, please others are just too "plain".Bring something "worthy".

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