₦airaland Forum

ignis:
Who are the us? Abeg me and you no come from same place biko

sit down there they cry of loan abokis have been benefitting for long.

ignis:
My brothers from the north will use the loan for marriage.

northern people have been benefitting from this type of loan over 10yrs now in which we from the south no know. Aboki people are using d money for d main purpose if u don't know. It is people like u will first go and purchase an expensive phone and start show off. For your information,no cash will be given to u as loan. Nirsal bank is wise

EyezofGod120:
make d loan reach 3m ,,so dat person go fit japa o

u be small boy. U think nirsal bank nah mumu. Cash will not be given to u directly. They will purchase what u need for your business on your behalf.

Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

what a lucky you. Don't you know you are free from bondage.

Kobojunkie:
1. I don't follow!

2. God didn't set virtue as a standard for women, so I don't understand why you associate that with God.

3. Well, your belief is not according to God as it seems you cling more to opinions of men ignoring God's very Law in all. Your beliefs seem no different from Islam which is also tailored to the whims of humans -human will - and not God's Will, Jesus Christ.

you are talking out of point. You argue blindly.

Kobojunkie:
1. It doesn't really matter where you do your weddings since they are not commanded of God.

2. Jesus Christ never said anything about laying strong foundation in your marriage this since Jesus Christ instead said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36.

Also your marriage does not take place when your Pastors do your wedding, in God's eyes, you are married from the point the man agrees with the woman and are joined as one. So those ceremonies and the pronouncements of your Pastors mean nothing.

3. Anyone who submits in marriage either to man or woman does so against Jesus Christ aka antiChrist. Submission in marriage is born of the curse God placed on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16, and it is that same curse that God sent Jesus Christ to redeem man and marriage from - John 3 vs 16 - 21. So any man and woman who continue to chose the curse of submission is marriage, outrightly reject Jesus Christ by their choice.

Did I say it's a must you marry in a church. You are reading posts out of context. You saw a woman that posted a comment and all are comments was related to not want to commit sin. Anywhere u come across d word sin. U have to relate it with God. Abi do people commit sin against d govt? U can never be a virtuous woman unless u put God or gods into consideration. I relate to d post according to my religion and belief. My belief tells me men should love their wife and wife, submit to your husband. When these is followed in a marriage. There is going to be love and peace in d marriage. Two masters can live under d same roof. No man will love a wife who disrespect him. This law is natural. Even if both are not religious,non Christian or Muslim. So far u practice something like what relates to what d Bible says about marriage. U can have break up. Why will a woman decided to leave d marriage just as if is a boyfriend girlfriend thing. Apart from when it has turn to violent.

oluplus:
Is this necessary?
Who made you a judge over her life? Why not join her in prayer rather than asking if she truly has christ or not.

why are u pained seeing Christ name in my post. If u are married u will understand better. I believe u saw her post talking about not wan to commit sin. Was it not inside a church she got married? Did d pastor who joined them together mention Buhari's name or devil's name. Jesus Christ talked about laying strong foundation in marriage and if u fail to practice this guide rules. U going to have a broken home. So I don't know why u are annoyed when u saw Christ. A lover of Christ will definitely submit to her husband. A man who practice what Christ says will definitely love his wife. So if u remove what d Bible or Quran says about marriage, expect brake up.

I am surprised nobody talked about the account name that got d money. Easter blessing Odion. Can't you tack that name?

Baba40:
I think she left the husband instead the way she left was on a bitter note... Her pride wont let her go back to beg, yet, the olosho is shouting God

the truth is that most women believed that so far they are going to church or calling God's name they can't be wrong. What me I know is a man can never leave a good wife. Most of these single mother caused their own problem. Though I know some men do Bleep up and most of d Bleep up is having extra marital affairs outside. Most of these women leave d husband may be because of temporary financial problem. If a man can marry u when u don't have anything,why did u leave him when he has problem. All of them do come online blaming men. Remember there is God watching all of us because I know if your daughter in-law should treat your son this same way. U will not tolerate it.

Bomboiy:
The way penaldo fanboys dey celebrate this tie with North Macedonia Sha.


The fact that you people are scared of Italy shows that your goat is finished. But the joy of World cup is that you can't escape the big boys.



Op said pendu had an extraordinary game, LMAO by extraordinary game you mean waiting for rebound and tapin? Penaldo didn't even contribute anything, Bernardo Silva and Jota are the best Portuguese players in the world right now, penaldo coming a distant third.

u go just kill yourself hating Ronaldo. Many of your type who have been hating him over a decade ago have accepted the guy is good. There is nothing u can do about it. He has broken many records. Appreciate what is good and stop giving yourself headache

Quality20:
just go out there and get a man far better than him to marry

how did you finalise d husband is d one at fault. U are not a good judge

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

if u want to live without sin. Go and settle with your husband. Because if u are a good wife, husband will never leave you. Secondly

madone:
Just make sure u remarry. You will be fine . Keep urself beautiful

is that your solution for her. To re marry. What of if she is d problem. By d time she realise it,she must make re marry like 4 times.

Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

if you truly have Christ in you. I don't believe u will have such problem in your marriage. A real man never leave a wife who truly have Christ. Though u can be church goer and not really God's like
Go and settle with your husband.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are no longer married to him so it would be sin.
2. What is sin is the lust in your heart that usually comes before or during the acts themselves.

3. There is nothing natural about those desires or you would be born lusting from your very birth. You develop these desires over time and as such can also chose to control them rather than allow them control you.

I think we all know what is meant by sexual lust and that is what Jesus Christ said is sin.

you don't know what u are saying. She said they are only separated not divorced.

MangekyoAlt:
I just love the way the russians spell it out for fools from the west. CNN should pass the news make e go round make everybody know the kind gbege wey dem go dey if them do their wuru wuru for where russia dey. Russia is not Iran, or north Korea.
Russia is letting them know now that, that "no first use policy" e no apply to them.
If you do anyhow and you attack them in your numbers which you have been preparing to do for the last 30 years now, all of una go collect Nukes back to back to back. And nothing go sup. If them make pim russia go release on them again after'all the Nukes plenty wella

Meanwhike, It is now that I'm even comprehending the doctrine of the Russians. All these "spending 300 billions to build new aircrafts and aircraft carriers" is not really something they're doing again.

If you noticed, they are investing heavily on missiles. All Russian missiles have very long range, they can reach all countries in the world and each can carry both nuclear and conventional warheads.
Whats the use of aircrafts if missiles can do the trick?
All in all, na Japan I dey laugh e be lyk say na Japan Russia go use test their Bulava nuclear submarine launched ICBM or Yars-24 ICBM

you be mumu I swear. So u believe Russia. It is only a threat. Even they can't use a nuclear weapon a size of a milk tin. Putin will be dealt with by many countries.

XXXXTENTACION:
CNN Elder...
do you know how many years U.S.A spent invading Afghanistan..

keep quiet Mr dumb. US did not invade Afghanistan to kill Afghans. They had a mission to eliminate and fight against terrorists in that state. US was only their to fight some groups of terrorist is is even more difficult than d conventional war like what is happening in Ukraine. Putin invading Ukraine is not about terrorism. For your mind u think US can not finish d whole of Afghanistan in a week. For your information,US did not invade Afghanistan to kill d citizens unlike d Russians so get this in your dumb skull. Terrorism is an international crime so it was not only the US army that was in Afghanistan during d invasion.
Stop comparing US invasion of Afghanistan with d Putin aggression war.

XXXXTENTACION:
what are you even saying self....

The day you become a soldier is the day you sign your death warrant...


what of zelensky the comedian that endangered millions of people when he could have simply made peace with Russia...

why are u so stupid. So because they have signed their death warrant by joining military,they should not apply wisdom. Why do u think US and some Europe did not join the combat. Because they can't afford to send their special forces to foolish war. After regretting sending their military to Afghanistan. They have learnt their lesson. U sit down inside your roof saying they have signed their death warrant. What do u know about d war sef

Amza07:
I tried no one help all on promise because they don't really like her but I
Love her and friends are now happy am jobless see this life is something else.

let me tell you d truth. If your wife had developed good relationship with your family and friends. Nobody will blame or hate her. A wife that is friendly with your family and friends will always be loved even if she made mistake. The issue of this modern wife is they want to do me and my husband. They like to scare your family and friends away from you. With this, when u are faced with any problem, nobody nobody will come to help you financially due to your wife attitude. A friendly wife who accommodate husband family and friends no matter what will always be loved back. A man must be very wise to manage your his wife or a bad wife will turn u against all friends.

orohbiro:
You bought her gift then she break ur heart or u guys have quarrel or she rejected ur proposer u went ahead to collect your gift u are a weak man not a strong man.
In fact u not a gentle man u are not qualify to be a man in the ist place.
If u are doing that u should stop it is embarrassing

you be idiot. I will collect everything to d last penny if a woman Bleep up. U can say whatever u like. I can see women like u are ungrateful . Reason u post this.

2:2 of 20yrs ago is today's first class. 2:1 wey every people dey get easily. Yahoo boys with 2:1. Olosho with 2:1

SSARS:
But come to think of it, don't you think you're taking this things too far. Say all you like but women are also wonderful and we have them to than for a lot of the things we enjoy today,

here's an example if not for a woman some tribes in Nigeria might still be dumping innocent new born twins in some evil forest or so

Another example: everyday you wake up and you're glad but you seem to have forget that if not for a woman you wouldn't be here

My point is Man you need to learn to show Women some respect including single mothers that you seem to detest so much

Stop brainwashing a lot of the kids here to hate women or else you'll turn them to bitter souls

