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yemi1504:
Abi. It has taught women they can eat their cake and have it by hoeing around while being liabilities!

And never to be accountable for any of their wrong behaviours or choices; they should always instead transfer accountability to men or society.

Blame "The Patriarchy" for all their failures and incompetence.

Osilama1:
since your entire lineage are stupid and useless I ain't surprise idiotic fool

It is your lineage that thinks marriage is an "achievement".

That means una be foooools when such is an achievement. In my family, it is merely an event/life stage.

Olam09:
Broke ass you can simply click on my username and check it yourself.. if you need data to check just quote me I'll get you data.

Cretin, all your posts are cretinous and show your low IQ that is why you can't dig 5 out.

Olam09:
Yea because you're as dumb as a bag of hammers.. you called me fool i decided to ignore you.. if you quote me after this I'll ignore you because silence is the best way to react to a fool noise. Broke ugly short dickhead.

Cretin, show us 5 posts you have made on NL that made sense.

I dare your father!

Osilama1:
fool of thousands generation idiot

Says the cretin that sees marriage as his "achievement"?

That insult is more suited to you lineage.

Olam09:
Don't always assume everyone is from village just because you live in Enugu.

Even our village fooool is 10 times smarter than you!

Osilama1:
the reality is that bastards like you are very idiotic not to mind their business but trying to force their stupidity on others... If your entire generations is so stupid that it has infested u with useless thoughts u put don't come to me with it... Bombastic bastard

No, the reality is that you are just a dumb cretin without tangible achievements. That is why marriage is a great "achievement" in your life.

Olam09:
Just tell me your family are based in one smelly village in the east. You just left your smelly village to manage one cramped room apartment down here in Lagos..
Just to let you know I'm based in Lagos i was born and bred in Lagos I'm a certified Lagosian with a valid lassra. If you can't still believe me type in Olamide Akinosun into Google search bar and check my Bio..

Cretin!

Palema007:
katikati.

Dobodobo.

Osilama1:
achievement is relative... Quit being a sadist ok .. if you picture marriage as overate it's ur own problem.... Next time u write something stupid again I ll put u to ur place nonsense

Of course it is relative. That was my point.

Those at the top relate to tangible things as achievement.

Foools like you relate to even your names being praised by a crooked conman in suit calling himself "Man of God" as an achievement.

Chiefecho:
I noticed him yesterday and he would cry blood of questions in this forum

Fantastic.

I just love tormenting him.

Olam09:
Bro are you guilty? I believe you're either short or ugly if this my comment wasn't hitting you hard you don't need to quote me.

And the village fooool continues contributing with his incredibly low IQ.�‍♂️

Mavrick2012:
My brother, marriage did more harm than good to me,
especially when you marry the wrong person who has reduced life to slaying on social media.

Thank God am going out of marriage.
Never returning back,lai lai

Some people will tell you it was "Blissful".

Highlyrespected:
What has my mindset has gotten to do with your tough time

It is your life, you can live it the way you life.... Okay?
And beside who tell you I am in Nigeria
Your point of reasoning and conclusion sounds absurd though

You are not bright enough to even comprehend what I wrote their.

Take it home for one week to comprehend as homework.

When you get it, come back here and post your understanding of what I wrote.

Palema007:
You better let's go and marry before you turn 60 and your potbelly begins to fall.

Young girls will kiss the belly when you take them to Dubai.

Chiefecho:
You have not answered my question

Good!

Keep at it. That is the only engagement he should get.

MansoryMX:
No. Satisfied?

No, I am not!

I think you are lying and I have a perfect way to source out the truth from you: Swearing.

Say:

If I have never shagged another woman since I married my wife, Jesus is the true son of God, the saviour and the truth.

If I have shagged another woman since I married my wife, Jesus is a gay and liar just like me.

Oya, swear or run!

Chiefecho:
Why do you feel such a conclusion should not be made ??

Don't mind that foool!

Keep asking him the question.

He likes to ask questions but never answers any. Check the history of his posts.

So just keep him at question asking. I love humiliating him.

https://www.nairaland.com/7043839/aftermath-fire-incident-apongbon-lagos/4#111330524

Barbiturate:
Na lie. I am of that age. I am not married and I'm not lonely.

