₦airaland Forum

Renida:
Ujujoan as usual. Shakes head vigorously, wicked gal

She is stating the fact and the truth and u know it. Better go and work hard. 90% of problems on this section is caused by lack of finance and the woman having to overwork herself and ends up complaining bitterly. In Africa, finances has never being the women role no matter how much they earn. They always complain bitterly when they have to do it because she is overburdening herself with two different roles which is providing and still having to take care of the home whilst the man sits and does nothing.

Ybaby:


He is not the provider type - he too is looking for an man to give to him. Please borrow him some mini skirt - time to Bobrisky...since you want to be woman

Lolll

dokiOloye:
So ashamed at you with this your comment.
It is perfectly ok for some women to never have transport money all their lives cos their husband is the provider but for a man,a little downtime is not allowed.
I can swear you're being fed by som1 that's you can spew such rubbish.

Go and provide for u family, oga and stop whining

Randal:
No need to dilute. I use Braggs. The one with the mother. Just shake before use.

Wow ....okay.

[quote author=Lewisalexander post=89701653]Short up. Being broke is a normal thing. Companies, banks n even government go broke sometimes. U r very stupid n I wish I could just punch u in d face [/qu



Better go make money

Randal:
Apply to cotton wool and clean with it.

No need to dilute? The one I bought is by whitehouse not braggs

Randal:
Use apple cider vinegar morning and night. Even for dark armpits.
Don't forget to appreciate me when you see the miracle.

How do I use it please?

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Sarang:
I don’t mean to be rude but how is she using you?

She cooked for you!
Cleaned your room!
Gave you sex! And yet even when you gave her just 3k that wasn’t enough for her she took it and didn’t COMPLAIN!

You gave her 7k and She is using you?!
Are you kidding me!!
Did you even appreciate her?!
Damn Nigerian men!

Don't mind the broke stingy goat. Girl wey give u sex, come cook and clean join. He dey here dey whine cos of ordinary 3k. See, my naija girls make una give una brain. Make it harder for this guys to get to ur honey pot so that dey appreciate it better. Make him spend on you babes before anything .

Stingy broke fool! User oshi.... U re whining here because of ordinary 1k and 2k. See bros no vex me this hot afternoon. Free the babe abeg. Nonsense and ingredients

delkuf:
Guy I don't ask her for money. But there are I got broke, and I want to go do something that will bring money, just maybe transport fare to that place and may money to do something that will bring bigger money, she will bluntly refuse

U no even get common transport fare? Geez. Your wife dey try.

Yampotatocarrot:
And what happens if unfortunately he loses his job and all? You'll give him three months to get himself back on track or you turn to a "demon"?

Does this also mean you subscribe to the idea of rich Igbo men who prefer their wives being housewives or just open a little shop for him while the man provides all the funds needed?

I'm actually learning a lot from you, Ma.

Yes, we prefer that. Just sit at and do nothing

Nonsoboy4life:
Half of her life she say..I'm beginning to think you're just kidding..lol


Something of just 3 years

Can u truthfully say that u have never cheated on her during the period of this relationship?

yettymuse:
We are not ready for this discussion....But i know that some day we would all seat on a round table, clinching glasses, showing off our GOALS and smiling at how much we’ve LEVELED UP!.
But in the mean time, whatever rocks anyone’s boat. Everybody go dey alright....

Like I always say... Guard your money if you no fit guard your heart! E go be

And never forget, YOU’RE THE PRIZE

Sprinkle sprinkle sisters

Sprinkle sprinkle - shera seven right?

Luckymama:
@ OP, a lot of women endure maltreatment from their husbands in Nigeria because they have no choice I.e they are dependent financially and have to take it. That they continue to accept maltreatment doesn’t mean they have no feelings. The macho inconsiderate way a lot of husbands treat their wives kills whatever love the women may have had. A lot of them are just waiting patiently until situation change.

That’s why for example you will find old couples where the wife has abandoned her husband and is permanently living with one of her children. Now when he is old and needs his wife’s company she has no feelings for him and doesn’t need him anymore since her children can now take care of her.

Same situation you are in. You killed your wife’s feelings for you with your behavior in Nigeria and now she feels she doesn’t need you and so it’s payback time.

The only thing you can do is explain to her that in the first place you don’t have your papers yet so she has not yet “arrived.” Secondly, sincerely beg her forgiveness and make efforts to make amends for your behavior. We women are still quite soft. You won her heart once, you can win it again. Set to woo her the way you did before you got married. Hopefully she will forgive and forget and be ready to build a home with you.

And in case it’s a fake story, well men should note that we never forget the maltreatment. We just bide our time. So always treat your woman right.

Am telling you women never forget the maltreatment. I spoke to an aunty of mine who still remembers the evil her husband did to her 23 years ago. Infact, she has told me this story more than 10 times already to show that it still hurts. She said she is just bidding her time to pay him back.

