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Avoid her never ruin your life.

Let me go straight to the point, sometimes last week Saturday, one of my ex babes chatted me up to know if I'm around so that she can visit me. Coincidentally another one called me complaining that I have abandoned her ever since and after a lot of back and front as to who abandoned who, she said I should invite her whenever I'm free. Just today I was at the office another one called that she is visiting her uncle that resides in my area and that she will love to visit me when she arrives. I have been pondering why the suddened requests from these ladies whom I never expected to cross their paths again or is it a game plan or conspiracy but I doubt because all the three ladies don't know one another. I'm so relunctant to grant their request because I really want to concentrate and plan myself well.

Wow good luck man

This is how all dubious politicians will end up.

TarOrfeeek:



In all these things you still have your Uncle's number on your phone.

Two of them for that matter.

You are not a wise person and I'm sure your guardian angel must have washed his hands odd your case.

why I still keep his numbers is to identify him whenever he calls to decide whether to take his call or not

The 120km was after I received the call from the strange number, that was when I applied the pedal but no response...

It was on the 24th December, 2021, when I decided to travel down to East in order to celebrate the Christmas with my parent and siblings in the village. Concidentally, that very day marks one year of my survival from a ghastly accident that led to the loss of my previous car. It happens that during the trip which I embarked on with my private car which i was the driver of the car. A strange number called and I was a bit relunctant to take the call but I have to take it in case it was a friend or relative who wishes to know how the journey is progressing but to my greatest chagrin the voice was that of my uncle whom I suspected to be the person behind the accident I had on the 24th December, 2020.
When I answered the call, I discovered that the voice was that of my uncle, I had to repeatedly retorted hello! hello! and hanged up the call while still on the wheels.
After I hanged up the call abruptly, my mind was just recounting while did this my uncle called me with a strange number and not his two numbers I have on my contact list? on the other thought , I concluded that he knows I won't pick the call at the moment since I was driving.
Do you that this uncle of mine gave me instant 4 missed calls using the said strange number but I didn't bother taking the calls since I already know who was calling, thus more revealing, I noticed that at the very moment while on speed let's say at 120km I tried applying the break but the pedal went flat and I have to release it and applied again before it manages to response. I kept that to myself because I was not alone in the car but subsequently, the break came back to normal. When I arrived the village around 5pm, I checked my phone in order to return the calls I missed during the trip, I then called this my uncle under-reference to know why he was calling because he has never called like that recently but to my bereavement, when he picked my call, he didnt say anything to justify the consistent 4 missed calls after I apologised to him on for missing his calls because I was on the wheels travelling to the village. Before I conclude, it may also pique your imagination to know that after I was involved in an accident with my previous car on the 24/12/2020 which was within the metropolis where I reside, this same uncle that has never called for the past 3 months before the incidence called later in the day around 7:30pm to know how I'm doing without any cogent reason. Please I have been thinking about the whole incidents cuople with the corroboration from the recent happenings, is it that this uncle of mine is trying to eliminate me by all means.

We are getting it right gradually

The captioned agreesive malpractice does not mean exam malpractice per se and I don't think if the institution will succeed in this çase

I did well by cancelling the whole thing, these girls think that men are so foolish later there will tag the guy for not being mature, maturity kill the bloodline olosho wah you be. Imagine my ex coming to my without me having her that can't happen even though I'm paralyzed

HRHQueenPhil:
U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

There are something you forgive and let go but don't forgive something that will later in the future reoccur and ruin you life, the best thing is to uproot and nap in the bud such thing.

I think you should take things easy with her, when u secretly took her phone you realized that she blocked the guy, that shows that she does not have any genuine interest in that guy and upon confronting her on your findings she acknowledged that she was just doing it to raise money for the business. My cadid advise is that you should just chill and not to take a hasty action on her because there is no perfect girl or lady no matter how saint she appears.

The picture the poster put up for the slained judge of the Enugu state that was killed on Sunday is misleading and is that of late Justice I. Umezurike that passed on since 2018 and not the picture of the one that was killed on 31st May, 2021.

Coming from a lawyer and whose wife is even a prominent member of JUSUN

This is cool but that doesnt mean that the family is troublefree but with endurance, understanding and forgiveness the family will still be forging ahead.

