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kokaneprodigy:
Chelsea's WIFE, Man City's CONCUBINE, Arsenal's OLOSHO.

blues20:
@Funlordjnr: show up, let's brawl.... no need to chicken out.... I NEED TO RAMM YOUR DILAPITATED ASS REAL HARD TONIGHTI. I don't mind loosing my moniker.... so niga, I'M DOWN WITH YOU. Idiot.

blues20:
@Funlordjnr: the self-acclaimed cyber-jaguda. Your stinking brain needs some reset. Show up and lets have some fun. Idiot.

blues20:
Going through this thread, I just realized that the Yorubas are the emotional goons. #surprised.

MrTA:
Bailly out for 2 months.

PietroRico:
who be the fûcking players when dey leak this sort of info and to what end?
These idióts should be fished out ASAP and dealt with appropriately even if it means outright kicking out.
What rubbish

Maaamaaa:
I will try my best not be biased about our story and if you have any questions to ask please do.

I met him last year December precisely and we both work in the same office, we became best of friends but he was in a relationship (distant) and I was single.
We were really close because we both were new in town with no family around and then I fell in love with him and opened up about my feelings to him but he said he was in a relationship.

I was hurt but I held my head up and moved on. I started mingling with other male colleagues and then he became jealous and so I confronted him about it (still loved him) and u also told him to choose between us and he said he wants me. His decision was based on the fact that the other lady was far away, he thought she was promiscuous and she is an OND holder etc (I got to find out about this later).

We moved in together because of financial stress and talked about getting married next year... Late June this year I found out he had not broken up with the other lady, confronted him about it and he settled the issue.

I got pregnant July and he asked for an abortion, I insisted on keeping the baby with or without marriage.. He finally accepted to marry me and proceeded to tell my parents(he later said I forced him to that). He accused me of so many things and called me different names.

He traveled to his hometown and informed his parents about it all and met with the lady. On his return, he said the lady gives him peace and if I lose this pregnancy he will go back with her and that he loves her but he is just getting married to me because he respects my family and do not want to bring shame to me at work.

I cried, prayed and endured it all. Two weeks ago his family came for the introduction and the wedding has been fixed for December but I'm not happy.

I'm a shadow of myself, he feels disgusted by my presence and I can't say anything without him getting angry. I used to nag and quarrel a lot but I've stopped, even when I'm angry I just walk away.

He does not care about me and this pregnancy and if I tell him I'm sick or tired or anything, he will just say that I'm not the first to get pregnant and that it's when I push the baby he will take responsibility.

I have tried my best and I'm confused, last night I called him peacefully to ask him what I'm doing wrong but he said I'm disturbing him. I used to call his parents and my parents to intervene but he said I should stop that and I have stopped.

Please what can I do to SAVE OUR RELATIONSHIP, it's not easy for me . this is not the man I fell in love with help me and please I need your advice because I am ready to do anything.

I want my child to have a NORMAL family.

steppin:
Since it's against Amaechi and Tinubu, it's automatically an Ipod youth TV?
Smh.

drss2:
u tink d propaganda n media trial dished to u pipul daily about dasuki by dis govt is d true representation of facts has d court found dasuki guilty of embezzling so called $2 billion i ones told u dat buari will end up with thieves as ministers, n it came to pass. let me let u in anoda prediction; at d conclusion of dasuki trial by d courts, nigerians will STONE buari on d streets.
mark dis post very well for future reference.

GloryIsaac:
Dont mind those overpaid guys, always looking for someone to blame..... Was it Mou's fault that we conceded within 30 secs of the game ... I know fully well that Pogba should have played the DM position alongside Schneidelin or Carrick while Mata plays the No10 role (Lingard shouldn't have started anyway) but that still shouldn't be an excuse for such a poor start. Who do they want as Coach since no one's good enough! Or just alarming pay raise for doing nothing!... I think its time to start giving out pay cuts so that their senses come back.. smh

Ganiyat72:
If anyone is stupid, then it is definitely those who elected an illiterate, certificateless, normadic and a relic like buhari to lead a country of 170+ million people in this jet age. A damned despot who his first stint was charactarised with hardship, suffering and scarcity. A fool who after 30+ years of leaving office can not bost of one NGO or company to his name nor improved himself academically.