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Romance / The Unending Love, She Wants To Come Back by Fxabdul(m): 7:07am On Aug 09, 2023
Abdul and Priscilla had once shared a love that seemed unbreakable. Their relationship had blossomed from a deep friendship, and they vowed to stand by each other through thick and thin. Both believed they had found their forever in each other's arms.

But life often takes unexpected turns, and for Priscilla, temptation proved to be a formidable adversary. She found herself drawn to the charms and allure of another man, captivating her heart in a way she never thought possible.

Heartbroken and devastated, Abdul tried to make sense of the sudden betrayal. Days turned into weeks, and weeks into months as he navigated through the pain, questioning his self-worth while trying to rebuild his shattered world.

Driven by determination and an unyielding spirit, Abdul channeled his heartache into his ambitions. He worked hard, honed his skills, and seized every opportunity that came his way. Little by little, he began to carve out a path to success, growing wiser and stronger with each setback.

In the midst of Abdul's transformation, Priscilla found herself reflecting upon her choices and the pain she had caused. Her heart yearned for forgiveness, for a chance to make amends and rekindle the flame that had once burned so brightly between them.

Finally, Priscilla mustered the courage to reach out to Abdul, seeking solace in the words they had shared and the memories they had created. She knew that trust could not be restored overnight, but she was willing to persist with her sincere apologies and unwavering determination to prove herself once more.

Abdul, now a person of success and wealth, had a newfound perspective on life. He had learned the value of forgiveness and second chances, understanding that humanity is flawed and that people make mistakes. He cautiously allowed Priscilla back into his life, eager to rebuild the love they once shared but apprehensive about the scars that remained.

Together, through open communication, patience, and a shared desire to heal the wounds of the past, Abdul and Priscilla embarked on a journey of rediscovery. They learned to appreciate the fragility of love and how vital it is to nurture the bonds that tie two souls together.

Their love story, now colored with layers of forgiveness and growth, serves as a reminder that relationships are built not just on passion, but also on resilience and the willingness to fight for what truly matters. Abdul and Priscilla's journey is a testament to the power of love, loyalty, and the strength of the human heart to overcome the greatest of challenges.



My question is, Priscilla coming back to Abdul is it worth it?
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Romance / The Evolution Of Romance In Nigeria: The Cultural Perspective by Fxabdul(m): 6:59am On Aug 09, 2023
Title: The Evolution of Romance in Nigeria: A Cultural Perspective

Introduction:
Romance is an integral part of human relationships, and it has evolved over the years, with different cultures having their unique practices and beliefs about love and affection. Nigeria, with its diverse cultures, is no exception. In recent times, there has been a significant shift in the way Nigerians perceive and practice romance, and this has led to a lot of debates and discussions. This article aims to examine the evolution of romance in Nigeria, looking at its cultural perspective.

Historical Perspective:
The history of romance in Nigeria can be traced back to pre-colonial times when love and marriage were arranged by families and communities. The concept of love as we know it today was not prevalent. However, with the advent of Western culture and education, Nigerians began to embrace new ideas about love and romance. This led to a gradual shift from arranged marriages to marriages based on mutual love and affection.

Cultural Practices:
Nigeria has over 250 ethnic groups, each with its unique cultural practices and beliefs about romance. For instance, in the Igbo culture, the bride price is an essential part of the marriage process, and it is seen as a symbol of commitment and respect. On the other hand, the Yoruba culture places more emphasis on courtship, and it is not unusual for couples to date for several years before getting married.

The Impact of Religion:
Religion also plays a significant role in shaping the perception and practice of romance in Nigeria. Christianity and Islam, the two dominant religions, have different views on love and sexuality. For instance, while Christianity promotes chastity and abstinence before marriage, Islam allows polygamy and encourages sexual relations within marriage. These different beliefs and practices have led to varying attitudes towards romance in Nigeria.

The Influence of Media:
The advent of technology and social media has had a significant impact on the practice and perception of romance in Nigeria. Young people now have access to a wide range of information and ideas about love and relationships, which has led to a more liberal attitude towards romance. Social media platforms such as Instagram and Twitter have also given rise to a new crop of influencers and celebrities who have become role models for young Nigerians.

