₦airaland Forum

sanandreas:
Excommunication coming to you sister

The ones that slept with children in Europe and Americans were they excommunicated. Dey dere make una dey deceive una self.

Many Fathers and Sisters are into such acts, just that many do it in a coded way. God that created sex isn't stupid but, when you want to go against nature it shows you are deceiving yourself.

justscorchone:
Iffa hear,teach me now you go start dey use sign language. .mtchew

Wetin he wan teach you, se himself sabi hacking. Most Nigerian Yahoo guys are lazy. Many öf their counterpart in Russia and China make big money from scam not small money through hacking.

Not all scammers in Nigeria use voodoo but many are into it.

UrennaNkoli:
voodoo is not real.

Who told you Voodoo is not real? Better behave yourself before they show you other side of life.

Dimples182:
He is an Internet fraudsters! Wehdone sir!

Voodoo is fake though

Voodoo is fake abi. Abeg, come to Ijebu or Ofosu for Edo state make them nack you Jazz. You go know say Khaki no be leather.

technicallyrich:
I thought it was only foreigners they scam but now they now scam even Nigerians by opening ponzi and they rake millions.that was how I ph in one and the next 2 days they crash with all my money so many times I wish I use the money for ponzi to eat nkwobi and drink chilled beer it would have been better for me.

I will never support scammers, but Mr. man you are a greedy person. You want to make money without working.

Well I don't follow entertainers. They add nothing to my life.

deliveryboy:
I have seen so many abusive relationships/marriages where the victim is the man, I mean so many. It is usually okay if the man remains inside and died of heartbreak. Abusive relationship should not be hijacked by a group of people (so called feminists). It weakens the argument when people try to see abuse from the point of view of the woman being the victim. Also it has become a tool for which many bad women win legal arguments, just say the magic word abuse and every of her sins are erased, women have used it to blackmail and bring men down when they are no longer into such men emotionally and I think it would soon be over used and the word abuse itself will be abused by Nigerian women. Already researchers in the US are beginning to understand that Nigerian women specifically provoke their men into hitting them e.g. by bringing their boyfriends to the matrimonial homes so they can have a no argument case when they want to claim all the man has worked for in the US. The world must know that men can also be victims of domestic abuse, the world must also recognize that certain women use the word as tool to blackmail and destroy their men, lastly the world must understand that the word abuse would soon be abused and it would not be taken seriously after some time.

You are right man. I could remember one of my cousin's neighbour back then that do beat her husband. She will even tell him, if you do nonsense, I will beat out of you.

Opinionated:
It is absolutely unacceptable for a man/woman to batter a woman/man black and blue. It is simply cowardice. Despite the domestic violence, some people will not speak out nor will they quit the relationship. They endure. They report to their religious leaders and family members who usually encourage them to stay. This is wrong. Jumia Travel, the leading online travel agency shares reasons why you should never stay in an abusive relationship,

He will kill you one day

There have been many stories were husbands have beaten their wives to the extent that they died. That is extreme. You do not want to be in that situation. Your children need you alive to take care of them. So, if you have made effort and waited for him to change and he refuses, just quit.

You will escape emotional torment

Many women/men are being beaten by their husbands/wives but they cover it with makeup or staying outside for long. They laugh and they smile but the emotional torment they are going through is unbearable. Do not wait until you break down before you run away. In fact, the only time they are happy is when they leave home.

You cannot fix him/her

If you stay thinking he/she is going to change, you are absolutely wrong. He/She is not going to change even if you pray from today till tomorrow. You cannot fix him/her. If it means leaving home to temporarily lodge in a Lagos hotel, you should.

It is good for your sanity and wellbeing

If you are going through domestic violence and you keep quiet. it will definitely affect your mental health and general wellbeing. You will be very worried and scared of your husband. It will become a cat and mouse relationship. Save yourself from that stress.

You will be safe

You and your children will be safe if you leave an abusive relationship. You owe them that responsibility.

Source: Lalasticlala, Mynd44

Fixed. Not only women do go through physical/emotional abuse in a marriage.

DPsalmist2:
He has already been sentenced. I'm not surprised he is partner by a Brazilian. There is a deep connection between Nigerian cartels and BRAZIL. All evidence points to Brazil as the source of the drugs..

Most of the drugs(cocaine) in Nigeria comes from Brazil. From Brazil to Nigerian seaports.

Mcowubaba:
All this Tribal wars we keep fighting, that's what makes us weaker.
Yesterday it was labeled Edo Prostitute, some days ago it was Yoruba ritualist, today is Igbo drug dealer.

The elites in this Country survive and thrive based on the religious and tribal sentiments in the Country.

We will be shouting IPOB vs AFONJA, while a Politician in Enugu is planning on how to embezzle money with the help of a fellow Politician in Gombe and Osun state.

It's really a pity, why I have never complained of Racism is based on the fact that my own Country is very tribal and bigoted.
Why will I be offended if a Ukrainian man calls me Monkey when my fellow Countrymen call me worst names.

Funny enough, most Nigerian immigrants are usually very united, I remember those days, we always gat each others back, watching out for your BROTHERS (fellow Nigerian), giving them info on new immigration laws, jobs and opportunities etc
Now,
It's really very shameful and sadistic, what Nigeria has turned out to be, an average Igbo person on Nairaland is cautious of a Yoruba person and vice versa.

