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Greyworld:
Lol... I am a man. And beat the trash talk and simply say what she did wrong. It's so foolish of you if you can't simply state the wrong she did at least up to the point we were shown in the chat.

Don't mention me again. Go home and insult all the female in your life its not my business.

have u smoked something or what's wrong with your senses.

If nah man killed himself now. We go dey dey people him and accusing him. But when it happened to a woman, they quickly came online saying it is murder. I wonder why we allow emotion to to think for us when ever the victim is a female.

Greyworld:
a

So what exactly did she do wrong

Dog of the same barking tone.

"Women this, women that" like your mother is a man.

We know a good mother when we see one. Ladies with poor parental background talk d way u talk online. It is not your fault but all these bad few men committing this crime. It has now turn bad girl like to to motivational speaker. Is your father too a woman that u come out always to blame the men. Even if a man excuse himself and stay away from u people. U will still have bad things to say against the man.

paulolee:
cr7 started 2 years before messi started n messi is on 55 while ur man is on 60
messi have more ballon d or than ur man n still have more trophies than ur man but u still de drag messi into cr7 threads..
when dey both retires....ur man would simply be the best goal scorer ever but messi would be the GOAT bcoz he achieved more than cr7..
time would tell bro...

Small boy reasoning. How old are u.

Greyworld:
No prove she did anything wrong

bird of d same colour

LilMissFavvy:
Exactly. Someone even confirmed here that federal government hospitals do not carry out abortions, unless it is a miscarriage/complicated pregnancy. So you can imagine all the beatings that must have led to the several miscarriages.

you are a woman bah. I don't expect u to believe d guy. But if you son is treated this way u will understand better.

Hmmmm I have been telling people on nairaland that we should stop jumping into conclusion when we only heard one side of d story. There are more idiots on nairaland who just post comments whenever a lady or woman is playing victim in a situation like this. Especially women who just like condemning men without reasoning.
From my experience,I told people on nairaland on how my wife lied against me. Many people believed her because she is a woman. How can can I believe any women stories I come across online. Fear women. They are not different from snakes. Bet with me,this guy can never trust any woman again in his life except he lied. Pls men should wake up from other men experience. Don't treat your wife badly. Don't raise your hands on her. Whatever u can afford to give her give her but don't buy properties in your wife name. Never make that mistake. Whatever u have belongs to both u and your wife. I don't see sense in it when your wife is forcing u to buy properties for her if truly she doesn't have hidden agenda. Mature person will not listen to only one side of a story. I noticed women never told 100% truth in relationship problem.

TONYE001:
1. It seems you may have had a bad relationship experience; I'm sincerely sorry about that.

2. "Most cases, it is the wife that triggers trouble at home..." ; "...It's easy for a good woman to change a man but u can never change a toxic woman..."... all these are assertions that lack facts. Do you have a statistic that supports that most cases of marital problems are caused by the wife? Any published work to cite that says a toxic woman can never be changed? Any human can be changed, whether man or woman.

3. I agree with your last line. We all should wait for the authorities to make their findings (hopefully, they'd do this honestly).

thanks. Yes bad experience . For someone I really love just lied against me like that. It was terrible moment. I have 2 sons and 2 daughters. Having a female child makes me love that gender the more. My experience with a woman affect me from taking online news as the truth . Before u do evil, reason that what if is my son or daughter.
I read one news on nairaland yesterday of how a woman poison her son's wife. Though I read it and was not even take d news serious. Today,a friend told me another version of that story. He told me his friend who is a neighbour to d dead woman poison herself not poisoned by her mother in-law. I do shake my head sometimes when I read people's comments on Facebook or nairaland. Many women online allow emotion to determine their judgement.

TONYE001:
So, in your words, men are perfect and the problem is only from the women. All females that are victims of domestic violence must have been abusive, disrespectful, and all. Wonderful.

Of course, there are no cases of sadist men that enjoy causing harm to their wives and children unprovoked. There are no cases of habitual drunkards that would turn their wives and kids into punching bags. There are no cases of men with undiagnosed psychiatric conditions that hit their wives as they please. There are no cases of hardworking women being exploited by their husbands. There are no cases of cheating husbands whose wives are entirely submissive. There are no cases of products of broken homes that know nothing but maltreat their wives, children, and everyone around them.

God created men perfect and women, imperfect.