Conclusion:
The evolution of romance in Nigeria has been influenced by several factors, including cultural practices, religion, and the media. While there has been a shift towards a more liberal attitude towards romance, traditional practices and beliefs still hold sway in some parts of the country. It is essential to strike a balance between modernity and tradition, to ensure that romance remains a vital aspect of human relationships in Nigeria.

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Career / You Guys Need To Read This by Fxabdul(m): 1:24pm On Aug 21, 2022
THE MAN WHO SUED THE GUINNESS WORLD RECORD FOR GIVING HIM AN AWARD.

There are many weird people around the world that you may have heard or read about. Today we are going to tell you about such a strange person. We are talking about Jonathan Lee riches. He is called the most litigant in the world, this young man had filed the first lawsuit against his mother.

In that lawsuit, he told, 'his mother has not taken care of him well' he also won this case and he got compensation of 20 thousand dollars. After winning this case, the young man filed a case against his friend, maestro, neighbour, relatives, fiance, police, judge, famous companies and even George Bush. So far the number of cases filed by him in different courts has reached close to 2600.

Jonathan Lee riches name is also recorded in the Guinness book, you will be surprised after knowing that Jonathan Lee riches also filed a lawsuit against the Guinness book of world. He said why his personal life was written in the book without his permission.
He has won close to eight million dollars in damages and compensation in the cases so far.

After all this, he was called to a TV show where he was asked, " what is the reason that even after so much fame you are living alone and there is no one to love you? " at this, he started laughing and then got up from the TV show. After that, the young man also sued the TV channel for his dishonour. He then received compensation of fifty thousand dollars.

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Romance / The Day She Gave Me The Shock Of My Life :'( by Fxabdul(m): 12:14pm On Aug 21, 2022
What the biggest surprise you got from your babe?

This was the biggest surprise I got from her

Small misunderstanding wey we get I dey shout for my babe, base on say I be man feeling I have the power of dominance toward her.

I raised my hand pretending as if I want to hit her, before I knew everything I saw like white and golden blank everywhere waking up on the hospital bed to see my mum and other love ones greeting me saying how body, and she was also there begging me to forgive her.

Without my knowledge I never knew she was ah blackbelt holder in taekwondo.... Naso I tell her I forgive her sharp sharp make she no complete the job she started, if my mum and others left me behind with her in the hospital.

Oboy she looks so calm that you won't believe she's a blackbelt holder oooo, but right now if I just recover I go make sure I dey for Abuja and she dey for kaduna, I go come forward my breakup message to her.

I can't come and kill myself marrying sister undertaker��..[center][/center]

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Romance / Re: Hilarious Whatsapp Conversation Between A Nigerian Big Boy And A Runs Girl by Fxabdul(m): 5:11pm On Oct 08, 2020
you asking that who is this, while at the top Her name is reflecting, my guy we ain't children and this chat is being staged
Romance / Re: She Broke Up With Me Today by Fxabdul(m): 12:34pm On Oct 01, 2020
virginprincess:
You are a fool, na nigeria girls matter go give you heart attack, nonsense, always insulting nigeria girls as if your sisters are not nigerians.


Guys make it cool pls don't insult him, we all got stories to tell from the project wall, you never know what his pass experience was based on. Take a chill pill, we all know we are Nigerian and our sis are also Nigerians. Keep ur cool

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Romance / Re: She Broke Up With Me Today by Fxabdul(m): 12:31pm On Oct 01, 2020
Zendinho:

Simple things to do when break up happen.....


RE-EVALUATE YOUR WORTH

MAKE YOUR FAMILY YOUR PRIORITY

NEVER, EVER WAIL
NEVER CHECKED ON YOUR EX IN A HURRY, ELSE TWO THINGS ARE INVOLVED.

Finally...... MOVE AHEAD AND DOUBLE YOUR HUSTLE.... grin


Blessing land for your way bro

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Romance / Re: She Broke Up With Me Today by Fxabdul(m): 12:29pm On Oct 01, 2020
virginprincess:
Op, how did you manage to write everything in pidgin.



