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FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 12:53am On Oct 14, 2018
Chubhie:
I think your husband using hindsight just realised that he would probably end the rest of his existence struggling to pay bills. His reaction towards you is basically a cry out for help- validation from his woman.

I believe that a lil more compassion and ego massaging towards your man might shift his perspectives and gift him the ginger to gladly break his bones to sustain a world he created with you.

Every man should learn to work thrice as hard and smart when single and put up systems and structures that would give him the licensed freedom to enjoy family life.
God will bless you

your last paragraph sums it up

men must plan plan plan when single

don't just marry because everyone says " bros its time o , you don get work na marriage remain"

if he had planned well they would probably only have one or two kids which he can comfortably cater for with the resources he has.

nobody is saying be rich , but a man should use wisdom
it not every time you grab yansh for unprotected sex without thinking of the consequences on your pocket and the stress on both of you.
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f):
crackhaus:
Which of these is a lot harder to do:
Doing chores, or settling bills?
pleeeeease beg your wife to swap roles completely with you still taking care of 20- 30% of the bills like many men expect ( I'm not talking of the reality on ground how women of these era are paying 70% bills while their husbands gallivant and flirt with their money o)

when you swap with your wife for like a year come back and testify on nairalanders how easy it was

don't forget to carry the next pregnancy, breast feed the new born baby and still multitask while at it.
goodluck
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 12:36am On Oct 14, 2018
GoodFaith:
Let me tell you young women
I was talking to a neighbor where I have one property
The neighbor told me he bought his house 40 yrs ago for $80k today in the neighborhood the house cost $280k
40 yrs ago one income can pay for a house and two cars
Today world families need two income .
One of the reason your women want the best
I have sisters
One of my sister save the down pay for their house
The other sister told me their house will be pay off in 10 yrs
My aunt told me she share the bill with her husband
that the females you knoe are doing it dosnt mean the entitlement mentality of men should be condoned

tell me did our forefathers have two heads ?
yet they were able to care for the needs of more than one wife without complaing like ops husband

why don't men also share in giving birth to the children. if they plan to have four kids the man should tell his new wife he will help her carry two pregnancies and then he will know that their are some responsibilities that a woman will forever be tied with and can't complain about. you think child bearing and rearing is that easy because you hear all the lovely songs of "sweet mama".

men are physically stronger than women but women take on a lot shit these days. compare an average married woman to her single counterpart of the same age. stress has worn her down . Yet these men still feel they did these women a favour by marrying them. some even use the money they have to cheat with reckless abandon leaving the whole job of caring for kids on the women


The average marriage today is one of wives " mothering" their husbands and still expected to be worship the ground the men walk on
African woman take a lot of shit that their counterparts can't take half of in foreign lands.


Many american husbands fear divorce like hell because they could loose half their fortune and the house they laboured to pay mortgage on. the same can't be said of Nigerian men . A Nigerian man will just wake up to drive his wife and kids out of the house they both built


women should better start training their boys that being a man is beyond carrying shoulder and having balls in between their legs

This is one reason I like IBO men

many of them marry late because they want to be able to have enough to give their wives and kids the best. They don't have to be super rich but whatever status they are in life they know their children won't lack basic needs whether or not the wife is working.

Just like a man helping out with chores is optional, A woman contributing should be optional too

Appreciate her for her roles and the fact that she still helps you with what you are expected to do 100%


very entitled Mommy's boys we have today smh
FamilyRe: Who Pays The Bills????? Now That Rent Is Near, that is all we hear...� by generationz(f): 10:27pm On Oct 13, 2018
Acidosis:
I have been expecting this point.

OP is certainly a Choleric. Na so dem be, her type won't even say sorry when she offends her hubby. The last thing a choleric would do is "massage a man's ego" grin grin
you have become obsessed with cholerics these days
HealthRe: #NoBraDay Video Of A Busty, Slim Slay Queen With 'Heavy Boobs' Trends On Twitter by generationz(f): 9:15pm On Oct 13, 2018
hyfr:
I think I’ve got a problem. I see babes with fallen boobs as hoes
no dear

the top two reasons girls have fallen boobs are

genes and
excessive weight fluctuation

genetics determines the shape of a lady's breast and the shape determines how long it can stand. ladies with round boobs are likely to never have fallen boobs

I have seen virgins with small fallen boobs even little Giles just entering puberty . As the boobs are growing they are falling.
RomanceRe: DebbieBarbieSkinCare Whose Boyfriend Dumped For Another Woman Shares Her Story by generationz(f): 8:22pm On Oct 13, 2018
Westaslave2:
I no dear! I dnt even knw wat 2 say " cos my junior bro was broken by a girl lyk datdat just yesterday night he refuse 2 eat my food...Lolz��
lllool
sorry I am laughing ( the food part got me)

how old is your baby brother?

tell him not to be downcast and just focus on his hustle.
RomanceRe: DebbieBarbieSkinCare Whose Boyfriend Dumped For Another Woman Shares Her Story by generationz(f): 8:16pm On Oct 13, 2018
kurupt1:
There they go again.Firstly u musnt marry who u date there is no law that stipulates that u do.

secondly,these girls are quick to apportion blames when they are dumped but usually forget that their ugly characters prevent a guy from fully committing to them
Well, we need to the guys side of the story
if he wasn't guilty why did he marry without first breaking up with her?
it is when you people make money you will know the girl has bad character, she is dirty and so on
when you were broke you were managing her like that.
CelebritiesRe: Adetutu Alabi: My Tribal Marks Drove The Father Of My Child Away by generationz(f): 9:36am On Oct 13, 2018
kolafolabi:
She should just be focused and not yet see herself as a celebrity. All the best to her.

