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RomanceRe: After Fire Almost Burn Down Her House, Toke Makinwa Goes Brãless (photos) by generationz(f): 5:49am On Oct 15, 2018
so much yam in the second picture
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 5:33am On Oct 15, 2018
press005:
How much does the lexus cost?
2.8m sir for The rx350

the rest have been sold
PhonesRe: Get 23GB For #1000 And 4GB For #200 Only Airtel User Check It Out by generationz(f): 11:03pm On Oct 14, 2018
nnpaul:
Airtel users are rocking this month with Airtel 4.6Gb for N200 or 4.5GB for N200 only also inclusive is the Airtel 23GB or 24GB for N1000.
It’s real, it’s not a cheat, it’s not a tweak, it’s an offer from Airtel to some of its users. It also includes Free calls.
NOTE: Unfortunately, not all Airtel users would be able to enjoy the 4.6GB for N100 or 23GB for N1000 offer.

How To Get Airtel 4.6GB for N200 and 23GB for N1000
Go to your messages app,
Send GET to 141
Wait for a reply from Airtel
It may be a Good/positive reply or a not so good reply.
You’ll get a reply saying: “Dear customer, CONGRATULATIONS! you can enjoy 100% DATA BONUS ANYTIME EVERYDAY FOR THE NEXT 3 MONTHS.”


Then buy Airtel N200 load it with *143*pin#

You will get your 4GB instantly use *223# to check Your Balance

Buy another N200 load it with *143*pin# till You Get tired
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PhonesRe: Am I The Only One Enjoying Airtel 22gb For 1000naira? by generationz(f): 10:46pm On Oct 14, 2018
mrjef:
Am here again with another interesting tips
How to get 22gb for 1000naira on Airtel
This is very simple. Just go to your message and send GET to 141
Make sure you receive a congratulatory message
If you receive a congratulations message like the one in the screenshot above, then buy Airtel N200 naira airtime

Load the card using this code; *143*recharge card pin#

Boom, you will get a whooping 4.6GB data

Data is valid for 30 days.

Dial *223# to check your data balance.
for the 22gb, simply recharge 1000naira using d same format
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AutosRe: .. by generationz(f): 10:33pm On Oct 14, 2018
shineBrighter
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 8:18pm On Oct 14, 2018
Bluezy13:
Just curious.
Wondering what occupies your mind. Thought it could be family issues.
loooool
life aint that serious
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 8:09pm On Oct 14, 2018
scnonline:
bemused Pervert.
OK
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 8:07pm On Oct 14, 2018
Bluezy13:
Hmmm...

Your case is out of this world.
You can't remember what you just mentioned few minutes ago up there ?? Why don't you just scroll up ??
Tell me; are you married ??
hahahahaha
I also replied other guys on the same topic.
no I'm not married.
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 8:03pm On Oct 14, 2018
Smartini:
Sex is a physical exercise, but the effects of regular sex varies. For some ladies, regular sex trims them down. For some, they keep on adding weight when they have regular sex.

I think its only guys that one can say regular sex keeps them slim and fit (when complemented with other exercises and work-outs).
They keep gaining weight because of all the free sharwarma, meatpie, icecream and pizza that their new man or several guys get them. its simple logic
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 8:00pm On Oct 14, 2018
Gudhrt08:
becus of lack of focus
focus ke? on one d1ck abi?
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 7:49pm On Oct 14, 2018
Bluezy13:
And you and I answered.
I can't remember your answer?
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 7:44pm On Oct 14, 2018
Bluezy13:
Seriously ?? I guess your clone asked the question below. undecided
lol

It was a rhetorical question
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 7:17pm On Oct 14, 2018
Uglymugg:
Overdose of sex.
so that negates the posters presumption
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 7:15pm On Oct 14, 2018
Bluezy13:
Hmmm...

You knew the answer; why did you ask the question huh
which question?
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 7:14pm On Oct 14, 2018
crackhaus:
You seem ecstatic about your assumption.
hahhahahaha

I actually threw a party here. Bobrisky was the Mc of the event and wizkid performed
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 6:41pm On Oct 14, 2018
Bluezy13:
Because a few years is a long time.

