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Yxxx:
I dated a guy briefly but started experiencing some bad events.
I later dreamt i saw him and he's brother wearing red coming out of a tree. I had to reconsider the relationship.

GoodIsGod:
A Seria-Leonian girl who has been eyeing me at Church and had started getting close one day during a night vigil outside the church building suddenly pulled me closer and stole a kiss. I was surprised. I didn't fight her but since that day I was using style to stay away from her.
One day without asking her questions she came over to me and said "Bro. So and so, do you know I am from the sea?" I was shocked. I said how do you mean and she replied even my mum too.
Really, I was not all that surprised because sometimes she looks neat and pretty and at a times she would look horrible and you'd wonder why. With those words from her, I gradually increased the gap I gave her.

But I never told anyone her secret. I kept it to myself and myself alone.


These other incident happened to a friend. Trust me this is a true story. The person is my close pal.
To all atheists. This is real.
Don't mind typo errors please.

He was coming from Portharcourt to Ibadan. He boarded a car with a lady. He started chatting with girl and was buying things for the girl all the way. Food, perf and body cream.
Instead of going to Ibadan straight, he headed to Lagos with the girl . He eventually convinced the lady they should lodge at a hotel till the following day since it was already evening. The lady agreed.

They got a room and after a while they went to buy Suya and drinks as dinner. The hotel guy gave them a plate and forks. They ate and before they slept, the lady said she wanted to shower so she entered the bathroom. My guy too told the her that he wanted to ask the hotel manager something so he left the room. He actually went to keep his money with the manager because he didn't trust the girl.

By the time he came back upstairs the lady had finished bathing and was on bed. My guy entered the bathroom too and took a bath. He came back and ask the babe they should have sex and she said she was tired and doesn't have interest. My guy talked and talked even begged. Babe no gree. Na so he applied force.
The lady withdrew and suddenly rolled off bed and landed hard on the floor. She remained stiff and my guy ran to her picked her up and her eyes had turned like as if she was dead. My guy called her so tey no response. Na so he ran downstairs go call manager.
They both rushed upstairs and met her same way he left her.
They both carried her on the bed. And the manager told my guy he should not panic that they will find solution in the morning. So he left. And my guy could not sleep he was already shedding tears and he sat on the bed praying.
Suddenly the lady rose up with the loudest noise roaring like a lion. Her eyes turned wild and the hair on her head stood up in strands.
My guy said he didn't know that as loud as the noise was he was the only who heard it. He got to know that later.

He stood up and ran to the plate and picked a fork and he was shouting Jesus save me, Jesus save me.

He said girl laughed and said He will not save you because this is not what He sent you. Then he started begging the girl.
Then, she said you claim you are not married. Whose child are they doing the naming next tomorrow.
My guy said it is mine. I am sorry.

He said she said again "you went to give money to the man downstairs. Do you think I am thief? My guy said "I am sorry you are right.

She now said "you are very lucky because you have been good to me on the way from Portharcourt. I would have taught you a lesson."
Next time a woman says no to sex you don't force her okay?
My guy said okay.
Then she said I forgive you, you can go to sleep.

My guy thanked her but stayed awake all night.

In the morning my guy went to collect the money and gave her some but she rejected it but rather she asked him to make a request and that she would grant it.
My guy was afraid and said she should not worry
Then she left him and never took along all the things he bought for her on their way coming.

This is a true story.
My guy would tell it all the time and never miss a line.

Purifychy:
Chai!.....Godwin was my husband BESTMAN when we did our wedding.







Hey! Uwa nka

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

AlexJustin:
A Nairalander pleaded with me to help him post the issues he's having in his marriage here for Advice and counsel.

This is his exact word.

"After I traveled for work. Which took me almost a year outside Nigeria
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When I came back, I then discovered that my wife had been having an affair with the guy she called her bestie.

This was the same guy I caught her with during our courtship. But she said they were just friends. And now, after 2 years of marriage, I still caught my wife having an affair with the same guy.

When I asked her, she told me it was because of issue we had when I was around.

Please I need people's advice. I am finding it hard to forget it and it's hurting me every day."

Pls your Advise is needed. No insult please.

premierlead:
I think it would be better sending her away as I don't want to be faced with depression or hypertension at this stage of life, though she has been begging for another chance. Thinking of reporting her to mum and her people

Kobojunkie:
1. You and your wife need to decide whether to help your child or your egos instead.

2. I live in the very same US, and also dealing with 3 boys here - a 9-year old, 6-year old and a 3-year old so , I know of the rudiments of raising a child in the US,and there is absolutely nothing difficult about it. In Nigeria, the adults place themselves and their convenience before the needs of the child whereas here in the US, the focus is rightly to place the needs of the child ahead of that of the adults.

