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i don't think so but i've had mine broken maybe twice. First time, I just got my heart caught up in it too quickly. It hurt at the time and took some months to get over but now I look back and boy, that wasn't even worth nothing.

Second time was much more recently. I wasn't exactly in a relationship with the guy but was falling fast thinking i still had some ways to go before i land but alas it wasn't so. the ground was much closer than i thought it was.

fall in love ke abeg, u betta come off it and stop falling in love with a phone voice? rubbish.....................can u imagine in the future people won't have spouses anymore they'd just fall in love with My Man v3.2.

I am telling u now, no such thing. the sooner u get out the better, TRUST ME, you're gonna remember my words.

i think 3, i mean wife, husband, and one child. I also believe the smaller the family, the better for the health of the marriage and thus the health of the family. Maybe two kids at the most.

i think it's very important, especially for nigerian folks. If the guy's family don't like you, that marriage is going to be hell. And recently I've seen someone go through widowhood and let me tell you, by that time it's too late and your stuck with the family from hell. You want to make sure that your spouse's family loves you like a sister and even moreso they love and respect themselves enough not to meddle in other people's affairs. those who have ears, let them hear o! family is VERY important.

Me i dated someone who was 10 years old than me o and i would do it again. All that matters is the relationship you have between the two of you and the conversation between the two you. With my ex, i would even say he was my soulmate. Too bad, it just didn't work out.

I would have to say though, he didn't approach me like a pervert in the street........

I've actually done something similar to this.  ours was for about 3 years.  I don't know if I can say we met online but we met through a friend, but we had never seen each other and didn't do so until 3 years after.  I was committed to him and he to me.  We'd talk every day, sometimes even two, three times a day, and sent pics anand everything back and forth.  I did consider him my boyfriend and vice versa.  I knew his family and spoke to them often and he knew mine. My people here were even convinced that he was the man i was going to marry cuz we were always in constant connection. However when we met and things became more real, everything just started to change.   See you guys relationship is stable now, and normal for you is not having each other around, once that dynamic changes, then the real challenge will start.

seun, how u gon coach her if u have no experience either? kai, i feel very sorry for both of you.

For men, virgin/no virgin does not say anything much about the virtue of the girl you are with. I know a girl who is "around 25" and is still a virgin but it has nothing to do with virtue. In fact she wants to but the fear of losing some control of herself to a man even for a tiny minute, is what paralyzes her. As you can tell this is a big issue on its own that has nothing to do sex itself.

So you'll have to be her shrink or something. Fun huh? This girl has said however that she thinks it's important to have multiple experiences before marriage. So after you do all the work, she'll go and find another man to give all the good stuff to. I would think that a woman who has had all the experiences she cares to have and knows that you are it for her would be better than a girl that's still curious about what's out there because believe me, she will be curious.

As a woman, hell no do I want a man that's a virgin. I like a take charge man, that knows what the hell he is doing because I have no patience with that sort of thing.

^^^exactly. naija/US relationships are mostly nonsense anyway. both parties usually end up getting some on the side. i would advise to separate from the naija girl. if y'all are truly meant to be together you'll find your way back.

Ehn seun, if I were to describe myself that is exactly how I would have put it, so seems I'm your ideal woman huh? j/k

Stababy, me I feel you ooo. Same thing with me that I'm starting to wonder if I have "please toast me" on my forehead. And the ones I want, the good looking bobos, just dey sit for side waiting for the ladies to come to them.

Once I hear "uhm, scuse me where are you from?" I just know its one of these atutupoyoyos.

I don't think there's anything wrong with double dating. Sometimes you just meet different people at different times and if you haven't really made a commitment to any of them what's a girl to do?

For example, I met someone about a month ago. A week after I met him, a friend set me up on a blind date with someone. Now I don't even know guy #1 long enough to be committed in anyway with him, and I kind of trust my girl to hook me up, so I went on the blind date. So I guess you could say double dating but I'm still trying to know both guys so what am I supposed to do?

Abeg, ladies open your options and think well well. Don't commit to someone just because they're there.