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Romance › Re: The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Probably Make With Women by geolabious(op): 6:42pm On Sep 20, 2008

Pittbaby:
not sure this applies in Naija

Especially for points 4 and 7, LOL

Are u telling me 4 n 7
Doesnt exist in 9jer

Romance › The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Probably Make With Women by geolabious(op): 6:29pm On Sep 20, 2008

[b]The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes MEN Probably Make With Women And What To Do About It
Courtesy 'Double Your Dating' by Olabode E.O.
http://www.myspace.com/geolabious

MISTAKE NUMBER 1, BEING TOO MUCH OF A NICE GUY,
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks", but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple,
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT, but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE NUMBER 2, TRYING TO CONVINCE HER TO LIKE YOU,
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like, but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you, YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
When a woman just isn't interested, you beg, plead, chase, and do your best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE NUMBER 3, LOOKING TO HER FOR APPROVAL OR PERMISSION,
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them, EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her,

MISTAKE NUMBER 4, TRYING TO BUY HER AFFECTION WITH FOOD AND GIFTS,
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens,
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE NUMBER 5, SHARING HOW YOU FEEL TOO EARLY IN THE RELATIONSHIP,
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast, and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way,

MISTAKE NUMBER 6, NOT GETTING HOW ATTRACTION WORKS FOR WOMEN,
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men, and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how, :rolleyes:

MISTAKE NUMBER 7, THINKING THAT IT TAKES MONEY AND LOOKS,
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started, because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money, or guys who are a certain height, or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet,
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE NUMBER 8, GIVING AWAY ALL OF YOUR POWER TO WOMEN,
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea,
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over, Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE NUMBER 9 , NOT KNOWING EXACTLY WHAT TO DO IN EACH TYPE OF SITUATION WITH WOMAN,
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating,
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical, everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up, and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it. It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman, from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE NUMBER 10, NOT GETTING HELP,
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women,
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night, right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

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Phones › Re: Customize Your Theme Here by geolabious(op): 8:39pm On Sep 19, 2008

How are you?
@Stancozy

Nairaland General › How Can I Create A Poll by geolabious(op): 10:42am On Sep 19, 2008

How can i create a poll

Romance › Re: By Nature Or Nuture by geolabious(op): 10:39am On Sep 19, 2008

darefestus:
Lmao, ,egba mi o Chamotex ti se mi le she

Dare buzz men when u are ready

Romance › Re: Are Men Naturally Wise Than Women by geolabious(op): 10:36am On Sep 19, 2008

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=172732.msg2822669#msg2822669 date=1221791304]Okay. . . obviously it's a lie.

The topic is ARE MEN NATURALLY WISE THAN WOMEN?
and that's coming from a man.[/quote]How do u know that

Literature › Are You A Nigerian Movie Die Hard Fan? by geolabious(op): 9:04am On Sep 19, 2008

Do you know there's a missing gap in the area of a website that reviews Nigerian movies as they are released (it is one .I'm looking for a fellow,anybody who is into Nigerian films.it would be financially rewarding.
Are you into Nigerian movies and fan.would u buy or rent a new film as soon as it drops?, send me an email to htgunna@yahoo.com or call me on 08067286349.Thnx

TV/Movies › Are You A Nigerian Movie Die Hard Fan? by geolabious(op): 9:04am On Sep 19, 2008

Celebrities › Who Is Richer Ajasa Or 2short by geolabious(op): 7:36am On Sep 19, 2008

who is richer in btw AJASA n 2SHOT. All vote starts now

Romance › Re: By Nature Or Nuture by geolabious(op): 10:17pm On Sep 18, 2008

topup:
[color=#cc0066]I think he is merely asking if it is because of the environment the guy grew up in or was he 'born gay' as many gays claim.

Well, sometimes I think people are confused and they always want to label themselves, there are many straight men who like designers and are mummy's boys but they are so sure in themselves, they do not assume that something must be wrong with themselves. Other guys will search the internet and stumble upon sites and sites diagnosing it as being gay, I think being gay is a lot more accepted and trendier so more people are saying they are when they really might not be.

Sexuality has never been black and white, there are gray areas too, some women, find other women attractive, all that separates them is whether they act on it or not. I personally think the female body is more aesthetically pleasing thanthe male, but I know 100% that I am straight, though when I was growing up, I was told that that was wrong, that any woman who can look at another woman and appreciate her womanly assets is gay, I am so glad I was strong, because at one time I was thinking whether something was wrong with me. I am strong enough to know that I am straight and strong enough to admit that certain aspects of the female body and my own are attractive to me. There isn't anything wrong with that.

I think people should stop trying to diagnose themselves so quickly, being gay isn't just a trend and shouldn't be taken lightly, they don't have an easy time and even though it may be trendy and more accepted, they still have an incredibly hard time.[/color]

I really appreciate all u did for me
Topup pls who are you?

Romance › Re: I Have Gotten My First Girlfriend What Can I Do To Keep Her by geolabious(op): 10:13pm On Sep 18, 2008

dmsmuyi:
FESTUS, when you go dey online

Guy this pics of yours is a VIRUS

Nairaland General › Re: Seun Why Did U Move My Topic by geolabious(op): 10:13pm On Sep 18, 2008

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Wake up from your dream.[/color]

My Ice Block
What dream are u talking of?

