₦airaland Forum

sapphiere:
Mods stop pushing rubbish to fp. Who is the employer? Which company? I don't believe this news.

So someone went to waste his or her money advertising it on Indeed?

Many of you should take a look at yourself.

Look at the level of intellect you demonstrate when you post on NL. How foolish you usually sound with your unreasoned and senseless contributions.

Look at the useless kind of people you express support for, defend and admire. The likes of Hushpuppi, Dino Melaye, Akpabio, FFK etc.

When some of us have been telling you that you are useless and unemployable, you take it as an insult.

Your evidence is here.

sigiyaya:
Let nobody call this racist. They do this to us because they know that we lack common sense in Nigeria
What have the Indians done to you that your government hasn't done to you
Nobody should fu cking condemn the Indians. Just simple go back to your church or mosque and continue praying and wating for grace and miracle.
while the rest should go home on their generator and continue watching #BBN. F00lish set of people that has refuse to apple common sense in their miserable life's.

Note: You will never see the comment of that slowpoke Righteousness89 on this informative tread, but just post that someone had an accident and die or someone died while playing football you will see the Id!ot commenting rubbish and you also see some many f00ls giving him likes. Now you want Indians to make you managers in their companies with this kind of dead brain that most of you have. F00lish set of people

Very well said, brother.

Magnumproperty:
"Dan Etete former oil minister owns half of the money and the rest going to politicians". What this people have been stealing can make this county a wealthy nation.

The other half went to the crooks like Goodluck Jonathan, Adoke and co.

Where are all the idiots that refer to GEJ as messiah?

One4me:
But it is strange that Westerners are prosecuting their own citizens for Bribes and Corruption that was perpetrated with Nigerian Govt Officials yet Nigerian Govt is allowing the Nigerian Culprits to walk about freely!

Sometimes l just wonder.
Atiku, Dezziani, Omokere, former AGF Adoke, Former Babachir "Grasscutter" Lawal, that Northerner, Pension Looter (cant remember his name now), etc.

All these Criminal Looters are walking free and we say we want to be paid $1Billion by the White thieves?

Stop being foolish!

Apart from Atiku, which no allegations exist against, everyone in that list has been charged and is being prosecuted.

Think, research and show you have a functioning brain when you make comments in public.

bezimo:
So when I called you out..you now talk true oh not that they want me..yet posing to be the next best thing after Kim K or Beyonce...nonsense.

We don't bash we relate reality as validated by many guys on the self entitled and terrible attitude that have come to be associated with you 9ja girls in the western world and if you have any sense you will know that you girls can do better and change such distasteful narative to relate in a more better way rather than challenging us for observing what it is.

Thank you, brother.

When virtually all men are saying the same thing and the manifestation is hitting you in your face with many of your top quality men dating and marrying women from other backgrounds, while many Naija women are there single, searching and well-over 30, then you need to know it is not bashing. It is a need for reflection and improvement.

Changeofscene:
Awesome �. Spend your vacation in Nigeria if you're searching for a Naija partner. But this maybe difficult because vacation in Nigeria doesn't seem attractive after getting used to living in a sane society like Canada/US/UK them.

Except she comes from a rich family with nice houses in expensive areas or she still has the Nigerian ruff-am mentality, then that is not a great way to spend ones vacation while her peers are visiting sane and clean countries on the beach.

Secondly, she would encounter and get so many papersdigging men. (I just created new word o. Abeg trademark am)

To be frank, the best move and hope for Nigerian girls is take feedback and change the pervasive unattractive attitude and mentality to be able to attract, retain and be marriageable to men where they are.

zionsdaughter247, you dey hear?

trilobite:
She would make a better what?!!
Have you dated girls from Vietnam, Mongolia, Philippines before?!! even girls from Madagascar will worship the ground you walk on!!

Nigerian girls are too entitled. They should keep waiting for man to come.

Beautyaddy.

