Monday, February 15, 2016
Married a virgin, but she started sleeping around!!!!!!


Hello Marital Ties Subs,

I am a fan of Gennypearl,s blog, and I appreciate her effort keep is up, I am Desmond, a native of Imo state, Owerri to be precise .

I am a very gentle guy, but I love women a lot, am a graduate of Economics in Nasarawa state university, I was a nice loving guy in school those days, I get any girl I see, feel like sleeping with. Am every girls man.

Every girl that see me always wants to hang

around me, I sleep with girls almost every
night in the university days, I came across this new jamb bite, I was in my 300 level when I met her. One unique thing about her was that she was reserved,she wasn't any type of girl you see always.
When I met her, her name is princess, I decided to quit womanizing and face her, she refused dating me, I kept on trying, she was so beautiful that I can't take my mind off her. So I kept disturbing her, made sure I blocked all guys that comes her way.

Finally princess agreed dating me, but on one condition that No S*X. I agreed, not because I wouldn't want to have s*x with her, but I wanted her to know how much I love and cherish her. We dated until I graduated , and
went for youth service, we still kept in touch.,i
made it look as if i was still in school, I was always keeping in touch making sure no guy comes close to her in school.

Later she also graduated, I was already working with federal Gov,t. So when she graduated I worked her youth service to Lagos where I was. Working. Still on our agreement, and I also kept to my promise to be faithful to her.

After her youth service, we got married, I was happy that after my rough life, I married a good girl who was a VIRGIN, she didn't tell at first, she wanted to surprise me. I was so surprised that on the night of our wedding, she was a VIRGIN. That made me to like her more.

She secured a job in a bank, as a marketer, I never liked the idea, but since she was ok with it am fine, I love my wife so much. God blessed. Us with 4 kids, 2 girls and 2 boys, beautiful children. Last year I applied for scholarship in united state of America.

Last month I got the scholarship, I was told I will go with my wife and children, but we will test them to make sure are my children, I said no problem. I took my children to the hospital, on
my greatest surprise only one of the child is
mine.  I was so mad, I came home and asked my wife, at first she declined, I called my family members and her,s also. After much persuading she now confessed that as a marketer that she sleeps with men for them to open an account with her bank.

Please what should I do, because I have loved this kids so much. And I have to travel to Us. And I must go with my kids.

Am so confused

Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/married-virgin-but-she-started-sleeping.html?m=1

I'm a married woman with 3 kids for 7 years now. I got married to my husband cos we were so much in love. Moreover we were supported by friends and family saying we were perfect for each other. We got married after dating for 2 years and everything was perfect till our 3rd year in marriage.

Hubby started keeping late nights and being irresponsible as a husband and father. When I try to talk to him he rebels and walks out on me. Last year, I discovered he's abusing substance (cocaine). I spoke to him about rehab. and he went after much counselling. Only to come back & this time was worse than before.

Friends and family told me to live the house cos of my children while I keep praying that things will change for good cos they're being affected by everything going on...please what should I do? Leave my home or stay?

Thanks

Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/my-husband-takes-stuffs.html?m=1

Please something borders me a whole lot, my husbands step sister stays with us in the same house. I have three children before she came to abuja to live with us. But my worry is the way she barges in on us sometimes, my husband seem ok with it, but am not. I came back one afternoon and met her on my
husbands boxers, with my husband lying down on the sofa cleaning sweat from his body, where the air conditioner is on, everywhere is cold, I was like why are you sweating like this, he said he has been on a massager. I now playfully asked his sister, so your brothers boxers is now the best for you, she laughed and said aunty from today is now her own. I hate to interfere in family matters so that I wouldn’t love to be labeled a bad person


Last month, I was doing my guest room clean up, raising the bed cushions, I saw a bra hand which wasn’t mine and two open packets of condoms (used ones). For the past two months we have not had guest, so I begin to wonder, because the condoms were newly opened. I packed it away and since then, my mind has not been at rest. And another thing I have noticed is that whenever my husband is on top of me, he seems to be lost, thinking of something, by the time I am calling back his attention, my appetite has gone. And sometimes the day he will lose himself, he will f**k me like a prostitute and push me away, I have asked him what is his problem, he said nothing.
Last week Saturday, every body was at home, he asked me can’t I go shopping today, I said no, that it will be next week, he asked me to leave the children and come meet him upstairs, I told him that am coming, that am teaching my daughter mathematics, that let me finish the one am doing, before I could understand what’s happening, he pulled me up, dragged me to the room, pulled my pants down and before I could under him, he inserted his p***s, and even bruised me as well. I don’t know what is going on with him.
Is there something he is not telling me, I don’t have a house help because my children are 14 , 15, 12. So my only daughter who is the most senior can clean the house and sometimes cook as well. This my husbands step sister was 16 when I married her brother. She is 31 years now. My husband is 50 years old. Am 43years now.


Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/help-please-i-suspect-my-husband-is.html?m=1

I was a lovely husband to my wife, she was the love of my life, her kind of woman is the type of lady every guy wants to have around him.

I went for a cousin wedding,s in Benin city, in the church I noticed a pretty girl, she came in quite late, on a short skirt, with all her shape telling the guys am here,but you can't have it or even touch it with her top showing her bra, and
her breast so attractive that I can barely
concentrate on the sermon that the pastor was preaching about and the even the wedding I came for. All my attention was on the pretty damsel I was seeing.

Something in me told me, Daniel this is your wife to whom am well pleased. After the church service I made sure my eyes follows her anywhere she goes, or anyone she talks to. All I can think of is how I will carras her body, can,t
wait to see that breast of her,s and make her feel like a woman. I couldn't wait,i went over to where she was standing and said hello pretty. She answered quite nice and caring. We got talking and along the line we exchanged number. I was so happy, it was as if I worn a raffle, when I went to my hotel room that night, I called her and we talked for a long time, trying to know each other better. She stays in lagos and I stay in Abuja.

At first it looked as if it won't work out cus of the distance,but I hard to put in my best for the relationship to work, she was a nice girl and very understanding even though she is always busy she still finds time for me in her tight schedule. we continued this relationship and on her birthday I surprised her with an engagement party she was so surprised that she almost fainted.
After 3 months of engagement we got married. It was a lovely wedding, that day was the happiest day of our lives. Finally that pretty girl became my wife. I will have all the assets to myself. My wife is a sweet woman both sexually and otherwise, she was just complete, luckily for her she was transfered from lagos to abuja, she works with one of the reputable bank in Nigeria.

After 2 years of marriage, we started having issues, we have a lovely daughter named fortune, am actually a business man, but my wife is always busy with work, leaves early and always comes back late, I was like the woman and she was the man. I do almost all t he house chores. Cooking, cleaning the house in the morning, and other house chores. It wasn't funny though, I told her one night that she came back from work that she really need to quite this job cus it is actually affecting her motherhood. She took offence that I actually met her with this job, that I want to turn her to a house wife that, she won't take it. It was a serious issue. I actually don't like the idea of house help, cus of the way most ladies treat househelps, but in my case I have no option that to bring in someone.

We now agreed that she will bring in someone
at least to help me out with fortune. And am happy she bought the idea,she now told her cousin in the east to get her someone, we waited for like a month, lo and behold the house help arrived. A dirty and village looking girl, she isn't a small girl though wondering why she would choose to do such a job. She came in, I did not actually notice her, it was my wife that was with her trying to fix and her, her dutied in the house, at least I will be free to
hang out with friends, and be on my own without carrying Fortune always.

But this increased her laziness and late coming,the worst part of it is that she denies me of sex too. Anytime she come at night she is always tired. I don't believe in having a girlfriend cus I love my wife so much,and I promised myself after marriage no extra marital affairs. But I was starving,atimes I try to
understand with her, but atimes I conclude that man no be wood, no matter how tired she is, is nor right for her to deny me sex. I kept hoping that all will be well, the househelp nkechi was doing a good job, I was so relieved.

My wife was so impressed with her and always gets her clothes, skirt, gown and trousers, but I don't usually notice her, village girl, but one thing I noticed about Nkechi she has nice hips,
but I told my self that hips isn't urs, so remove your mind from it. But most atimes in the morning when cleaning the house Nkechi like bending down expecially if she notice am around she bends the more you can see her fresh laps, and wining her waist and hips, but I do ignore her, but I was starving so badly, my wife told me to do just once last night, as I was onto digging and enjoying it, suddenly she said is ok, that can't I see that she is so tired. Men
and sex that was her exact word.

I kept bearing, as a faithful guy, but Nkechi kept turning me on, I had to control myself, a mare house girl, no now. My wife came back this faithful day and told me that she is going on a assignment to port Hacourt  the next day, as early as 7:30am she left for the airport. I was left alone with fortune and Nkechi, that morning Nkechi wore a very short skirt showing all she
was wearing under, I went to my room to shower, I had a knock on the door, Oga na me nkechi, watin u wan make I prepare for you, I told just tea and bread is ok. When I came out of my room, to take my breakfast, she was still cleaning with her skirt all up, she was naked with her Pu**y so wide open waiting for a c**k to ride it. I couldn't remove my eyes, at that moment I forgot she was just a househelp, all I could see was a clean Pu**y. I was confused
what to do, after the tea I told her to come n clean my room immediately that is dirty, she ran to the room and started sweeping, this time I could see the Pussy wide open, my cock was already standing for food, I couldn't control it, I went closer to her and touched her breast, she smiled like this is what she has been waiting for, I told her to lock the door that Fortune is sleeping, she came back I removed her cloth, sucked her breast so hard like have never
sucked before, she said Oga wait make I suck your pe**s, like joke Nkechi gave me the best Bj ever, I was just screaming like someone had hit me with an iron on the head, I pushed her on the bed backwards, put in a condom and entered her through the back, I bleeped her so hard, I had to receive all have been starved of she was screaming oga,oga,oga, I had to close her mouth while I fu*k her so bad, without the neigbour hearing her.

