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nyiamfrank:
nice one.

But can not see my tow tow colour as them dey Bleep me.

The child or children go still watch as them dey samba their mother

Their classmate go see their mother kpekus as odunga dey penetrate and the whole class will be happy including her children.

Disgrace to motherhood!
OduduWayo afonjas

Well, while when your own children grow up in poverty, na olosho trade dey await dem when dem grow up.

Their classmates will know that na different old men and boys from abroad dey penetrate dem for a few thousand naira.

Money for hand, back for ground!

Her child or children do not have that problem.

What are you doing to help your children avoid that fate?

tillaman:
Una no nice for this forum ooo
All of una wey dey above me no show tiwa love na so so I will straff this girl or another sextape I dey see

And they are all guys wey never touch woman for the past two years except dem pay.

Vaseline Boys with big mouth!

silverlinen:
Very soon na sex tape again
Ashi wey dey use workout dey collect

While you are in poverty begging people to "bless" you?

Kriss216:
Porn actress doing what she does best.

Yep, she is doing what she does best.

She is showing she is in better shape than you.

She is showing she is hotter than you.

She is showing she is richer than you.

She is showing she has more success than you.

She is showing her child(ren) will have a better life and future than you and your children.

So can you compare her life to yours?

@mollie12,

You missed out the biggest issue: IQ.

The current Nigerian "yoots" are dumb. They have a very low IQ.

You just read through NL and evaluate their contributions and written thought.

Go through the first 2 pages of the historical post of many of those that have commented on this thread. See if they have made any intellectual posts recently or they are just contributing low-IQ comments.

The current Nigerian "yoot" only knows about "My EPL team", his/her betting strategy "business", BBN and/or tribalism.

Useless, unemployable lot!

You will soon see many of the idiotic "yoots" screaming "I am Atikulated" or "Jagagban".

Watch! Bookmark this post.

May the lives of such youths and their descendants continue being destroyed.

May it be destroyed until (i) they cannot see any hope again, (ii) they are seriously hungry & destitute, and (iii) they have no way out of Nigeria.

Tomek09:
Many people do not know that Ebonyi International Airport is likely going to become the largest and most beautiful airport in Nigeria at completion.

This is what they call "pure moronic delusions".

BosseJ:
If Sanwo-Olu can deliver this blue line before December, his re-election will be sure banker. No opposition party would be allowed to come and derail the remaining sections of the rail project. This metro rail project is a very big deal for Lagos, and will be the most indelible legacy of the Tinubu-Fashola-Ambode-SanwoOlu administrations.

Fixed!

Remove that fooool!

exey:
animals too just like humans has rights

Some Animals Rights and Ethics most people are not aware of includes:

No experiments on animals.

No breeding and killing animals for food or clothes or medicine.

No use of animals for hard labour.

No selective breeding for any reason other than the benefit of the animal.

No hunting.

No zoos or use of animals in entertainment.

How do they have rights?

gfon:
be calming down oga,if you feel she doesn't need help,some of us are willing to help.Dont, attack others that want to. From my conclusion on this story,I guess she was extremely in love with her husband and felt that he would change soon,but since he didn't,let her try and find her way and pick up her life again. Everyone makes mistakes,and am sure she has realized her's. If she had left wen this all started,you would still blame her for not sticking with her husband and trying to change him for the better.Shit happens bro,abeg try cut the woman some slack

Love no suppose be mumu!

Mistake is when you do something without having a view of the repercussions.

Mistake is when you make an error once.

The above two are what everyone does.

When you make the same errors repeatedly and it ends up destroying your own and dependents' lives, it is something else.

That is not what everyone does.

Darlingme:
My dear, you and I don't have the same approach to life issues. So, stay on your lane

Yes o.

My approach will never get me into this kind of mess and my lane will be more productive.

Darlingme:
This is really sad. @op, it's unfortunate all your efforts did not yeild positive result.
Stop blaming yourself for being a fool. Every kind hearted wife will do what you did. Weldon.
The same people that blame you, had it being you run away from the early stage and paraventure your husband commit sucide, they would have still call you a wicked wife who abandoned her addicted husband.

Thank God, you've realize the position you are right now.
You need to stand up for yourself and your children. Reject depression and sucide.
If you're a christain, tell your spiritual leaders and family members. Ask for assistance and build up your finances.