Remember what I said in my last post.

Beautyaddy:
Are you joking or just displaying ignorance to please yourself

So there are no Asians, Oyinbo or Latino men married to Nigerian women

Go and get yourself more exposed and learn that Most Nigerians women of the younger generation no long are desperate to marry Nigerian men who most of the time are labeled wife abuser.

There are other African men that Nigeria women are getting married to in doves lately.

There are women happily married to crippled guys or dwarfs does not mean there is a queue waiting to marry such.

Statistically, apart from black men's desire, black women are ranked as the least desirable to men of all other races while assessing these other races' men attraction to women from all races.

So because it happens does not mean it is rampant, easy or a queue is there for black women.

The odds are bad.

Good you said there are other African men that Nigerian women can marry. The odds of that is much more better.

That said, there are still challenges.

1) Nigerian men are 1 in 5 of black African men. Most likely that stat is similar in these foreign countries.

2) Nigerian women will have to compete with the women from these other African men's countries. From experiences of most guys, one would say that (based on attitude, outlook, personalities and feminism qualities), on average, Nigerian girls will struggle in this competition.

Beautyaddy:
Yes, it's a crime but some men out of uncontrolled anger still beat up their spouses but they do not get way with it like in Nigeria.

Those men are faced with police and court charges which in the long term affects their record to get any meaningful jobs or high positions with job opportunities.

Good.

Beautyaddy:
That's not true though.

Nigerian women abroad also have the same options as Nigerian men abroad do.

Most Nigerian women who live abroad and have develop an opened mind to date outside the Nigerian circle tend to have more peaceful and lasting relationship because these men don't treat like second class or slaves like how most Nigerian men treat Nigerian women as a whole.

No, they don't.

If you line up all the races in Europe and explore their desirability to one another for sex, dating and marriage, black men are higher up the pecking order amongst men of all races than black women are amongst women of all races.

There has been a UK TV show social survey has backed this up.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4707512/Outrage-experiment-looking-racism-dating.html

Only 9.4% of white people say they will date outside their race.

And we all know that out of this 9.4%, the white women will prefer to date black men and the white men will prefer to date orientals.

In America, black men do better for sex & dating desirability than black women. But they are both at the bottom of races for marriage desirability.

That is Òkété.

sisipelebe:
Se na my location you dey ntori olorun? Because I said they're romantic now. You want twist the whole thing. Am I not aware that baby daddy & mummy thing is rampart here. Na wetin I see I dey talk. fi mi si le jor

Okay o.

All I know is that many from those communities have a challenge of descending from family lines where there is no history of stable family homes because of slavery and racism that destroyed their family units. Hence many don't know, have not been passed the knowledge and have not seen functional, long-term coupling.

This is why Africans can go to these countries and outperform them in education and achievements. We are still better in stable families.

Obviously not all, but even the educated ones, especially male one who will have so much options because other black males have jail records, are unlikely to know how to stay in stable coupling.

Black girls insist on marrying only black, but too many black men have jail records, hence hard to give the women hypergamy. So educated brothers are 1 to many.

Which man go see awoof and only take 1 naira?

pansophist:
Most times, it is naija ladies that actually pushed naija men to other races and nationality. Your narration about your friend is not uncommon, its the norm abroad. Naija men abroad have to be ready made before our sisters find them attractive enough to date. There are few who do not have that mentality, but good luck finding them.

Instead of this ladies to look at the mirror and check their ways, they will rather convinced themselves with all kind of stuff that abdicate introspection, retrospection, and and responsibility. It had gotten to a point that pointing out these distasteful behaviours is equal to misogyny, chauvinism and any buzzword they can immediately conceive.

