₦airaland Forum

jagorinho:
you are off point, I am sorry to say, traditional Igbo guys sucks at relationship, I have the same sentiment as o.p, I served in enugu, and I saw things first hand, Igbo guys buy love, they are the " go and make money and girls will rush you gang" but they do not put many things into consideration, simply put " they lack game" only those ones that have stayed in lagos for long are faring better, you do not just throw cash at girls, sponsor her whole tertiary education or build a new house for her parents then suddenly you think you own her without any background check whether the feeling is mutual, a tailor ( Yoruba) was having an affair with 3 married ladies in the village I served,as a fellow Yoruba I told him to stop it but he was like they found him irresistible because he always fix their emotional needs by hearing them out and keeping them company which their " millionare" husbands couldn't, this guy always eat fresh food every time prepared by those ladies, he played his game so well that i was amazed such tricks could come from someone like him,he was average in looks and does not give them a dime, he hardly make a thousand naira daily but you will see young handsome guys, with almost every thing in their life going well but are Slaves to their partner, I usually pity them, I liberated some but most were lost in the wilderness.

No wonder the only thing the average Yoruba thinks about is sex that is why they go about littering the earth with children they hardly care of. The only thing the average Igbo man cares about is how to make money, marry a very beautiful wife and take care of all her needs and that of her family. Igbo men don't care about any stupid game . We leave it for u guys . Enjoy ur game and brokeness. This is why the institution of marriage is a game and joke to Yorubas. I went to a school where 50% of Yoruba parents are divorced or separated while some of the rest were being catered for by their mothers.

funmijoyb:
I tell you.

A pregnant eboe women will cheat on their husband in the south west.

Those claiming Igbo women are better compared to Yoruba live under the earth.

Igbo women hardly cheat. Why cheat when u have a man that caters for all ur needs unlike Yoruba men that are well known for abandoning responsibilities.

funmijoyb:
U live in a village abi? Igbo women cheats more than Yoruba counterpart.
Come to the west..

..they're husband snatcher

...run girls

...they born children to sell

The most beautiful Igbo women are dating Yoruba demons

What are you saying?

The most beautiful igbo women date Yoruba demons that are RICH . See, at the end of the day, it all boils down to money for us. We can't stay with a man that is not financially unstable. They may be runs girls and it is all for the money. It is better than being a cheap prostitute like Yoruba gals that litter everywhere with children from different fathers. I know this for a fact because I live in Akure, Ondo state. If u marry an Igbo woman, u are sure of fidelity except in very few cases unlike the yorubas ; both the men and the women littering children everywhere without care. Please don't make me type more than this .

Eyeness:
spend and invest. All euphemisms for the same term, putting money and resources where you see value. I just used the simpler word out of the two. I am not after political correctness.


I am not surprised by your response either, resorting to cheap blackmail and shaming telling ladies " you'll end up single at 30" "you'll end up a single mother" is no longer effective.

My threads give ladies the hard facts and the skills they need if they want to navigate the dating and relationship waters and come out with the best of both worlds.

Who says the ladies I speak to do not have a plan? Or are not virtuous? Women add value to men by simply being in their lives because they are multipliers. If the women you come across are giving you crap, it is most likely because crap is all you have to offer in the first place.

We don't want men who are all talk and no action, who can easily promise love but can't invest/spend on our business or our futures.

Women are not the liability, broke men are.


I encourage you to keep filtering leeches, since you were already anaemic to begin with.


Isn't it funny how the men that have come to this thread all make claims of having cash??

Don't mind them ooo . Na only broke guys full Nairaland. It is very visible from the way they type . Broke men ain't shit . Una go weep tire especially that emmaodet that his wife feeds.

onyegwu:
Getting a rich guy is good but women empowerment is much more better. It emancipate you from any form of slavery.

And I said that I am empowered already . Thanks

FreeSpark1:
Yoruba take care of wife more...
Ayomide is a nice name.

Lies

onyegwu:
If you are then champion women empowerment and not one servitude, dependent ideology you mentioned. Once a woman is empowered the next thing is to search for true love from an equally empowered partner not necessarily super rich but one that is ready to work and earn a living with love at the centre you would see your selves doing well in all ramifications. And not this leeching attitude the op is trying to sell to you ladies. I as a person I don't encourage leeching from anyone be it male or female both should contribute and make it work. The men that are made are few and you can not continue to wait for when you will get one because you might wait for a longer time and might not be lucky enough to land one.

Don't bother about me dear . I like them rich and I already got myself one from Enugu. I love being taken care of by my man. It makes him look so handsome to me.

