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kombats:
25 - 34 years

If this is honestly and truly the age range that forms a majority of people that are on Nairaland, then Nigerians are undoubtedly gigantic moooooorons!

This survey should be showing that majority of people on NL are 16 and below.

BAAAAAAASTARD CROOKS!!!

Dem don kill Kwara and leave the people in abject poverty.

What makes it an "Executive" 5 bedroom?

Which kin executive dey stay dis kind house?

Agbero executives?

KossyKiss97:
The wicked runs when no man pursueth him

That is religious jargon.

In business, they call it: Flight for quality!

KossyKiss97:
On the contrary, my marriage is sealed and tight proof by the blood of Jesus. Our lives are hid with God in Christ Jesus. It will last for a verrry long time till Jesus comes, in bliss, sweetness and absolute success.

Every tongue that rises up against me is condemned in Jesus name. AMEN

Dey foool yourself!

Na only you don profess Jesus name before?

Sex between you two has definitely declined or is almost none existent. He don see you finish, he is not attracted to the same eba everyday anymore. He wants fried rice and tuwo shikafa for a change for God sake.

Fresh ones at that.

Why will any sane man with prospects want to be sexing a woman in her late 30s that he has been gbenshing for almost a decade and bodi don go, when he can have some early 20s girl with UCL bodi that will wear some tight fitting outfit and look delicious?

Give the poor guy your approval jor. He deserves it if you really love him and care about his happiness.

SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE! Give your man back his happiness.

Berankis:
"Stupid analogy", only to a stupid minded one.

Foolish people don't know how to utilise analogies.

KossyKiss97:
Eyah!!! The story of your life is what you just told us. Now we know why your marriage CRASHED!!!

Anyway, like I mentioned earlier, these habits that destroyed your previous marriage, ensure you dont take them into your new one. That's if at all you have plans to, because I am too convinced with these attitudes and habits of yours, you can ever have a successful marriage.
Not in your life! Marriage for you will continue to be a MONUMENTAL FAILURE!

Aunty, you marriage is doomed from the beginning.

I know it! You know it! You are just full of self-deceit and you are living on thin hopes.

You know it is inevitable the man go dey smash outside, you have to accept it. There is nothing you can do about it.

Not accepting it is the beginning of the end, and you will just end up bitter and alone, darling.

KossyKiss97:
Mr Divorcee. Its now obvious why you are ranting all over social media. Perhaps if you had devoted just a quota of the time you spend here to making your marriage work, your wife would not have left your miserable self.

Make sure you work your next marriage out, because marriage is not a bed of roses. To build a successful empire, business, and even marriage, you must put in effort.

Omo, you no be rose and no matter the effort you put, na rapid decline in looks (from an already low level) you go face. So you know your husband is gbenshing and will gbensh outside.

Just don't let your ego be high.

Give him and space and freedom to gbensh the oloshos outside wey carry serious package and he might think you are not that much of a bad deal to stay with as long as you keep the home steady.

Just beg him not to make your children have step-siblings with a woman that will give you wahala.

You have no option. The alternative na old age with love from your kids while you are alone.

KossyKiss97:
For your information OGA, I have been married for 7 years, and I make bold to say that my marriage is successful by the grace of God. That you have a failed marriage does not mean that the whole universe will also have failed marriages. You don't have to discourage people who are planning to get married either, simply because your marriage is a disaster.

When you finally divorce, you know no one will want you that is why you are panicking and trying to promote marriage because "he must not leave you".

Calm down! Nothing is wrong with being alone. Don't be so afraid.

swedbase:
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Very correct and Ben is aware of that hence he want to do it Nigerian way. They weren't married in UK and are not registered partners either why do you want us to divorce in UK? Imagine she relocated with their children without his agreement. Things like this makes me support guys that leaves their wives in Africa.

That is why he is already claiming he was depending on siblings and friends to fend for him, he has sold his properties and he did not have a place to stay for five years and was living in my sister’s house.

So when any court wants to address the case in the UK "I am broke".

Beggars!

But they will still have 8 children each and hope Allah will raise and provide for them.

Her reaction: “I’m still bearing the name of my husband; I am known as Mrs. Ifeoma Akwuegbu so how can I have filed as a single parent? He has been telling people that I’m with other men, which is not true. It is because he has another woman and is looking for a way to discredit me. I am a qualified nurse and I work and earn money to take care of our children. Is it the 50 or 100 Dollar that he sends that will take care of us? Every month I pick bills of over 3000 Pounds.”

I don't know about the truth in what he is saying but I am sure from this quote that she is a liar.

If she is indeed a nurse in the UK, there is no way she can earn enough after 8 years experience to afford a "over £3,000" monthly expense. She cannot even have up to 8 years experience since she claimed to have been in the UK for 8 years; so she will take at least 3 years out of it to qualify.

So that is a pure lie right there!!! UK nurses are not paid that much to have such disposable income. Except she is a nurse that is also an olosho during her spare time, with men funding her life.

