idahme:


You are talking like you are not in this country, a woman will impose pregnancy on who she wants to impose it on irrespective of wether she had sex with you or not. Someone who has sex with one of her men one week to your marriage can't impose a pregnancy on you? Or you are saying? Women don't care about consequences of their actions when they want to strike, know this and know peace

is decreasing this probability by going for a virgin. I don't believe in no sex before marriage if the girl isn't a virgin. You can't use me and catch cruise

idahme:


"Afterall after wedding, you all can have countless sex" This is one of the biggest lies women tell men but in reality you don't have countless sex in marriage.

Gbadugbakun:

Sweet heart it's ok. I promise to love and to cherish you let's start making babies please. I can't wait.

Karleb:


She should wait a bit. Jesus is coming.

Even tho it's important for a man to be up and doing but not all women are actually after money. It's a shame the ones after money have louder voices that those who care little about such.

My pastor recently shared a story of how his wife was feeding him when he lost his job and his new job wasn't paying enough. It went on for years o until he was back to his feet. This man I'm talking about is in the top ten earners in his local government in Lagos as of today.

wirinet:

Yes countries engage in alliances that serve their strategic objectives, but does it have to be a parasitic relationship? Sucking the life blood out of these poor African countries while giving little or nothing in return. That has been the nature of the relationship between African countries and Europe/US from the very beginning.

Why didn't the US employ the same doctrine of "strategic objectives" when dealing with European countries and Israel? The US spent billions in rebuilding Europe after the devastating war started by European themselves. They created military alliance and spent trillions defending Europe from themselves. They do the same with Israel, spending billions of dollars protecting Israel and helping their economy. But when it comes to Africans countries they remember the doctrine of strategic objectives.

Honoredeblazac:
This is a terrible news for northern Nigeria. The region will become very unsafe. This is the time Tinubu should request their presence in Nigeria. Give them a place in Yobe or Borno to replace what they had in Niger. It’s a very good opportunity for Nigeria

Villa12:
Nigerian men are also culprit. At least the ladies might be prostitute but they're better than Nigerian men that are also into prostitution, Yahoo Yahoo, kidnapping, banditary, bokoharam, herdsmen, hooliganism, streets urchins, pick pocket, ritualist, rapist etc.

Soncare:
Please am Vietnam if theres any nigeria there please give location and update about getting a work

Karleb:



This hypergamy thing doesn't end with money.

There's good look.
Popularity.
Competency.
Youth.

I believe there should be others too.

Let's talk about these too.

lastkingsman:


What recent changes are you referring to?

sonnie10:
When you say a man, I want to believe you mean those between 25- 35 years. The prime of marriageable age.
For a man, lot of factors come into play when it comes to preparing to settle down, most of which would counter the other. Let’s look at just 3 aspects, Finance, education and Job. I will leave the moral and physical aspect because they are highly individualized.
Education: A good education takes time and dedication. A man determined to do well won’t have the time for such relationship. All his energy and resources are dedicated to this course.

Job : Except you are highly connected or favored, getting a good job right out of school is not easy. A few that make it at that point are not really or immediately financially stable. At that point, their focus is on learning this new job environment and requirements.

Finance: This one is the real determinant of a guys stability. The lack of it transcends other areas . Building financial stability is a marathon not a race. At age 25-30, a young man is still learning the ropes, figuring out the paths to stability. Saving and investment is the goal when the money start coming in. They might not be considered attractive , especially when they are not living the lavish life style that most desire .

These is why you would hear that to be a man is not days job.

Gerrard59:
Well, the OP is largely correct as modern-day women are still hypergamous even though they now earn good money and have greater freedoms. The benefits most men would get have been reduced, with nothing to replace those lost benefits. You compete with women in the same school admissions and labour market, etc. There are some industries and roles men cannot even break into simply because women have occupied everywhere. So, women have reaped these benefits WHILE maintaining hypergamy - where as the man, you still have to be at the top of your game financially and societal status.

One would then ask himself, what is the benefit of being a man? Only wealthy men benefit from being men; other men don't share whatever so-called patriarchal benefits feminazis claim male folks enjoy.

In conclusion, the only benefit men derive from marriage is having children within a two-parent household, as wedlock does more harm to both genders and the greater society. Also, having children from different women whom you as the man are not married to is absolutely nonsensical and financially draining. No one should mention sex, as many married men don't even get sex from their wives, and when they do, it is timetable-based. Who makes this timetable? The woman. The reason married men patronise sex workers more than even single men, and I am willing to bet that sexually active married men get less sex while being married than single men who are equally sexually active.

So, where is the benefit?

zed7:
Im always amused to hear young men talk. You think you can handle an equal or higher earning woman? There is a reason men marry below their economic bracket.

Women will rubbish you if you are not favouring them economically. One day, they'll walk out on you, knowing very well they'll be fine without you. Half of the decisions will be taken by them. They will demand equality. You don't want to be in that shoe bro.

Negroid001:
Me and my younger sister were having our usual afternoon gossips and gists and something came up.
I asked after a close friend of hers whom i know to be very affluent and she erupted that i should stop asking after her that she doesn't
As a man, I've set the standard of not getting involved with women below my economic class or earnings and i see nothing wrong with it. If women see marrying above one's class as normal, we men shouldn't accept anyone below par also.

