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LalaGreen247:
Sorry for the delay

It's National university
A prof has shown interest in my request, but he said he wants to speak with my recommender who happens to be the current HOD of my dept. He sent an email to him which my hod responded, after which he requested for an online but my HOD is yet to respond due to his busy schedule. I just tire

Anyways another professor has scheduled a meeting with me for next week

Best wishes in your quest. Aim to get in for this October or April 2027 session, as there are plans, and some have actually happened, by national universities to increase tuition fees for foreign students.

“We’ve been stupid all along, so now let’s do the st¥pidest thing the last st¥pidest thing. That’s the solution.”

I love her for this! A woman who knows what she wants!

Twale Nne Sandra!!!

But shebi I talk say today's women have changed, especially as they have their own incomes. Dem call me naive. Today's women won't tolerate some things their mothers did as they are economically well off than their mothers. As it is, they can decide to remain single and nothing go happen. After all, she has the money. Doesn't she?

So Uncle Frank no fit afford school fees of both current and previous children? When I say have few children and undergo vasectomy, e get why.

Na why research thinking good. Go to good schools o.

GloriousGbola:
Should have gotten a lawyer from the start to shut him down. When you dey over share for internet you may not know where to stop.

We saw the same thing play out with ezra and sirjayjay

Which imho is why the latter seems to have permanently relocated to Abuja.

Lagos has the most profitable real estate market. Except everywhere is filled (mainland), and Abuja is burgeoning.

GloriousGbola:
This is why Frank wanted those foolish banger boys to shut up.

I fear those boys o! I cannot say it is unemployment because they get paid for tweeting, but if person matter enter their hand, dem go turn am to agenda, and agenda pays so well these days. They would milk it to the very end.

BarrElChapo:
This one is just grasping at straws. This is why I love whites once you cheat, and they cannot bear it, they leave, not bearing the betrayal but when they want to forgive, they’ll forgive without prejudice. She cannot justify cheating for cheating.

Not when one party depends on the other for financial wellbeing. She is the richer one. The same applies to Ugo.

The fact that she mentioned names and even tagged their handles means she is serious about her allegations. It is always good to hear from both sides. That narcissism she accuses Frank of, I fit believe that one. He does come across as a narcissist. Based on the number of women mentioned, it means he relied on her finances to fund those paroles. E be like say the guy no get steady and solid incomes.

People like Frank should undergo a vasectomy after their first divorce before thinking of remarrying.

GloriousGbola:
All this is why I thought the story is made up for internet clout. If the child goes to naija he will likely never see the child again. If the child stays in the UK with him he will see something more than pepper. Anyone abroad has to shell out big money for child minding before the kids start school.

But why would a well accomplished professional bring out his family's matter for Internet clout? To an extent, I would not want to throw away his story because he was an "ally", and knew or presumably knows the reactions that would follow from Twitter Ndi Alpha males.

all are popular in Japan except the wide one. as dem no get yansh, they wear tight clothing so the small one wey dey go show as if e big.

Na lie o!

The baggy jeans is notoriously popular.

2mch:
Its a lie. Its his child and allegedly hes actually the cheat. I doubt she was deported because their marriage failed. More likelihood that she left because she could not afford the fees or support the child on her own in the UK. UK no go deport just like that. They will give you time to get lawyers to sort your issue but lawyer fees no be joke at all. My friend is going through this and hes a dependent on the visa. They gave him time to sort himself out with lawyers.

oh! I see. Thanks for the breakdown.

Thewrath:
She can’t condition him,even if na provision shop the husband later open for her,that is what she will manage with him,if she can’t,then she shouldn’t accept the marriage proposal….there are some jobs that are completely inappropriate for your fiancée or wife to do….do not make that mistake o

There are many married women who work in hotels and even more so in top positions.

Internet people and their okoto meow rants!

GloriousGbola:
Keep kwaiet!

Hotel Corner corner apologist

Talk true na so you dey knack all the receptionist for Gerrard group of hotels

lol

I don't do it with female staff. It brings a lot of insult, and it becomes very hard to reprimand them when they see one's n@kedness.