1. Must love me so much.


2. Must be financially stable ( very important)


3. Must be ambitious

onyegwu:
Women all over the world are empowering them selves and liberating them selves you still choose to become a slave to a man with just ur beauty, sex and respect who did this to you?

And who told u that am not empowered ?

purples25:
So because we said the man should contribute, now means that the woman is not doing anything, that is the meaning of you giving money? Omo, i think i have explained this thing to you, but you want to look at it in a one sided way. Nobody said the woman will not bring value.

Yes, men do prefer those women that bring only sex and collect money. They treat them better than the woman that waits patiently for whatever he can bring.

My dear, keep preaching . I learnt the hard way. The only way to chop a guy money is to be a slay queen. Periodtt.

purples25:

Lol these guys that want to kill a woman with suffering have come. Okay, then men are also body diggers. I have never seen a woman who is less attractive say 'Manage with my current looks and age, when things get better, we will enjoy my beauty' and a guy will agree. The men always go for what they want, they get list and preferences.

But if a woman chooses, she is a LovePeddler.

Let me tell you the real truth, you will suffer with him, ask him for nothing, and he will ridicule you! You will be a foot mat that he rubs mud on!

Any guy that wants to summersault should do so! I'm only returning the savagery you guys lash out with here!

My dear don't listen to them. They know the truth buh only try to fool the gullible girls that will fall for the cheap scam of let's build together'. Girls listen ' A man will never value u if u don't make him spend on you'. If a man willingly spends on u, it is either he loves u or just paying for sex. Use ur brain to decipher the difference. I have been there, done it all. I once dated a broke guy who I spent well on. But it ended in tears. The relationship of one year plus ended with him telling his friends and all that I was cheap because I gave him sex. Relationships in the country are highly transactional ; this is the truth. A guy rich will never approach an average or ugly-looking girl for relationship because he has the money to take care of her needs and in most cases, a poor will never a slay queen for a relationship because he can't afford it. The only a rich man needs from his partner is beauty , sex and respect

Enoch07:
my brother, d embarrassment was world class. I tot 550k was going to make me a mr, until I saw list. my babe beg her people tire no way. but today we have a son, and not yet married at least we are happy. hopefully after this whole covik19 wahala, we'll try again

May God bless ur home

Today I will be talking about the requirement for marriage in the eastern and western part of Nigeria as I have lived in the two parts.

Eastern part
An Eastern man wants a beautiful wife
Must be very tall
Must have a very beautiful face
Nice skin complexion
Most times don't care about boobs and ass
Don't care about your financial independence as
a female because an average Eastern man
believes taking of the family is his
RESPONSIBILITY and does not need his wife's contribution.


Western part
A western man needs a financially independent wife as they most times join resources to care for the family. Sometimes, the wife earns higher .
A western man needs a hardworking woman
A western man needs a very educated wife


Make ur contribution quietly . Thank you .

Today I will be talking about the requirement for marriage in the eastern and western part of Nigeria as I have lived in the two parts.

Eastern part
An Eastern man wants a beautiful wife
Must be very tall
Must have a very beautiful face
Nice skin complexion
Most times don't care about boobs and ass
Don't care about your financial independence as
a female because an average Eastern man
believes taking of the family is his
RESPONSIBILITY and does not need his wife's contribution.


Western part
A western man needs a financially independent wife as they most times join resources to care for the family. Sometimes, the wife earns higher .
A western man needs a hardworking woman
A western man needs a very educated wife


Make ur contribution quietly . Thank you .

The victim is never the cause of rape. Sometimes, they are just innocent people who have a boy-friend, uncle, father and so on.

My story
The university I school in has 2 major campuses; one for general courses and another for professional courses. Initially, I was studying a general course before I changed to a professional course and changed campus. As it was the norm, I had to transfer my files from the previous campus to my new campus. I had a close male friend in my previous campus called L.

[quote author=ModestGal post=89391510]Thanks darling, you can't understand how sweet TECH is for me, and how it can easily bring money on days one least expected. I won't advice you to relent ma, but for me, I will always regret it. Its been long I finished both Bsc and MSC, now I know I wasted my precious life during my Bsc days.




Please ma what skill do you one should learn?

[quote author=Oladayo12 post=89380928][/quote]Please what tech skill can u advise me to learn that will be beneficial to me?

Please guys, has anybody used QEI+ soap before? I am very dark skinned and looking to be a shade or 2shader lighter, what soap do u recommend?

Can I still join?

Personally, I forgive easily too easily sometimes(it is my nature by the way) . But I never forget. The best way I deal with things like that are never EVER speaking to the person again. After breaking up with my ex-boyfriends, I never speak to them again because their chapter don close never to be opened again.