Nairaland General › Re: Seun Why Did U Move My Topic by geolabious(op): 10:10pm On Sep 18, 2008

SeanT21:
Him being the owner is getting to his head!!!

Let Him GTH

Nairaland General › Re: $eun You Locked The Q&A Thread: $o Here Are My Question$ by geolabious(m): 10:09pm On Sep 18, 2008

Shaz:
[color=olive]How dare you post anyhow and anywhere when we have at least 40 childboards on Nairaland? If you don't want a reccurrence, please post in the right childboards with the right topic headings. Thanks! [/color]

Thanks i think u hav to tell me b4 moving my topics
Infact u even deleted one of my thread?

Literature › The Revolt Of Virginity by geolabious(op): 9:29pm On Sep 18, 2008

[b]The revolt of virginity
By Rotimi Martyns

Do you know that more and more boys and girls in a 21st century world are choosing to wait? 'Wait for what?' I can hear someone say. Wait for sex! There is a quiet revolution by thousands of teenagers who have refused to succumb to the sexual pressures from the media and condom campaigns. They have shocked the adults and proved that young people are not only interested in sexual activities. No, they did not take an oath, neither did they sign a contract, and no, they are not wearing virginity arm bands and bracelets to tell the whole world about it. So what did they do?

They simply promised themselves to embark on the safest sex: Virginity! They refused to be cajoled and lulled to the precipice of sexual licentiousness unlike their unfortunate peers who took the bait. So who are these young revolutionists and where are they? Just open your eyes and look around you. Do you see all those funky boys and girls, some of them with six earring holes, purple hair and ripped jeans? Yes, it is those crazy teenagers who have taken virginity by storm. Contrary to what we are made to believe, not everybody is embarking on the wild ride of sex. As many young people as have thrown their virginity away, there are also many teenagers who are preserving themselves and proudly riding on the elegant horse of virginity.

I usually do not allow myself to be dragged into controversies but it is difficult not to get involved when crucial issues are in question. Ready or not one just has to get into the fray. Mr Leo Igwe's piece titled "Sex, and Virginity Scandal in Africa" published in The Guardian of July 19, 2006 is the most outrageous article I have read in ages. I do not wish to recall the pot pourri of arguments he used to try to discredit virginity. As it is common with such arguments, he naturally labels virginity as an unreachable target, a sort of mirage which young people are forced to chase.

Although the Africans have always outlandishly claimed the pride of virginity, every human society over the centuries have always celebrated the exalted state of virginity as a salt of self-preservation. Virginity has always felt at home in every community, African or not. Virginity is global and modern after all! Forty years on since the sexual revolution of the 60s more and more families and young people re-discovering this beautiful virtue which ensures the integrity of a person. Just as a camel cannot pass through the eye of a needle, it is impossible for some people especially self-proclaimed humanists to understand that man is not a mere physical entity. A human person has intelligence and will with which he governs his body. Hence it is gross misinformation to continue to speak about sex as though it was a purely physical entity from which one suffers uncontrollably. Of course a young man or woman who has been brought up to think that sex is 'an itch he has got to scratch' will not understand the first thing about self control and decision-making. Parents bring up their children to control all their appetites, sex being one of them.

Virginity is a choice that truly liberates an individual's body and spirit. Our young people who have already had their sexual debut and are sexually active, are not at peace, as they suffer the anxiety of a legion of medically unclassified sexually transmitted infections HIV/AIDS is not the only thing you can catch out there. There is no well-meaning parent who will wish this upon her daughter or son. It is much easier to handout condoms to a boy but a parent will choose to painstakingly mould the character of his son or daughter so that they can make mature decisions about life issues.

I work with young people and I know that teenagers only need to be guided to make good decisions. Only an irresponsible adult would demoralize young people by denying them the chance to try to preserve themselves. It is most irresponsible to offer a child a condom and hope that he or she remains a virgin. And yes, sexuality education in chastity and virginity is absolutely incompatible with the licentious condom education, sorry, condom seduction. Who does not know that condom seduction only steers these teens into the cul de sac of debauchery.

It brainwashes them to think that they are beasts that must succumb to the 'uncontrollable' urge to have sex anywhere, any time, and anyhow. And so before our youngster are barely out of their cots they are experimenting with sex. Instead of marvelling at the uniqueness of their sexuality they are indoctrinated to be ashamed of virginity, and they begin to indulge in sexual adventures which will maim them for life. What do we get? A generation of men and women who will go into marriage with 'worn out bodies and disillusioned souls!'