So, it is strictly business: do your job, do it well, and go home.

2mch:
NL doesnt post all sides but the womans camp did mention they have a kid. He chose to remove that one so that the woman will not get any sympathy. If person born for you and they wrong you, you avoid public embarassment because of the kid. Especially when na you dump the person and you dont care about them anymore.

The way he was jumping from platform to platform trying to praise himself did not give the impression that he was the one that did the dumping and a lot of the details did not make sense. Nothing concern UK with some random desperate immigrants marriage drama.

I actually follow his tweets, but he never mentioned the child in all of this. I just found it weird that a man would allow the mother of his child to be deported when the child is still very young. So, I kept asking myself: what about the child? Abi no be him own?

BigCowHornn:
I traveled a lot and I stay in hotels.

In the Nigerian hotel setting the only woman there that will not sleep with you for money is the owners wife

This is dependent on the hotel. All hotels are not the same.

Fake news. The OP has created too many marriage related threads.

The tale is false.

2mch:
Make sure thr case details are public so we can know who is lying here. With the way the guy waa jumping from platform to platform insulting the ex and mother of his kids that he allegedly dumped was suspicious. He even added the lie of pre-nup and na the pre-nup make UK deport the woman. Which is a very strange and bizzare claim.

In all of this, he never mentioned the child's situation.

franchasofficia:
Let's not pretend, a lot of men are truly terrible beings, they treat other people's daughters and sisters bad and with recklessness, this can never be denied.

But then, there are more good men than bad men but the few bad men seem to be the preferred choice of most women, which is why the few bad men keep on painting the image of the majority of good men bad.

They actually do like the so-called boys, especially when they're young. They know what they want, so we cannot say they were deceived. Na when time reach for marriage, dem dey look for Ndi "God fearing".

In summary, as a man, make a personal resolve to treat everyone; male or female kindly just the same way you would want others to treat you, your daughter and sisters, this has been my golden rule in life and my life's core principle.

Even if you want to have temporary fun with a girl or lady, don't lie to her, tell her you are not ready for committed long term relationship, believe me, it will only cost you more money and you will live a peaceful life devoid of unnecessary drama, curses and enmity.

The same for me. I'm always straight to the point and don't see the need to deceive anyone. Thing with my straightforwardness is that I've a bad mouth, but I've never been accused of being a liar.

So, fair enough.

JESHAL007:
@emma.odet, times have changed,

Her daughter would most likely divorce if she experiences what her mother did. Her daughter won't have seven children as her mother had. Her daughter has more skills and education, or the opportunity to obtain them, to get paid employment than her mother. She can easily relocate to a different country (even within West Africa) or state within Nigeria than her mother did. The laws have changed regarding inheritance and women owning properties for some ethnic groups.

So for women, things have changed; greater freedom, more economic opportunities and greater liberty.

This is why a man shouldn't kpai himself on top women's matter, should have fewer children and plan for his old age. I have always written that women have changed. Whether men have changed or understood the matter on ground is yet to be seen.

aswani:
I doubt these prenup stories.

If they had kids, I doubt they will deport the mum. UK social services will defer to the woman per child custody.

This story is very fake.

A good point because in all of this, I never read wetin go happen to the child in the marriage. Abi no be him pikin?

Chai! Wetin she do no good o.

So Ugo was smart enough to arrange a prenup? Wow! Water can be found in a desert

motymop:
They should lower the bar for many courses like medicine

We are a poor country and we are having shortage of medical professionals.

Reduce the bar, get more graduates admitted.

Once we get the number of doctors we need as a nation then increase the bar

Not necessarily so. Build and or expand more medical schools. It sends a wrong signal to foreign countries that our admission system into medical schools is lax. As an English speaking country with a huge population, we should be producing more doctors for the world. Their remittances and later return contributes a lot to the country.

WriterrNg:
⚡Macron to Africa:

‘We are not the predators of the 21st century’.

As the Franco-African summit begins in Nairobi, the French president tells The Africa Report that Europe promises security in a world where China and the US trample the international system.

