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@luvinhubby Good day. Pls what’s the price for complete front shaft for Honda DC 06.
Kindly also advise as I have replaced my fuel pump twice in the last two months. The car goes off in motion or refuses to restart atimes when I switch off the car briefly to get something on the way. Thank you.

Julietayoola:
Pls can you add me to the Sterling alternative WhatsApp group my number 08185702932

Hello, pls have u been added to the group. My kid bro made it to the final stage with the head of HR, any tips on what to expect?

Lamanii22:
Why's everyone thinking the same way... I kinda agree with the OP though... A man should take care of his woman... I believe there are still good women who wouldn't take your giving for granted...

This ur point will only be valid if the woman also earns and also takes care of her man, anything aside this is BS. We also want to be taken care of.

NoToPile:
You see ehn I am still waiting for the day a male will open a thread on nairaland and talk about the bolded how they too can take some nurturing responsibility.


Its just simple women are not wired to provide, its against the natural order,now that she's providing ( it makes sense for a woman to work nowadays) will you help out in the nurturing? No response from NL males, anyway reality is always different lots of guys in real life are beginning to shape up.


Thats why I laugh so hard when people people bash moniker Ybaby she's right on the point that men are to PROVIDE and PROTECT simple, dance around it, ignore it, call it another name but the fact doesn't change. I may not agree with all her points but hey she's right on this provider issue.

Your submission lacks substance. The same women that cry for lack of equal opportunities in the workplace are the ones saying women are not supposed to work or provide. You just want to sit at home all day, cook, eat, fart and give birth. What if ur husband dies or is brought down with a terminal illness and cannot work. Who will feed you. What exactly are u then using your brain for, just sitting at home wasting a highly versatile organ like the brain.
Your fellow women are making big discoveries and leading big organisations and u are here wasting away. Shame on you. Its not too late to change though that's if u choose to use your brain and make amends.

pawn89:
This is surprising, honestly; you bring in 100k+ monthly into the family and also have a side hustle going on for you, your wife asks you to make more and you raised your hands on her ?

I think you need to apologize to your wife, that your wife is asking you to do some more hustling is not an act of disrespect, if anything, she wants you to succeed and to raise financial status of your own family.

Please do the needful, swallow your pride; she's your wife, and if she wants you to hustle more and you think you are out of ideas you can just as well ask her for inputs and for you to evaluate the ideas she brings in.

Behind every successful man, there's a woman; this is because, women are attracted to wealth and people with purpose, actionable plan and visions and can translate that purpose to wealth with some help from them.

Apologize to her, mend the broken wall and save your marriage

PS: If you get very upset, just take a walk, its therapeutic, I do it and by the time you return, everyone's emotion will be on check and tempers would have cooled down

Beautiful nonsense. Women are attracted to wealth so why don't they work and make the wealth let's see if its easy to make money. He earns money and still has side hustles what else do you want him to do. Maybe he should use you or the wife for money rituals then.
Stop encouraging lazy women who see marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme. Encourage them to use their brains more often and stop making useless excuses on the basis of being women.

jadyclem:
One mistake most guys make when going into relationship is convincing or begging women to date them. You put yourself in a very bad position when you do that. Also, relationship should be a mutual support institution. Your wife didn't do you any favour by leaving her ex to marry you. It was her decision and she has no right to blame you for her poverty.

If you couldn't uplift her financially, why haven't her uplifted herself and even you financially. Woman should stop blaming men for their lack of ambition and inability to liberate themselves from poverty. You are both meant to up life each other. Beside, na the same head wey you get and hands na im she still get. Na her loss say she left her ex. Also watch her because should she have the opportunity she might start cheating on you with the ex if the ex wants to play a game with her.

Don't get yourself worked up because of her disrespectful comments, go on with your life and keep the hustling fire burning. You marry woman wey marry you to alleviate her poverty; not someone that wants to hustle with you and build with you until you make am. So bear your cross en! ndoo en!

