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Ladiesdream:
why bother replying a boy still being fed by parents. Can't you see he is not in touch with the realities of life in this 21st Century?

What realities abeg? The reality that u lots are looking for women to gold-dig from and still submit to you . A man has just one job which is to provide and u lots are whining and crying over it. If u can't be a damn man, then , please , exchange roles with a woman that is interested .

Poorboy:
look at this fool of a person that doesn't know the direction of his life talking when experience men are making contributions.

From your write-up you will be a fool forever.

Oga experience men . It is experienced men not experience men . From all indications, u re an illiterate . No wonder u need a rich woman since u wont be able to put food on the table with your bad English

bluefilm:
My wife will be a full time 100% housewife... if she's okay with that.

I don't need her for her money for whatsoever reason at all, so why would I even bother if she's making some money or not?

Thank God for all these work at home opportunities.

She can pick anyone that interests her... again, if she's okay with that.

God bless you sir. I have hope that there are still reasonable men like u out there.

RisenPhoenix:
You feel that women can only contribute by bringing money into a marriage? That is not my view. Much more important than washing your dirty dishes, paying half the rent or paying a third of the school fees, is what women contribute by making the home emotionally conducive for the rest of the family, providing a base of rest and comfort from which the husband goes out to fight in the rat race every morning, and nurturing the bodies and minds of the progeny. That is their primary and only duty. Do not underestimate that contribution, it is very important to society. In fact, the neglect by women of this primary duty is what gave rise to the sick society we have today, with rebellious children, stressed husbands and criminal behaviour everywhere. Anything that helps them in that duty; like getting a househelp to take away the less important functions; should be enhanced and encouraged. Would Boeing waste their chief engineer's time by asking him to count bolts and nuts in the store?

The only problem is that women are failing in their primary duty because they are not encouraged to perform it. Rather, weak and lazy men try to get their wives to do the men's duty instead of theirs, and men judge them on that basis. Witness the op.

God bless you sir for your words of wisdom. Men like the o.p are the realities of men we have in this age .

Poorboy:
I had your mentality many years ago, but you will soon outgrown it.
Save this post for future reference.

Hope u re sha drop-dead gorgeous? Because no rich woman will marry an ugly poorboy

Poorboy:
Then the argument here is make sure you marry a woman that makes money fool.

You are talking about a working class lady so there no argument about that.

Let me add further if you stay with a man or have a man that takes care of your needs in which inturn sleeps with you, you're on prostitution.

'On prostitution' ke?. I will rather be involved in this type of prostitution that have a shameless man leech on me.

Poorboy:
Grow up, from ur write-up you're a very small boy.

Oshey, elder that is still a 'poorboy'. Continue looking for a woman that will babysit you . That is why the rate of divorce is so high.

Poorboy:
no sense in what you just put up here.

Obviously, it is not supposed to make sense to a 'poorboy'

Ladies, please be wise. Nature has accorded everyone their responsibility why alter it? Men are to provide while women nuture and take care of the home. Why do u also want to share a man's responsibility when u know a typical egocentric African man will never take part of your own nature accorded responsibility. Why double ur workload ? A lot of you men on this sites shout down feminism but pick it all up when it suits your purpose . Equal responsibility came up as a result of femininsm. So, u lazy men are enjoying the fruits of feminism. This post just shows that the number of lazy men in this country keeps increasing at an alarming rate. Someone on this thread was even saying it is not allowed for the first wife to be financial dependent but the second, third wife can be . This is simply a case of monkey dey work, babbon they chop. After u must have laboured and become so old, he then out there and picks a physically more appealing wife to shower all your hardwork on . You may even get thrown out of the house because your name was never in the property. I used to ascribe to this gender equality balderdash until i checked and discovered it complete work overload on the African woman and removed myself from such group. I will only take gender equality seriously when i meet a man that wants to go equal in all resoinsibilties. Until then , i continue to sit in my traditional roles of doing this . I hate cheating and i no get strength to over work my self .
My fellow ladies , watch sheraseven 1 on youtube for better understanding . She is the truth. Shalom

dukeprince50:
I'm only joking, ur natural look is amazing.
This is NL, we derive fun wen we bring down someone self esteem.
All in all, u are bitiful

Seriously? SMH

LadyBeee:
you are so dumb . Read my post well please. I see u don't understand simple English. Where did I mention that I raised 30k? Maybe you have eye problem

Lady bee, please leave that guy. That guy will get comfortable in his state. And if his plan is to leach on u, he will make u fall in love with you and then do that. Watch Acrimony for better understanding.

enehvictor:
Enugu can't even be competing with Ibadan, Ikeja, Onitsha, Ikoyi etc, Enugu should be competing with Akure, Ado Ekiti etc, these are sleepy towns like Enugu

Akure ke, that place is a shithole . Can never be compared to Enugu. NEVER

[quote author=pocohantas post=87914094]For all it’s worth, Davash is not an “alfa male”. We disagree on a lot, I bash him sometimes- way more than he bashes me sef, but it ends there!

The aim of this thread is not to be petty, deride or demean anyone. There is time for everything. We can do our gender wars somewhere else, but not on matters regarding giving, as this can discourage people in future and it’ll defeat the aim of the giveaway itself.

I didn’t see monickers, I saw people. I also like to think I am very rational, that I can separate opinions from people. So, NL history or disagreements didn’t influence my decisions.