Responding, Ifeoma said: “All I want him to do is to divorce me officially. He has to do it legitimately before marrying another woman. It is because of her he abandoned his wife and children, so I don’t have any problem with that. I am ready to give him a divorce and then we can share the property. That is all I want. I don’t know what he is saying about bride price, his parents did not meet with my people. My parents said some people they don’t know came to the house claiming they are from Ben. They are not his parents. Is that how to go about divorcing your wife?”

This biatch is just trying to get him to come to the UK to divorce her because she knows the sexist UK courts will award her 50% of his hard work and sweat. Something an Austrian or Nigerian court will never do.

Jodha:
Yhure wrong in all ramifications and I don't know where to start from..

envoymedia:
A man has cried out for help on Twitter after he was scammed by a native doctor, IgbereTV reports.

The victim named Seun claims the native doctor "jazzed" him, such that he didn't know what he was doing.

He added that the man gave him things to eat and drink then used fear tactics to make him do his biddings.

He found himself giving the native doctor 7 million naira. He said that the 6 million Naira in the amount is not his own money.

He wrote on his Twitter handle:


https://twitter.com/SeunLogan/status/1335241056271687680?s=19

In a video he shared on his Twitter handle, the victim is seen arresting the native doctor with the help of a soldier.

See video below.

The Black Reeetard deserves to be scammed and lose all his money.

Monkeys should be in the bush not holding cash or any assets.

Jodha:
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The reality is that when a girl is hot and sexy, most likely she does not have a good personality because she has never found the need to develop her personality when her looks gets her all she wants (from good jobs to attention to relationships to free stuff to gifts to social events invitation etc.).

Such girls tend to take their men for granted because they are confident there is another one on the queue to replace him.

So many men will not good interactions/personality needs from such girls on the long term. The only men that will, will be the alpha males who are at the top of the social ladder and the girl feels lucky to have. Ones she will struggle to replace without downgrading.

But these men too do not develop their personalities when hundreds of young fine girls with different bodies are rady to f**k them at the snap of a finger.

Marriages are failed arrangements and doomed institutions. The only way for most to succeed is to compromise on their desires, needs and happiness just to be married.

KossyKiss97:
God forbid! Because your marriage is a FAILURE does not mean other people's marriage are. E-warrior, stop fighting on social media, go home and fight for your marriage.

Madam, stop panicking, face reality and stop telling lies.

Marriage na failed arrangement.

Don't go into it because you are terrified of not being wanted and ending up alone as you grow old.

kingreign:
I don't know you, never met you, I'm not the cause of your misfortunes, pls take your failures and sadistic life away from my lane.


Rubbish and ingredients

Just give am middle finger, that is the simple favour I asked of you.

He has not done well in your life, he deserves it!

yinkbell:
You don't need to regret. Call God into your relationship, He will fix it.

A typical black person!

https://www.nairaland.com/6267414/married-men-asking-single-guys/7#96628322

KossyKiss97:
Well... the fact that you are having a BAD MARRIAGE or in a TERRIBLE RELATIONSHIP does not mean there aren't millions out there who are having a blissful marriage. Its absolutely selfish of you to shove down your experience on other people's throats, and making them think or believe they cannot have a blissful marriage. Speak for yourself and stop the generalization.

Please, for everyone reading this, it's very POSSIBLE to have a good and pleasurable marriage. Dont let anyone deceive you or make you think otherwise.

I rest my case.

Millions ko, Gazillions ni!

More like millions of marriages fail.

Just another woman fighting for marriage because she is panicking.

https://www.nairaland.com/6298872/ever-regretted-being-married-partner/10#96794209

Jodha:
Yhu wrote paragraphs on sex..
And made barely a sentence on personality...

AAAAAHHHH!

Una dey see how women bring unnecessary arguments into ones life?

So it has moved from "anything" to "barely a sentence"?

God dey!

Jodha:
Yhu should goan read yhur post again....

Yhu were talking about how elated a man should be about having sex with his gf....how the feeling should be continuous. ....

Yhu didn't say anything remotely outside sex...

AAAAHHHHH!

See my family's enemies o.

Wetin be this, madam?

Gamesmart:
I get your drift now.

Before you said not "lustful physical appearance", when that is the most important thing to most men.

To have the best chance of successfully attracting, retaining and satisfying a man and his desires, he should feel you are one of the finest things he has seen on planet earth to the point blood rushes to his heart. He has to feel he is very lucky to have ever seen you and for you to even give him a chance to date you. When he is having sex with you, he has to be thinking in his head "Na me dey f**k this fine gal? I can't believe it. I can't believe my luck and that she would even let me. I am truly lucky and blessed. I can f**k her till I die".

The first 10 times he f**ks you, if he does not come way too early at least once, he is either (a) "not that highly excited about f**king you; you are moderately fine or not fine" or (b) "you are fine but not good in bed the way he likes it".

After you get passed that enchantment of his mind, then your personality should seal the deal.

Without lustful physical appearance, you are operating a future relationship starting with batteries that were not fully charged.