Thank you for this intelligent submission. I blame the husband for using sex to win her over and also for marrying someone who brings nothing to the table. Women like Oby Ezekwesili, Dora Akunyili, Dieazani, Stella Oduah, Bola Shagaya are all doing well in their respective fields, why can't she be like them. Some of these ladies just want to get married and get fat at home with no ambition. Life will teach them lessons they might never recover from.

LegalOpinion:
You are 100% correct. The amount of money a man makes is directly proportional to the quality of love and attention he receives from his wife. Only pretentious people will argue against this position.

The wives of rich men who are happily married today and displaying that happiness, are more terrible except that money has eliminated their nonsense.

What exactly are you trying to encourage. Don't u see this as problem. That a woman will pretend to love u when there is money and decide to let hell loose when you go broke. What happens if the so-called rich men get into a bad deal and loose their money or business just goes south. Will you now encourage the wives to remarry or give him hell at home.
I don't know the kind of home u grew up in, but i grew up in a home where money was never determinant of my mothers attitude towards my father. Come rain, come shine her attitude never changed for once.
Let's be guided pls and encourage these ladies to use their brains more often.

You went through hell to get to heaven. May joy never cease. Amen

LadyGA:
Your wife was meant to be your help mate....

Seeing you through your trying times at least she had. Job,yeah it can be stressful sometimes with the pressure and all but then as your wife she should have been able to see the potentials in you...and keep going but then I guess she broke off along the line and became inpatient....

That's why it's important to marry who truly likes you that way when u fall they stick by you against all odds.

I can't believe such is coming from a lady. With this mentality, you will surely have a good home and may God give u a man worthy of u.

Ybaby:
Such a sad story. Glad you are doing well.

See women are not good at paying a man's bills. We are not wired that way.

She starts seeing such a man as a child.

Once a man stops seeing the woman as his bread winner - the way will open for him like it opened for OP.

Young men get money! there is a financial clock for men.

OP, happy for you.

Your submission stinks to the high heavens. Didn't you read where he said he was also making his own little contributions. You ladies taught yourselves to be selfish. Trials come and go. You can possess the whole world and lose it in a second.
You ladies just need to use ur brains more often and know that life is not a bed of roses.

sotyuzono:
I bought same refrigerator yesterday, I'm experiencing the same thing.
Midea right?

Yes bro. Its Midea. Have to return it and picked a newer model.

I doubt if a human being can do this to his own wife and family. You are the devil's incarnate if this true. No advise for you. You deserve to be alone.

Lokoyen:
It is not faulty that is how dey do it. I sold mine with annoyance. You will enjoy the downpart during cold weather or raining season.

But its abnormal. The lower and upper part is meant to be cooling regardless of the weather.

AngryIgboMan:
What do some people mean by the down part is not supposed to be cool?

I had this kind of fridge before and everything cools.

The lower part doesn't cool at all. Even drinks remain warm no matter how long the fridge is in use.

d33types:
Wow. I bought this same model as yours in 2014 with this same issue. though mine can be a bit cold but not as it should be.

So how did u resolve the issue pls. Did u exchange it with another one or used it like that.

maxdozie:
If you can't contact them.... Post a picture of fridge with the both doors open.. so I can tell you what to do

This is it

Kaybaba5:
Post the pic of the refrigerator.....

For us to know what to say

OK...will do that once my network is stable. Thanks

Ristamike:
I think you should take it back to where you got it and have another one.
Hope you have the warranty?

Yes I do. I will take it back. Thanks

CHUPEZ123:
Actually you bought a faulty freezer, from what you narrated this shows there is a leakage from the copper used in the freezer..... Send it back from were you bought......

I thought as much. Will do that once this lockdown is relaxed. Thanks

maxdozie:
The upper part is the freezer, it's meant to freeze stuffs. While the lower part is just meant to be cold..