Furthermore, there is one aspect that people often gloss over. It is about being fit. I honestly do not know of any beautiful, fit and well mannered Nigerian ladies that is single. They have choices from men of all races. The one that lack suitors are the bad eggs, fat and didn't try to maintain their attractiveness. "If I can't carry you, I can't marry you", that's the code men generally operate by subconsciously, even if they do not consciously affirm. The male brain is attracted to fit and nicely shaped woman, not fat deceiving themselves as plus size lol. Whatever

ziondaughter247, read the bolded.

sisipelebe:
LoL. The educated onces are.

They are all still babyfathers.

Nothing Roman about them.

You go get Yardietic and Thugitic.

ziondaughter247:
Even from the posts we see here on nairaland. I put it to you that young naija girls abroad who do marry whites guys, do a much better job than the nigerian men who marry white ladies. Please google and check- it is mostly the Nigerian men that marry old, fat, worn out grannies. Hardly do you see such from the ladies...Hardly! Pls do your research. Nigerian men are more likely to marry 'dregs' of white society than the ladies...Peace out!

BTW, it is condescending to call anyone created by God a 'dreg of society'! God, I'm sorry for using that term!�

Most Naija girls just get pregnant and ask to stay with their citizen children or say "the children grew up here and are used to the country". They are not marrying oyinbo yafun yafun.

The oyinbos they marry (if they find ones to marry them) do not tend to me tall, handsome quarterbacks.

As for dregs, there are people that are dregs of society. I have no apologies to your God for saying that.

ziondaughter247:
The weird thing about this thread is that 99% of the guys here are in their face-me-I-face-you sheds in Ojuelegba typing rubbish and thirsting for things they will never have(white girls). The 'socalled' few abroad are either in Vietnam or India or somewhere remote also bashing Nigerian girls. Shame many of our men have condescended to this level. Honestly, from Nairaland posts, I can tell many Nigerian men suffer from extreme inferiority complex. You will think that their mothers and sisters are whites! No matter what you do, black men will continue to be at the lowest rung of the ladder....You are still a 'black monkey' to the average white man, unfortunately! Feel so ashamed reading some of these comments. I wonder how most black men married to whites truly feel. Imagine lying down next to your prized 'oyibo prized' wife and all she thinks in her heart is see this 'black monkey'. What a sad and condescending way to live your life. You will never be enough unfortunately. I have heard this conversations from white women themselves, who are married to black men. Imagine being ashamed to introduce you to family and the public. Unfortunately, white people generally are known to be polite no matter the situation and can hide what they truly think.....Black men that are supposed to be at the forefront of preserving heritage are willing to trade it for a morsel of bread today, just to impress your fellow blacks and villages people. Very sad.....lots of lost heritage! Shame


Don't be pissed off... I just said the truth and nothing but it! And before you come for me, I am very established where I am, not interested at all in lowlifes, especially those Nigerians living in their rat holes 'abroad'!�
So glad ladies on nairaland ignore you people most times. Very few ladies here and lots of inferior men on nairaland

From the start, this composition started with nonsense.

The guys in face-me-I-face-you sheds in Ojuelegba are unlikely to be the ones to be able to afford data to be browsing internet, neither are they likely to be competent in English grammar.

Majority of Nigerians abroad are in North America and Europe, so the odds of them being in Vietnam or India is low.

And the nonsense continues till the end of the composition.

Instead of losing your logical thinking and lashing out. Learn about the behaviours you most likely have that is being highlighted and change these.

Sisipelebe, this is the kind of "piss off" reaction I was referring to here:

Gamesmart:
True.

Conversation when wooing or on a date with a Naija girl is so boring and annoying.

They are bad at it because they think showing they are tough, behaving condescendingly and not interested makes them attractive and be perceived as having high virtue.

And when corrected/given feedback, instead of accepting and correcting these behaviours, they would dismiss it in defiance and demonstrate that if a guy does not like it, he is free to piss off.

Naija guys with options soon learn to piss off and go to where market is good and there is great customer care.

Crispels:
Smh. It’s hard to find a white guy who will be romantically attracted to a newly arrived Nigerian girl.