Never taking these people to be serious. They have implemented unnecessarily stringent rules against our major non-oil products. At the same time, the Chinese have waived tariffs on all exports from Africa.

As I have written and many have tweeted, if not for Chinese investments, low priced goods and services, many Africans won't enjoy or experience modern technology. Today, investors are looking at establishing charger points stations for EVs because one country has mass produced it for the ENTIRE WORLD.

The trains, the roads, the buildings, the telecoms systems, the gadgets, the factories processing cassava to ethanol and producing methanol etc. When was the last time a major French or even ordinary French company opened a factory in Nigeria? E sure me say the Chinese would finish repairing the three refineries before the French engineers associated with BUA refinery commences construction sef.

Lastly, any Black dominated country associated with France is notoriously poorer than its English counterpart. In the Caribbean, the same. In Africa, the same. Being Black and a native French speaker almost equates to poverty.

Goo0dHardDick:
Everyone likes money. Whoever wants money should go and make it for him or herself. If women are expensive as you said then they should make the money themselves and stay alone for themselves and not looking for a man to fund their expensive lifestyle

Actually, if you read some of the marriage stats, many educated women are becoming single. They earn good money and amass degrees, yet are increasingly single and child-free. Over half of African American women in their mid-20s and above are single. Over half of Canadian women in that same age range are single.

These women are amassing degrees yanfu-yanfu. More female medical students in England. More Chinese women in higher education than men.

Before opening NL, I was going through what it takes to marry a Chinese woman, bros, Igbo women dey learn work. Chinese men literally toil to get a wife.

Tinubu is a b@stard!

Man has won the election even before it began!

How does he do it nau? No wonder his boys say he should be studied!🤣🤣

Women are hypergamous and are an expense. Women would demand things from you, and money is the fuel to supply those things. Even if na chocolate or flowers or short trips, you must show workings.

The belief that a woman who loves you won't demand from you is entirely misplaced.

You build small, block by block, you don't build at once unless you are a thriving businessman. Even top executives may need to take out a mortgage.

Social media would have many ignorant netizens believe everyone builds at once.

Singapore is largely expensive because of the COE (certificate of entitlement) which is a mandatory requirement for owning a car.

If Cayman Islands which is a British Islands territory can be included, Hong Kong too should be included.

Lastly, the unifying factor across all high cost living areas is: they've higher salaries compared to neighbouring cities.

Parachoko:
Mumu man

If dem don see to_to, dem no dey reason straight again

If nah one of him guy or family member needs help now, e fit no render the help

I am sure he had sex with her but didn't pay, aka "I use game". So to get her money, babe defrauded him because las las, sex isn't free.

Reason I always go straight to the point. Nothing like free sex.

GloriousGbola:
According to him, the woman later returned to Dubai and stayed in contact. Months later, he said she introduced him to what she described as a profitable currency exchange investment, promising weekly returns of 800,000 naira if he invested 5 million naira.

in lazy maths

basically she promised him

800,000 x 52 = 41.600.000

41 million for 5 million

800% return in one year

you need lawyer to tell you that one is BS?

anyway sha - throw in the words forex, crypto , agric and maga go fall yakata

He too is a criminal. Nigerians who want such a ROI have criminal tendencies. If 800% was so certain (the 800K is static regardless of market volatilities), hedge funds would flood Nigeria tomorrow. Does he think he's the only one who wants 800K per week with 5m capital?

What is the company going to sell? No one knows. But 800K per week is automatically generated.

It's not hard to spot criminal minded Nigerians

Expecting weekly returns of 800K with an initial capital of 5m shows he too is a criminal. He wanted 16% every week. He wanted more than 800% returns per annum.

He's a criminal!

AbosedeFalade:
Are you sure that this comment, especially the first sentence, is for this same thread?

Yes. I simply narrated his history regarding his relationship with women. The same feminists he defended now mock him using his predicament. Allies aren't supposed to mock each other, at least publicly. Someone who believes that humans can do no wrong on the basis of their gender, in this case women, isn't a kind and just person.

Women, just as men, are fallible. No one is perfect.