"He" has been well brainwashed and trained by women.

nextlevel2020:
This is an interesting discussion that catches my urge to comment on. When I was 20s, I experienced a lot of rejections and humiliations from girls as results of my poor background. The condition was so terrible to the extent that, I needed to see myself through school from primary to the higher institution. During my school days I could remember that the girls in my class then used to tell me " Is your gari enough for you alone talk less of dating a woman ". To cut the story short, all these taunts and rejections spurred me into working harder and today God has answered my prayer and give me a job in a multinational company. Now, some of the girls that turned me down before are now showing interest in me and this scares me a lot to say yes for them. In addition to that, whenever I come across any woman and the first question she asks is what do you do for living, the fear grips my heart immediately and I would begin to reflect on my past experience. So in as much as I need a woman in my life, I'm also afraid of someone who will not value my background and I don't buy the idea of divorce at all. People like me who also believe in fruitful marriage are out there as a single.

I am going to be direct with you.

You will be a great fooooool if you don't shag around and enjoy your new life.

Take it or leave it!

Yamiriflathead:
They always guilt-trip us with old age.
Do you know why my grandfather died early? Because he was married to a witch who, rallied her children against him and tormented him till his last day on earth. They tormented him physically and spiritually.. When he died, those who were interested in seeking spiritual answers came back with news that she(my grand father's wife) signed his death in coven and rendered him useless politically because she was scared that he would wife other women if he got to abuja.
I would rather stay in old peoples home and die there than to be married to this kind of woman

No mind am.

No be her fault, women no know Maths.

I should live circa 50 years of misery to avoid the possibility of about 6 years of misery that might never happen because I could die early anyway?

That is the illogical sense of a woman.

I will take my chances with the 6 years of misery, thank you!

ArewaTech1:
Lots of great comments... Majority of which makes sense...

But being from a conservative family in the North, I can't relate to none of that.

I'm 24, just bagged my BSc last year. and they already arranged me with this girl. lol & smh

but d girl fine die.

will be getting married sometime in '24

That is the pro and con of your culture.

1. You get a girl of the right status that will have limited option but to be submissive and be subordinate.

2. You might not be completely compatible or attracted; but you get the benefit to try another with a second marriage.

3. You might get a girl who is not truly and completely happy with the arrangement, but is just bearing it.

Yamiriflathead:
Lmfa.. He won't tell us he is suffering in his marriage because he is being a MAN in public eyes and wants us to experience the "sweetness" of marriage ourselves

Exactly!

I am waiting for him to answer o.

Czario:
I pray for all married men out there....
They were shouting go and settle down ...sette down
I didn't know I was already settled as a bachelor...

Single guys take note.

Gbam!

Miarose:
This is interesting. As the business woman that I am, I forsee a rise in old people's homes to cater for surge of old men without families to care for them.
Unfortunately, this won't come cheap.

Food vendors will also have, low salt, oil less menu for the older bachelor population.

Geriatric nursing and home care will boom.

I must cash out from this trend!!!

No wahala!

Better than living a miserable life with a woman!

Highlyrespected:
But how can you conclude that I'd used resources to attract girls.....
I am introvert guy and I hardly engage convo with anyone especially girls.

And change this ur mindset that "when it dries up"..... Are you praying for it to dries up even assuming we are talking about reality here.

Use your sense and spend wisely when you're dealing with ladies of 21st century.

Yeah, also change the mindset of having savings for tough times in Nigeria because "you are not praying to lose your job".

The foolish things people say and they strongly think they are making sense.

MansoryMX:
Marriage isn’t overrated. The problem is people! People are losing their senses, their morale, desires for pleasures and thirst from multiple partners, ways of lifestyle from peers around them. I got married at 27, my wife 22. Today we have two kids. 6 and 2 years old. Do the maths. People no longer understand the importance of self discipline and preservation.

And you have never shagged another woman since you married her?

Gallistotle1:
Niggurs,build ursef 1st,set up a standard business to support ur job,get peace of mind,more money,flex up,freshen up as well and also stay out of trouble and lets see if u wouldnt find happiness.

@porthouse7

Come and learn, young boy!

porthouse7:
what remain of a guy of 40+ still fuckin around and not having a family, at 40 u have seen it all

What remains of him?

Have you thought of "Control", "Easy Life" and "Fulfilment"?

porthouse7:
ur opinion bro... am a guy

You have obviously been heavily brainwashed by women for a long time, hence your view.

Yamiriflathead:
Don't mind that mumu...
What does he even mean by marry right?
Mumu men don't know that the reason why they're not going through turmois in marriage is because they've been exercising their providential qualities

Na one of those yeye idiots that vomit what they are told by daft "Elders" and religious leaders and then think they are making sense.

porthouse7:
forget that F... na prick I carry 8 inches tool