She can find.

It would just be a dreg of society who wants to taste novel stuff for his freaky needs.

Handsome, successful white guy? That one na like hoping to get 24 hours light in Sapele for 1 month straight.

sisipelebe:
They don't want to explore. Most of them are not good conversationist.

True.

Conversation when wooing or on a date with a Naija girl is so boring and annoying.

They are bad at it because they think showing they are tough, behaving condescendingly and not interested makes them attractive and be perceived as having high virtue.

And when corrected/given feedback, instead of accepting and correcting these behaviours, they would dismiss it in defiance and remonstrate that "if a guy does not like it, he is free to piss off".

Naija guys with options soon learn to piss off and go to where market is good and there is great customer care.

sisipelebe:
It is because they don't want to date outside of their race. They want a Nigerian guy at all cost. Carribeans, Native Americans, Africa Americans are available, but no it's Nigerian. These guys from other race are even more romantic than our Nigerian men. I know the reasons why they don't want to test the waters.

Your first 2 sentences are probably right.

But saying Caribbeans and AA are romantic? ................................................

I laugh in patois.

sisipelebe:
I don't know. What is my business who's single or not. You guys should just leave Nigerian women alone. Una no dey tire?

To be frank, in Western countries, they are largely being left alone.

But the guys in Nigeria cannot because they really don't have options.

sisipelebe:
Don't mind them, the same Nigerian men won't let one rest here. So many of them on my list.. But on nairaland they talk trash about Nigerian women abroad. But in reality they will be begging us they want to wife a Nigerian woman.Saying the AA women are not Marraigable.

So how come many Nigerian women are single there and searching?

wjxavier:
True. The girls are mostly fat, lazy, excessively tattooed...and smoke weed like it’s going out of fashion.

And then they say “I want a man that’ll love me for who I YAM”.

And to make matters worse, they have no qualms walking out at the slightest irritation, taking the man’s wealth with them. It’s a business sef.

Don’t quote me. I know what I know.

You need to move out of the ghetto.

Habinibi:
I need to marry an oyingbo lady. I have been having dream about this of late. I want this dream to become a reality. Who will connect me?

Why a oyingbo lady?

Can you handle them?

antocreative:
All ye men here that I bashing Nigerian women make me laugh! I know must of you are washing pant of the so-called white women. Brothers, pls don't pay heed to them! It is far better to marry your fellow Nigerian, except you are not a real man who wants his posterity to live on forever. Checkout men on their old age who married whites back then, do they look happy to you? As for me, I will go back home and marry and I will commit it to the hands of GOD. I wnt my posterity to live on and I dont want to have children who might have identity crises. Most of you talking rubbish about the Nigerian women have never been outside the country before. You also suffer from serious inferiority complex! If you are a true son of the soil, marry from your heritage, it pays in the long run! Forget the flashy white women of the west!

A man that likes (and is happy) to be with women that (i) are rude to him just because he chatted them up, (ii) wants him for his money, (iii) asks him to pay their bills and (iv) have poor dating conversational skills is the one that is not a real man.

Man up! You can do better than that and stop being a doormat.

Amumaigwe:
Those living abroad are telling you what obtaines in their clime, but a local girl like you whose fate has been sealed with Nigeria forever but has a disproportionate larger-than- life ego will still argue. This same trait you are displaying is what abroad based bachelors loathe in our ladies. Haba!

You couldn't have said it better.

eejo:
There are many Nigerian ladies looking for Husband in the UK too. Overseas you spend most of your time in the office and you can't afford to spend your rest days looking for a partner. I personally know many who are ready to marry but no husband and I have suggested they should spend their vacation in Nigeria and others Countries in search of Husbands.

You spend most of your time at work, how can such a man when he wants to date a woman have time for rude, immature or time-wasting girls.

He asks her out on a date and she responds "Why?".

What a childish Naija girl question. Tell her to go to hell and look for someone that you will enjoy her company with your precious limited time.