E shock you bdat virgin princess, I see that its just the easiest means of passing such message to you guys, based on our special heritage of making pidgin our day to day language...

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Romance / Re: She Broke Up With Me Today by Fxabdul(m): 12:22pm On Oct 01, 2020
stanliwise:
On Independence Day Hian.
Meanwhile why do you want to buy her iPhone 11 Pro?
Because she is your girlfriend? grin grin grin

Let us learn to take responsibility for our actions, if you had giving her that phone then you need to get your value in the right places. Because how people do favor for a stranger out of just “attraction”, “boyfriend”, “girlfriend” tags is baffling. SMH

More so how did people easily get heartbreak baffles me. You give someone so much with basically nothing on stake, with the simple idea of “if I do more they would like me more” and when they fail you then you feel hurt.

At the end of the day you will still marry one of those “vaginal people” and one day even give birth to a “vaginal” human.

Learn from this and amend your social values, what does not kill you make you stronger.


The reason why I wan buy her the phone be say the babe don too enter my family and friends, if not I no be mumu.


And I know we gon end with viginal people, but we pray for the best among them.

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Romance / Re: She Broke Up With Me Today by Fxabdul(m): 12:20pm On Oct 01, 2020
BKsoul:
Then he should be jubilating instead of tearing up.



Baba na jubilating I dey ooo.

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Romance / Re: She Broke Up With Me Today by Fxabdul(m): 12:19pm On Oct 01, 2020
Kriss216:

He’s not pained, he’s saved.

Thank you man, your head dey there

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Romance / She Broke Up With Me Today by Fxabdul(m): 12:03pm On Oct 01, 2020
These are the screen shot of my chat with her.although I no send her tey tey, but I no go block the idiot,because this month God don do am for me, God just help me comot this devil for my lane.........even from her status you go no say no be only one guy she get, most of 9ja babes nawao.

To the extent wey be say she dey post for her status say, legend are those who still talk to their Ex as friend.lol

As for me I gladly accept her as the friend ooo, and this babe I been don promise the mumu new iphone11 pro ooo.

But base on say she no get believe she decided to leave, the thing just be like magic ahswear before una know anything God just butter my bread since last week, thank God I no hurry go buy the phone for her, I for don turn one of the best leaders for simping nation. Like we all know if e better for person na mama I made it him dey talk, but as for me mama,papa brother and sisters I made it.

Na to surprise dem mama,papa and sis oo, tomorrow like this na my sis go lunch the phone, give mama 1mill same applies to papa.

No be say I dey claim ne oo, Although am from well doing average family.

At last God saved me, now wey guy don balance I no go too send those vigina people.

Na money be fine bobo, pls guys keep to the hustle and make it clean and legit.

Soon I go update una about the mumu girl.
Adios palz

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Romance / She Deserve It by Fxabdul(m): 11:01pm On Sep 11, 2020
A BRIEF ACCOUNT OF A BROTHER EXPERIENCE IN AHMADU BELLO UNIVERSITY, ZARIA.

I chased one Pharmacy Student girl from our 100 level until I left A.B.U.

Her excuse in 100 level was, 'I was too young for her', even though I was clearly older than her. Instead of her to just say that I couldn't give her the type of maintenance she was looking for.

Her excuse in 200 level was that she was already dating a doctor. You know how those pharmacy/ medicine students are with doctors na. Them think say the doctors go marry them, bwahahahakikiki!

Her excuse in 300 level was that the doctor boyfriend broke her heart and she was done with relationships. But aunty, 'why am I being punished for the sins of another man?'

In 400 level, she said I was already leaving school and there was no point because she still had a couple of years to spend in school. Secondly, that I was unemployed and I could not take care of her needs. She was now a woman you know.

After I graduated, I tried one last time and this time she said “you have graduated from school but you haven’t graduated from chasing me after 4 years. Am I a Bachelor’s degree program? Move on, abeg”.

Anyways, I moved to Abuja and I met a beautiful woman at an event in Nicon and you would not believe she happened to be the younger sister of this same girl in School.