Sometimes you sound like a sadist who is depressed

my guy u never understand what d poster mean. When we talk about mother. We are talking about old mother's. Not these nonsense women we have around us now. No reasonable woman will leave her husband because he's broke. U are only saying d physical enjoyment u derive from them.

talk2hb1:
How About Those Whose Husband Died?

how many of them their husband died. Even most of them lied their husband died while their husband is still living. Even the one d husband truly died have good character. 98% of single mother are irresponsible but they will want to be nice to their boyfriends. If they are bad to d father of their children,they can't be good to u. All what they do is pretend. D poster said d truth. If anyone thinks d poster said rubbish, d person no sabi anything

SarkinYarki:
I stay in a 4 bedroom Duplex in an upscale part of Lagos and yes I own it ...Where do you stay sir?

if u dey stay in a clay house will u tell me u are staying there.. Naija with bragging. U dat is staying in face me I slap u. Come my area come live in a nice house on 6 plots of land. Not that your place u can't even pack a car

SarkinYarki:
Probably a CIA insert pretending to be a journalist

nah you enlist him in CIA? U sitting in your one room apartment saying he was a CIA agent.

Maobichek:
Good morning, if you go through my comments you would realize that I'm not Messi fan but it highly unnecessary bringing Messi into Man U /Tot match.

Record showed that Cr7 now have 806 league goals so what one achieve counts in football, Cr7 with the highest league goals and Messi with French league title is still a win-win for both of them, thank you.

many soccer organisation have praised him for this amazing achievement and records. So who are u to be saying negative talk about his goals. So to u all d previous awards and trophies he got no be achievement to you. My guy stop d hate this is not good for u. If someone is good is good. If Ronaldo have not rescued Man U with that 3 goals. I bet u will be among of those who will criticise him. Now he scored u still said negative things about him. If your eyes see great things make u dey happy. Stop hating him.

4teenblaq:
What did cr7 do when started playing for man utd that mbappe have not done?

Are you counting goals abi na trophy?

I don't really know what point you are trying to drive with my age along with what mbappe and cr7 have done at a point in time.

so now you are now comparing mpappe with Ronaldo. That is good of u. Now u accepted Messi is not in contention any more.

Ibrahimmrfish:
Who is mumu,the one that argue with facts or the one that argue with insults? Since you are too lazy to research by yourself,try googling the number of sucide bombing in Iraq b4 U.S invasion,in Palestine b4 the creation of Israel.

Isreal existed before u were born. Most of u Muslim bigot attached religion sentiment to Russia and Ukraine war. Russia does not know u exist at all. Don't blame US for d war in Iraq. Are u going to blame US for d killings, banditry , kidnapping and terrorism in Nigeria too. Every nation that is dominated by Muslims are all war zone. So stop blaming US for Islamic terrorism. Blame your Quran that teaches violence everywhere. Russia does not need your support.

angelEmade:
Lol shows how poor you, ur friend ur family and ur papa is. I attend a university occupying 150th position in world ranking. No Nigerian medical college is in the 1st 1000
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And mumu guy I spend thousands here without complain and live the life I want. You can cry to your wretched family
Be letting small piking insult and disgrace you all over social media lol
By the way canadians and Newyorkers are in my class�

despite u attended this school,u still dey reason like mumu. What have u achieved despite going to that school. Wastes resources. Your mate went to Harvard University they no brag. 90% of covenant University graduate here in Nigeria are better than u. Stop taking hard drug. It will destroy you. Better leave Russia if u want better career for yourself. Ghana is better than where you are

4teenblaq:
How do you guys think sef.. Making claims and assertions based on sentiment.

Ronaldo didn't score up to 140 goals at the age of 24.

At the age of 23, mbappe has had 201 goals..


We have prospects for that, that is upcoming players, that will do more than Messi and cr7.

You have to watch out, Cr7/Messi are not gods/aliens, they are humans, there will be someone greater coming in the next generation.

Before Cr7/lm10, we had Ronaldo, Ronaldihno, kaka, Carlos, eto.

Ronaldo9, Ronaldihno, kaka etc were gods during their times just like we are having cr7/LM.

No dey reason like that, next 10 years you go dey see different magicians.

this is d reason I ask for your age. U never started watching soccer when Ronaldo sign Man U. Because if u have started, u will not be saying all these

4teenblaq:
I can see you are having a pick on me..

Let me tell you something.

After hundreds of goals and a million hatricks, you goat is never winning a cup this season, just have it in mind.

Will be taunt like ibrahimovic with no CL TROPHY.

is it not better to feel d impact of a player in a team than just be in a farmer's club like a figure head. How many goals your Messi has this season compare to mpappe? If it should be Ronaldo in PSG. What do u think will happen. Ronaldo is d only player in d world that get blamed even if he score hatrick. I imagine how Ronaldo would have been ridiculed if nah him be Messi without goal in PSG. Psg won all its league matches without Messi.

sotall:


He hasn't scored since several matches ...but because he scored two now, we no go hear word!

say that to Messi who never scored for so long. Hater