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This NLC no matter what they do, did and will do is still better than the ones who served during buhari regime

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Nengiraw:
Hello nairalanders, please I need help on this situation. So I’m a lady in her mid 20’s. I’m actually very much set for marriage in the eyes of my family, since society deem it fit to place marriage as an achievement for women, and always bring up your age to remind you to. Anyways, it’s not a priority for me to get married now, as I feel like I’m not ready mentally,and I have a lot of trauma to work on, but I’m also open to it, if it’s in my face and ready. I don’t stay in Nigeria, so my family don’t know if I have a man in my life, so they decided upon themselves to introduce me to a man who is my uncle’s friend that stays in the same country as me. They were more focus on the fact that he comes from a neighboring village from us and that he was a doctor. (Meanwhile he’s actually a nurse, but he told them, that he was a doctor, he also never mentioned to them that he was married and had a child, before they decided to introduce him to me)

So we eventually started talking on WhatsApp, he saw some of my pictures already and he was mesmerized. In fact he was already kind of making me his wife in that moment. So one day he called me and we were just talking,and I heard like a toddler crying so bad and needed his attention, I asked him who was that , he told me it was his daughter, there was this awkward silence for almost five minutes of us not saying anything, so I told him I’ll call him back. I called my mother that day and was mad as hell, that they didn’t disclose such information to me, but from my mother’s reaction she had no idea, and she was also mad and she told me, she will call me back, so she could verify from my uncle, since that’s his friend. Even my uncle too had no idea. To cut the whole story short, he later called me the next day on a video call, and he started telling me about his wife( Yes! She’s still his wife, because I don’t think he has divorced her yet)and how abusive she was, and how he tried to make it work, but she was so crazy and stuff like that. That he’s actually trying to get shared custody of the child. That he’s no longer married to her. I was not really having it, because I just felt like he wasn’t being honest with certain things and on top of that his wife is still in the picture, and I don’t know if I want to settle for that. Also he just turned 40, and I’m 25. So the age gap is too much for me. Also I have not met him in real life, cause he stays in a different state from me, my family still wanted me to be open minded until I see him in person, then I could make a decision if I want him or not. He always sends me pictures of his daughter, and he recently sent me one with his first wife and daughter, I was surprised that he did, and he said he wanted to show me the daughter instead. I still felt like I didn’t need to see a picture of her. I started seeing the red flags of him that I couldn’t settle with. Also the way he talked about the wife was vulgar, and I felt like he didn’t need to tell me about her in that manner.

Now the most recent thing he started doing was sending me random stuff about marriage to my WhatsApp. I usually glance at it,and don’t reply, cause I don’t know why he’s sending me that. The one that gave me a major big red flag from him, is when he sent where Regina daniels( the actress who married Ned nwoko) was talking about marrying her husband a virgin and how it’s important to be a virgin. He then asked me if I was one. Honestly I felt really numb, because I don’t know why he will be asking me stuff like that, when he didn’t really get a respond back from me, he proceeded to send another message telling me, “No mind them sha, virgin no sabi. With a heart eye emoji. I was dumbfounded, I didn’t know how to reply to him anymore. I stopped picking up his calls and I have no intention to meet up with him anymore. Now my family is mad at me, saying that at least I should see him in person, but I don’t want to. In fact I’m no longer interested in him. Please am I wrong for feeling the way I feel? Thanks.

Can we be friends?

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Inconclusive
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Independence

You can't murder a Nigerian and go Scott free, our spirits are too strong..

As an African you don't accept a free coffin...

Tomorrow now when the gods Start reacting you go dey run up and down

TemplarLandry:
There's a spirit behind it. You need prayers.

Do you gamble?

Currently in Nigeria both are papers gotten over some wasted years and resources and they both don't translate to the success of the holders.

Again both Papers as far as our country is concerned can be gotten overnight so long you have a good insider in the corrupt institutions where they are given.

My advice to those who are still chasing to get these papers is for them to look towards hand works. Learn a trade or do business.

Remember these papers become useless immediately the holders die

Should we tell this man that the meat is one of those Lagos rats...

Who will tell him abeg

A lot of fingers have pointed to this man for the death of mohbad.

Up until now he has not been seen or heard to make any statement.

Is he even in the country

Who will tell these motherfuckers that Nigerians have moved on

Ebus12:
I endured it in 2019, when I was beaten in Nsukka. Endured again in 2021, when these same people wiped me two powerful ones on the back, when coming from school.

Today again, I have chested another one for the culture.
But I swear by the filaments and the skies, the next these wicked idiots hiding under the cloak of a masquerade attire will lash me again, I will definitely retaliate.I swear.

Both the person hiding inside the cloak, the idiots following him or her around, and the gods they are representing, will feel the heat, that day. I swear and I swear.
Heh God! That fool inside that masquerade gown should thank his stars that I was held by some people yesterday evening, I would have shown the world a side of me that I have hiding for too long now.

You should come and see the intensity this guy used to wipe me that raffian stick this evening.
Yes, I know I have been owing lots of people lately, but for goodness' sake, why not come directly and ask for your money. Be a man, for goodness' sake.
Must I be flogged?

Ask for your money, you coward. The highest I will do is refuse to pay you, or maybe threaten you on top.
Come like a man and ask for your money
Must I be flogged?

Are you from Enugu

You wey suppose japa

This 2M would have paid for an ear operation while he was alive...

The love you show to a dead man is simply to put him 6ft below anything other than that is a misplaced priority

God abeg, no let me commit anything wey go make them place Money for my head.

Like this now this guy has become hustle for men.

I don't think my street is part of this grid.... We no get light now for two years

No option of fine?

Talkathon

All he needs to do is to address Nigeria's problem... This will take only 50hrs


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Welcome to the husband market...

grandstar:
The country lacks the captive market to manufacture new cars competitively.

Pat Utomi who served as the MD of Volks if I'm correct in the 1980s said these companies were dying back then to leave the country.

He also said it's best Nigeria is proficient in producing a few car parts competitively and be a reckoning force in it. It could be brake pads, Rollerblade, tyres and so on. Imagine if Nigeria manufactured 10% of the brake pads used in Europe or 50% of the leather in German cars?

A frew market in cars is best. The second hand car industy is providing jobs and livelihoods for probably over a million people. Why not reduce import duty on Tokunbo cars further to boost employment and economic activity?




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I am owing a particular loan app an just this morning I saw that FG has bared them from operation.

Do I still go ahead and pay them and what happens if I don't

You mean 2023 permutations?

I had always tried to follow up with these yearly prophesies of pastors until 2020 when they all gave prophesies of what would happen that year without even mentioning the only thing that later happened that year... CORONAVIRUS

Legend

#100 million abi wetin you write?

You dey mad.

Na heist the person go do there

Cos she is the daughter of an ex president?

Are there no photos of our current president smoking online.

Even maradona smoked in public...

Africans are cursed

Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him

Are banks open
School open

Destiny can be delayed but definitely can't be denied