Great ideology, well done!

read and understand. No human is perfect but most cases,it is the wife that always trigger trouble at home. Some men too are to be blame but most marital problem facing by women are caused by them. I explained here what happened to me and since then,I can't believe what I hear until the incident happened at my presence. I always hear my husband abandon me and d children. Even a crazy man can abandon a good wife.
Proverb 128:3 It says an excellent wife is the crown of her husband,but she who shames him is like rottenness in his bone.
Also Proverb 18;22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
A man can never be happy with a toxic wife. And these are the type we have in this generation. Too much pride. If u have pride or ego. Don't even have intention to marry because u will have problem. Is easy for a good woman to change a man but u can never change a toxic woman. I been seeing bad women turning to inspirational speaker because a woman died. Too bad she died. D husband mite be among d toxic men too but I can't condemn anyone now because am not d police or d judge. Lies too much in online news.

Kobojunkie:
Toxic women are to blame when some men are unable to control their anger when provoked? Is that essentially what you are trying to assert here?

let me tell u. Two wrong things can't be write. If there is a force that can't let a woman control her toxic character. That same force can't make a man control his anger especially when d woman has already pushed him to d wall. When trouble is too much from a woman, certainly,one day the man will burst out and this can cost a life.

walkingshadow911:
A good loving and responsible husband will never beat a bad wife he would either separate himself from her for his peace. u are sick

u are a demented organism. Is easy to say he should walk away. I don't know if u are a man or a woman. If u are a man. I wish u are in this situation for u to understand how it feels. If u are a woman. Something like this will happen to your son and I will see how u will react to your son's wife. There are some devil women dat they will even hit u first. They can even stab u first b4 d man hit back. Later they tell d world d man stab them because these evil women know people will show sympathy on them. I don't think u are married. If u are married u will understand d deep side of it. If only 50% of men in this country behave like women. This world will not be at peace. 85% of stories told by these women who dragged their marriage problem on social media are lies. I have my experience which have opened my eyes. When a woman lies against your son. I believe u will understand how wicked women are. Let your blood get involved in this first b4 u judge.

koladata:
i'm not supporting the man too, but there could be more to the story, especially when a woman is richer than the husband, the problem no be here

a woman u sponsored her education to d level of been a prof can later call her husband a useless man when he has a temporary financial problem. This can turn a Man to commit any crime on her if he can't manage his temperament. It is something that will trigger something. People are tackling this issue wrongly. If the public don't condemn actions of these abusive women. This domestic crises will not seize to happen. Whether they jail d man or not. This will continue so far the society does not tackle d issue of these toxic women in d society.

yyba:
Stupid man so former american president BUSH and OBAMA did not commit genocide in IRAQ, LIBYA, and SYRIA abi ?

so because u believed Bush committed genocide then Putin has d right to be killing innocent people too. Are u out of your mind. You are happy innocent people are dying just because u hate the US. For your information, Biden want to be civil in this situation. What the Biden is waiting for is for Putin to implicate himself to commit an international crime which is GENOCIDE. He will be charged to world court and declare wanted. This is where his end will begin. Just like Saddam Hussein.

delpee:
Her son has spoken. She was treated badly by her husband, no doubts.

I am talking about my own experience. Am not bothered about their situation. Am not supporting anyone. I can only talk about my experience. You and I are not living with them and the social media is not the court of law. Let's wait for the autopsy result. Worst of these have happened before and more is still going to happen. We have seen d one that stab d partner,the one that shot d partner and the one that kill with acid. Why is this so special. Is it because she was a gospel musician. The most important things is to play our role rightly or someone is gonna drop dead. Many can't many crises. This type of killings is common in abroad because of stupid marriage laws. I can only advice men. It is you who need to work out of the marriage fast fast or else, u will commit. Funnily,u see women accessing men who leave the marriage in order to avoid further crises. They will say he is not responsible for walking out of from abusive marriage. Both men and women are guilty of these crises not men alone.