Respond to your dm, I will also help with job search.

Cheers

Birds of the same feather!

loveliveshere:
Dear OP
Sorry about your predicament. That man is suffering from a terrible addiction. If you are a believer, I'll suggest you pray for him and let the Holy Spirit change him. Bear in mind that you can't help him except the Holy Spirit. Don't bother him nor nag him henceforth. Ignore him if you can, face your 8 year old and be healthy for the sake of the incoming child.
May you find strength.

Yes o!

OP, depend on and go and eat your Holy Spirit!

No one should help you from the decisions you made.

dobnina:
You are right. OP is an enabler. She is blinded by love and any money given to her now will surely end up in her husband's pocket indirectly.

Let her eat and feed her children her "love".

SimeonOTC:
Please NOBODY, I mean BODY should financially assist this lady..if at all, you should assist, words of advise are enough..
@O.P you are not emotionally and financially matured enough to make decisions..stay where you are and manage your husband

Even with all this, you still go carry belle

You are not looking for help to assist yourself, you just want to assist your husband

He probably might have told you he has gotten some sure odd

Thank you!

Mercychen:
What we're you thinking?
You had a lifetime opportunity to start making a saving money, you threw it away by giving it to a wishful spender and an addicted gambler. Now youre requesting for another job.

Is it love or the fear of being kicked out of marriage that makes some women to stop thinking or doing the right when their spouses are misbehaving?
You knew the kind of person he was yet you went ahead to let take up a job meant for you. Now he's mismanaging funds, starving you and your child, your eyes suddenly opened.

Hopefully, someone will come to your aid.

She is busy depending on "prayer".

"Sense", black people struggle to depend on.

olabrinks:
Why you carry second belle for a man that is useless? You’re supposed to re marry with the one child that you have, although not easy but still possible. Even if you marry a single father, is it not better than the nuisance that you call a husband ? Now you will have two children for this man, where do you want to go? You better sit down and manage your husband like that. You want to kill yourself before your time, carrying newborn up and down and slaving away to provide for your family. I just pity you. This is the reason why your husband sees you as a rug, because you don’t even respect yourself. Good luck.

No mind am.

Thank you!

faithfull18:
Problem no dey finish, focus on yourself, if anything happens to you, your husband will re-marry. May we not fall into the wrong hands.

More like: May we have sense!

Luvinghrt4:
Pls, someone help me. What should I do with my life? I'm two months pregnant and I'm going through depression. It would have been peaceful if I just die, but what happened to my 8 yrs old son?
My husband is addicted to betting and I've done everything to stop him, all to no avail.
Sometimes, I've followed him to betting shop, some times, I come in the morning still come back to meet him in the evening at the same spot. standing from morning to evening, looking tired, stressed, hungry but he wouldn't leave until he finished the whole money he had.

I wish I'm fianancially ok, so, I can ignored him, but right now, I am not.

When I had money, I was taking care of everything without complaining. I even place him on 20k monthly salary for several months from the money I made from my business when he had nothing to do. Yet, he was gambling with it and was always apologiesing.
I have been advising him, praying with him, but it seems he has decided not to change.
I have finally discovered that he's heartless, he don't care about us.
Nothing is pushing him into gambling, he's just greedy.

He can use his last Money to gamble and return home to meet us hungry with nothing.
He uses mine as well, but I wasn't paying attention.
In October last yr, he made me loan my business capital to his elderst bro who was processing Visa. he knew, that money was all we had. His brother bridge the agreement and started refunding installmentally. That was how I lost my capital. We had nothing, so we were solely depending on what he was refunding. ( My business capital) I couldn't talk, because I don't want to sound disrespectful to his elderst bro.

Since I met my husband, he had never had a reasonable job and I have been there for him. toward last year ending, someone I helped long time ago called me for a job, i declined and recommend my husband instead. He got the job.
Since, he started earning 80k - 90k salary in a month, his attitude change. He prefer to spend the whole day in betting shop. But once the whole money finishes, he will return with apology and behaving well.
Some days, we go to bed without food. I can't believe since 3days, we've not eating any meaningful food in this house. he doesn't care because he eats from restaurant.

