₦airaland Forum

resurgent4oodua:
I personally feel a man should have all the sex he can and forget about the affection of women. Women will always come when a man come into his own (arrives). A man should take meticulous interest in his work (job) and try and better himself generally. All pussy are the same. What differentiates women is character and worldview. Women are totally not worth it except for producing babies.

#no pun intended.

No better words...You can lose money chasing women but you can never lose women while chasing money. Focus on your job and business and see them hovering over you.

gen2lpat:
I keep saying it, the problem with some people is that they feel so comfortable with one source of income. Why? Ever since I got my job (started with 30k) back in 2013, I started looking for an alternative source of income until I found one in 2016. FREELANCING. Domain flipping is like an investment where the returns is uncertain. I suggest you start with Vanzal and Beatzone fiverr thread here on Nairaland.

If can be thinking of resigning come December this year, then trust me when I tell you that freelancing is one of many sure ways to make money online. I do hope you consider this. Good luck

Nice advise. I'd like to send u a PM pls.

Ogalanyaidi:
Hello Nairalanders.

Seriously I feel I've been used and will need your advice. I need to be told the truth.

I am a Nigerian living and studying in Canada. I've been here for 2years. I was introduced to this black American lady, we exchanged calls, texts and emails for about 4 months before I arranged for her to meet me in canada. She relocated from US and we've been living together for 10 months now. Before her arrival, I helped her secure a job while she was still offshore, I got her a car, got a befitting apartment. Yes I paid her flight ticket to Canada paid for her visa fee, international passport because until that time, she was a first time traveler. An action I regret so bad. No doubt she cooks for me, does all domestic chores by herself.

My thought was that her coming was gonna make things easier for me as we'll both work to build our life's together but the reverse is the case. For 8months I paid the rent and bills myself as she was very reluctant to work but could sit for hours playing play station 4. I always reminded her of the need to work so as to help me but she would counter me saying ' I don't need help' because she feels that I make alot from my job. I had bad grade in school last semester because I was skipping classes cus I needed to work twice harder. This has created a breach in my visa condition because I'm only entitled to work 20hours a week during academic sessions.

To gain employment here we need certifications or reasonable years of experience. This has pushed few of us to embellish our resume as we claim years of experience we never had in the industry just to get the job. My fiancee insisted that she will not embellish her resume to land a job as it contravenes her morals. My parents, friends and associates waded in but she stood her ground and this has rendered her financially incapacitated and has pushed the responsibilities on me. Many times we ended up fighting, quarrelling and trust me when I say she hit me so hard and few times she had inflicted injuries on me. Her visa doesn't have job limitations because she's allowed to work unlimited unlike me who is a student. She's been here for 10 months and can't boast of having $1000 while many female students pay their tuition, rent, bills themselves and even send money to their parents back in naija. Each time I talk to her about these ladies she is quick to shut me up. She said they have no choice cus we are from a poor country and would do anything to stay.

Fast-forward to July, her one year working visa would end in October and she needs atleast $3500 to pay for her health insurance and visa application. She is helpless as she can't pay this fee. I have politely asked her to return back to her country but she isn't buying the idea because she claims to love me so much but in reality, she's homeless cus she has been squatting with friends and relatives. Her recent excuse is that she found out that my ex was still calling me and this made her depress.

My understanding is that she is a very lazy lady full of excuses because she wasn't used to hardwork even in her country. She wants comfort and luxury but doesn't want to pay the price. She is now pleading with me to support her so she could pay. During our quarrels, she nags me and insults me that I lied on my resume to secure a job. My fiancee has been feeding and living on the same job she said I lied about my experience.

I'm from a very humble background. For the past 2 months, my parents moved to our yet to be completed building with no toilet. I explained this situation to my fiancee and her mother but the mother adviced that my parents can use plastic buckets.(what an advice). I asked her mother if she uses bucket to poo over there in America.

Now I've asked her to get the money for her visa fee and health insurance herself because I will not contribute anything as i think its unfair for her to keep spending from an income she is opposed to but she tells me that God had forgiven me.

How could I've known that this babe I thought was coming to help me wil become a thorn on my flesh. She wants luxury she doesn't travel via train she would prefer driving the car to the toilet and kitchen if permitted. As at today, she has about 4 driving fines unpaid.

James hope say no be u for canada be this'd. Mr OP i hope u're really OK. You paid for her expenses to come to Canada and your parents moved into an uncompleted house. Her mother also had the audacity to tell your parents to use a plastic bucket. Oyinbo juju strong no be small. Thunder fire you OP.

kestolove95:
person no go fuvk in peace again?..

Bad child

The guy should patent this against theft

kunleajaye:
Of course I want her. She's my wife and I love her to bits. I know I'm not a perfect human being. No one is perfect. I also have faults in this but I'm willing to talk this out. At times i wish we hadn't come to the United States cos we were very happy before we came here.

