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Travel / Re: Road Permits: Traveller Complains Of Having To Get Over 80 From Delta To Anambra by gentuj: 10:44pm On Dec 28, 2021
Best the state govt and federal government bring out just a single paper to be issued by state/federal Revenue generators just like vehicle license and abolish all these arm robbers on d way in the name of touts hiding under govt n operating.
Romance / Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by gentuj: 2:40am On Apr 21, 2020
Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks
I know its not easy but it will be better for u to accept it and move in because if u beg her to stay/marry u,u will continue to beg to stay in the marriage for the rest of ur life.Worst that can happen to man is to marry a woman that doesn't love him and that's what I see.There is a woman for u out there . take a deep breath and move and u will be happy u did.
Agriculture / Re: Rice And Garri Sack Printing by gentuj: 12:09pm On Apr 09, 2020
Expensive bro.
payne4real:

#350 per bag (sack with printing) for minimum order

Very expensive
Agriculture / Re: Rice And Garri Sack Printing by gentuj: 12:08pm On Apr 09, 2020
Expensive bro.
payne4real:

#350 per bag (sack with printing) for minimum order
Health / Re: Missing Osun Coronavirus Patient Found by gentuj: 4:53pm On Apr 04, 2020
I trust N. Korea president for this type of action of hers
Romance / Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by gentuj: 11:56am On Jan 04, 2020
Take her with u far away from the guy den counsel her
Autos / Re: Reduction Of Import Duty On Used Cars Poses Danger To The Economy – Experts by gentuj: 10:10am On Feb 04, 2019
Ur greed is too much,u want to continue floating even if others sink is not your problem tiko tiko
Agriculture / Re: Pure Cambrough Gilt And Boar Available For Sale by gentuj: 6:34pm On Jan 08, 2019
Price details gentuj@gmail.com
Politics / Re: Minimum Wage: FG Meeting With Labour Leaders Inconclusive by gentuj: 10:24pm On Jan 04, 2019
Common 12k addition is causing all these headaches to FG,Naija Nawa ooo.

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Politics / Re: Restructure Nig. & Place Politians On Civil Service Salary Structure-nweze, Baje by gentuj: 4:46am On Oct 02, 2018
Best suggestion I have ever heard since I was born in fis country.Dis will make politics not a do or die affairs.

Gaming / Xbox One For Sale by gentuj: 10:02am On Aug 22, 2018
Xbox one for sale,interested persons should drop their comments below
Jobs/Vacancies / See Why NCC Should Stop Banks From Mobile Electronic Topup. by gentuj: 9:06am On Jun 12, 2018
I suggest NCC should ban banks from selling recharge cards for the following reason(s)
Selling recharge once created jobs for Nigeria youths,widows etc but the new bank top up from your account has rendered most of them(recharge card sellers) jobless and a serious struggle for those that are still managing the business. Years back, you see alot of kiosks,umbrella and table when walking down the streets in Nigeria but can't be found now because the mighty ones (banks) who have made it already took their livelihood from them with their wealth.
Apart from banks there re other online top up that can give users the same value.
I suggest NCC should stop the banks from selling recharge card online so the other online like city serve,baxi box,recharge and get paid can create jobs again for the masses with their small capital by using their devices to dispense recharge cards to Nigerians for the same convenience banks will give them.

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Politics / Re: Yusuf Buhari In Power Bike Accident, Unconscious, Suffers Head Injury - DAILY NG by gentuj: 4:47pm On Dec 27, 2017
make e no carry go hospital outside the country oo, make e carry go FMC where we have correct equipment.
Business / Re: Biometrics To Replace Atm's Soon - CBN by gentuj: 9:31am On Nov 21, 2017
This will encourage amputation and murder.PIN is still a better option.You can lose ur cash without being disabled but with biometric,one can loose hands/fingers and even ur cash at same time.
Celebrities / Re: Bobrisky Fires Back At Latasha Ngwube For Her Latest Comments About Him by gentuj: 4:02pm On Oct 31, 2017
The headline is not correct," comment about him or her",he is now woman ke
Business / Re: MAKE MONEY ON UBER and TAXIFY. Download the Guide to Rideshare 3 for Free!!! by gentuj: 5:46pm On May 06, 2017
Am new to all these but i want to know if it will be possible for someone who doesnt know the abuja u to drive an uber cab within Abuja successfully with the google map GPS?
Politics / Re: N2.5b Found In Ex-female Minister’s Housemaid’s Account by gentuj: 8:39am On Jul 03, 2016
Y do our EFCC covers d names of fraudsters and secondly all dis monies ,y re dey not put back into d economy to boost it .we dey suffer oooo
Crime / Beware Of Whom You Call Your Friend. by gentuj: 9:04pm On Jun 19, 2016
Plz anyone that know dyke Darlington dike should tell him to return the 400k I paid into his account to buy a car for me from Lagos. Never trust a friend cos dis guy is my longtime friend,he used our friendship to duped me of d cash above.

Celebrities / Re: Funke Akindele's 38th Birthday Party In London (Photos) by gentuj: 9:12am On Sep 02, 2015
Big gurllllll.
Autos / Re: Very Clean Registered Volkswagen Golf 3, Automatic (N480k) by gentuj: 1:26pm On Feb 01, 2013
wwwkaycom:
N300K Sir?
i will give u 350 cash . call me on 08099444515 for negotiations
Autos / Re: Clean Registered Golf3 Needed Urgently by gentuj: 1:23pm On Feb 01, 2013
gentuj: clean registered golf3 needed urgently for cash and carry.my email gentuj@yahoo.com or 08099444515.
i need it like mad
Autos / Clean Registered Golf3 Needed Urgently by gentuj: 1:22pm On Feb 01, 2013
clean registered golf3 needed urgently for cash and carry.my email gentuj@yahoo.com or 08099444515.

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