You now see how women bring unnecessary arguments into the life of a man?

Jodha:
Mhen yhu pinpointed everything on sex... that's lust...

For a relationship to really...a man must look beyond the sex yhu have to offer him..

Yes he'll be physically attracted to yhu but...if he doesn't see yhu beyond those physical attributes..the relationship is going no where...

For instance....I meet a guy that's physically my total spec....yes I'll be excited at first o....but if the content does not match the container ... there's no need...

That's the problem with relationships today... it's tied by sex and money...and when yhu remove those two things...yhu have nothing...

Oya, explain from my post that you quoted if I said a man should not look beyond sex for relationship.

Jodha:
Lmao..yhu succeeded in twisting everything I said....

I'm not saying physical appearance doesn't matter...it does because that's what will attract yhu to the opposite sex....I won't have any business with someone I'm not physically attracted to...

But I'm saying it should not only be based on that...it should not be based of only how she looks....how the sex is good etc...

Yhu get my drift?

I get your drift now.

Before you said not "lustful physical appearance", when that is the most important thing to most men.

To have the best chance of successfully attracting, retaining and satisfying a man and his desires, he should feel you are one of the finest things he has seen on planet earth to the point blood rushes to his heart. He has to feel he is very lucky to have ever seen you and for you to even give him a chance to date you. When he is having sex with you, he has to be thinking in his head "Na me dey f**k this fine gal? I can't believe it. I can't believe my luck and that she would even let me. I am truly lucky and blessed. I can f**k her till I die".

The first 10 times he f**ks you, if he does not come way too early at least once, he is either (a) "not that highly excited about f**king you; you are moderately fine or not fine" or (b) "you are fine but not good in bed the way he likes it".

After you get passed that enchantment of his mind, then your personality should seal the deal.

Without lustful physical appearance, you are operating a future relationship starting with batteries that were not fully charged.

Originakalokalo:
Thank you.

I don't serve him because of hell anymore. I serve him because I want to get closer to him and make him happy....and also to have power and break people loose from their bondages.

Going to hell is no longer an issue... I know the way to heaven already....why will I want to deviate from it?

I said that from the word "go" na.

I said your priority is to keep him happy.

Gamesmart:
This is one of those that are merely satisfying their God's needs, not their own need.

Once I hear this type, I never believe they have a happy marriage. They are just happy at the thought of their God being happy with them.

I try.

Jodha:
As our faces are different so are our cases....what makes her "right" is having all the attributes yhu want in a woman
..at least most of em...

And I'm not talking about lustful physical appearance...

So high quality physical appearance is not part of what the man should find in the "right" woman.

Men are supposed to have erections based on your personality?

And when fine girl walks pass, then he should not even give her a second looking because his wife has a nice personality.



You women and your self-delusions/wishful thinking.

That is one of the major causes of marriage failures.

Working based on delusions, not reality, is a perfect recipe for failure. And most women have a PhD in this.

zubimete:
INTERVIEW THEM ND HEAR HOW MANY ARE REGRETING. SOME SAID I DID'NT FIGHT FOR MY MARRIAGE,TO SOME MY ANGER IS SECOND TO NONE WHILE SOME SAID I WAS WRONG. ETC

If you have to "fight" for marriage, that is just the usual compromise and endurance marriage is.

It is not a great thing.

Originakalokalo:
*smiles

I married a daughter of God. I am his son myself.

We enjoy our marriage in a very wonderful way.

We have fun...we disagree, we pray together.... but in all, we allow the Holy Spirit to be the head.

He instructs us on what to do....he guides us on what to do.....and we do it.

Our marriage is heaven on earth because Jesus is the centre of it and WE LISTEN TO HIM.

Congratulations!

He will be happy and will not throw you to hell.

wisdomeze:
Na ur type go soon de of the assertion say "life na scam". Never did I mention that marriage makes one a man but the ability to take a giant stride. If u continue like this, u myt go into extinction sooner. U have proven to be irresponsible. Sensibility lies in responsibility.

Stop talking nonsense.

This is what you said:

wisdomeze:
Please and please, don't listen to these little children who have all come bellow u to write "marriage is a scam" most of them are not even up-to their mid-twenties.

I got married at age twenty eight and today I am 33 and still strong in my marriage. If to say ur mama and Papa fear, by now u for no exist. Be a man by taking decisions ursef, u don't need anybody's opinion about this institution called marriage. We learn everyday. I never ready, I never ready naim make some people wey de 60years get children of 1year, 3years and 7years. Which strength dem wan use train the children? Most of them go begin take Viagra to satisfy their young wives sef.

My brother, until u take that bold step, u re not yet a man....

zubimete:
Relax, cool ur temper guy. when u meet the right person u will fall in love age is nt a barrier.

So the millions that end up divorced did not fall in love?

Continue prophesying fantasy.

Oluwaseun2020:
Name one and i will believe you

My point is: Don't ever vouch for something you cannot monitor.

That is just blind followership.