People grow old.
not because of that

sex and orgasm is energy consuming
doing it with random men every other day will take its toll on your looks and appearance someday .
AutosRe: I Need A Car In The 450-500k Range. Anyone Here? by generationz(f): 6:39pm On Oct 14, 2018
ShineBrighter:
Thanks. I'll keep looking. Not for my use though. But I want to surprise my mom on her birthday.
goodluck
AutosRe: I Need A Car In The 450-500k Range. Anyone Here? by generationz(f): 6:28pm On Oct 14, 2018
you will surely find a car for that price

maybe Mazda, or Nissan or an old toyota car

browse through nairalanders auto section
RomanceRe: Does Having Sex Regularly Enhance Girls General Body Beauty by generationz(f): 6:27pm On Oct 14, 2018
so why do prostitutes look worn out and old after a few years in the job?
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 6:21pm On Oct 14, 2018
Acidosis:
^ ^
Now you're talking like a choleric grin grin

It is well sha, there is no perfect formula for a stress-free relationship or marriage. Even if a Choleric woman finds the easy going and an attentive follower in the form of a Phlegmatic husband, his family will someday accuse the woman of using vegetable soup to twist their son's head.

The importance of discovering ourselves (and partners) cannot be overemphasized.
no I'm not talking likesomeone with dominant choleric traits
A dominant choleric will take charge whether the phlwgamtic likes it or not

the phlegamtics lackadasical attitude irks me because I like things been straightforward but I don't like taking charge all the time. Too stressful
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 5:45pm On Oct 14, 2018
Acidosis:
You've made some salient points. Are you going to go for a Phlegmatic, because clearly, not even a Melancholic would allow his wife play the role of a leader in the home. The Phlegmatic man is technically the only kind of man that would warmly sit back and allow his woman control the family.
I'm not pure choleric , so I don't crave leadership or being in charge. if it happens that I have no choice than to be the one in charge however. I am very good at most aspects of leadership except delegation of authority (perfectionist tendencies)

I can marry a phlegmatic either. Maybe a San/ phleg ( my most compatible option just like San/chlor) but not someone with a dominant phlegmatic personality.

I like their easy going nature. however they are not very self motivated, do badly as dominant leaders, and are very secretive about their feelings something I can't stand. I'm someone who likes people saying their minds even if it hurts I don't have time to waste with trying to guess a phlegmatics feelings
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 5:38pm On Oct 14, 2018
kushdoctor:
Dont worry i am marrying her. Everything is business, love, life, friendship , women, its all business. The only money i spend is my time and thats all the Master gave me. Time. So you see, we will always figure out a way to pay for it and be comfortable. Dont worry. But i must spend my time wisely.
good luck
CelebritiesRe: Yomi Casual And His Wife, Grace Celebrate 1st Wedding Anniversary (Photos) by generationz(f): 4:27pm On Oct 14, 2018
from the first comment, nobody even said congratulations to the couple


walai Nigerians are angry people


congrats to them , many more years
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 4:24pm On Oct 14, 2018
crackhaus:
Shut up please.
hahahahaha I just gave him a technical knockout , he can't even respond
RomanceRe: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by generationz(f): 4:09pm On Oct 14, 2018
LordKO:
Ambiguity of the word and movement feminism have made it possible for small-minded women to gloss their toxicity with it, and by extension makes it to appear toxic itself. What you posted depicts a headstrong woman - whether she identifies with feminism or not - who's financially emancipated/or suddenly became financially emancipated. One who's either not in love with her husband or has fallen out of love with her husband or the once well-to-do husband is battling economic recession. A strong-minded woman (good and no nonsense woman) - whether she identifies with feminism or not - cannot exhibit those attitudes.

Yet, as bad as a headstrong woman is, she's better than a quiet and submissive but hypocritically disingenuous woman. With the former, you openly know that you have an enemy, but with the latter you have a frenemy - unless you're discerning enough to dissect people without hassle.

I doff my hat for all strong-minded women.
very correct .
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 3:59pm On Oct 14, 2018
kushdoctor:
Hey! E never reach fight dear. I was just giving you an example of two women in my life, what one does wrong and what the other does right and the value to be placed on little things we often ignore. And how men place value on them to make you better understand my point. Side chick is side side chick and wife is wife. Who get motor and person wen sometimes dey drive am nor be the same.

But another reality is the fact that person wen get motor fit nor value am reach person wen just dey drive am once once. Wetin motor need and good handling and maintenance. E nor care who buy am and how e take see money buy am.

