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Travel / Re: What’s Happening To The Japa Wave In Nigeria?? by Gerrard59(m): 1:50pm On Apr 28 |
Mindlog: This life sef... 5 Likes |
Politics / Re: Which State Has The Worst History Of Governors? by Gerrard59(m): 1:39pm On Apr 28 |
Broveens42: Please lie intelligently. Do you know what "built up" is? You people talk anyhow! Even within the region, Imo isn't the most built up state. Imagine the unintelligent lie! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Which State Has The Worst History Of Governors? by Gerrard59(m): 1:37pm On Apr 28 |
maxiuc: If not for the beautiful girls in this state, I have never considered the state to be worth it. |
Romance / Re: Hook-up Girls Now Advertise Their Business by Gerrard59(m): 1:34pm On Apr 28 |
Mosdiii: Hopefully, he is dealt with ruthlessly! Because she said "I am not doing again", he resorts to blackmail. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Hook-up Girls Now Advertise Their Business by Gerrard59(m): 1:33pm On Apr 28 |
cloud: Or she could be one of those girls who collect money from men with the promise of visiting them, but later rescinded. Those guys are ruthless on Facebook. If a girl collects money for coitus, but refuses to meet up, they escalate the matter and deploy all means to ensure she returns the money. The earlier she does, the less the damage. The slower she takes, the more damaging their actions. The Oga at the Top is Allah Kaduna on Facebook. |
Travel / Re: Memoirs From Chile by Gerrard59(m): 1:30pm On Apr 28 |
Kelechi009: Salaries are pretty high, but yes, it is too far from where one can meet friends and families. Not like I am any different sef. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: What’s Happening To The Japa Wave In Nigeria?? by Gerrard59(m): 1:27pm On Apr 28 |
tensazangetsu20: I won't lie o, should MT read this post, he would be laughing saying, "I told you people". |
Politics / Re: Whites Want To Colonize Africa Again. by Gerrard59(m): 2:56am On Apr 28 |
Namaster: It was forced to as a result of black rule coming to power. The white man would be uncomfortable with a majority black country owning nuclear weapons. 1 Like 1 Share |
Travel / Re: What’s Happening To The Japa Wave In Nigeria?? by Gerrard59(m): 2:50am On Apr 28 |
tshtsh: Shey na wetin I bin dey preach since?? People think it is by earning so-called 1 million in naira equivalent every month without considering the actual spending power of their earnings in the country they reside in. Ultimately, na why I dey emphasise that people should have fewer children and plan their lives accordingly. No dey born born up and down. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Nairaland / General / Re: Which Of These Rivalries Is The Biggest In Nigeria? by Gerrard59(m): 9:09pm On Apr 27 |
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Romance / Re: Hello Everyone, Pls I'm Doing A Research On The Following Related Questions? by Gerrard59(m): 8:58pm On Apr 27 |
Badmashiii: Yes, they do as hookup pays higher depending on the platform they pose themselves. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Which Of These Rivalries Is The Biggest In Nigeria? by Gerrard59(m): 8:56pm On Apr 27 |
Vinnie2000: I am sure the mods erased the Yoruba Christians vs Yoruba Muslims aspect as it got to the front page. Nevertheless, it is important to state that neither group has rivalry. Yoruba Christians and Yoruba Muslims are one and the same people. That was how ignorant and naive Igbos believed Yoruba Christians wouldn't vote for Tinubu, only for him to outrightly win Ekiti and Ondo - two Christian-dominated states in the SW. Peter Obi came a distant third in all the states in the region. The earlier you people understand Nigeria for WHAT it is, rather than what you EXPECT it to be, the better. https://www.nairaland.com/7225545/why-peter-obi-step-down 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 1:30pm On Apr 27 |
Bongadu: Yeah, I should believe one random Bongadu, not Pew Research? Clap for yourself! |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 1:18pm On Apr 27 |
Bongadu: https://www.keranews.org/2022-08-17/more-black-americans-live-in-texas-than-any-other-state-but-many-are-reconsidering-their-future-here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/African_Americans_in_California https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/African_Americans_in_Georgia https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2021/03/25/the-growing-diversity-of-black-america/ I didn't even check the information before posting it. There are more African Americans in the Southeastern part of the US. So, how can California have more blacks than Texas? |
Travel / Re: Many People & 100 Vehicles Burnt In Eleme, Rivers Fuel Tankers Explosions by Gerrard59(m): 1:13pm On Apr 27 |
cutecommend post=129660424[b: How come such doesn't exists in neighbouring African countries like Benin and Togo? Don't they do juju too? Sometimes, you religious nutjobs reason through your armpits! |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 1:04pm On Apr 27 |
franchasofficia: Thank you. In all, building and selling makes sense apart from Port-harcourt where rents rates are appreciable. Except, say, rents in Asaba and Enugu have gone through the roofs. The narrative I get about Onitsha for rents makes me see it as a city filled with poor people. |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 1:00pm On Apr 27 |