My personal experience can never make me support any side in this issue.
I remember when I came back from Ghana in 6 yrs ago. My wife told her people that I wanted to kill her. In which all her family members believed her. Non of her parents cared to call me and ask me if it was true. Since then I have been wondering what kind of creatures are women. This is a woman I never raised my hands on. I never keep secrets from. I did not hide money from.
So let assume she fell sick during that time and she died. What do u think her family will tell d world. Dumb people easily believe women and this is why most women don't care to lie against their husband. I am not supporting d singer's husband but I know there is something hidden. Whenever I remember how my wife lied against me,I see all women like that. I use to ask women how will u feel if a woman lie against your son. Most women are hypocrite.even men too.
Funnily u see ladies who can't find husband to marry due to their bad character have turned to motivational speaker because of this gospel singer. They are now condemning all men. Some start condemning marriage they have been wishing for. What I know is no reasonable man will beat his humble wife when he no chop craze. A woman who can't control her mouth is liable to suffer from her husband. Even as a girl or a lady,your blood brother will hit u if u can't control your mouth
As a man,I wish u find yourself in a position of having a bad wife to know if I can manage d situation right. .

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid you need to read that Bible with your eyed opened.

Scripture instead tells you that God instituted Marriage in Genesis 2 vs 24, and then God cursed marriage, after man fell, in Genesis 3 vs 16, and submission in marriage, which you claim to be a principle for you to follow is in fact a curse which God placed on marriage to ensure its failure.

God Himself cursed marriage so that so long as you are submitted to that curse of submission in marriage, your marriage will not see God's own peace and joy and happiness.

Now ofcourse God sent Jesus Christ to redeem men from God's curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22, but sadly since most of you outright refuse Jesus Christ's offer at redemption this since you cling so strongly to the curse instead, your marriage continue to mirror the quagmire that is the world under God's curse as a result.

hmmm u need help. Is that the only part in d Bible that talks about marriage? U better go and meet a true knowledgeable pastor to lecture u on this scriptures. So because a man killed his wife devil in you and others have started talking against Christian institutions. Let even assume she went to meet her pastor to tell him. Are u expecting the pastor to break d marriage. Even if d pastor told her to move out of her husband house. It is people like u that will later accusing d pastor for breaking their home. I don't know if u are married. If u are married and u don't enjoy your marriage. There are many couples out there who are enjoying there marriage. Stop using this to go against what God Himself defined

Paulianfa:
All these talk cannot solve any problem except one learned to understand what is happening in people's lives and home.
Some of these domestic violence are cause by women themselves cos they seems not to understand the ways of life.
I don't think a man with a right senses can lay a finger on his wife without something behind, u see all these women wen they have more than u, they wants rule over u, they want to control and becomes the head of the house, they will insult and abuse u the way they can.
And wen u stood ur ground, the whole world will be blaming you for defending ursef, they will now turn against u.


One needs to investigate and asked questions about domestic violence.

This is d truth these people refuse to understand. A man can never beat a good wife. Women are d cause of things like this. Women should understand that some men can manager anger if u did something bad to him. For d husband to have killed this woman, it means she did something wrong but d man did d worst for causing her death.

SilentQueen:
Dear women pls for the sake of your children or family members who loves you...pls stay away from an abusive relationship so you don't end up dead

Dead tell no tales

so it is only men who abuse women. Enough men dey out there who are regretting marrying there wife because they are evil.
I know in future when u have daughter in-law. U will understand more.

Jeon:
Hmmm..

anything relationship will be the last thing on earth in my presence.
because I don't have time to shout out.. I DO ACTION.

Ladies wey no get good character sef don turn motivational speaker. This incident has turn has turn ladies wey dey suffer for husband to be talking against marriage. Nah waoo

Brian47:
That gospel singer died because of religion.
Sometimes religion causes these cause "God hates divorce"

stupid post. Many people wey kidnappers and bandit killed within a month in Nigeria u can't count it. Are those not human too. No be religion kill anyone. Bible define marriage and if all principles are followed, something like this will not happen. Man love your wife. Wife submit to your husband. If these principles exist between a man and his wife. Violence will not happen. Let me tell u this.even if they are not Christians or not Muslim, are u telling me there will not be domestic violence or husband killing d wife or wife killing d husband.
For your information,it is even religion that even reduces domestic violence. Don't expect this kind thing not to happen at all

Tallesty1:
What you post dey sweet me as I dey read am until I came to the emboldened.


With all due respect sir, you're wrong.

that is your own tot

alsudan:
This Afonja drug addicted psychopath don come with her cheap attempt to trend, and as usual, for all the wrong reasons.

are u telling what she said is not possible? Are u out of your mind. Was she a God that she could not commit a sin like that. You people to trust human that is your problem. Am not saying she did dat but I can't trust any Woman to that level

ufuosman:
Many people are going through hell inside marriage bt dey choose to keep it to themselves...