Motor own na give me what i want and i go carry you go any where you dey go simple. No sentiment. We only have one life to live and no extra life. So no FOMO dear.

Go read the story of the king, queen and esther. And educate me on what exactly the queen did wrong that got her dethroned and another enthroned in her stead, viz a vis the kings reaction. If as a queen (queen) you snooze, there so many esther daily praying to take ya place. I wan to believe the king and esther fit don dam before and she fit don be side chick or person of interest. So as the queen fuc.k up, she got demoted and the side chick promoted. No dulling , no time. You better wake up and smell the coffee. You fit dey on injury time and you nor know. You better wake up and massage your man's ego like a masseuses, cos that's all a man has. Every man created by God and we have learnt from the eve's story not to let women use their innocent but yet deadly face or if you wish psychological conditions to make us snooze.

So if God allowed it happen in the bible and it was recorded, so chill and think. It happens every day so take heed make you nor come here come dey seek advise again say he don jakpa go meet another. peace.

ANY WAY , LIFE IS ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE.
sorry I was a little harsh with my comment. some of the peoples comments on the main topic pissed me off


Oga you are not a car. A car is an object. You are a full human being so don't compare yourself to a car



You dated / knew madam for about eight years . Are you saying you didn't see all these signs before going ahead to marry her

Are you saying you didn't see signs of sexual incompatibility, ego and secrecy before marrying her ? its not like you both were celibate or didn't spend nights together

I don't understand how people just sweep all these things under the carpet before marriage when you know marriage is for life.

From what I've read about you sir, you weren't a saint while you both were dating ( incessant cheating )and babe might have had endured a lot . You were probably one of those who thought marriage changes everything . maybe you changed for marriage but your wife decided to show what she had been keeping in her heart since.

some ladies who have been in long term relationships decide to endure the mans attitude consoling themselves with the fact that when they get married they will treat the mans Bleep up




As for your referring to the story of Esther and Vashti . don't forget that that story was set in a highly patrichical society. Women were more or less seen as properties . what do you think happened to the other virgins the king didn't find " favourable " - they were kept as concubines because he had already banged them to know if they were "favourable or not"
or didn't you see that even as Queen Esther couldn't just barge into his court when he didn't send for her or she would die. Can the same be said of husband and wife today?

Husbands of that time weren't excepted to love their wives. They were only expected to be providers and be good examples to their family and community.

But Paul admonished husband's now to love their wives as Christ loved the Church. Do you know how Christ loved the church " he laid down his life for it" if you know you can't lay down your life ( pride) for the woman you are dating please don't marry her.

I am not taking sides. From what I read in your diary , you have been through a lot. I understand what it feels like when everyone expects you to be the tough person around even when sometimes you just need someone who can understand your weaknesses and not judge you with them .

I am just trying to be as objective as possible since i don't know your wife's story.

You are right about a man needing reassurance and his ego being massaged. I always tell my mom that when I get married my husband will be my first born. However , it is quite difficult for a lady to be submissive to a man who doesn't value her.

Don't forget that smallie also has her faults to . Your wife was probably like smallie when both of you started dating . people change too ,life happens.

Always remember side chick is side chick . just let smallie know where she stands so you don't end up in her 'men are scum' list
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 3:18pm On Oct 14, 2018
kushdoctor:
Hey! E never reach fight dear. I was just giving you an example of two women in my life, what one does wrong and what the other does right and the value to be placed on little things we often ignore. And how men place value on them to make you better understand my point. Side chick is side side chick and wife is wife. Who get motor and person wen sometimes dey drive am nor be the same.

But another reality is the fact that person wen get motor fit nor value am reach person wen just dey drive am once once. Wetin motor need and good handling and maintenance. E nor care who buy am and how e take see money buy am.

Motor own na give me what i want and i go carry you go any where you dey go simple. No sentiment. We only have one life to live and no extra life. So no FOMO dear.