Please,
I need a job or little capital to continue my business pls. if I'm going to have this baby in 7 months time, then, I need to fianancially equipment myself, otherwise, we will suffer. I need to save money and get an accomodation. I need to move out of this house before I suffocate to death.
Pls, someone help me or what should I do to relive myself of the pain I'm going through.
Someone advice me please

Someone should help you from your own stupidity?

You keep on messing up your life and then you want to pass the blame on someone else and then ask others to save you?

What nonsense!

So you did not have sense to realise he was useless when he was spending morning till night on one spot betting?

So you did not have sense to realise he was useless when you were giving him 20K every month and he was losing it every month?

You were forgiving him when he apologises?

You had no sense and got pregnant AGAIN for such a useless human being?

You had business capital and in your "wisdom" you decided to waste it with his brother?

You had a chance to change and control your life with a job but you said they should pass it to a useless person?

Now you now say people should come and save you?

Dem never create the language I want to use to curse you!

My friend, gerrout of here and go back to your "prayers".

Cover your belly, woman!

Who wants to see your nonsense baby bump?

Why do some silly women think this crap culture of showing baby bump is nice or attractive?

Cover your damn belly, idiota!

Congratulations having a child, but I don't need to see your belly if I am not your doctor or husband.

Righteousness2:
Oga Father! You need to be more specific.

Inasmuch as there are fake pastors and Prophets who make merchandise of people with fake stuffs, there are also Real servants of GOD that GOD ALMIGHTY is using to do impossible things. MIRACLES are real! I have seen People get Miracles and I myself have been hit by Miracles.

If you want to see Miracles, not just in people but also in your own life! Then save this date.
12th & 13th of February 2022 @ The Lords Chosen Charismatic revival Ministries Headquarters at IJesha, Lagos.
From Sorrow to JOY!
After this Encounter, I guarantee you that you will look for me to thank me.

If miracles are real, how come there has been no miracle to make you intelligent?

The following companies are the CORRUPTION VEHICLES for the criminals:

- GIX Engineers Infrastructure Excellence
- Yaroso & Partnership Ltd
- Kyari Consults SDMBHD
- Jamood Global Services Limited

These are the companies without competence being paid hundreds of millions of dollars for "consultancy" by Rotimi Ameachi.

Dangrace01:
Wow bro. Amazing!!!!!!!!.

Mediator. Are you the creator of this idea?

No o.

It has been in existence before even I was born.

KVN1:
Good afternoon all.
I dropped out of school at 200level because I could no longer cope with my responsibilities at home and my studies altogether. Had to defer so I can continue much later in future after I achieve balance. Now I am trying to learn a skill,but for two months now, I have only been able to accumulate just a little more than ten working days at work.
When I don't go to work, I go in search of menial jobs but everything now seems like a rat race. Time is really flying and I find myself going to work (as an apprentice) on an empty stomach most times.

I can't even cope or even concentrate with neither skill nor school because of I'm so broke..

I didn't go anywhere today.. just in bed, hungry and confused.

What do you think I should do?
what's the way forward?

I am going to try and help you, but you must do some few things first.

Firstly, I want you to take this test.

https://www.16personalities.com/

It is completely free of charge and should take less than 10-20 minutes to complete.

Make sure you answer all questions 100% truthfully, otherwise you are wasting your own time.

When you take it, tell me your outcome.

luizpippo:
https://www.nairaland.com/attachments/14345253_screenshot20211007085119362com_simplemobiletools_gallery_jpeg8be52c41635952874fafdad5f61cd6cf

Black monkey, you want me to believe your phone has camera?

TrishaOvie:
Apparently you're Only Gamesmart Fool

Are they not scum?

Abi na trans dem bi?

luizpippo:
Has PMB given the OP better work now?

IQ of a chimpanzee right here.

Great2017:
What has English got to do with the salient facts he has raised?

Or is it English that is transforming the economy of China, Singapore, Taiwan, Germany, etcetera?

With your acclaimed English Language command, you chose retardation and senility over competence and capacity.

Hide your head in shame.

You are a fooool!

How can you get in a debate in English when you cannot read and comprehend English?

Rugaria:
Jokes apart, you sound like you are describing yourself..
Obviously, anybody reading knows that you're as dense as they come..

No, that is what you are.

That is what fooools that think Jonnadaft was "transforming Nigeria" are.

Una be cretins!