Tatashi:
I can never move to Canada or US and look for a Nigerian/African Man to marry. I dey crase? What happened to finding a God fearing Handsome Caucasian? How can you move to a developed well advanced country and search for a Nigerian man to marry... Men that are backward and misogynistic in nature. Go to America and see how Nigerian Men are slaughtering their hardworking wives esp Nurses. Pls if you want to live long as a woman you better run away from black men oh. There's this special type of jealousy they carry. God forbid

Statistically, the handsome ones are not attracted to black women of any background.

So that is like looking for an Igbo man in Mongolia. There might be, but they will be very few.

Caucasian men are generally attracted to Caucasian women, followed by Orientals, then Latinas, other races before Black women of any background.

So odds are not that good.

You easily can end up with a Caucasian, but the chances he is handsome is as low as Buhari making Nigerian economy as good as South Africa's by 2023.

Kekereekun123:
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Its very annoying bro.
I met a white babe online and she came all the way to pick me and take me out. Cos of corona drive test is suspended where i am. Babe saw my uber bills and was like just gimme a call i will come pick you when you free.

9ja babe own, i just came few months ago or i dont drive yet. Equals stop chatting lol

To hell with them!

The part that lionlee highlighted that got on my nerve is:

Me : Oh, I'm thinking if we can hangout for a bit
Girl : Why?

What a purely stupid question.

lionlee216:
Dating African(Nigerians to be precise) is like an headache over here.. when I first got here, the first Nigerian lady I met, our conversation ended within minutes.

Girl : how long have you been here?
Me : less than a year
Girl : Do you have green card
Me : No
Girls stop responding

In the grocery store/Mall
Me: Hi, You look beautiful. Whats your name ?
AA : Thank you, that's wonderful sweet. My name is Tisha
Me: Can I have your number and call you sometime?
AA : Sure. There you go OR I'm sorry but I have a boyfriend.

The AAs are very straightforward in their conversation. They wont come to you with bills and other bullshit. They got their shit together.

Me : Whats up, whsts your plan for the tomorrow/weekend
Nigerian Girl: I dont have free time. I'm always busy.
Me : Oh, I'm thinking if we can hangout for a bit
Girl : Why?
Me : Nevermind

One thing is AA makes is very easy for Nigerian guys to ask them out. They are always friendly. Its either they like you or they don't.

Dating Nigerian girls will be like Lionlee, I told u about my bills, how much do u want to be helping me with monthly

The moment they get laid, they automatically assume you are in relationship.

Nigerian Girl : where are you? Look at the time. Do you know the last time you called me last? You just chatting me since 4hrs ago?

AA : What's up babe, i haven't heard from you and I guess you are busy. Carry on with your day. Text me when you can. Miss you.

The list is so unending.. The sweetest thing that can ever happen to you is to date an AA woman that is educated(At least Bachelor degree).

If i grew up here, i for sure know I will never get married. Me getting here opened my eye to marriage. Why get married when you can always get everything in a marriage with your partner without getting married?

I really feel for Single/Unmarried Nigerian girls here. I really do.

The one i met last was 37yrs. You clearly put on your dating app you are looking for something serious. You gave me your number. Response always slow, add me to whatsapp, You no gree! Send me some of your pictures, Na wahala saying she doesn't take pictures. Ask AA girls for pictures, you will see a mature response. After sending pictures they will tell you when the pics were taken and location.

Advice for my Nigerian girls? Have a white friend and AA as friend and learn from them

#OkBye

With all you just said, Bleep NIGERIAN GIRLS!

I would not touch them with a barge-pole.

The quality difference vs AA is just clear!!!

Mbdovey:
I didn't say kids. At old age, your partner will still be with you. Having a gist mate, a companion, a friend who loves you in old age is beautiful. Let's stop hyping lonely life as if it's preferable.

You are definitely projecting your personal worries.