Small world.

I was originally not interested in having any romantic relationship with the elder sister because she didn’t have the physical features I saw in her younger sister (if you know, you know) but we eventually started dating.

One day my former crush was coming to Abuja and her elder sister asked me to accompany her to the bus park to pick her up.

My former crush almost fainted when her sister introduced me as her boyfriend as we were putting her bags in the trunk of my car. As her elder sister walked back to the park to carry one more bag, she pulled me to one corner and said,
“Ayewa , what are you doing with my younger sister?”

I replied,
“Master’s Degree Program, dear”.��������������

Wetin I do wrong?

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Romance / She Answered by Fxabdul(m): 11:01pm On Sep 07, 2020
This particular babe who I have been studying for sometimes, the result I got after some weeks of studying her was excellent.

Suddenly she cut her conversation with me, and some of my trusted pals, told me the bitch loves money and flexing. Although I had something for her deep inside my heart,but never knew she was ah farmtool.

Then I decided to use her as my case of study and the outcome was superb and surprising. Whenever I do call her she never picks up and whenever I send her message she always ignores the message.

One particular day I decide to use the ideas of what my pals told me about her having love for money.

This made me sent her message, which goes like ; please Priscilla pick my call, if it about the phone I once promise to buy for you, I will get it for you end of this September, then I called her phone, before 3seconds I swear by God she picked the phone.

She was like I was never angry with you,then we exchange some words of greetings,but guys I swear if I didn't use the phone stuff as a bait she won't answer me.

Since I noticed she has love for money I am thinking of strafing the hell out of her, using my guyly techniques i won't buy her the phone......I will just create another route to knack her ahswear.

But sometimes as a redpiller, to catch some bitch, you gon use some simp method to make your plan work.

Las na invitforerrer for dinner to chicken republic, eat laugh with each other, end up in my kajal, give her some feelings of believing , then I will lash the hell out of her, the next day na to give her like 3k, I know some redpillers will say I bleeped up giving her 3k that doesn't matter.

After the deal is done,she should expect the phone from sky........I was never bad, but some bitch made me bad because of their betrayal and pretentious habit. Now I don't take shit, if Truelove comes we go dey lowkey and if fake love come na to play the game.
I rest mah case.....las las my guys make una open una eye.
Romance / Re: She Said I Am Too Innocent by Fxabdul(m): 9:33pm On Aug 31, 2020
NockMedia:
LMFAO grin grin grin
How to get a Nigerian lady who is not ready to settle down:
* Act Confident
* Be Boastful
* Be in Control always and unpredictable.
* Don't be Humble. Nigerian Ladies don't like humble guys. Be a jerk; especially if you are loaded financially.
* Talk less, spend more. Most Nigerian Ladies can't start or carry on a conversation effortlessly.
They prefer to be showered with gifts and money.
* Get or borrow a badass car ( act and look Rich)

How to get a Ghanaian lady who is not ready to settle down:
* Be Cute and well dressed ( If you ain't thick and tall in stature, hit the gym)
* Be humble and well mannered.
* You don't need loads of cash to get a 10/10 chick.
* Be passive but assertive.
* Be smooth, charming and chivalrous.
* Get a nice apartment ( The sight of a humble guy's apartment will amaze her and make her wet. She will offer you the coochie without you making a move)
* You don't need a badass car.

How to get a francophone lady who isn't ready to settle down:
* Know how to party hard
* Know how to drink alcohol and smoke weed.
* Have a huge manhood ( don't be scared to tell her about the size of your manhood while flirting)
* Know how to smash a lady right and give her head ( They're wild AF)
* More sex, parties, and less talk and spending.
* You don't need to be cute, rich or have a nice apartment ( they would shag you even in a shack or public toilet)

Note: I don't mean to be demeaning with my write-up. I'm not a sexual predator or a misogynist.
this man somehow expert ooo, I hail oo
Romance / Re: She Said I Am Too Innocent by Fxabdul(m): 9:30pm On Aug 31, 2020
harsysky:
Girls who think they are bad are somewhat easy yo get down with. Firstly, you acted like a simp by agreeing to things she stated just to gain her approval. That's not the way some ladies would want you to be. you are exactly what she said you are.

