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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Liposure: 6:36pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
onlinestaff2020:wow |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by emkz: 6:37pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Tilykay: Bless you too bros! 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 6:40pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
GEJPosterity: Sorry, I don't f**k my friends. Yes, it is good for me to have good rapport with my partner/wife, but what is more important is for me to be highly attracted to her. Attraction is the number one consideration before we start looking at other consideration. Sexless marriage is a miserable marriage. No matter how friendly una dey. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 6:42pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
You're not the first of Nairalanders that package bullshit under the guise of facts. Saying something is a fact doesn't make it one. Gamesmart: |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Exmilitant(m): 6:44pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Oluwaseun2020, you are still a baby Biblelically. Go carry out a wider and extensive research on God, Jesus, the Bible and Christianity, then we 'll talk. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 6:45pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel: Well, if you are not full of bullshit, disprove it. That is how smart people operate, they don't just say something is BS and run away. I know most Nigerians are like that. That is just the outcome of producing people that 75% fail UTME. Our education system is bad and has not taught critical thinking. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 6:48pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
humilitypays: The reason for the bolded is: 1. She will get older. 2. She will stop advertising and packaging when she has finally tied/trapped one down. 3. She will lose some looks as she procreates. 4. Many young girls are growing up to replace the older ones and the more youthful ones are finer. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 6:50pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Bosdem: Real life. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by 123MB(m): 6:54pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said, “The woman was created from a (crooked) rib, and she will never continue to be as you desire her to be (i.e. always obedient). If you enjoy her, you will do so while she still has that crookedness. If you try to straighten it, you will break her, and breaking her means divorcing her.” |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 6:55pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
josite: The chances of your expectations matching is slim to none. Secondly, there are expectations both of you will hide from each other. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Oluwaseun2020(m): 6:56pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Gamesmart:Name one and i will believe you |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Oluwaseun2020(m): 6:57pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Exmilitant:Moses the second. .i salute you |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by rajiedreez: 6:58pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Yes I regret marrying my wife in 2014 I should have done it in 2012, that extra 2 years between 2012 and 2014 is exactly what I regret because I denied myself and my wife those 2 years of extra joy. But if you're asking if I ever regret being with her that one na NO |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 7:03pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Oluwaseun2020: My point is: Don't ever vouch for something you cannot monitor. That is just blind followership. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by sylve11: 7:04pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
emkz: you don finish work here. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by macfish101(m): 7:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
BigDawsNet:that your white lady, does she have single friends? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by djon78(m): 7:11pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
incogni2o: The bolded is the summary or conclusion of the whole marriage issue. How much each person works on him or her self. The better, the marriage will be enjoyed. But the problem is many people don't work on themselves So the marriage turns to something else 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by zubimete(f): 7:12pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Gamesmart:Relax, cool ur temper guy. when u meet the right person u will fall in love age is nt a barrier. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jaqenhghar: 7:15pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
blinking001:Like your mother abi. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by duchaB(m): 7:20pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
pocohantas: This maynt always be the case. Even when u put in goodness, u just get deep pain in return. A happy marriage is for the fortunate, while the unhappy marriage is for the unfortunate. It's that simple. In most cases it's the perfect time for either partner to have a taste of their own medicine. What is beautiful is that, I am sure, you wld get a happy marriage cos you seem fortunate. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by kalu61(m): 7:22pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
wisdomeze:na compulsory say every man must make use of him sperm. Leave that talk. You know how many sperm de enter toilet on daily. How many men de die on daily, how many families de kpai at a scene. I'm not religious person but Bible no make marriage compulsory. They are alot of things to achieve in life marriage. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by blinking001(m): 7:22pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar:Smh |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by wisdomeze(m): 7:27pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Gamesmart: Na ur type go soon de of the assertion say "life na scam". Never did I mention that marriage makes one a man but the ability to take a giant stride. If u continue like this, u myt go into extinction sooner. U have proven to be irresponsible. Sensibility lies in responsibility. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by duchaB(m): 7:29pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
brainpowerng: Forget all this mental sophisms Brother, you are simple fortunate. There are men who have done better and more than all these things you talked about and still suffer a tragically failed marriage due to irreconcilable differences.. What wld you offer as explanation to that? Marriage is 95% spiritual.. and you are likely very fortune to be in a relatively happy one. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Kccheechy(m): 7:30pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
So many people are here voicing rubbish!! Who are we to blame for the bad marriages being talked about?? Parents train your children in the way of the lord so when they are old they won't depart from it!!! How many women still groom their girls to be respectful and a prospective wife material?? How many women still teach their girl child to dress and cover up properly as a woman? How many men teach their sons how good to treat and respect women and see them as humans instead of sex objects?? How many men teach their sons to stand up and protect women and treat them like princesses starting with their sisters? How many women still teach their female children in this age to preserve their body till they get married?? HOW MANY RESPONSIBLE AND REASONABLE PARENTS ARE OUT THERE SEF?? We live in a world where mothers are encouraging their girl child in the slay queen trend and go after material things instead of instilling core values and virtues into them. We live in a world where fathers Take pride in their sons having girlfriends and start smashing pussy at a very young age, instead of teaching them the realities of life, teach them to be hardworking and to see women as people to be loved, respected and defended!! A child that grows up in a family where he can see display of love is visible between his parents, how his father cherishes and take care of his wife and how his mother respect and adores her husband as the head of the house, will definitely desire to get married and be like them one day. But what do we have today?? You see parents taking their children to the club, even giving their children shisha to smoke just for social media frenzy... Mothers today are sexualizing their girl child, dressing them up as prostitutes in the name of western fashion!!! Bleaching their skin, fixing Brazilian or Peruvian hair on them, applying makeup on girls who are not even up to 10yrs old, introducing them to social media at an age where they should be learning about the values of life. How can such girl grow up to become reasonable and responsible with that kind of mother?? If parent trained their children well, all this problems would be very minimal.. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 7:43pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
zubimete: So the millions that end up divorced did not fall in love? Continue prophesying fantasy. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 7:46pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
wisdomeze: Stop talking nonsense. This is what you said: wisdomeze: 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by uniqueboi1(m): 7:55pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Pat081: Not at all. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Fahdiga1: 7:55pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
AuntRose:He said the honest truth. Most women are trash. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
My neighbor told me one day,that he regretted marrying that woman...That she drinks and displays more than even him that is a man and he's regretting everything. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by duchaB(m): 8:00pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Life on its own is full of regrets. Regrets stems from unconsciousness. No one can comprehend the interplay of forces that rule our lives. We assume we are so much in control,but we ain't. These are the forces that places us in other people's lives and, we seem to fall in love and marry. These forces can yield good outcomes for the fortunate and bad outcomes for the unfortunate. These forces act beyond our seeming intelligence, beautiful wishes, educational background, intellectual prowess etc.. @ OP, you can only pray, wish and work towards getting a happy union with a good partner but if you don't get it, then you and all who find themselves unfortunate must learn to carry their cross. If the unfortunate are done serving their punishment, and become fortunate afterwards, they can get some mercy from the Gods and find happiness in marrying another spouse. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Originakalokalo(m): 8:11pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Gamesmart: *smiles I married a daughter of God. I am his son myself. We enjoy our marriage in a very wonderful way. We have fun...we disagree, we pray together.... but in all, we allow the Holy Spirit to be the head. He instructs us on what to do....he guides us on what to do.....and we do it. Our marriage is heaven on earth because Jesus is the centre of it and WE LISTEN TO HIM. 1 Like |
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