Uyi168:
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Don't let the news of what u read up online deter u.
Real marriages take place in the home and not all these nonsense being paraded online...

dominique:
There's no perfect spouse or marriage anywhere. Just make sure you study whoever you're dating very well to see if you will be able to cope with their imperfections. Sadly men are too focused on physical looks and women too desperate to become Mrs to see through any flaws their prospective spouse may have. Las Las, na hide my id go end their matter.

Don't be discouraged by all the tales of gloom and doom you read on social media about marriage. There are a lot of marriages that are doing well.

hashtagged:
I told you guys marriage was scam but una nor listen.
Every woman that walks the face of this Earth is a either a LovePeddler/cheat or nagging bitch or a devil or will soon become such so it's better to stay single or adopt/get a baby mama if you need kids never marry i repeat never if you want to enjoy life

MrNipplesLover:
Let's be holy here and fear God....


if u want peace of mind in ur life, just find one beautiful lady put dick in her pussy and let her born ur babies for u...

get her a nice apartment outside make she dey enjoy her life, while u are also enjoying the sweetness of life.


that's how u can have everlasting peace of mind away from a woman's headache.


no be everybody this go work for, but perfectly my own fate.




let's be holy, pls.

thanx.

Gamesmart:


When you say every woman, then you are telling the world what you think about your mother and sisters.

You want to review your statement or you stand by it?

FuckThaMod:

[s][/s]Men no carry marriage for head reach una[s][/s]..

[/b]If you want cow, point me to a woman against marriage and then relocate to my street[b].

Berankis:
1. Dont you regret being alive sometimes? But it doesnt mean you want to die.
2. Dont you regret being a Nigerian a lot of times? But it doesnt necessarily mean you want to stop being a Nigerian, so same too is marriage. Sometimes, you regret and some other times you feel it is the best thing that has happened to you.
You just have to understand that being married doesnt necessarily mean you have full control of your wife, her parents still have a great influence over her and must respect it and vice versa. She also has some level of freedom too and you must accord it.
Things dont always go as planned or as expected, just take life as it comes and try to make the best out of every situation.

Alexaonfleek:


Compare the number of men who commeht on marriage topics to the number of women.
You'll see your answer.


That cow will serve me well during Christmas.
Make I dey pack my things dey come.

KossyKiss97:
Icebird.... either isnt very smart, or is smart but just chose to be myopic. I say this because its rather unfortunate that he wants to debate on a very wide topic such as marriage, but limited it to just Duncan mighty's marriage. Is he the only married person in the entire universe?

There are SO MANY PEOPLE out there who are having wonderful marriages. Why dont you also observe such people, instead of channeling your energy and efforts on those who haven't really succeeded in the institution.

Its important to understand that marriage involves both parties putting in effort to make it work; afterall, nothing good comes easy. It's not entirely up to the woman to make the marriage work as your write up makes it seem. You need to remove these sentiments from your mind before you get married, else, your marriage won't be different from the example you gave above.

pronto543:


Abi o, and let other men too 'put their dick in her and let her born for them too...'

Let them take turns to enjoy their lives with her in the nice apartment you used your money to rent for her, while she enjoys the sweetness of her life and your sweat.

And let the daughters you have with her grow up to be just like her, so she and her stepbrothers and sister can make you proud and give you everlasting peace of mind.

And at end, let her give you STD from other men that sleeps with her. At least she is not under any contractual agreement to not f**k other men since you 'cared' so much about her 'happiness' and her 'freedom'.

And when you are 70 and you cook and wash for yourself lonely and hopeless, please don't blame anybody for your fate o.

Kuns84:


Did you know white people generally take a bath or shower only once or twice a week?
Forget how pale their skin looks, they are dirty asf.

Gamesmart:


And real marriages are miserable unions.

Uyi168:
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Says u

Gamesmart:


Correction: So few people .......

Most marriages are miserable and/or fail.

Image123:


Lol, it can happen. Marriage is honorable and should be worked on and preserved. Regret can be temporary if you make it so. There are people who regretted joining an organization or a school or a course but it later turned out well because they didn't quit or there was no option. Some people even regretted being pregnant or getting pregnant but it's not so when that child succeeds and is making waves 30years later. Don't remain a boy.

JONSYN7154:
The truth is that if you can endure women's repugnant character you won't regret your marriage.

Marriage is all about enduring each other's character.

if you have tough enduring skin you'll have a PERFECT marriage.

KossyKiss97:


Whatever rocks your boat

BigDawsNet:
My people dint regret

So I won't too

Tho I'm about settling with a white lady

wisdomeze:
Please and please, don't listen to these little children who have all come bellow u to write "marriage is a scam" most of them are not even up-to their mid-twenties.