The target was 20 and I had to be sure I wouldn’t do a person twice, hence the verification process. I didn’t even take second glances at the ID cards. I didn’t share them with anyone either. The names were all I wanted to verify.

Biko, let’s sheath our swords on this one.

Thank you.[/quot
Poco , has it ended?

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LadyBeee:
read my post well please. Was willing to support him with at least 200k. I'm financially okay but I don't want to make him financially dependent on me.

Sister, please, am begging you . That guy is only after you because of ur money . I have had that experience once and i pray never again . Most guys out there are golddiggers looking for who to milk dry . sister, please use that 200k to improve ur look over all and get u a better man . U deserve better . He will milk u dry and use ur money to marry someone of his taste . Please, be warned . Start watching sheraseven 1 on YouTube she is the truth

Thanks ubunja for your words of wisdom. But how does one level up when one is a student and not rich?

Could not have said it better. The current crop of men are extremely lazy not all though . The last set of graduands in my deoartment produced six female first class and no male. Can you imagine? Even in my class, all the possible first class graduands are females. The only some of the stupid males think about is sex, boobs and ass. Chatting with most of them has made me realise that a lot of them are very lazy and not purpose-driven . A lot of them are waiting for 'internship' money that is yet to come while me, on the otherhand, is trying hard to develop my youtube channel and some other things

pocohantas:
Who is a pig? You want to beg money for fck again?? Shey I was on my own, you and the other ediotic Nikeballer started insults.

Why do you want to play victim now? Beggie beggie alfa male. Oya, go find another person to beg money for 1 nut.




Lmao. Why picking venue for fight? Ultimate display of cowardice. Fcker!!!

Poco baby, i like however you are giving them hot hot. This post honestly shows that 90% of guys on Nairaland are BROKE. See how triggered they are about this post when the only thing they know is calling girls hoes thinking everyone is like their mother and sister. No wonder they all comment like retards. I really hate when guys asks what a woman brings to the table as if most women now are not the ones carrying their families. Most guys now are even golddigger but nobody talks about because of men's ego e.g emmanuel ikwubese that married popular anita brows, teebillz that married tiwa savage, jjcskillz that married funke akindele and so on . Rich men don't even care about what their wives bring to the table, the only thing u have to do is look pretty. Only broke men look for financial independent ladies that will accomodate their lazy ass. The only thing i know is that an average igbo man takes care of his family . But go the west and see yoruba women feeding their broke , community dicks husbands . Tufiakwa, it shall never be our portion.

People are here calling o.p' s girlfriend a gold digger as if the o.p has any gold the girl will dig. O.p's girlfriend believes that a real man should take care of her and o.p does not fit into that criteria yet. O.p, stop whining and break up with this girl please, if u are not okay with her attitude. Go get urself a feminist, dude. Only those people take care of themselves and give u sex too . Win-win situation for you. Good luck

Tall , Good fashion sense . I love quality wristwatch, shoe , shirt. That shit turns me on �

It came as a shock to me when towards savage celebrated her new boyfriend on her instagram page calling him 'my main one' . They actually be seen recording songs together and face timing each other . The sad part is that she said she cannot marry him as he is not rich enough.
Watch the video below and judge for yourselves . Don't forget to comment too



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cbYWnZeqs88

Popular singer, Teni was recently seen all made up by the popular hairdresser, miznwanneka. She looks so good . Wow




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9eOhhM8qFVU

Cardi B and her husband vibing to the currently trending song ' mad ' by wurlD and sarz as they talk about corona virus . WurlD career don blow poo. So happy for him because he is so a great singer.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmD7eYQ11gQ

ultimate77:
Say again?

I repeat, oga, are you irresponsible?

Post Malone addresses his issue about being sick in his New York concert but his fans are really claiming that he is suffering from drug overdose . Watch the video down below and decide for your self :



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-yDqkSvFRIo

ultimate77:
When it is women's day it is "happy women's day to every woman out there" but on men's day (if there is ever any) it is "happy men's day to every RESPONSIBLE man out there"; I don't get it, really. Every woman gets to be celebrated but only responsible men get the applause? Am I missing something?

Women why do you do this?

Oga, are u irresponsible?

[quote author=RighteousI post=87337363]You can get young and different kponmo without marrying. Good luck to you and your wife that will only give you just one slacked kponmo in exchange for you paying the bills and her tasting the kponmo of her boss. You gullible fool, may your wife cheat on you with me, I will make sure I caress her well.

Women have wised up, it's time you man wise up as well.
















[/I said it . Lots of illiterates on this site . By their English u shall know them . I have just come to realise that Nairaland does not depict what happens out here in our society. Just bunch of confused lots talking trash. Las las, this one is looking for a woman to feed him . Later on , some people will open their mouths to say women bring nothing to the table . Out here, real men take care of their family . Nonsense and some stupid Nairaland people.
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centboy123456:
I pray to God that he will never give u husband of ur own even u mange to get ur husband u can never have children of ur own

I cause u with the spirit I sever I send the evil angles to u

it most comes to pass

See how this one is typing. Gosh ..so many illiterates on this forum .. Baba go sit down one place . That curse can never come to pass. Nonsense

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHUt4cHuNNw

One word : MONEY IS GOOD. Floyd mayweather chilling in his latest ride. Watch the video down below.





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHUt4cHuNNw

Davido's father must be really proud of him as he is seen dancing to Davido's currently trending song inside his private jet.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rqVAEr3dt_k

The bus conveying the lobi stars players of Makurdi caught fire on the way to their destination .




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hlYhnTFxWRE