That's the problem bro. The lower part doesn't cool at all. Its just warm

Hello all.
I bought a new refrigerator about four days ago. However, the lower part of the refrigerator does not cool. I have tried adjusting the regulator severally even to the max to no avail.
The freezer cools and freezes food and drinks but the lower part remains warm.
Kindly advise.

PS: I don't use a stabilizer on the fridge, I plug it directly to the power source.

Sharon1997:
In my opinion , men will spend when a woman is worth it, and a woman will give sex when a man worth it.EOD.

But leaving gender out some people are naturally very stingy from their mother's womb, and they bring this terrible trait into relationships.So being in a relationship with one especially if it's the guy is frustrating .

You were making sense until you came to the second paragraph. Who says it should be only the guy doing the giving in the relationship. That's why I advocate for broke men and ladies to stay away from relationships until they have a source of income. Nobody owes you nothing. You want money for anything, work for it. One love.

emmaodet:
I 100% agree with you.
There is an Insatiable Appetite for Pvssy and more Pvssy by men, i don't know if it is either a Curse or not because it is not natural.
Men spend through their nose just to keep sleeping with women day in day out. To some, it as become a Hobby or a way of Life or a Source of Joy or Addiction.
Here in prodeco camp in Onne-Ph, ladies charge or get $100/night to sleep with Experts or Oyinbo. $100 fvcking dollars - #36,000 for a night pvssy for God sake.
By the time you factor in the cost of lodging in prodeco per night of 30-40k per night plus entertainment - eating expensive Buffet and expensive wine, then 100k may likely be wasted for a night all in the Name of sexx.
Men are something else, when with money, the urge for sex can never be satisfied.
We also settle waaaaayyyyy for less all in the name of sexx.
A man is ready to marry a broke, jobless and unproductive woman just because she has fine face and sure of regular sex while the average woman will Never do that.

Well said bro...but times have changed, men are now wiser and refuse to settle for a jobless woman no matter how pretty. She must bring something to the table, beauty doesn't pay the bills. Marriage in this dispensation is now a game and two can play...

poetictwenty:
it cost nothing to be optimistic...l like ur faith bro... Again, I overheard one of the naval officer in my exam venue saying that list will be out by late December or early January. #keep hope alive

Do you mean the exam score or which of the lists

Headlesschicken:
I would repeat what i said before, that dix gal must be from Nnewi or Awka etiti,why don't u start d argument within yuh family,to know y yuh mum took yuh dad's surname, that could v gone a long way to help u...

���� Are you trying to say she should question her family first before questioning us��

LuciferProphet:
Give me her lower half for keepsake.
Bury the rest.

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Mad man

michlins:
I don't understand how this should come as a surprise to us Nigerians


All feelers indicated that the election would be postponed

You predicted this 4days ago..how did you know this

StArusi:
Asisat, u will score more when Atiku wins on Saturday. I have noticed that this #Kwankwasiyya movement is 200% loyal to Kwankwaso. They love him. How did he do it? What is the secret behind it?Red Cap revolution is more than just a movement.This is a religion. A 4 unit course that should be studied in our universities ,polytechnics and Colleges of Education. D crowd is scary.

Bro those guys are ready to die for him. I don't know what he did for them to warrant such unrivalled loyalty

SIMPLYkush:
Nothing cute here, only see three ugly beasts, who through their useless mom are selling their pussy

Lol this guy is everywhere...always looking forward to your funny comments

Lmao this man na clown

anochuko01:
big lie ma. at 25, a guy is thinking of renting a house and leave his parents, while a girl at that same age is just waiting for a guy who'll come marry her from her father's house. thats the difference...
Most ladies hardly have a good when they marry. Whereas, if the guy isnt working then no marriage.
Dont even compare

Don't mind them. Guys are supposed to hustle after school while the ladies are supposed to only look beautiful so they can get married. That's why we men will continue to call the shots and the feminist talk will never see the light of the day