Was it the same lady that ditched u when u were incarcerated? Went through ur topics

Tadeus:
Always at your service

How much delivery to Lagos for Honda discussion continues 2007 model as clean as the one in the picture with original custom papers

The man don suffer

biacan:
Men are heartless.......... how dare you do these to a lady ? what kind of disrespectful man is that......? That's why I tell my friends make sure you marry a man who truly loves you who worship you......a man who is ready to take a bullet for you.......

No be only bullet plus grenade

[quote author=Ymodulus post=62324780][/quote]Mai gida. Been trying to reach u. Sent a PM mo reply. It's important Dan Allah. Thanks bro

Ymodulus:
Sad truth is this is not a business. Business of this likes do not prompt growth. They kill innovation and growth and eventually death.

Am sorry bro. But in all congratulations

Mai gida kwana biyu. Dan allah send me a PM. Sent last week but no reply yet and ur email is not delivering. Na gode

Dclique:
See a picture of TSTV Decoder

Nice one. I thought it was black and kind of flat. Whats the difference btw this one and the black decoder

Akwadefender1:
Define desperation and point to one Nigerian politician who is not

i am beginning to see things from your view, all the things i have against atiku are superficial. i think its the media that caused it, i may go with him

ritababe:
oh well from Adam she denied him of sex claiming Virgin Mary and now she just explode.
honestly if am in his shoe I wont take it lightly, we broke up many times because u don't want sex and me on the other hand think u are a Virgin that's why u don't want sex not knowing you've been doing it from my back, so why claim holy all this while?
now that she heard marriage she has started confessing.

Thank you for seeing the real issue here. If she has been having sex with her guy fine but u said no sex and went ahead to sleep with at least two other men is not acceptable. You have the answer already OP

Run for your damn life. She will never stop cheating with that same man. Marriage doesnt change anything

jjjjj2017:
blackface sef dey talk? man don suffer

;DBurnt amala. Don't mind her

HiddenShadow:
No, they should remain in the North and die

IPOB should pressure the UN to conduct Referendum

idiot, it is the members of your family that will die and be used to get the referendum. bloody vagabond

A meme is born

it will still fail, they will never learn.

mfm04622:
Have you worked with any CU graduate? I have not but I have worked with 2 that came to do IT in my office. The difference is clear! I don't doubt this

. I stand with you on that, I think in programming and IT field they are really good

Thank you for what?..

what i can see are graduates who ruined d nation, probably except d president. nonsense!!!!

Nuellah:
Wow. Do u hv an idea if anoda batch resumed after u guys?

at all..no batch yet after ours. Although they're already writing aptitude test..Abuja TS is empty as I speak

stainlessnature:
It's like u spent 5 months in TS. Tot u resumed may 3rd.
I will also like to know, are u from any state in d north?

at all bro..we resumed June 8 and rounded up October 2..four months yes, I'm from the north

Nuellah:
How far dear? Pls are u guys done with TS?

sure ..rounded up October 2..resuming October 19th.

[quote author=oluwafemi113 post=38208919][/quote]Nice one..

TheBae:
Congrats to all TRV choppers and success to all TRV hopefuls. Keep the faith alive.
You can PM if you're coming to Halifax and you need help settling down, I'll be more than happy to help.
@Funmi14 sorry I haven't contacted you since, I just got a phone so you can send me your lady's contact so I can call her and maybe hook up this weekend.

I have sent u a mail, I will be coming to halifax jan since u re in halifax u re in d best position to tell wasup. Thanks expectin ur reponse

berexio1:
Are u looking 4 a room mate?

Yes

Hello house, anyone going to halifax or staying there. Pls I need help concerning accommodation cos I will be coming in late december or early january, is it possible for me to secure a place now because I heard finding accommodation during winter is kinda difficult. Pls advice

gedtalks:
Please advice:

I applied for study permit for fall start session somewhat late (I applied on July 24; the school resumes on September 8 ). I am scared it might be not be processed before the school resumption date. Therefore I am considering deferring my admission till winter (January 2016).

If I defer my admission from fall to winter, will I still be required to do an entirely new study permit application for this purpose? or will they accept to withhold my application till If I obtain a new admission letter; it will take 6 weeks to obtain a new letter of admission for winter.

If it's a two year program, no need to worry just defer but make sure d school sends u a new admission letter.

[quote author=azimibraun post=37225151]Timubu is Corrupt Tinubu is Corrupt... So they say.. If I don't join them, they will call me clueless.. That's the ordinary Nigerian talking.

Tinubu spent the most part of his tenure as governor fighting OBJ, he wasn't so much with Yardua, had a brief rosy relationship with GEJ and spent a longer period of GEJ's administration fighting GEJ. When exactly did he steal all this huge sums he is being accused of and why won't the ruling party at the center he was always quarelling with never got him to face corruption charges? [/quote
] Because of this comment I just hate u even without knowing you, foolish zombie