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Dremskeji:
I can relate with your situation bro but the simple lesson your wife has taught you now is that when you do good do not let your left hand knows what your right hand is doing.

In as much as I support being open to your wife through and through, I believe the mindset of some wives cannot comprehend some things especially when it doesn't have a direct benefit on her union with you.

This is my opinion, try speak with your Pastor Friend in private about this issue and make him understand why you might not necessarily be consistent in supporting him at the moment.
I believe if his calling is sure, it will not be a burden to him considering the fact that you've never complained such to him before now.

At this point, put your union first and ensure your future seeds is between you and God alone cos your wife might halt the flow again.
Who knows whether your seeds is the leverage your family is even enjoying at this moment.

The lesson here for everyone is that if your partner is not supportive � to your spiritual investments or instructions, just keep these things to yourself. It's not an offence abeg! Abraham, Isaac and Joseph (Jesus's father) did same.

Metalman:
Good afternoon Nairalanders.
Please I need your sincerely and experience advice because my home is in disarray. Sometime in 2014, a friend and a university coursemate who had a singing ministry approached me to partner with him in his ministry by sowing monetary seed of any amount I decided. So I told him I will pray over it and get back to him. After a month, I told him that I want to be supporting him with #3000 per month. Then I was earning #58000 as a working graduate in the federal government ministry. The pastor told me after some months that he sees me going higher and getting a bigger job that will make me earn more than I am earning now and gave me a testimony about a lady who has been supporting his ministry and got elevated. Needless to say that my younger brother had also told me after fasting and prayers that he saw me getting another job where I will be earning #200,000 plus. That I should just quit the present job I was doing and wait for that one. I prayed about it and decided to stay on the present job till God change my job as He has confirmed to me in a dream. In less than 6 months into the job I got a job offer of #205,000 monthly. After settling down, I approached the pastor and promised to increase what I give him monthly to #7000. After a year, he called me to inform my that he has been ordained a pastor and he is starting a full church that he will have additional responsibilities and will appreciate it if I can add anything to the present sum I give. I agreed and started sending him #10,000 monthly till date. He was someone I knew but I had never had the opportunity to visit his ministry to see where my money has been going due to the tight schedules of my work thou he had invited me severally. Now back to the issue on ground. I got married in 2016 and before then told my wife about this guy and everything about me the pastor because he had also advised me to do that and get back to him. She seems cool with it and I told the pastor that there is no problems. This year 2018 she started telling me that must I be sending the pastor money monthly? Can't i reduce it and let it even been once in a while when we have enough? I met my wife in the same company I got this new job. We are at the same salary scale. She later reported the issue to mother who came to nurse our new born baby. The mother sat me down and adviced not to give that pastor money that I am not giving God money in the right way by giving that pastor the money. That it can be my local assembly or my parents and I will receive blessings. That I should stop it or unless there is more than meet the eye that I don't want anyone to know. My wife came up last week that she will not assist me in anything in my house since I still went ahead and send money to the pastor despite her plea, that I have enough money to send to a pastor and allow her to starve. She rained all manner of insults at me in front of her mother and our little baby. That henceforth foodstuffs she normally buy will be my responsibility, our baby, her up keep and her family will be solely mine to carter for. She has the pastor's phone number and she has threaten to call the him to iron out issues with him. She even quoted a scripture to me that "he who doesn't take care of his family is worse than an infidel" to justify her position. Dear nairalanders I need your help now. What should i do. Because as I am talking to you my marrage is been threaten, the plans we had together with my wife has scattered.

Toks2008:
You are wrong.

Depression is mental illness so whilst people think sane people commit suicide, on the contrary, most people who take their own lives drift into insanity before commuting the act hence may not be judged by GOD the way we humans think.

sigiyaya:
NIGERIA : The land of generals without war, professors without discovery, politicians without ideology, wealth without prosperity, religion without piety, leaders without vision, the oppressed without worries, courts without justice, criminals without fears, history without glory, heroes without honor, schools without learning, artists without taste, intellectuals without thought, terrorists without identity, appointees without life, hunger without famine, change without progress, next level without foundation, democracy without citizens, unity without love, heroes without sacrifice, policies without plans, crime without culprits, saints without humility, integrity without performance, wars without enemies, billionaires without business, youth without dreams, elders without wisdom

I weep for Nigeria!!

alBHAGDADI:
We are gradually getting to the stage when you won't be able to say anything against filthy homosexuals for fear of losing your job. Some fools don't know the evil agenda these filthy animals have for mankind, that's why they keep saying trash like "leave them alone as long as it's not your anus". Did they leave Lot and the two angels who visited him alone? No, they wanted to have anal sex with the angels, imagine!

These animals are the reason why we have HIV/AIDS today. It was first discovered in their LGBTQ community and was called Gay Related Immune Deficiency (GRID). It was later the name got changed to this politically correct HIV/AIDS we now know it to be.

Ebuka, keep trying to impress mankind by being overly conscious of your dress sense. You are just an inch away from crossing into being a gay, that's if you are not already one. Fashion conscious men are often effeminate. I wonder why a man would be so concerned about his looks that he will be dragging mirror with women.

Men are supposed to be rough because we were designed to do rough work But these days all we see are men killing themselves over big name brands like Gucci and Fendi. I even find it funny how they pay up to 200k for a Gucci shirt which has the brand name written boldly on front of it. They don't know that it makes them look like a walking signboard. Imagine advertising for the company for free even after paying that much.

csbenedict:
get your lawyer. I don't do scam.

highly legit.

Xcelinteriors:
The careless mother should be jailed for life. How can you leave a toddler all alone to buy one useless thing from the market? Who does that? She is not worthy be called a mother

NwaAmaikpe:



Charles and Camilla Parker-Bowles are a proof that true love never dies.

Charles married Diana but his heart was with Camilla. He even spent his first wedding night with her.
Camilla married someone else because she couldn't be with Charles but they were romantically involved all through their various marriages.

God didn't want their love to waste. So he took Diana who was the clog in their love wheel away.
Once Diana was dead, Camilla divorced her husband and Charles married the love of his life at the expense of the throne.

MORAL
Don't give up on love even when the other person is married.
Because they are married doesn't mean you two can't continue to enjoy what you once shared.

Mykel4God:
https://www.nairaland.com/4340181/n10k-10-students-each-phase

I'm not denying it cos this is what I was banned from when I commented.........I'm also a student and fingers are not equal so don't think everyone that comes here for help is here to scam

Mykel4God:
Hello famz

Please, I'm in an urgent need of help.....I posted on Friday that my little sister got admission and we're to pay #25, 250 for acceptance fee, I've been able to gather #15,000 including the help of a gold hearted nairalander, we're expected to pay latest tomorrow else the admission will be forfeited.

Please, I'm not asking for all, I just need any little help anyone can render, anyone willing to help should please reach me on 0703 686 0803

Thanks and God bless in anticipation

Hassan88:
Food for thought: Never u disclose your coming in or going out to anyone except your parents. He announced his coming to the world and they took advantage. The same death that took ur life is also awaiting them. Rest in peace brother.

Badooguy:
ATIKULATED 1000000%

Kidspirit:
I could make a t-shirt out of this, would you buy? See my signature