I too was flogged as a child but it was not the beatings that made me a better person, instead it was the attention I gave myself and got from my folks that helped me turn out better than most who even got flogged way more than I was.

3. You as a parent are expected to raise your own kids. Teachers aren't meant to raise them for you. So you need to do a better job as a father to your own child instead of expecting others to do the work for you.

There are ways to discipline your child without what you call an arse whooping. Get him therapy so as to help you better understand him and his personality now that he is still young. Take away his toy if you have to. Play soccer with him if joining the soccer club is not working out for him. Work with him to understand him and how best to train him. That is your job and responsibility since you chose to have him.

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

Sheleads:
I want more, i love the guy.

jimmyolasun:
No wrong. He said he tapped it then it worked.. there is a certain thing or project his dad is working or doing. Or he is to finish a journey is dad couldn't end..

Cc b3llo

YourFavorite21:
I'm facing the same thing too. But my own case is that I'm a Final year student, and I needed money to start my project, plus other things in school I don't want to bother my dad( baba don try for me abeg) because he just paid my school fees of 160k, plus my Lodge rent and textbook money too, and he's also paying my younger sisters school fees, (100 level) too, plus my other siblings, now, it's time to payback and I don't even have any means, as I've used the money to pay for my project.

loosingfaith519:
Yes. That's he's only problem.
What's the medication?

Simran94:
Hope this same advice is valid if reverse was the case? Because we know men hardly forgive cheating wives

FeliciaOja:
Her parents should rest abeg, the girl has moved on with her Islamic husband
She is now a mother of 4 living in Niger republic or chad

aribisala0:
Can you show me one time that has ever happened? EVER?? Even when they shout
There are so many ways around that. Is is not Nigerian police ? That is not even an issue There are one million plausible explanations and they can even cut the drugs with starch or anything i

Also so what if they shout? what can they do? It is their word against the police. Who will listen? Is it a person that pleads NOT GUILTY that will shout. It is that same trick of swapping with starch or whatever that many use to escape prison.
If somebody is willing to send you to prison he has already prepared his mind for you to do your worst.

It seems strange that an experienced crook like Kyari would make such schoolboy errors . This was a conversation with someone he had no previous dealings with. He just went and met him first time and started talking like that? Who introduced them?

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Rachel98:
Good morning everyone. Hope we're having a wonderful week.

My Elder brother is doing well, no doubt he's the breadwinner in our family But his wife is so rude, too authoritative, she's full of pride and she looks down on people. She see everyone as her employee, she does not care if her actions or words hurts you, she's quick to slap at any slightest provocation. She's an event planner, please are event planners this rude??

She's the main reason why we barely visit our brother, despite we all live in the same city, we feel like a total stranger in our brother's house. Probably she's using "jazz" on him, I don't know But everything she does seems cool to him.

I managed to spend the weekend with them, since on friday she act like my presence irritates her. The maid prepared semo and vegetable soup, i don't eat swallow that like, so she saw me cooking noodles, she rudely said why're you not eating semo? Why are you people so selective? Then she left the kitchen. I just maintained my cool.

Yesterday she slapped her maid just because the plantain she told her to fry wasn't brown enough (maybe she wanted burnt sacrifice plantain). My elder brother calmly said honey you shouldn't have slapped her just becus of plaintain. The next she told my brother was "Defender!! go and marry her nw"

This morning, I jejely packed my belongings on my way to work, I entered my brother's car so he can drop me at the bus-stop, I just told him I won't be coming to his place anymore, once I'm done with work today I'm going home straight. And the annoying part, he would be asking me why? As if he's blind, he can't see how rude and ill-mannered his wife is.

His wife has really separated my brother from us, his own family. We don't even know what to do.

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

FlipModeSquade:
You are very nonsensical buffoon..

When and where did Eguavoen stab Keshi?

Eguavoen coached SE before Keshi..

So how did you come up with your stupid allegations?

You should be jailed for libel and character assassination..

7victor:
It is like what happened to me when I was doing MSc.

I put my phone on a wall close to where I was writing the first semester exams.

One external supervisor came and asked who got the phone.

I foolishly said it was my phone.

He then turned the back of my exams card and showed me where it was written that students should not so much as come into exams hall with phone.

All my 5 courses of the first semester were cancelled and I was asked to write them again.

That automatically meant my set passed me and I had to write the courses with a new set of students who would be admitted the next year.

It was one of the worst things to happen to me academically.

I wrote the courses the next year and scored "A"s in all the courses.

The previous ones I wrote,I didn't score as good as these last ones.