Initially I thought tribal bigots were all Uneducated or illiterates, but I was very wrong, we have very educated and rich bigots in Nigeria.

The hostility is so repulsive.
No Nigerian living in Diaspora should complain about Racism, we don't have the moral standing as a Country.

The current President of Nigeria, fueled the Tribal and Ethnic Tension to an extreme level, I hate BUHARI, I won't lie about that, I don't wish him well. He is a deranged old fool, I don't hate or detest any Politician like I hate that Daura piglet

This is not tribal, I love people from his tribe, but Buhari himself is a definition of stupidity.
How can a President be this Useless, it's unacceptable

Look at the person preaching against racism and ethnicity but calling human like you a pig, which is the president. You said he fueled tribalism in Nigeria, Mr. man you just typed poo. Practice what you preach and stop behaving like a dunce, Mr. wailer.

Member öf British Empire, I don't know why Nigerians and other former colonies of Britain are accepting this award. This is neocolonialism.

Even though, I don't belong to any sect but I like one Sufist, which is Rumi

mrvitalis:
If nnamdi Kalu doesn't play politics in 2019 I will leave nairaland ...

When will we igbos learn to stop being sentimental and emotional ...the same fool who insulted ojukwu is the same person to host kalu

PDP just got south east locked down ...watch as Kalu campaign for a northern Presidential candidate with the line he would grant referendum while he himself run for senate

Kalu is smart and I have always known ..he knows he will never get Biafra with the way he is going ..intact he don't want Biafra ..he only wants fame and hr has gotten that

You are right. I made mention of something like this last week. Kanu now mingles with Nigerian politicians he will either contest for election or campaign for some politicians that granted him bail.

Igbaba2:
pls., house which one is better, being a professional town planner and being focused on msc? Its an urgent option to tk in couple of hours.

I will advice you to go for professional town planner, it will add to your experience. If you want to go into lecturing go for Msc.

phinedhe:
was people really showing off before the intention of social media?

Yes, people do show off before the creation of social media.

akblings:
Church and biz

Is this Okooloyun or Yemkem? This country is in comatose.

olapluto:
I have that feeling too. Very soon, those private jets will become suspects like Orishajefor's money laundering jet.

I tire for this country. Politicians, Religious and Traditional leader are just exploiting this nation.

olapluto:
Very soon, the pastors will outgrow their congregations money and start pushing cocaine. They will rely on their gullible sheep to protest their innocence then.

How are we sure they aren't into drugs already?

The great con man. I just pity the followers

Show off that is what I dislike most. Even to post pics on social media is a problem for me. I get tired of comments. It is good to live a secretive life don't let people to know yiur moves.

Esepayne:
oh my God such a beauty

What is the angel of death business about being beautiful or handsome? when it is time, it is time.
May God give her family fortitude to bear the loss.

Joavid:
I want a small and inexpensive wedding though. I'm not even gonna do asoebi thingy for my wedding.

Have promised myself not to buy any asoebi till I will leave this mother earth. WTF is asoebi, is like imposing things on people, something they never budgeted for.
I just pray I marry a wife that won't like party like me.

Acidosis:
and what's so special about the work of a DJ in a small wedding ceremony?

These are some of the stup!d things I won't pay for. Bleep the DJ and whatever he has to offer

I wonder oo... Who Dj epp? With their speakers constituting nuisance by producing decibels of noise.
Till today I will always respect deeper life and Alusunnah's wedding. They don't waste time on frivolities.

mysticgal:
Guys of nowadays are not serious, some of them have issues they need to deal with

Same thing goes with the ladies, many are after money and material things. There are many ladies that aren't ripe for marriage but went into marriage because öf glamorous wedding.

Alero3Arubi:
Oh yes oooo.
I must do my dream wedding because if I don't they will finish all the money I have.
My dream wedding wont cost more than 120k.

Lol... You are a good lady who must be a financially prudent person. Marriage is the koko. Why spending millions on wedding when you can use that money to go into a profitable business.

dangotesmummy:
Solution cut your coat according to your size

Must you do dream wedding?

Do small wedding, after your guests get home they won't remember after 2days

Bridal shower isn't necessary if you can't afford it,get regular photographer if you can't do photo book
If you can't afford caterer share puff Puff and plastic bottle water for your wedding guest
You don't have to rent hall.the front of your house is OK.just rent canopy and chairs

Wedding ceremony is just for your family and friends to witness you're married but Nigerians have turned it to something else

Just look for a girl who's not all about the glamour or an instagram slave who lives to impress like the likes of mercy aigbe

Bro, have experienced 2 weddings like that. It was just held for 2 to 4 hrs. The family house of the lady was the venue. They are living happily today.

It is not appropriate spending millions of Naira on wedding when that money can help the couples to invest in different businesses and build good homes. Ati gbe Iyawo ko te jo, owo obe lo soro.

Hoodfriend:
Afonja

What has Afonja got to do with this post? You are just an ethnic bigot

This lady is immature. The guy never used a vulgar words. The content of the sms are just words of encouragement.

The deceased was stubborn, what kind of love would make you stay in an abusive relationship. You even divulge things your mum said about your husband to your husband. Elderly people see things what we the young ones can't see with our eyes. Their opinions count a lot.

kayyat:
Thank you sir.

You are welcome ma