After a while I came, I was tired and weak, she said oga sorry, she took her clothes and left my room, I actually felt bad for sleeping with my house help.Now please what can I do, because I sleep with my house help anytime my wife isn't around and because of her tight schedule she can't find out. I really want to stop, but I can't.

What can I do?

Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/nkechi-house-girl.html?m=1

Jumoke's story can only be described as a case of when hardwork, opportunity meets with grace, anything can happen. Below is what Ty Bello has to say about our favourite bread seller turned model.

Life is funny though, that day she must have left her house not knowing that she will meet such opportunity. God is Good

Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/olajumoke-orisaguna-portrait-with-grace.html?m=1:

22-year-old Ndifreke Joseph Clement from Akwa Ibom state who killed his 23-year-old cousin, Ubong Edet, over a girl surrendered himself to police six months after he committed the murder.
Clement said he slit his cousin’s throat after beating him to coma because Edet slept with his girlfriend in August 2015.
He said:
“I cannot remember the exact date now, but it occurred in a night in August 2015 in the one room apartment we shared. On that day, I returned from work to meet the door locked.
“I knocked on the door and waited for over five minutes before my cousin could come to open the door. When I went into the room, I saw my girlfriend weeping and blood running from her nostrils.
“I asked her what happened and she said Ubong beat, wounded and forcefully had sex with her. But after opening the door for me, Ubong went away and did not come back until very late in the night.
“When I asked him why he did what he did to my girlfriend, he started punching me and I retaliated.
“We fought for a very long time before I could subdue him. I then picked my cow-butchering knife and cut his throat, carried his dead body and dumped it in the bush very close to the house and threw the knife into the pit toilet.
“I have brought myself to the police even when nobody knew that I killed him. I have come to plead for forgiveness because since I killed my cousin, I no longer have peace of mind. I am always disturbed in my mind and dream.”
The Akwa Ibom State Police Public Relations Officer, PPRO, ASP Cordelia Nwawe, said the suspect would be arraigned in court soon.


Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/man-turns-himself-in-6-months-after-he.html?m=1:

I am 25 & he's 35. I met this guy in April last year in his office while I went to complete the requirements for my new job.
We started dating in May but before then he defined d r/ship telling me that he wants to court me & settle down as soon as possible.

According to him, he was supposed 2 wed his ex last year but d girl jilted him on d grounds dat he doesn't have d kind of money she wants yet & he had gone 4 d girl's introduction & all dat.
He was so caring, he called me on phone regularly everyday. We loved each other so much & had rounds of sex. After 3months I started bothering about meeting his family since it was a courtship.

One day he told me dat his parents disagreed about us because I am not a catholic despite d fact dat I started following him 2 catholic church.

As time passed, I kept asking when I will meet his people, he kept giving me excuse & because I was working in a bank, I had opportunity of meeting guys who were asking me out but I declined them all because I loved my guy.
In october, he changed automatically & reduced d way he called me & even became less caring.I tried 2 figure out what d problem was but 2 no avail.He was transferred out of Enugu to PH & we had worked my NYSC posting 2 Enugu, I am no longer working but serving. I asked him time without number if there was something I did wrong 2 him, he said no.


One day in december, I asked him his plan 4 our relationship, he told me dat if I see a guy I like, I should marry him, that there is no plan. He said it doesn't mean he's breaking up with me. I was heart broken. I cried terribly dat day. And since dat day things grew worse, he hardly calls me on phone. Right now, I am confused, I need a sincere advice.

Is it dat dis guy came into my life 2 deceive me or what?. I find it difficult 2 move ahead. I still believe things will fall into place.

What do u guys think?


Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/01/i-am-not-catholic-despite-fact-i.html?m=1

1. Determine if you have been emotionally abused. When you think about the comments and the tone this person has barked, do you cringe or have some other physical reaction while having memories of him humiliating you? Do you feel numb when you interact with him? Is this numbness an unconscious way of distancing yourself from his mean spirit?
What do you think life would be like without the bad memories/negative physical reaction? Does a burden seem lifted? Do you feel safer?
2. Think about how your life would be if you didn’t have to interface with this person. You may be so programmed to take her abuse, that you are unaware of all the mental preparation involved in having to face her. You may be oblivious of how exhausting this process of taking the abuse and enabling her is.



Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/steps-to-take-in-considering-ending.html?m=1

I met this guy when I gained admission into university,we were living in the same area. He was in 400l while I was doing my pre-degree program but we weren't friend,we didn't talk at all. After my pre-degree program,I changed hostel.

Early 200l,my phone's ba3 was down,so I needed to charge,I entered a hostel and knocked on a room, to my surprise this...

...guy lived there. To cut the long story short, we met again,he asked me out and I gave him yes. We started dating when I was in 200l,he told me about his ex gf,how much he loved her and how she broke his heart, everybody has their past was my comment to him. Our relationship was going smoothly until he told me the girl was trying to come back and showed me...
...all her messages,I smiled and didn't react negatively to it and the issue went down. I noticed he started restricting some files on his phone ,"what is my own,everybody has the right to do whatever on their phone"was what I thought. After his graduation he changed location which made us barely see. On my bday he decided I should celebrate it at...
...his new  place and I accepted. A day after my bday celebration,I took his phone and guessed the restriction code,after 3attempt I was in. I went through all his social networks and found out he was back with his ex gf and judging from what I read,the girl has upper hand compared to me.....I was disappointed and heartbroken,he pleaded in various.
...ways,he promised to make things right and I forgave him. 4months later, I went to his side, I noticed the girl's frequent call and lots of abusive messages,I asked what was going on and he explained he broke up with her. I was sad cos he made lots of promises to leave the girl four months ago but didn't do so until now but at the same time I was happy cos at last.The
girl story is out of my life. It was then he told me
everything about both of them and apologized again but what choice did I have,I love him so much that am not ready to loose him,so I forgave him and everything was going smoothly. Some months after the incident which happened to be yesterday,he called me and gisted me the latest saga of her,he told..

...me he just found out the girl was playing him during the months they were together that she had another guy and the guy proposed to her while my bf and the girl were together. I got some fact while he was talking including his plan to make the girl his wife this year since they are both graduate and doing fine  but on my side,am still in school(400l). I was...

...seriously angry and I called him lots of names and told him never to call me again and hung up. He has been disturbing me with calls and messages since then but I didn't react to any of it. Please I need advice,am I making mistake cos I'm thinking I should end the relationship or should I forgive him?
The End.


Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/he-exposed-himself-unknowingly.html?m=1

Linda Ikeji is engaged – Former model and super blogger Linda Ikeji is reportedly engaged and is said to be planning a 2016 wedding.
According to Radar, Linda and her beau have been engaged since last year, and are set to become official this year.
Linda has been in a serious relationship for close to a year and has struggled to keep it private. Her boyfriend has since proposed and they will be tying the knots this year.
“She has been keeping her relationship with the guy low key. He proposed last year and they are expected to get married this year but not sure when. The wine carrying ceremony will be taking place at the mansion she built for her father in the village. I don’t really know the guy but I heard he is into real estate.. one of those silent money types. They have been meeting at his place for a while,” the website reports.
Though the source didn’t disclose details as regards the proposal, it could be recalled that Linda set tongues wagging when she flashed what was mistaken for an engagement ring in November, 2015, while announcing her blog.



Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/linda-ikeji-reportedly-engaged-set-to.html?m=1

Please, i'm in a relationship for 7 months and I and my boyfriend loves each other very much. We've met each others family and all that. The problem is i'm still a virgin. I'm 27 years and he's 30. My boyfriend found out the first timehe tried p*netrating and it was really hard so he didn't go further, though I told him before about it.

Since then, my boyfriend refused to p*netrate, all we do is the romance and all that without s*x. When I asked him he said he doesn't wanna take the only thing I have, that it's my pride. But I told him even though i'm a virgin it takes seconds to break and I want him to be the first. He refused, that we should wait. I told him I really wanna break it.
That I would go and meet someone else to break it since he doesn't want to, then we will continue our relationship (I said it jokingly). He said then we would discontinue what we have, he would break-up with me if I try it. I asked him what if I wasn't a virgin won't we be having s*x, he said "Yes". I'm bothered because what if he's getting satisfaction somewhere els

Isn't he a man? We ain't made of wood you know. I want him to do it but he simply refused. We would soon be settling down soon though. I'm just worried, I heard s*x is the spice of a relationship.

Advise Please.

Thanks

Final Post!

Source:http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/i-am-afraid-he-is-getting-statisfaction.html