I got married at age twenty eight and today I am 33 and still strong in my marriage. If to say ur mama and Papa fear, by now u for no exist. Be a man by taking decisions ursef, u don't need anybody's opinion about this institution called marriage. We learn everyday. I never ready, I never ready naim make some people wey de 60years get children of 1year, 3years and 7years. Which strength dem wan use train the children? Most of them go begin take Viagra to satisfy their young wives sef.

My brother, until u take that bold step, u re not yet a man....

Oluwaseun2020:


if you are godly yourself. .you will find a godly girl..learn from marriage that work..like oyedepo and adeboye. ..
get this book.. making marriage work by faith oyedepo. .thank me later
Get the free pdf file on Google.

Oluwaseun2020:

if you are godly yourself. .you will find a godly girl..learn from marriage that work..like oyedepo and adeboye. ..
get this book.. making marriage work by faith oyedepo. .thank me later
Get the free pdf file on Google.

Kuns84:


I keep seeing childish kids like you making comments about 'alpha' males.

This is popular shaming tactic used to quench the effects of the redpill philosophy which is spreading like wildfire...

Comments like yours makes it obvious that women are starting to panic #justsaying

Gamesmart:


This is the moronic nonsense you heard where and decided it was a "fact"?

Your daft ass lives in environments where open gutters is normal and everywhere stinks but you are calling civilised and superior people who live in lovely environments "dirty"?

The people doing you with juju that is affecting your brain are wicked!

Missssii:
1. Marry a good hearted person.
2. Be a good husband. Don’t do to her what you wouldn’t want her to do to you.
3. Have some savings that can sufficiently take care of a family. Financial issues can ruin the best of people.
4. Do not have children for at least, the first year of marriage. Use that time to understand your partner and form a bond.
5. Do not have relatives or friends live with you for the first year of marriage. Visits shouldn’t be more than 3 days. Nosy family and friends are the number one cause of issues in young marriages.
6. Let God lead in all you do. As the head of the home, it is important you have a direct bond with God because even the Bible says the husband is the head of the home and the blessings flow from the husband to the wife. That’s why he opens his head in prayers while she covers her own. If the head is weak, the body is open to all sorts of attacks.
7. Do not start things you cannot finish. If you’re the type that doesn’t believe in cooking or cleaning, let her know during courtship so you both can plan your responsibilities. You cannot be Tony Umez in courtship then turn into Pete Edochie during marriage. It is a sure way to kill whatever love may exist between the two of you.
8. Avoid unnecessary interference from family, friends and most especially, religious people. Do what works for you both no matter how unconventional it may seem to others.
9. Be patient and honest but do not enable misbehavior in any form. In a calm and firm manner, let your partner know what they did to offend you and sort out all issues to avoid any form of lingering resentment.
10. Enjoy yourselves. Go on dates, knack in the sitting room, kitchen etc. You both are now one before God and should explore your bodies and minds to the fullest.

That’s all I know.

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

Gamesmart:


Your list is weak as it missed out one of the most important requirements:

[s]1. Marry a woman who supports polygamy or will allow you sleep with any other females you find attractive as long as you don't leave her for that female.[/s]

Let more women be like that and you will see how much the rate of failed marriages will fall and men will live a more fulfilled life while being married.

Now will most women allow that? NO!

So we all see why majority of marriages are inevitably doomed?

Exmilitant:
Your advice is a logical fallacy called 'cherry picking', you are trying to use one or two examples to complete a whole puzzle, just like saying two good bricks can build you a house. The marriage instituition is collapsing and there is nothing your book can do about it. We are in a new age; the aquarius age, the age of revealing. The woman are realising themselves, that they onced governed this earth as gods. The man can only whinge and complain but the woman has risen.

Remmybaby:
You don't need to develop cold feet towards marriage because its always an inevitable thing in ones life except you want to have babes mama which is a tag for irresponsible men just know that there is no perfect marriage until you make it perfect, I feel men can make home perfect even when the women act foolishly at home

organism3:
no perfect marriage but with God things will work

Berankis:
1. Dont you regret being alive sometimes? But it doesnt mean you want to die.
2. Dont you regret being a Nigerian a lot of times? But it doesnt necessarily mean you want to stop being a Nigerian, so same too is marriage. Sometimes, you regret and some other times you feel it is the best thing that has happened to you.
You just have to understand that being married doesnt necessarily mean you have full control of your wife, her parents still have a great influence over her and must respect it and vice versa. She also has some level of freedom too and you must accord it.
Things dont always go as planned or as expected, just take life as it comes and try to make the best out of every situation.