But on her tribal marks being the reason why her boyfriend left, I totally disagree with her..
are you the boyfriend ?

didnt you hear her say he only met her at night?
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Flaunts His Fleet Of Cars (PHOTO) by generationz(f): 3:58pm On Oct 12, 2018
emsco:
very stingy guy..The security guys in his kids school are my friends,dem se oga no de give anything to boys.Unknown wealthy parent whose kids attend the same school with his kids give out to my guys.
entitlement mentality, that's why Nigeria is the way it is today

did those security guys work for the money for him

They can as well refuse to do their jobs which they are been paid for well( the school fees he pays is where they get their pay from)
CelebritiesRe: Simi Shows Off Her Sitting Room (Photos) by generationz(f): 2:42pm On Oct 12, 2018
Orla234:
Looks kinda masculine, but it's cool.
she's a tom boy
AutosRe: Buy Lexus Rx 300 2001 1.4m by generationz(op): 11:45am On Oct 11, 2018
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AutosRe: Super Clean Lexus Es 350 Gold Toks 3.8m by generationz(op): 11:44am On Oct 11, 2018
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AutosRe: Clean Toyota Corolla 2007 For Sale toks 2m by generationz(op): 11:44am On Oct 11, 2018
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AutosRe: Very Clean 2007 sold!!!!! by generationz(op): 11:43am On Oct 11, 2018
Sage7:
2.5m??
no sir its not naija used
AutosRe: Tokunbo Toyota corolla sport 2004 sold!!!! sold!!! by generationz(op): 11:42am On Oct 11, 2018
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AutosRe: Super Clean Lexus Es 350 Gold Toks 3.8m by generationz(op): 1:29am On Oct 11, 2018
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AutosTokunbo Toyota corolla sport 2004 sold!!!! sold!!! by generationz(op):
Toyota corolla 2004 sport edition tokunbo

Colour silver

Price 1.980

Foreign used
Automatic
All papers are inta for inspection

AutosRe: Very Clean 2007 sold!!!!! by generationz(op):
generationz:
Toyota highlander 2007
V6 engine
4wd
All papers are intact.
3 row seat


Price: 3.3m

Call or Wh
AutosRe: Clean Toyota Corolla sold !!!! by generationz(op): 11:37pm On Oct 10, 2018
AutosRe: Buy Lexus Rx 300 2001 1.4m by generationz(op): 11:37pm On Oct 10, 2018
AutosRe: Super Clean Lexus Es 350 Gold Toks 3.8m by generationz(op): 11:36pm On Oct 10, 2018
AutosRe: Clean 2008 Lexus Rx 350 For Sale 2.8m by generationz(op): 11:17pm On Oct 10, 2018
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RomanceRe: Pregnant Woman Set To Sleep With Boyfriend, Recieved Nude For Iphone Xs (pics) by generationz(f): 9:47pm On Oct 10, 2018
Obodo999:
And is this suppose to be a competition?
promiscuous men deserve promiscous women as life partners
RomanceRe: Pregnant Woman Set To Sleep With Boyfriend, Recieved Nude For Iphone Xs (pics) by generationz(f): 9:46pm On Oct 10, 2018
Obodo999:
And is this suppose to be a competition?
promiscuous men deserve promiscous women as life partners
FoodRe: Man Feeding A Fish With Beer. by generationz(f): 1:13pm On Oct 10, 2018
grin grin

strange things


check my signature
AutosRe: Very Clean 2007 sold!!!!! by generationz(op): 11:45am On Oct 10, 2018
More pics

AutosVery Clean 2007 sold!!!!! by generationz(op):
Toyota highlander 2007
V6 engine
4wd
All papers are intact.
3 row seat


Price: 3.3m

Call or WhatsAp

AutosRe: Super Clean Lexus Es 350 Gold Toks 3.8m by generationz(op): 11:20am On Oct 10, 2018
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AutosRe: Buy Lexus Rx 300 2001 1.4m by generationz(op): 11:20am On Oct 10, 2018
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AutosRe: Clean Toyota Corolla sold !!!! by generationz(op): 11:20am On Oct 10, 2018
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RomanceRe: How Many Bodycount Is Ok For A Lady? by generationz(f): 10:33am On Oct 10, 2018
ozodigboo:
body count and faithfulness go hand in hand.
at a certain level of body count, a married woman can't stay faithful.
because she has tasted over 500 dicks, her husband's own will never be enough.
because she must have seen better.
so you mean a lady like Mary Magdalene who was a prostitute would have cheated on her hubby if she was married


people change for the best. some women don't even like multiple sez partners but do it to survive.


it isn't good to entirely judge a person by tbwie past when the person wants to change and be better

rahab the prostitute was Jesus maternal ancestor


Even women who married as virgins cheat too .

Its more about the mindset than the person past

This issue of body count isnt an issue among whites. A man can know you dated his friend and still date you

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