No one should endure abusive marriage, is beta to forget wot people will say and go back to ur fathers house than to risk ur life



Dis will be lesson for those who will learn and leave abusive marriage

RIP

I as a person will never let news I read on d internet to determine my comments on the issue like this. I have been seeing several people just come to conclusion by mere reading post without reasoning. Even I read comments from single man and single ladies condemning men as if only married men are d problem. Nobody support any killings either from a man or a woman. No sane man will ever lay his hands on his wife. Only a frustrated man can do that caused by d wife. This is common now when a woman died, people came out condemning d husband but when this happens vice versa,they still blame d man.
I am talking from experience. I have a closed friend. This my friend is nice and a quiet type. I am close to d husband and the wife and I realised he has a troublesome wife. The wife packed out from his house with d kids when d husband had problem with his job. The most funniest thing is when people started accusing d wife. She and her family started lying to people that d husband said she will kill her. Assuming d wife fell sick and died. What do u think people will say. We all should stop interfering in these type of news on social Media. U see ladies with bad character saying woman should walk out of their marriage. My conclusion is no sane man will beat a good and submissive wife. Though I don't support anyone beating each other but it is not every men that can manage his anger. Marrying a bad wife is like u sign your death warrant. A bad wife can make a man commit a crime he doesn't want to. Being a church woman does not determined a good wife.

uchaymart:
I am not from Oyo state. I have lived here for years....I am no supporter of any party but good governance..........That being said, you are wrong in all what you stated above.

who said I am from Oyo State. I don't belong to any political party. Open your ears and u will hear what I have been hearing from people in Oyo State. Whatever d civil servants in Oyo are saying is is what is happening. Only thugs will love what is happening in Oyo state

uchaymart:
Neither am i from Oyo state.................nobody is missing Ajimobi in Oyo State..............Teachers and state government staff, pensioners were owed more than than 6months salary before he left the seat....................

sit down there and be saying no one is missing Ajimobi. If I had not come to Oyo State, I will be saying what u said. Am telling u what I have been hearing from people generally and u are here saying what is not. I am even surprised hearing this from people in Ibadan. From my experience in Ibadan, I can see thugs have dominated everywhere. They move around freely and nobody can control them. They even go around in convoy. Disobeying traffic laws. They kill and maim without anyone questioning them. What is happening presently in Oyo State us even worst than what is happening in Lagos. A state where the political thug leader is called d deputy governor. Throughout my stay in oyo state and till now,I don't know d name of the deputy governor.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
That's his issue..do anything funny..he gets dealt with..as far as I am concerned.. Putin will never use that nonsense on any country..

The day he does that..then that becomes the end of mother Russia..so that nonsense he is holding there is just for some Petty attention..

Exactly my point.

topcatking:
There it is. The dude ain't bluffing

He's is just like a toothless bull dog. Hitler did more than that.

uchaymart:
can you say you hate GSM in any public transport? Or go to Sabo, where majority are hausas........lets start from there when next you visit the state.........

una go just dey lie anyhow............

Ibadan to Iseyin Road used to be 2hours plus drive due to completely bad road but go find out now for yourself......

I don't understand what u are saying. Am not from Oyo State buy I posted my comments based on d public opinion from Oyo State people. I did not ask any one of them questions about GSM. I only over heard people always saying negative comments about d gov. I also observe these people are now missing Ajimobi. Nah this same Ajimobi was happy when he died I could remember

jeff1607:
Seems this governor is loved by his people

Do u know what I observed when I enter Ibadan some few months ago. B4 coming to ibadan,I believed Oyo people loved this governor. This is d same way people who live outside Oyo too reason. But is not d truth. People inside Oyo State hate d governor. Me too I realised many things are not right in d state. Thugs are controlling d state. Everyone in Oyo have turned to street and area boys. The governor needs to do something urgent in d state or else he might loose d election.hardly u see an indigen of d state talked good about d governor. I remember I used to say GSM is a good gov and will win d second term in Oyo State until I got to Oyo State. Majority don't want him again.this is what I observed.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why are most Nigerians so adamant and stubborn?
You were given an instruction to follow.. instead of doing that you flouted the order..now that you are paying for it you complaining..?

Do what is requested of you and move on..this stubbornness will solve nothing..

you are a mad man.

DropsMic:
All go be northerners

if they are northerners u think they can sack them. Southerners killing southerners. Aboki will never dig their own grave.

ignis:
Abeg shift.

u don sniff weed?