Go read the story of the king, queen and esther. And educate me on what exactly the queen did wrong that got her dethroned and another enthroned in her stead, viz a vis the kings reaction. If as a queen (queen) you snooze, there so many esther daily praying to take ya place. I wan to believe the king and esther fit don dam before and she fit don be side chick or person of interest. So as the queen fuc.k up, she got demoted and the side chick promoted. No dulling , no time. You better wake up and smell the coffee. You fit dey on injury time and you nor know. You better wake up and massage your man's ego like a masseuses, cos that's all a man has. Every man created by God and we have learnt from the eve's story not to let women use their innocent but yet deadly face or if you wish psychological conditions to make us snooze.

So if God allowed it happen in the bible and it was recorded, so chill and think. It happens every day so take heed make you nor come here come dey seek advise again say he don jakpa go meet another. peace.

ANY WAY , LIFE IS ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE.
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 3:09pm On Oct 14, 2018
Acidosis:
https://www.nairaland.com/491250/temperament-issues-choleric-woman
shuo you went to dig up a description of choleric woman

I know all about these , I have been studying temperaments for years. in fact Tim layes temparent grouping isn't very accurate

to know your real temperament the myers Briggs personality typing.

I also have discovered that when people hear the word " choleric" the first thing people seem think of is anger
well yes choleric weakness might be anger and the need to be in charge

however they have lots of strengths.
for example a choleric is the best for leadership roles. They are dedicated to their jobs and high achievers. if you work with a choleric you can't be comfortable being mediocre because they will push you to be better. children of choleric parents tend to excel in school because their parents are only satisfied with excellence

I might not crave choleric as partners in love relationships because I am Mel/ chlor ( we will be two bulls butting our heads together) but I admire them as leaders and if I worked in an organization I would prefer them as my boss.
PhonesRe: Am I The Only One Enjoying Airtel 22gb For 1000naira? by generationz(f): 1:44am On Oct 14, 2018
jossy91:
It is working...
People that have it and it's not working should check their APN (settings) it should be internet.ng.zain.com
even with 3g phones?
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Libya: Africa Cup Of Nations Qualifier - 4 - 0 (Full Time) by generationz(f): 1:40am On Oct 14, 2018
Nerdygangsta:
thanks mahn, I got mine
use another phone
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f):
kushdoctor:
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Its not always about the money, all men have is ego. Did you massage his ego? Tell him thank you for taking care of the bills. Appreciate the little he brings and remind him he is doing fine but this could get better.

Find out how things are with him financially and just make him know you support his hustle and things could get better. You certainly dont know the battles he faces on a daily basis and his fears of failing you and the kids. His desires is to give you guys the best and not being able to do that sometimes makes him take out his frustrations and unfortunately you are the closest and dearest to him so na you dey always suffer am.

My side chick does something that burst my brain and puts a smile on my face no matter what i am facing at times. She sends a prayer via sms or just calls to pray for me and my success and does some other little things wifey wont do.

Truth is these little things is making me a better man on a daily basis ans she supports my hustle. With that, i am okay even when i am having the worst days ever.
you were making sense until you compared your wife to your Bleep!#g side chick

tell me does your side chick go half the things your wife does

is she expected by society to do half the things your wife does

or is she just someone who waits for you to come around screw her and drop more money every time she rubs your belly and sings your praises

you as a man when was the last time you told your wife well-done mama emeka for all you have done . I know childbirth has been tough on your body and it has never remained the same again after you had my lovely kids".

You compare your wife with your side chick

tell me if she was soooooo amazing , why not wife her and see if she will not forget to send you those adorable text messages under the pressures of being a wife in Africa.

stop deceiving yourself. stop living in lalaland

that side chick is only looking after her belly. since being a side chick is a full time job for many Nigerian females she must put in extra care to take care of her 9-5 (you) if you know what I mean

Oga , respect your wife

if you need your wife to pamper you more let her know.

Side chick is side chick wife is wife.
Nigeria isn't America where wives are extremely powerful when the law comes in . However a wife is still very "powerful "over her husband if she knows she knows
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f):
crackhaus:
Then pay someone to do the house work/child care, lots of people already do this to make their lives easier.
seriously are you saying this?
op is complaining about bills you are still saying women should pay someone to do the domestic work

why don't you men just plan your lives well when single , instead of using all your singlehood in chasing girls without any kind of structure in place and no savings or investments before marriage

what the op and her husband going through is using the resources that would have been used to raise one child to raise four. Very typical in many African homes

After putting the kids through hell they will expect the kids to be their Messiah and take them out of poverty
and the cycle continues.

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