But guess what: After my external examination, when I was about to collect my statement of result,I discovered the school was using the scores for the exams they cancelled, and not the second scores which were the authentic ones and which would have made me have a first class.

The scores for the exams they cancelled are the ones that are used in my MSc transcript.

Just because they don't want me to have a first class in my MSc

AmuRubber:
The fact that I stumbled on this post at exactly 12 am is enough to make my skin crawl.

b3llo:
Thanks for responding.

My Dad passed away almost 5 years ago. I had a dream that I took his brown leather wristwatch from his bedside drawer. I noticed the watch wasn't working it stopped at almost to 3 o'clock then I tapped it to continue working. After using it I didn't return it though, I was compelled by someone to return it of which I didnt. He, didn't ask of it which was unusual though he was lying down quietly on the bed when I took the watch.


The dream is quite weird to me

b3llo:
I had a dream n please I need an interpretation

deewhytee:
The second experience I had was with a friend of mine.
We were course mates at the University, and somewhat became a bit close.

So when we were through at the uni, everyone dispersed, but I later got to know that she was living in the same city I settled in.
So she invited me over for a visit and I went, and decided to spend the night at her house, cus the distance between her house and mine was quite much.

Anyway, we sha gisted into the night and I slept in her room, on the same bed.
Immediately I closed my eyes, I just started having dream attacks...all sorts.. like someone was actually pinching me etc and suddenly I woke up, only to find my so-called friend staring at me with a smile on her face!
And she was like they were attacking you, abi?
I was shocked!

Omo... I just started praying immediately and speaking in tongues, till I overcame my fright and was able to go back to sleep.

That day was the day I discovered that my friend na coded witch oo.
Don't know why she decided to attack me and I didn't ask.
But from that day, I gave her a wide berth, till she travelled out of the country.

This is the first time I would be sharing this too.
Never told anyone before now.

deewhytee:
Well, I've had so many experiences like I said earlier, but let me just share one or two.

First one happened one time I was coming back home from church. (This thing happened more than ten years ago).
I was driving home on the expressway to my house in the night, around 7:30-8pm, and suddenly, my car headlights just went off.
I parked somewhere near a petrol station and tried everything I could to bring the lights back on to no avail, and I started panicking cos there was no way I could leave my car there and go home.

So I decided to continue driving, trying to use other vehicles' rear lights to guide me, but I was finding it difficult.
Suddenly, a white salon car just came out of nowhere, and I started following it, and this car actually led me home.
It wasn't moving too fast, and because it was pure white, I could see it in the dark.

To cut the long story short, this car actually made a turn to everywhere I was supposed to pass through to get home, and when I finally got to my neighborhood, it just branched off somewhere, and till date, I never saw that car again.

Someone might say it's coincidental, but my question is.. why did it come out of nowhere..
Why was it going to exactly my direction, without speeding too much that I could follow it safely.
Why did it eventually branch off when I got to my hood where I was able to safely get home?
And why was it WHITE?
No doubt, that was no coincidence but divine help from above.

Never shared this story until now.
GOD IS REAL!

deewhytee:
So love this thread!
Wish it wouldn't die.
I have so many experiences I would have loved to share too, but let me keep quiet, cus some are quite outrightly unbelievable.
But believe you me, they're real and not imagined and most of them happened to me as an adult.

This world is deeper than the natural eyes can see, and the natural brain can fathom.

May GOD help us all.

CsRockefeller:

“I was encouraged by what I heard, nobody told me. Two statements from the south-south. One by the elderly people, they said this time around there would be no (secession). And again the youth made the same statement; such encouragement,” Buhari said.

I am an Igbo person and in support of Biafra (though, not the IPOB way). You see this cryptic message President Buhari just sent is a master stroke and I applaud him for that, he is beginning to match up and that means we have to match him up better.

Now to the main point, the highlighted quote up there is nothing but the truth. I have carefully analysed and dissected Nigeria economically and politically and without bias, I can and will tell you that Niger-Delta is the piece holding Nigeria together. The talk of secession is rubbish without the South South endorsement and the quickest way to end Nigeria is for the S.S to say they are no longer interested.

So, as long as those leaders gave him their support,he has nothing to worry about. It's painful, but that's the fact.

The only worry is that, for a people/region that is the fulcrum to a Nation like Nigeria, the Niger Delta is fast asleep. Maybe the few billions they throw at then is ok but the the day the people of Niger Delta wake up (and I don't mean by blowing up oil pipelines or giving Ghana must go to the likes of Asari and Tompolo) but a radical ideological and behavioural change, then Nigeria will wake up and overtake Nations that have left her behind.

Niger Deltans wake up, stop drinking, stop all vices and act like the mill oiling this engine called Nigeria.