₦airaland Forum

infobaba:
hissing (in Yoruba)

onyinye2:
Oka then. . . . i will re-word the question.
Slapping your wife will make you feel like a REAL MAN abi?

U are welcome

oziomatv:
If I was missbehaving then she can slap me, but if it's a mare suspect or just an argument my marital status will read SINGLE as from the moment.
I've never beat a woman before so she don't dare do it.

Opslag:
Why do you sleep with eyes closed?

StephenP:
She better have a good reason why she hit me and what I did better be part of that reason else I'll send her back to her father's house and forward the divorce papers to her because she doesn't love me well enough to know not to take out her anger on me.

Missy B:
Explain what?It's either you understand or you don't.

onyinye2:
What is in thy Bible?

whitelexi:
My wife slap me, i reply the letter very fast.

phatpussy:
@ whitelexi
thank you, na you be true man, all the other guys dey do gentleman for here.

RETURN TO SENDER GBOOOOZER

she think of love before she do am.

onyinye2:
Of course now.
If I were to hit a guy, the so called "pain" will last for 2secs to 3minutes.
But if it were vice versa, that PAIN will last for 2 to 3DAYS.

Missy B:
Why would I slap my husband when I
have other means of punishing him when he misbehaves

onyinye2:
When a woman slaps a MAN, she deserves not to be slapped back.
What a woman can do to man, aint nothing compared to what a man can do to a woman.
Sharrup dia!!!

Siena:
Yes, I can.

If she was even older, and we were compatible, got along and loved each other, yes.
I a relationship, there are a lot of things I think of, age isn't one of them.

dyabman:
how do u know i'm too young?

topup:
[color=#cc0066]Reaching the end of this topic, I'm confused, aren't we supposed to be giving him good advice?

Anyways, just go with the flow , don't think about it too much, don't plan your moves, follow what you think is right and don't put sex on your agenda.

Love her like you would like to be loved, treat her as you would like to be treated.[/color]

showbobo:
If english no gree you SPOKE can't you SPOKEN broken english,ehn

Suexy:
Please,f**k her regularly

suco01:
Gbega (aka) Mr. Geolabious, do you know that you are not serious, reason is that have you forgotten, sometime back when i told you that I'm in love and i did ask this question from you. Now you are in love and you'ved asked me same question but my answer will be different entirely. 'because you said you will not have anything to do with woman

Since you said both of you are Virgin.

Disvirgin (disflower) Her, sleep with her time's without number even though she don't, before she get another guy that is perfect,

Or

Impregnate her and disown the pregnancy,

Or

I start to call both of you Mr & Mrs Olabode Elijah Gbega


Note:

Not that this advice is bad but you can remember what you did told me sometime ago. so don't be angry over this,

It pay back time,

Ben20001:
See u too.

As u noticed u cannot speak english, u wrote in broken.
I dey feel u jare

chamotex:
Kemi not even if he has a big co.rk that u love so much

pollock:
@geolabious

what i mean is "most" guys will think " Na because we be agemate, thats why she dey talk to me anyhow, , if i had a younger  girl she will not dare talk to me that way"
but in fairness to the lady she is just reacting just the same way some other girl will, but most commonly guys  tend to interpret it different because of the ego.

pollock:
Men have Egos, which is very normal or expected, but it becomes negative when u are with someone your age or older

Typical scenerio( Example)

when u have a younger girl, and u guys get into an arguement, and she says something that is quite insulting, u will most likely overlook it because u would say "Na small pickin dey worry am". u will easily forgive her, and she will love u more because, u understand that she is young and immature.

but when the girl is your agemate or older in same situation, u will feel more insulted because of our "Male Ego", and it will be difficult for u to deal with, then she will think " u are acting immature", and she knows if u were older, u will overlook it.women know these things, its very normal.

idupaul:
yes i can and will

pollock:
I think there is more meat to the topic, anybody can marry anybody, but the true hidden question is " will the marriage work?", alot of folks have highlighted some factors, especially in our nigerian culture,  just to add some

1. Respect. this is very important in our Nigerian culture, (i have seen alot of Nigerian marriages that have failed due to this especially in the US)
2. Level of reasoning,
3. Level of exposure
4. Women want men they can look up to
5. Physical apearance( i hate to say this, but unfortunately its true), no woman wants to look older than her husband)

from my personal experience and experiences of people i know. i hope this helps,
word of advice don't get into a relationship with your agemate and waste years before u realise that it will lead nowhere. nip in the bud! Good luck!!!

dyabman:
yes its good, been a very mature couple sure they can cope.