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Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by LabDNA: 11:45am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Get the 27 year old pedophile, beat the hell outta him and drag him to SARS. He is a craddle robber armed with his diseased d1ck. 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by ayomide5210(m): 11:46am On Jan 04, 2020 |
smat101: I will advise you not to beat her for the moment, make her know what she needs to know, the only problem I think we the parent are having sometimes is that we correct out of aggression, which will never yield a positive results, sit her down and speak some senses inside her and don't lie to her at the present stage of her life or try to scare her hoping to change her bad way, it won't, speak the truth, preferably life experience |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by bunnae(f): 11:47am On Jan 04, 2020 |
czarina:My dear these days formative age ends at 10 o. Just pray to have a good relationship with your kids o. My niece is just 14, but if I open her chapter for nairaland ehn, you will be shocked. Shey Christmas and New year celebration just pass? She ran away from home and her mom doesn't know where she is. My family has a very good reputation in the town we live in, but the kind of atrocities this girl commits ehn, if you ask her whose child she is, na my papa name (her maternal side) she dey call. We have counselled, beaten her blue black to no avail. We have made plans to go to the police. Parents have to start doing more for their kids o. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Euegene100001: 11:48am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Beat her with caution preferably with a good whip she is just 14 still a child then tell ur mother what u saw .she too will beat her and start monitoring her .plus she should stop using phone for now .This will do the magic |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by MiltonFine: 11:48am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Enwhen:When the 27 year old fvck a 14 year old it's called child sexual abuse, when u keep slapping your 14yr old sister to impart sense it is called physical abuse. So if i understand you correctly, you are saying one has to prevent one abuse with another kind of abuse. I agree with the latter part of your advice though and i believe that is all she needs; more talk therapy. Slapping even once will make matters worse. It will make her hate you and that is dangerous. She will try to get over that bitterness of hate by looking for love elsewhere preferably in the arms of the 27year old pervert. I'm no parent but at least i have an idea how teens think owing to the fact that i've been teaching them for almost ten years now. Moreover i was a teen once and i know puberty can be a dicey thing. 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Emeliegregory(m): 11:48am On Jan 04, 2020 |
When I see what people type here; I realise how undescribably evil man can be. This faceless concept in Nairaland allow people show who they actually are. You read all manner of things here and it makes you wonder. I saw a post here that the person wrote "find someone to f*k her" a 14 year old child. Jesus! Even if we dont know who you are.. it doesnt give you the right to type evil things like this. The problem isnt this world or the country, the biggest problem is the people. Bigots, hypocrites!! God help us all! 4 Likes |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Seluv: 11:49am On Jan 04, 2020 |
U just need to sit her down and talk to her dearly. Don't make her feel scared in dat way she will open up to u.. she's at dat age when feelings are starting to develop by hers is in d wrong way. Don't b harsh on her also. Be ur sister mother. Trust me U will see change |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by ngmoses17(m): 11:49am On Jan 04, 2020 |
czarina: |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Femeto: 11:49am On Jan 04, 2020 |
smat101:Correct. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Doctordogood(m): 11:52am On Jan 04, 2020 |
smat101:Hahahahaha. no be small scattering.... Thank God you caught them on time..... |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by danilmo: 11:52am On Jan 04, 2020 |
chiefolododo: U don't know waris going on |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by tck2000(m): 11:54am On Jan 04, 2020 |
smat101:If i were you,i would pretend like nothings happening and continue monitoring their chat through facebook and when they want to do the do,i would ambush them.Make sure you beat the hell out of the guy with the help of your friends.Put everything on camera and report him to the station.Then give your sister her own dose of the medicine.Monitor her facebook account for some months and delete it if there's nothing suspicious about them again.Lastly don't let her use a phone till she turn 18. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Willy123(m): 11:55am On Jan 04, 2020 |