People will remain 'free' to continue to brandish and glorify the condom. But those who are absolutely and truly free par excellence are those boys and girls who have chosen the way of personal integrity and chastity rather than drink from the murky water of sexual depravity. You only need to listen to resounding drumbeat of the revolution of virginity drowning out the hoarse sexual revolution of the 60s that swept many people off their feet, and out of their minds. Let all the young people who have ears to hear be told the truth that what they should be wearing when they embark on safest sex is not a piece of thin latex rubber condom, but a wedding band![/b]

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Romance › By Nature Or Nuture by geolabious(op): 9:27pm On Sep 18, 2008

My sisters n Brothers this is a question that has been bugging me ever since i stumbled on some

news. You know how you work with gay people and have a friends that are gay or like it

both ways and i know it bugs some people but funny enough im not one of them even

though im so typically naija. However, this is something i have not until now ever had to

deal with on the family front. What happens when your 15yr old aburo says hes gay? You

begin to wonder is it really true that its medical or was it because at his age he only wears

prada, gucci, burberry and the likes, with the lowest designer he'll ever wear being ralph

lauren (so definately not even tommy hilfigher) and he lives in an $800,000 house with

mumsie in a trendy neighbourhood that loves the gay clan. Am a lot confused and the

question i keep asking is nature or nuture? I would love to hear what you think.

Romance › Re: Would You Date A Married Woman? by geolabious(op): 9:19pm On Sep 18, 2008

[quote author=Don_Ese125 link=topic=172729.msg2817148#msg2817148 date=1221689772]Would i date a married man? Hell no! Not even if i need it to secure a contract,or because i'm being blackmailed or any of that. There are some things in life that are sacred,things u just don't mess with,& marriage,family,those are some of them.[/quote]Why NO?

Nairaland General › Re: $eun You Locked The Q&A Thread: $o Here Are My Question$ by geolabious(m): 8:17pm On Sep 18, 2008

Shaz:
[color=olive]YOU are not allowed to send Private Messages on the forum. [/color]

Wetin dey do u self
How dear u move my topics anyhow

Romance › Re: Are Men Naturally Wise Than Women by geolabious(op): 8:06pm On Sep 18, 2008

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=172732.msg2816863#msg2816863 date=1221683991]Poster, don't worry.
I already reported this recycled thread to the modey
Let's hope it'll be locked or moved to the trash sec ASAP[/quote] grin

Family › Re: Men: If Your Wife Slaps You What Will You Do? by geolabious(op): 9:23pm On Sep 17, 2008

sistawoman:
what am i then? Please enlighten me.

U are a nice person

Nairaland General › Re: Seun Why Did U Move My Topic by geolabious(op): 9:21pm On Sep 17, 2008

Thanks
But he suppose to ask for permission
Or what do u think

Romance › Are Men Naturally Wise Than Women by geolabious(op): 9:18pm On Sep 17, 2008

What do u also think?
Please i do not want it to be a gender biased issue,
just post your candid opinion.
your usual wise contributions are welcome.

Romance › Re: Would You Date A Married Woman? by geolabious(op): 9:16pm On Sep 17, 2008

sistawoman:
Come on now answer your own question

Am confused thats why i posted it

Romance › Would You Date A Married Woman? by geolabious(op): 9:12pm On Sep 17, 2008

Would You Date A Married Woman?

If Yes, Why Would You?

Under What Condition(s)/ Circumstance(s) Would You Do It?

Why Would You Not?

If You Are Completely Sure, No One Will Ever Find Out, Would You?

If You Are Paid To Do It, Would You?

Would You Do It To Secure A Prized Job?

Would You Do It To Keep Your Job?

Would You Do It, If You Are Blackmailed Into It?

Would You Do It To Secure A Major Contract?

Would You Do It Just For Fun?

Would You Do It Just Out Of Curiosity?

If She Is Provocatively Sexy And Attractive, Would You Do It?

If She Is A Celebrity, Adored By All, Would You?

Would You Do It For Any Other Reason Not Listed Above?

Nairaland General › Seun Why Did U Move My Topic by geolabious(op): 8:59pm On Sep 17, 2008

Seun why did u move my topic

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-172457.0.html

Family › Re: Men: If Your Wife Slaps You What Will You Do? by geolabious(op): 8:52pm On Sep 17, 2008

KarmaMod:
you are the ideal wife for a Nigerian sista

advocate of domestic abuse.

N she is not wat u think

Family › Re: Men: If Your Wife Slaps You What Will You Do? by geolabious(op): 7:48pm On Sep 17, 2008

ecomog08:
I WILL CUT HER WITH MY AXE GBEN GBEN GBOSA THEN I GO COOK AM FOR BUSH CHOP AM AND USE HER BLOOD DRUNK FOR NIGHT\
AYE AYE

How my God u don kill person

Family › Re: Men: If Your Wife Slaps You What Will You Do? by geolabious(op): 6:47pm On Sep 17, 2008

StephenP:
It has nothing to do with ego, I'm only sending her back to her dad's house so that he can teach her not to hit men except maybe in self-defense.

[color=#990023]Thats just d koko[/color]

Family › Re: Men: If Your Wife Slaps You What Will You Do? by geolabious(op): 5:51pm On Sep 17, 2008

tope2000:
@POST
turn the other cheek and let her slap that one too.

Aunty Tope(2000 too much of money)
U no lik me
i can see that

Family › Re: Men: If Your Wife Slaps You What Will You Do? by geolabious(op): 4:56pm On Sep 17, 2008

spikedcylinder:
I can't slap a child, talk more of a man.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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