I started dating one babe so sometime in October, 2019, within two months interval into the relationship, this babe was giving me an ultimatum to get married to her or she will end the relationship, she even offered to support the wedding financially, but I stood my ground insisting that we have to know each other well that her request is very premature. Do u know that after December, 2019 this babe broke up with me. Immediately after the eased of lockdown last year, she did her wedding with another guy.

Though God has been doing great things, I mean miracles all through my life till date. The most memorable one is the incidence that took place on 24th December, 2020, on that fateful day I was just at home resting and preparing for Christmas. Around 2pm of the day under reference, I was a bit bored at home and being in Christmas mood, I decided to pay a condolences visit to a friend in a nearby area. After visiting
this bereaved friend in his house I decided to sit out with him in a nearby driking spot colse to his house and I took one bottle of beer which he also did. After about 45 minutes, I set going back home. On my way home and driving at about 40km per hour, suddenly an oncoming Toyota Corolla on the opposite direction of the road was negotiating overtaking thus fully took charge of my lane. I tried my best to swerve my car to the side of the road but this corrola was still heading for my car with full speed before a twinkle of an eye the rest was history. My car was damaged beyond repairs but I came out with no scratch. The occupants of other vehiculars that came for rescue were just asking me if I'm the one that came out from my car.

Nothing is wrong with the tenancy agreement just ensure to be paying your rent at and when due and also keep the premises need then you will never have any issue with the Landlord.

Please I would love to get in contact with her, I wouldn't mind writing petition free of charge to police officer orderly Dept for these set of hoodlums in police uniform be dealt with.

60k doesn't even sustain me as a single guy in a month let alone in marriage moreso someone like my current girl friend that has vowed not to work and earn a living but rather has the mindset that a man has to cater for all that she needs. Thank God I'm already making steps to retract.

Go to the court after the strike engage a court bailiff to go and serve him by pasting on his door

Cnach:
I will start by advising u to always try to know why people could not pick ur call before u revenge.
And then for this lady u have to let go of her, she is already in love with someone else..the little attention she is giving u is either bc the person she love makes her angry sometimes or he is not that capable but she still love him and intended to use as a back up bc girls normally put their selfish interest first.
see bros it is very hard like stopping a moving train by hand for a girl to hid or kill her love for a guy even when this guy cares for her..e no dey happen. her feeliñgs are some where else.

I really appreciate your advise, unlike others that are busy lambasting me, I personally decided not to post some instances that made me drawn the conclusion that she is cheating on me, I know this babe very well but I have to keep that to myself.

AngelicDamsel:
If you react to an offense by repeating what the offender did, then you are at much fault as the offender.

Do me I do you. Man no go vex.



You are at fault. Apologize for your hasty conclusions founded on the foundation of assumptions.

Assumption kills relationship faster than anyone can describe.

My advice:
Be the man, lead every situation, be the bigger one, show strength, conquer her shortcomings with your manly wisdom; what is the wisdom? Boldness and courage to fix the issue and not the blame. This is the evidence of maturity. Addressing the issue and taking responsibility.




Never play a blame game with a person you love.

The recent one is the fourth times she has repeated the same act and always calling back at wee hour of the night. I think have endured enough

heniford2:
sorry oh bros how old are you, like you called someone she did not pick immediately you vexed not knowing the reason why she did not pick her calls, you know fully that she's staying with her Aunty and things may get complicated for her during that time, she later called you back that same day and you ignored her calls till the next day she called you, u ignored her know your thinking she's cheating on you bros haba!!! why are you acting like a kid naw why

She has done the same thing in three occasions previously, she keeps on raising flemsy excuse that her phone was in her bag and many more similar excuses, I have to give her the benefit of the doubt until the recent one.

Silver247:
I just wish say nairaland get voice note..... Make I use am tell you say you be mumu

Must you be exhibiting your unwholesome attitude in the public?

I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

Misplaced priority and total waste of the state fund.

Anambarian should all root for Charls Soludo for their Governor because among all the candidates he is more experience and global. One thing with us Nigeria, we apply sentiment in chosing our leaders hence the backwardness of the country today. Why not we set it right from henceforth let's vote for a candidate inspite his or her party or region.

jeyselassie:
The problem is that you're too insecure for a man. You have to find something useful to do that can keep you busy. It's idleness that brings this level of insecurity.

Thanks for your comment but I work 8-6 hence I'm always busy.

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Our politicians won't allow this one to rest.

I find it difficult to wish him well.