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i feel u just handle the situation with care or else your wife will be in your mother's bad book forever. u know mothers are quick to acuse their daughter inlaws of turning their son against them a child she care in her womb for nine months bla bla bla what she cant do to her daughter who is married she'll do to her daughter inlaw.just plead with your wife to be patient for the love of u.

how on earth can anyone ever compare omotola to rita i have seem them both and have gotten close omotola is far more beautiful there's no bases for comparisim.

hmmm, guys be carefull o! this looks like scam to me.

donmayor, how on earth can u compare a monkey to a human,don't u have respect for people? who ever is laughing at someone,someone somewhere is laughing at u.

ij, i can sence fear in you there nothing to be afriad of there's a center in yaba
is called nigerian institute of medical research and every information is about anyone is highly classified.
your voluntary test cast #1500 any subsequent test is fee if you are hiv+ including drugs.

ij, i can sence fear in you there nothing to be afriad of there's a center in yaba
is called nigerian institute of medical research and every information is about anyone is highly classified.
your voluntary test cast #1500 any subsequent test is fee if you are hiv+ including drugs.

hiv can stay in the body for eight to ten year befor you strart to see the symptoms that is why it is good u go for testing early enough and for u to see the signs that mean your immune systen is down which is not a good sign cos if not properly managed it can lead to aids and we all know what will happen.u can not contact the virus by using condoms.the good news is there some test u can unergo and it will reveal what year and month u contacted the virus. i have lost a cousin and a friend aids. my cousin never know he had the virus until it turned to aids i saw him a could hardly recognise him. we were still close until he passed on and my friend know some she had it but was too ashamed to talk about it or get help by the time the family knew it was too late i knew she wasn't going to make it. i never had any of the symptom of hiv cos i went for voluntary testing and im glad i did cos the wider test i took showed that i ve had the virus for about 1year, im living with the virus and that how is going to remain i'll never have aids and im healther than health. im doing my best to educted people on it so pls,pls,and pls go for voluntary testing today hiv virus is not contact through sex alone like most people think.

my nairalanders,i was told yesterday that the 1 in *555*1* represnts #1 and it for our former president olusegun obasanjo cos he brought mtn to nigeria,everytime you dial *555*1* and load your credit #1 is deducted from it with out you knowing.i dont know how far and true the story is thats why im posting it here cos i know i'll get first hand information here. thanx

haba olu-hak, how can u say such a thing that women where trousers to church to scoop for men? do u know what is in there hearts? or u have suddenly become a mind reader yet u say are a christan.shame on you.

hmmm lovemajek,i want to asume u are a christian and u know what ur bible say about judging people .you have judged me and sentenced me to hell already,anyway i hope u know about the 3 wonders of this world? i'll tell u those you think will not go to heaven,those u expect to see there,and finding yourself there.think about it.

pls tell us.

upraising,
dont u think there should be someone else the holy spirit should talk to as well? pls dont get me
wrong im not saying what u said is not true ,i mean among the ladies if not all of them?.

hi,
yuor friend is not the only one living wt hiv.im also hiv possitive and its not the end of the world
infact for me life had just started. my emails is posted here u can ask your friend to mail me so that we can meet.

what in the world is she thinking? im very sure she's told at the center she cant breast feed her baby
exept the want to infect the child wt her virus.

all these bann or no bann thing is hypocrisy are women just wearing trousers to church? how can somebody say
women should not wear trousers to church cos he now has the conviction that its wrong, how about the people who wear it,what if they've not had the conviction that it's wrong? this is where freewill comes in.im not a church goer and it doesn't affect me in anyway. i think no one has the right to impose his or her belifes on anyone.

thanx u all for your replies and critics,
i think some of u should try and find out what freethinking is all about and who a free thinker is?
im glad im a freethinker and i'll remain so. if christianity is about trying to impose your belifes on other people
by telling them they are wrong in their own ideas and opinion then christianity is wrong like what i read from some of the replies, freethinking is about u forming your own idears and opinion rather than accepting those of other people especially in
religious teachings. as a person i read eveyday even the bible and the holy qur'an and i know what it say and even the teachings of jesus he never critisied eveyone.
God himself gives u the right to choose between good and evil ,that is to tell u, u have the an option of freewill. im not here to jurdge u or anybody at that but i think we all have the right of freewill and should be allow to practice it without fear or favour.

i am marred i cant be seen in such embarrasing situation. im just worried for ur mother,sister and daughter if u have any.

hmmmmm sola,
so much for a christan,i want to belive u read ur bible and it say jurge not for all men shall be jurged.

chiegemba,
this has nothing to do wt my consicence im was asking a question? i wanted to hear other people opinion.

im a big fan of oprah but i was very disappointed in her when i heard
it but my people do we blame her? i know not all nigerians are corrupt
u all know what they say about one bad apple?

my people what business does the nigerian police have arresting girls
on the street for wearing what makes them comfortable
instead of keeping out streets safe from armed robbers and 419ers.

thanx siena, i showed my husband ur reply and he smiled.

thanx for the invitation pls pray for us.

be wise because all these married men want to eat their cakes and have it
no matter what kind physics or chemistry u think u have between both of u is not enough for him to leave his wife, don't be fooled it not chemistry it is lost.

i ve been married for three years and in january i found out i am hiv possitve and my husband is negetive
guess what guys? he is as loving as ever nothing has changed he buys my drugs and makes sure i take them religiously. we still have unprotected sex cos my viral load is not detected that mean i may never infect anyone except the person comes directly incontact wt my blood. i asked him why he's still wt me not like i din't know i just wanted to hear from him cos this hiv thing has ruined lot of marrages he said he loves me and that nothing is stong enought to break us and that he knows if revers was the case i'll love him still.we are working towards making healthy babeies who will be hiv fee.

i feel ur pain but u ought to have to have talk about getting ur own place before marrage
abi is that not how it is done?

my husband is the head of the family ,he pay rent ,sevices the cars when they are due,still give me cash inspite of what i earn makes sure the family is well provied for at all times and lot of things i cant even beging to mention. my dear i dont want to contest for that possition is his for life.

the truth is there's three rings in marrage which i have gotten and same goes for the man
which u will also get and ur "girl" u so much love.the engagement ring,the wedding ring and the suffering.
when u get to that suuffering state u'll know if u truly love her or not when the sex becomes boring when she no longer excites u like she use to,when u start fighting and aguring over little things than u'll now.this journey is not for the faint hearted belive me anyway divorce is always an option its up to u as for i and my hubby we are partners and friends for life.

I do not belong to any religion, neither do I worship anywhere but I believe there is God.

And I try to keep his commandments, I'm not hypocritical neither am I jugdmental.

I treat everyone fairly, Christian and Muslims inclusive with respect for their beliefs.

Yet I'm being criticised for not having a religion and a place of worship.

Please I want your opinion on this thanks.