smat101:. I feel your pain as a father myself l don't all that feel it that l don't have girl child whenever l think of predator called man. Please talk to her to see reason, you are only Protecting her from what will be a sorrowful life. As for the 27 y.o animal put the fear of God in him. Believe me he will run far |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Efechy(m): 11:55am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Broda use d same facebook/internet get stories about girls who did d same nd got raped/kiled nd worse fear go catch am, i dnt kw ur location i 4 arrange lk 2 army 4 u 2 go treat dat goats sicknes. or go 2 any army checkpoint meet d most elderly nd explain 2 him, u might go wit ur goons nd run in2 trouble de can leble u armedrobbers/kidnappers/cultist de by cusing anoda problem tryng 2 solve 1 @ sars/police de d fyn mony nw |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by LINTUNE(m): 11:55am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Smartchoiice:dude common,if what u say is true ,do Ku know how rampant STDs would have been ,common...let him just lie that condoms doesn't prevent anything,rather than telling half lies ,cos if he does she will eventually find out that condoms when worn properly can be 95% protective against these diseases OK [sub][/sub] |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by bjbjbj: 11:56am On Jan 04, 2020 |
14 yrs old having a Facebook account. Na wa ooo |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by gentuj: 11:56am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Take her with u far away from the guy den counsel her |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Sweeetheart(m): 11:57am On Jan 04, 2020 |
When you finished beating her, you will give her enough reasons to do more and beating the guy up will be the dumb move, what if the guy is a cult, all these small girls give their vagina out for guys like that for gullible protection That girl have gone haywire, relocation after counselling, if you counsel her and still live her in that location, una just dey deceive una self. She has tasted forbidden fruit |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by superlanny(m): 11:57am On Jan 04, 2020 |
Ishilove:he should not use his goons or thugs, that's illegal and could send him to jail too, he has evidence, he should take it to the police. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by chaloskyx: 11:57am On Jan 04, 2020 |
talk to her like an adult tell her the other side of sex most girls dont know which is pregnancy and raising a child am sure it would change her pespective a bit you should also show her a live example of a single mother and the experiences they go through. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by juniorstar(m): 12:00pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
emotion is stronger than knowledge. just show her you care warn the guy to stay off your sis |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Fantazy(m): 12:00pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Hmmm! This world is really turning upside down! Strange but True |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by WackyJ1(m): 12:00pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
smat101: I came here because I wanted to give you some careful valuable advice. I hope I can articulately type everything I want to tell you in a way that you will understand. Your Sister wants to have sex with a man that is 27 years old, someone who is older than her with 13 years. And you want to beat her. After beating her what next? You tell her don't do it again? How effective has that been in changing anything? The runs girls and the hoes out there were all beaten by their parents but it didn't stop them from being promiscuous. Beating, flogging is easy because it is easy to dispense and it saves the adult from doing what is more difficult, Actually talking to the Child. Read what I wrote again, "Talking to the Child". Not Talking at the Child but actually engaging in a conversation where you strive to understand what the child feels, striking a rapport with the child and then passing your message across through that connection that has been established. Doing this requires emotional intelligence and understanding of psychology with the majority of people in this country and even the world at large lacks. Nigerian parents and perhaps African parents at large believe that flogging with solve everything so they end up raising children that suffer from trauma. This is the same way most American parents respond to problems with their children by administering drugs but they are better than us in the sense that they also take the children for therapy and counseling. Enough of the background story. Let me tell you how you must approach this situation. You must first understand what motivates young girls like this. You must also talk to her like someone that UNDERSTANDS. Not like an adult reprimanding a Junior and dishing out the commandments, thou shall not. You must sound like someone that knows how she is thinking at the moment and what she is thinking and this is where your emotional intelligence comes into play. Anything else and you risk not connecting with her and all your words are empty. She will only act like she understands. Now let me talk about her motivations and what she is going through. 1. Curiosity. 2. Peer Pressure. Every young girl is curious about sex, they want to know what it is like, they want to know how it feels. Most of this pressure comes from the kind of company that they keep. Their clique of friends and what they discuss. It comes from boys they have a crush on and the ones that pressure her for sex. This is a point where I must mention another truth: She is going to have crushes on 60% if not more of all the guys that she meets until she is 20 years old. These guys are going to have an influence over her because of what she feels for them. It is this influence that they will use to try and get what they want from her. Everything I have just told you (From the word: "Truth", you should tell her, So she knows that you know and that you understand. Tell her that it is normal. Tell her that if she gives into sex with every single guy that she is going to have a crush on then she will have opened her legs for 15 guys before she is 20. 