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LegendHero:
So they can use it legally.

Why do you think USA ask you “Have you ever been a terrorist” when applying for visa?

They know you will always say no, but it’s a legal question. So that in the future if they later find out it’s a lie, they already have your confession to use against you.

JAMB mentioned clearly that if you already had admission, you must indicate. That won’t stop you for writing JAMB again but they just want to have your confession.

Zionmdde:
Rubbish
Some people studying zoology, botany etc would want to rewrite jamb for better courses
.Why are they even asking for admission status when they are the ones that issue admission letters in the first place and should have that in their database

Bunch of incompetent body

Putindbutt:
One thing about Tinubu is the fact that he has big balls. The only African President that would vote against the US on international politics of Isreal-Gaza war, he has consistently maintained Nigeria is against Isreali occupation in Gaza. He has strongly condemned Isreal's attacks on Qatar. He has condemned Russia's occupation in Ukraine. He looked Trump in the eyes and told him to go to hell as his tariffs plans has no effect on Nigeria's revenue inflows. Jagaban fears nobody. He will never cower to Trump as some African Presidents did when they were bullied and embarrassed at the white house.

iwaeda:
I have been to this factory before. We used to eat the brown sugar. Dangote killed this one too, after the woman plane crash.

ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad

shortgun:
Demons will torture you forever

shortgun:
Just small play Nathaniel don rush go court
Nathaniel is a gospel singer, he's expected to promote the teachings of Jesus Christ which has it's foundation in forgiveness and prayers to one's adversaries.

Maks27:
that’s personal
But I confirmed it and I’m not a child

Prettycute90:
Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him.
I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.

We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.

He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives.
Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.

He is a chronic gambler.
No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble.
Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.

To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself.
My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work.
Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.

I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.


Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy.
I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house.
We had two children and I don't intend having any other.
The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much.
School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.

We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.

Are these not enough reasons to divorce him?
During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me.
I see that as way to make my children suffers.

What can you advise please?

I just want peace of mind.

I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.

EcoNews:
Is your father cursed beyond redemption
Why not open a thread for that or who ask your father for the rubbish you are spill here

Diligent1:
You are a manipulator

Felimax:
I love my wife so much, she was just one in a billion.

The way we started and the dreams and projects ahead of us will not allow us to get deterred by our same genotype.

We are both AS and right now we are blessed with an angel and three handsome princes.

My sister rejected her AS genotype husband to be and ran after an AA genotype man who she later married bad as it is they have been married for like six years now but no child.

My marriage of seven years is blessed with four kids already.

Bottom line - go to your God and talk to Him about it.
PLEASE DON'T SHOUT, DON'T SHOUT when you are talking to your God. If you shout you will hardly hear Him talking to you..

He will tell you your next line of action. Marriage is of God not man.

Throw the NON away and keep the SENSE.