You could have just smiled when she said you looked innocent, and when she asked if you could bleep her, you would have just said you are too selective when it comes to bleeping women because you know most of them aint good at it. she would now wanna know why you are special. It's easy to play with babe's mind when you are calm and confident, reading their body languages. take care
man you na guru, thanks sha
Romance / Re: She Said I Am Too Innocent by Fxabdul(m): 9:29pm On Aug 31, 2020
pellummy:

Are you okay sir? Which hustle
am 100% OK
Romance / Re: She Said I Am Too Innocent by Fxabdul(m): 6:30pm On Aug 31, 2020
div111:


whoa. I guess you've not done stuffs like this...


Next time she comes, tell her u have a surprise for her. then, hug her from her back while smooching her boobs...

finger her Wella, then f**k her and dump her....

my 2 cents
Make sense, buh I no wan spoil mah hustle
Romance / Re: She Said I Am Too Innocent by Fxabdul(m): 5:47pm On Aug 31, 2020
fineboynl:
you are trying to date a girl way bigger than you do. you both might be age mates but she is wiser, well exposed, experience than you do.

the reason she is loosing interest in you is because you are showing love and trying to personalized her. most young girls nowadays don't like that.


they just need the fun for the main time. not serious relationship. except of course your father is dangotee. you are just one broke follow that need to be fuc.k not serious relationship.

next time be in control. stop chatting. instead called her for longer minutes. what most young girls want to hear is how do we see, let me take you out, come to my house, let Bleep. e.t.c not have you eating WhatsApp chats
thanks man
Romance / Re: She Said I Am Too Innocent by Fxabdul(m): 5:46pm On Aug 31, 2020
div111:
how old are u
24
Romance / Re: She Said I Am Too Innocent by Fxabdul(m): 5:45pm On Aug 31, 2020
Edyice:



Clearly he's an innocent dude ..


This one will cry hard even drink sniper if he realised that the other dudes are knacking this bae ...

(Look For an easy going girl ) don't say I didn't warn you cheesy
Thanks man
Romance / She Said I Am Too Innocent by Fxabdul(m): 2:39pm On Aug 31, 2020
I met this babe 2month back, I collected her phone number we do chat on normally and it reached to the extent that i told her I love her and she also replied saying that she loves me too, for sometimes now we've been together, then suddenly she changed toward me, when we get to see each other and I asked what's the cause of the sudden change, she said I am too innocent for her liking and that I am a good guy and she's bad girl, she was like she loves flirting, as a sharp guy I then replied her by saying that am also a badboy let flirt together but deep inside my heart I ain't bad cause I felt something for her.
But it seems she's on the other side of life slaying queen, same night we were chatting and I asked her that can she dance she was like she can't dance ,I was like then what can you do if you can't dance she was like nothing, then i asked her can she twerk? I was just trying to know if what she said about her being a bad girl is true, then asked her that if she have a feel of guy like me she will ask for more, before I knew everything burst up and she asked me these questions;
That when last did I Bleep a girl?
I lied by saying last month.
She asked me can I Bleep her
I said hands down she will ask for more, and she said since its been last month since I Bleep, that my sperm will be plenty, I replied saying yes that she will even use it for her body cream. But sincerely speaking guys I ain't that type of guy who crave for all those sex stuffs, the highest thing i have done with the babe is just ah friendly hug....and since from that day she changed again she don't message me or call, and whenever I visit her when we start talking, if her phone ring she will tell me she's sorry that I should please forgive her that she wants to go and see someone ,although that day I pretended to be angry and she asked me to look into her eye ball that she's sorry that she will message me tonight, I left and she went to the place she want to go, which I was doubting is another redpiller that's going to lash her out......by 10pm I received her message still begging for forgiveness that she's sorry but, then replied saying its not a big deal and since from that day she don't text me frequently I am the one who always start conversation with her before she replies me and whenever I post my whatsapp status shes always first or 2nd to view it. And she always post different guys pic on her status........pls guys how do u explain such girls?.

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