Let's stop fooling ourselves with love shi. Marriages and relationships are transactional.
It's an arrangement and one has to make the best of choices. What are you bringing to the table?
Men, raise your standards!

yemmit90:


Naturally, women determine who to have sex with, that is why we called forceful sex a rape. That says, men don't have power to decide who to have sex with withiout approval of women. If women don't approve, men will back off because failure to do so will land them in trouble. Besides, men don't have natural ability to resist sexual advance when they are in the mood.

So, if women dont go into prostitution, men will only try to win their hearts with love/materials items and not casually offer money to take them to bed.

Women are the real culprits.

If there is real discipline among the girls they will never accept any money for sex.

Gerrard59:


I beg to disagree. It is men because men are the ones demanding for sex. No woman goes to force a man to sleep with her. It is men who seek out to get women. It is a global phenomenon which I illustrated. It is the reason governments cannot outlaw sex services. My stance is these men who wail daily to know that it is their fellow men, rich men, that fuel this demand. Women on their own don't like to fvck random men. It is biological as they are demisexual, but when there is an enormous demand for a service which only you can provide, economics says offer it provided it is legal.

If more men adopt this stance, the supply of women doing hookups will plummet. It is that simple. But as long as there are men who fork out 80K for sexual service rising, these women will continue to be in the business.

It is not the same dynamics because in all cases, economics trumps emotions. Australian politicians don't like Chinese politicians, but because their farmers have to sell their crop produce to China (a major consumer), they are appeasing the Chinese. I don't have to like you before I sell something to you. It is business. If I don't like him, but he offers good money, why not take it? It is the reason people study hard to get into tech. They don't like tech, but because it pays better than other professions, they learn it. Should the salaries of tech workers plummet to that of say teachers, nobody will want to enter the industry.

First, apple-to-oranges. The government can argue that there are alternatives to use, even though they might not be abundant or safe. In hookup's case, there is no natural alternative for a man who wants to fvck. In developed countries, there are suitable alternatives for those who don't have cars or want to drive, and they use them. Should keke become available in Tokyo, no one will use it because trains are ubiquitous and cheaper. Let there be a vast train network in Lagos, I bet you, no one will use an Okada. In return, Okadas will cease to exist. But Nigerian governments being who they are, put the cart before the horse.

Again, I disagree. The women don't sleep with themselves or ghosts. They sleep with fellow men like you and I. Also, I am not arguing it should stop because it cannot due to testosterone. I am not that idealistic. The average man globally likes to fvck.

I mentioned this - reduce poverty rates in Nigeria and most women will see reasons not to engage in hookup because there are plentiful alternatives to earning good money. Remember, they are demisexual. So an opportunity has been made available. Also, to create a functioning society depends on the men in that society, not the women. It is you who stated that "men create the society and women integrate into it".

Zbk001:


Good morning,

Pls what advice would you give someone that want to apply for International accounting and finance (MAcc) or MSc in accounting and finance.

Raalsalghul:


Like?

martineverest:
language barrier is a major problem....Germany, Austria and Scandinavian countries are
far better than UK.. it's even easier to get citizenship of u can speak their languages

lastkingsman:


Australia. If you are young with high IELTS score, target their PR system via "Fitter General" occupation.

Good luck

Cloudflare:
Honestly, why is it so extremely difficult to find these qualities in a woman.

1. Doesn't double date
men for money
11. Spend her money on her man and Pampers him
18. Virgin
19. Has a car
20. doesn't have only sex to offer

Those are the qualities every sane man wants in a woman, is that too much to ask?

Raalsalghul:
This is a viable business plan given how much men are willing to spend on sex in Nigeria.

She'll multiply that money in a month if she has the right clientele.

She should go ahead with the surgery, open a social media profile to become a content creator or something, network and watch her recoup her investment in multiples.

SoNature:


You should have shared that data in your comment. One thing I know about Nigerians is that we are terribly greedy. Most Nigerians are opportunists. That's why price control is important.

Think of bus drivers or keke riders inflating their fares because it rained. This country is crazy and regulatory bodies should always be in the field.

SoNature:
This sounds good, but make sure you do some research and determine the cost of production before imposing prices on items. If you run sellers out of business, you will cause more problems for the country. The last time I checked, Nigeria doesn't run a communist or socialist economy.

mysticwarrior:
Tackle the issue of insecurity in the middle belt so farmers can go to farm without fear, that would go a long way.

helinues:


Market forces already determine the price of goods and services but some Nigerians decided to be wicked by not lowering the price of goods and services hence government enforcing compliance

Albertone:


The high turnover is paired with more recruitment which makes it easier to break into unlike tech.

fkj950ax:

How old do you think those taxi and bus driver all over Nigeria are?

tensazangetsu20:


Lol you think? You know how many people are fighting for the big 4 jobs lol.

Albertone:

Sure I know.
But big 4 is always recruiting rather than downsizing as seen in tech.

Alakoriomo:


Yes. It really is a surer game of luck than the highly competitive H1B. You might not hire a lawyer, but sometimes last month I consulted someone who’s very vast with helping people file their EB1/EB2 paperwork, and he quoted around $4000 for me, na the amount scare me.