Personally, I forgive easily too easily sometimes(it is my nature by the way) . But I never forget. The best way I deal with things like that are never EVER speaking to the person again. After breaking with my ex-boyfriends, I never speak to them again because their chapter don close never to be opened again

RiyadhGoddess:
Ondo, Ekiti --- Research has shown that, men from these part of the country are Authentic Sperm Donors.
They can keep concubines in the whole regions of the world with the aid of their mothers, sisters and aunties. One woman no dey reach them. Go and investigate them...

True for ondo ... They just keep donating sperm and living with different women

Alfather:
being in rich man is not all roses, it takes years of hard work and deligent. Can the female folks wait? Your ideology is a support for the female folks,so you think, but it goes againts them in age. What you are saying indirectly is women should marry older men who are well extablish, and older men settle for younger women. So people like you end up being even newspaper.

U can't even type properly SMH. I say it again that na broke/poor/struggling people full nairaland.

[quote author=Offpoint post=89232503]We are in circle repeating the same thing over and over again...

Let those who can afford pay let them pay...
Let those who can not, let them pay.

Let those who cannot stop insulting those who can and let those who can stop insulting those who cannot..

Relationship is not by force, if can't keep a girlfriend... Stay single or visit brothel or masturbate.




God bless u offpoint. Let those who can afford it afford it. If they can't, let them take several seats back . After all, Nigerian girls offer nothing in relationship apart from sex . But the irony is that the only thing most Nigerian guys value most is Sex. Give ur yourself freely to a guy u love without money attached, they end up calling u cheap and fish brain. Attach monetary benefits to it, they call u gold-digger. Which do they want girls to do?

Graphene:
Hahaha!!
Most Nigerian women are a lost breed.
While women all over the world are evolving and ending male emancipation , down here our women still want to hold on to the old ways of doing things. They feel threatened by the new order.
A lady comes to this forum and insist that it's only a man who feeds her need is entitled to own and enslave her. He, feeding her financial needs, gives him all the right to her sexually and emotionally. Same women will then come here and preach feminism.
Truly sad

He gives big money just the way I like it.

HARRISON040:
wait o,what do u offer to ur man.let me guess,sex.fish brain

Yes ooo.... I give him mind- blowing sex and he takes care of me and he is not complaining cos he is not BROKE.

Graphene:
That's the girl!! It's quite simple. I don't know what ladies and dudes are being defensive about.
The 21st century relationship is transactional,
if your needs are not being met in a relationship, you leave!
As a lady, if your financial wealth is your priority in a relationship then let the dude know. If he can't meet it leave!
As a guy if intellectual and emotional desires are all you seek, go for it. If your babe can't offer that dump her.
If a lady can only offer her pussy in a relationship and her man is cool with that, awesome!! Pussy ain't free, quality pussy is very expensive.
If a guy refuses to hand over his money to you, that's it's prerogative. One ladies stingy bf is another's ATM.
Nobody is entitled to shit, it's all transactional.

God bless you dear. They all know the truth . I will say it to the high heavens 'I AM ENTITLED TO MY MAN'S MONEY'. If u re not OK with it go and die

Liliantalks:
I said what I said . So am I suppose to envy a woman who spends on a man .. desperation is all I see and u r exploiting it .

I like you ....Tell them

Oluromantic:
No dear, low self-esteem makes trash look like truth. Stupid talks breed harsh response. My gf earns more than me at the moment and she does spend more. She doesn't feel entitled as you who have no Kobo in your account

She spends more on u cos u re broke.

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

God bless you sweety. Say it with ur chest joor. I am entitled to my bae's money. I once broke up with a dude cos he was stingy. Now, am with someone better .

khia:
You need to stop throwing up those same old bogus statistics because they are false. There are many many black Americans families with both parents in the home. The problem with your thread is you paint all black Americans with the same brush.

You posted that black American women were all these negative things which is false information. What you should have posted was **All the Black American women that YOU were attracted to and brought into YOUR life were RATCHET** which gives the reader a better insight to the type of person you are.

You really need to get out of the ghetto and move into a nice Black community so you can meet a better class of women. You have to work on yourself first because a classy woman wouldn't be interested in a boy like you.

True... I truly believe that o.p lives in a ghetto that is why he keeps meeting ratchets

themonk:
I’m Igbo but the whole chest beating thing from my Igbo brothers and sisters drive me crazy. Why must we make everything tribalistic is on nairaland. Some people who have not even read the post are rushing to comment, Sanwo Olu gave most of the palliatives from the write up and then the honorable senator added his.

Yorubas are tribalistic too, we should all stop the madness.

U re from Anambra abi?