3. Connection. How is the home environment like? Does she get to talk well with her parents? Do your parents understand her or are they too old and outdated to do so? Does she have a best friend who understands her? Is she lonely even in the midst of many friends? You need to know the answers to this. Sometimes what she is seeking is that Love and connection. This guy is offering it to her and she wants to reciprocate it by giving the guy what he wants which is sex. 4. Ask her about her sex drive. Does she have the urge to have sex constantly? Does she have to urge to continuously view pornography? If she does, that is where the problem is coming from, her body is constantly pulling her towards a path that she cannot resist. This is the point where I tell you another truth that you must tell her. If she starts having sex now at 14, she will get addicted. She will crave more and more till she gets to the point where she cannot say no to any guy even if she doesn't like his character. Once she gets addicted she will discover that she will sleep with as much as 10 guys in a year. This is even a conservative figure. May girls do as much as 2 a month, totally different guys. They can't help it, in fact they love it. They want to sleep with a guy just to taste him. 5. What are her goals for the future? Is your family well to do? Or are there financial issues that the family is struggling with? Does she want to become someone well known and respected in the future? Does she want to be someone who can get excellent grades in Senior Secondary School and the University? If she starts having sex now, she will not be able to concentrate any longer. She will never be able to focus, the number of men in her life will never allow her to do so and if she can not concentrate she cannot study and if she cannot study, she cannot get good grades and she cannot become someone of importance in the future. You need to let her know all this. I have more to say, but I have gotten tired of typing. We can connect via PM and eventually talk on the phone. However, read what I have written and if you have not tried this approach then it is imperative that you do so. 3 Likes |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Slynation(m): 12:00pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
smat101:27 years old and 14years old.... Damn!! Some people self... Probably the same girl someone is yelling to go and wear pant about 10years ago is the same girl he's begging to pull down pant... I still don't know how girls of nowadays does it with mighty behind and already standing erect boobs at a very tender age of 15-17yrs...same way am afraid for my cousin sis with mighty ass and boobs at just 17....I have done my part in talking sense to her, but again am not around to monitor her movement. Bro in your own case, if it's possible for change of environment for your sis closer to you, it will help calm her down a little...14yrs is just too young for Christ sake, The painful part is that the idiot might be here on NL raining fire and brainstorm as motivational words... If your location is around Abuja, anyday u want to beat the guy, tell me, i will be of great help to fry his dick cap with lighter |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Gudlite: 12:01pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Beating her will reset her brain before the counseling, She will always remember the beating more than the counseling any time she wants to engage in such discussion. Please save this little girl's destiny from that useless idiot . 1 Like |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by sammy99(m): 12:03pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
dis one wey u post am here,wot of d guy involve dey here dey read everything wey una wan do am nko? na so d guy go dey do e own tactics i think u shud focus more on educating d young girl and less on d guy and den follow der chat back to back to know wen its getting out of hand. d best thing to do is to advise d little girl about d benefit of not involving in sex and not only d side effect of it,i think dats wer we miss it, and if she does not listen, dont spare d rod on her but take it easy on her wen correcting her with d rod. Foolishness is bound in d heart of a child but d rod of correction will chase out dat foolish attitude in her. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by CreamyPatty24: 12:04pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
This guy is manipulative and your sister has fell for his antics. Just keep talking to her, the decision to go ahead is in her hands though. Counsel her with love and with the word of God. Then pay the paedophile a visit. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Willy123(m): 12:05pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Hello! Counseling works wonder[ |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Victorex001(m): 12:05pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
smat101: Don’t commit murder or die because you love your “Sister”. Beating someone up could lead to one thing or the other, you’ll be in jail or dead while your said Sister would go on and have sex with the next guy. Seat her down and have a discussion with her. |
Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by sharpwriter(m): 12:06pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
makydebbie: Pray for her! |
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