Akwa ibom ....The roads are well built and sturdy. Heard that most of the roads were constructed by Julius berger.

LuQuLuQu:
Fake story written by a dejected guy

Very true.

tunmiluabi:
Thank you much appreciated.

O.P be truthful, how many years were u out of a job ?

Simbrixton:
dere are many poor and struggling igbo families the truth is modern society means men and women have very equal opportunities unlike previous human societies

That won't be a problem so far the man is bringing his 50% : that is both money and doing house chores and the woman like wise

Ybaby:
Absolutely agree!!! I honestly do.

If I come to this world again I will marry this man.

Infact from what I have seen on NL na me lucky pass

U re indeed . Allow this 50/50 broke men wail like cows here. Most of the wailing stories we see on Nairaland come from homes with financial issues but these men here will never learn.

Xisnin:
Go learn a skill or get a job.
The chance of you getting married with the mindset of your role model is almost zero.

Am Igbo. Men here take care of their family. It is the norm. All my uncles' wives are unemployed and are well catered for . They all live in the houses built by their husbands, they all drive in cars bought by their husbands. My mum used to be too till she scattered working recently but whatever she makes goes back to her. So, u see Igbo men take care of their wives. They take pride in doing that . They care about no 50/50.

Ybaby:
I am Ijebu and my Hubby is Igbo

Wow, u re so lucky. Igbo guys are the best at taking care of their family. Do u agree?

Ybaby:
I can NEVER aspire to be your mum.

She has a son seeking to be fed by a woman and he then shames women for being provided for in marriage.

Her son is a woman because he grew up seeing her be the man of the house - the provider.

Again you have no idea where your mum has taken her vagina too.... you will never know how many times that vagina has been traded to put food on your table..... not traded in marriage like mine ( your dad had nothing to offer her).... but traded on the high way because your father was not man enough to provide for his family.

If you go low I will go lower. Be warned I am not M Obama

I love u girl. Give them hot hot them broke leeches on Naira land

Ybaby:

Awwwwn. Am happy for u sis. What is ur advise for unmarried young girls like me?

Ybaby:
It has worked for me for 19 years and works for many people too.

The ones who donot adher to roles open marital thread on Nairaland

Very true. U re Igbo right?

Perfecttouchade:
That stupid dude back then...sick head

U know him?

Raydos:
Can you read at all??

Yes, I can. Can you?

Genoa:
It wasn't my fault that you couldn't comprehend what this thread was all about.

Although it's very obvious that Yorubas are richer Igbos, this thread is all about taking control of your relationship.

Yoruba guys are mostly Alpha male whilst Igbos are simp, that's why they had to entice women with their hard earned money.

Yesterday a news made NL front page, An alpha Yoruba guy impregnated a Turkish women, the guy ran because he just wanna enjoy himself, an Igbo simp had to start taking care of a Yoruba man left over.

Igbo land does not only have brown roof but it's a barren land, even the indigenes are running away from Igboland.

Below is another international stats showing that Yorubas are richer than Igbos.

Igbos are very poor, that's why they all run to Yoruba land to do prostitution and hawk gala.

Yoruba men are only alpha in matter of the vagina nothing more buh Igbo men are the real alphas with the money . Only money makes makes the world go round not impregnating different women and giving u lots bad names. Anyway, Yoruba men are well known for abandoning their responsibilities. Not surprised anymore.

Tobiloba2407:
You know how many igbo married ladies, that are chasing my friends....and their husbands have money oooo, baba, the difference is the game...not buying love

Liar . U dey lie ehn . Do u know how many rich Yoruba married men that are chasing my mum? If not because she is Igbo

Tobiloba2407:
Yes nau....will I not bleep again? When all they think of is money and flash lifestyle, the only ones I see that have sense, are the ones that grew up in Lagos....those ones that can from east to Lagos, it's like they have a spirit inside them

Why not go for Yoruba girls that are cheap and leave Igbo girls that love flashy lifestyle alone?

Tobiloba2407:
We actually have houses on the island, drive range rovers and g wagons, and go on group vacations( still always igbo girls we take to Bleep).
There is something fundamentally wrong with igbo girls.

Na so . This one just they dream . But why do leave Yoruba girls that love u and are easy to bleep for Igbo girls that will only bleep u if u have money? Una too like Igbo girls joor . Them too fine abi? Their yellow skin and chocolate skin is irresistible .

Raydos:
Well it depends on what an individual wants, whether being sexy or having beautiful face!!

Igbo Girls have Beautiful faces

While Yoruba girls have the sexiest Bodies in Nigeria!!


Just go for you want!

Which sexy body? Taah. I live in Akure, Ondo state and I don't see no fine girl around.