chyzoo4u: But you have not been open regarding how one can amass enough funds within a year to purchase a property in the UK with cash. That is where the problem is. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 12:59pm On Apr 27 |
AngelicBeing: It is actually an exciting discourse. I love it and have "followed" the thread sef. As long as the Internet exists and there exists a growing number of Nigerians in the abroad, we would, and should, get more of these threads. It is a good one, considering Nigerians are not known for being open and honest on financial issues. I hope to contribute to such topics in the near future. |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 12:55pm On Apr 27 |
Eriokanmi: You have made great points in this thread. For the bold, it is largely because of trust. Nigerians are not very honest compared to Africans elsewhere. Ordinary loans by loan apps, Nigerians try to distort the system and outrightly refuse to repay their loans. Then na car loans? |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 12:50pm On Apr 27 |
Eriokanmi: Maybe the concept of visiting such places isn't a black man thing. Also, there are fewer blacks in California compared to say Texas or Georgia. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 12:38pm On Apr 27 |
franchasofficia: You made great points. Thank you. - Regarding Lagos, compared to the East which you have been advocating (we know why), recouping one's investments in Lagos is faster than the East. - Which are the fast growing cities in the South East and South South? Regarding your friend's story, someone else narrated a similar experience, which makes sense as rents are paid annually or two years rather than monthly. So, yes, that is a good model by leveraging being in the abroad and Nigeria. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 12:23pm On Apr 27 |
shaybebaby: Thank you for the breakdown. Nigerian men are emotionally tied to the country yet are not interested in ensuring it is a functioning place to live. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Couple Buys A House 2 And Half Years Of Moving To UK. by Gerrard59(m): 12:18pm On Apr 27 |
franchasofficia: Before the rapid plummet of the value of the naira, I agree with the bold. Mortgage houses favor married women abroad than men, so any Nigerian married man abroad hurrying to get a mortgage house when he hasn't acquired enough properties and investments in Nigeria and in other African countries is nothing but a fool that will leave to regret it sooner or later. Only married Nigerian ladies abroad celebrate mortgage house, real Nigerian married men abroad don't celebrate such feat unless they have invested enough back home, it's not a wise decision for a married Nigerian man to do, unless your wife is working and ready to contribute 50% or more for the mortgage. What if the Nigerian man isn't interested in returning to Nigeria or anywhere in Africa at all? There are men like that too. But for those who intend to return, I agree that it makes to have a house Nigeria and at the same time, have a house in the abroad. Houses are costlier in highbrow areas in Nigeria than it is in US, UK, Canada, etc. The money used to buy just 1 plot of land in Lekki phase 1 will buy a semi detached duplex in Houston, Birmingham, Dallas, Atlanta, Halifax, etc. The money used to buy a plot of land in Ikoyi or Banana Island will buy a celebrity mansion in most US, UK, etc cities. Apples to oranges. You compare highbrow areas in Nigeria to highbrow areas in the abroad. On that note, houses in highbrow areas in Nigeria are not more costlier than those in highbrow areas in the West. Many Nigerian business owners are richer and financially better (without stress) than most Nigerians abroad, but the issue in Nigeria is the recent level of insecurity and inflation brought upon Nigerians by useless Buhari government and continued by Tinubu's stolen regime If not for insecurity, nothing would have made me to live outside Nigeria permanently, unless they will make me President of that foreign country Again, apples to oranges. You are comparing successful Nigerian entrepreneurs in Nigeria to Nigerian employees in the abroad. You compare entrenrepeurs in Nigeria to entrepreneurs to those abroad. Nonetheless, I somewhat agree that financially successful Nigerians might be more stable than their counterparts in the abroad as they mostly generated their wealth via physical businesses rather than through the stock market. Imagine if $1 = NGN250, and £1 = NGN310, tell me why someone that makes a profit of between NGN700,000 to NGN2,500,000 monthly should relocate abroad? Talk more of those that make above 2.5million monthly after expenses without stress or worries? The value of the naira isn't even the major issue. The Yen and Won of both Japan and South Korea are significantly lower than the dollar yet their business people arent interested in living in the West. The problem is the dysfunctional nature of Nigeria, not the currency valuation. In as much as I encourage young Nigerians of today to relocate abroad if they see an opportunity to leave legally, let's not make it seem like those back home are in horrible state when in reality, most in Nigeria are doing far better than those abroad legitimately. Agreed. Na insecurity and Naira depreciation by useless APC led governments since 2015 destroyed Nigeria and made it hopeless The bold it is. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: UAE Imposes Visa Ban On Nigerians, Rejects Applications by Gerrard59(m): 12:06pm On Apr 27 |
tomibecca:I am not living in the UAE. Your best move is contacting Nigerians living in the UAE. Try NaijakitchenDubai on Instagram and the numerous Nigerian communities in the region. |
Family / Re: Should I Be Regretting This? by Gerrard59(m): 11:24pm On Apr 26 |
UjuJoan2: You have done well for yourself and family. Well done. I agree with the bold too. People want it quick quick whereas legitimate wealth takes time to build. 4 Likes |
Health / Re: "Thousands Of Doctors Could Be Considering Leaving The UK" - GMC by Gerrard59(m): 11:22pm On Apr 26 |
Elvictor: How is it like? |
Romance / Re: Hello Everyone, Pls I'm Doing A Research On The Following Related Questions? by Gerrard59(m): 11:21pm On Apr 26 |
Alexbio: First, we have to differentiate between hook up girls and ashawos. Hook-up girls are those who engage it for various reasons, such as having fun/youthful exuberance and making money. The primary reason is to make money. They can stop or drastically reduce the frequencies when they have something better than it. It is not always done, and they are usually selective. Also, they are more secretive in posing for prospective clients because they don't intend to do it for long. Women of all walks of life can be classified under this category. The summary is that they have more to lose in the long run, so they do it strategically. Ashawos, on the other hand, do it for a living. They have nothing to lose as they don't intend to leave the lifestyle anytime soon. They can be found in all places as the need to get a client is extremely important - they do it for a living, remember. Now, to your question: ashawos are more likely to demand for condoms as it is extremely important in that line of business. The same also applies to hook-up girls, but the likelihood of convincing a hook-up to allow for unprotected sex could be higher depending on the level of relationship one has with the said girl. A sugar daddy, for instance, can have it raw with her, but not the random dude she met on Tinder. If yes what is the degree of their acceptance? Already answered. If yes what part of Nigeria is it common? All parts of Nigeria, but more prevalent in cosmpolitan areas and majorly in the South South and South East. Generally, the higher the number of Christians in an area, the more liberal attitudes they have towards sex. If yes is it relatively common now? What is relatively common? Hook up is common, ditto ashawoism. It depends on what you want. What you want, you go to find it. Hook up babes are online and offline. Thanks for your audience and contribution sir/ma. To get more detailed and first hand responses, go to shopping malls, restaurants, bars, hotels and areas where you have tertiary higher learning institutions. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Hello Everyone, Pls I'm Doing A Research On The Following Related Questions? by Gerrard59(m): 11:08pm On Apr 26 |
dontrulee: Yet you went ahead to respond to a "stupid" research. |
Family / Re: Should I Be Regretting This? by Gerrard59(m): 11:06pm On Apr 26 |
UjuJoan2: Apparently, you joined Nairaland in your mid-20s. My point is that period was a glorious one in Nigeria's economic history. That period cannot and shouldn't be compared to 2015 - present. I don’t know if you making this argument to keep deceiving young girls into becoming semi-slaves in the name of financial freedom. I know for a fact that it NEVER works out. I am not making any argument. People have the right to choose. I am stating that ladies marry out of poverty. It happens, that is my point. Are you seriously trying to convince me that a woman marrying for money has ANY advantage? Aside from temporary relief? In the long run it always backfires. I have never seen it work out, except in cases where they both started out with humble beginnings!!! Why not? It has its advantages. I drive a car my husband bought, but I’m happier knowing I can afford to buy any car I like and he knows it. Do you think he can ever ask me to drop the keys to that car for ANY reason? I’ve seen that happen to women who are beautiful and smart, all because they thought marrying for money was a way out!! While this is true, cases of it being positive also exists. There are good and bad people everywhere. |
Travel / Re: What’s Happening To The Japa Wave In Nigeria?? by Gerrard59(m): 9:29pm On Apr 26 |
franchasofficia: The US has always been tough to migrate to legally and establish a stable residency. Even other white folks find it hard to emigrate to the US legally. The economic downturn has exacerbated things. H1B quotas have not been increased, and other legal routes take so much time due to clogs within the system. The world is going to be more competitive as time goes on. Make people know how dem dey fvck o. 41 Likes 8 Shares |
Family / Re: Should I Be Regretting This? by Gerrard59(m): 9:26pm On Apr 26 |
Sapasenator: That is dishonesty. Preaching morality should be left to those who were moral in their dealings. Those who engaged in immoral acts should be clear on what they did. If you did hook up, state it clearly and explain the circumstances behind it. Don't lie. |
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