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Romance / Re: Ay's Cheating Saga: Men, What Do You Want Again? by Gerrard59(m): 2:45pm On Apr 13
Eunoiaa:


At the end of the day, he who is the piper plays the tune. grin (I am loving this phrase so much nowadays, and find it aptly justifying for so many things). Only a person can/will decide whoever they want to go for as they so wish, inspite of you and I's misgivings.

By the way, the word is eunoia; it's Greek. I don't know if it's a Nigerian thing that's making y'all think it's some adulterated or refined version of 'Eniola' or 'Niola.'

Yes, he who pays the piper dictates the tune. It sounds unfair, but life itself is unfair.

@Your name: The meaning is nice. Yes, changing it is a Nigerian thing as my previous alteration is the closest to your moniker. First time coming across it and knowing it is an actual word on its own.
Education / Re: The Illusion Of Western Educational Superiority by Gerrard59(m): 5:57am On Apr 13
pansophist:


China has overtaken them. I would rather send my kids to go study in China than the US for example.

You don't want to send your son to school, then he comes back telling you how there are 100 genders lol.

As Treadway said, the rest of the world bar China, only in the sciences, now accept anything Western as the numero-uno. For sciences, the West is still a good place a study, but should be careful in basic biology. But outside sciences, better to study in one's home country or use it as a japa route. Honestly, I am glad China is now an option for many people, especially for us from the Global South.

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Education / Re: The Illusion Of Western Educational Superiority by Gerrard59(m): 5:55am On Apr 13
kkins25:
To be honest with you guys, if I see the word delve in a certain manner in any content, I immediately scrutinize text for AI. Before u start dey yab me, ask me to clarify.

You are a Ghanaian, so it is not an issue. Even for Paul, I can understand his surprise, but him deriding our answers why it is widely used by the average Nigerian was not fair. In his defence, I would say since one is looking for American investors, s/he has to write like Americans.

All the same, in a capitalist world, the likes of Paul would win outrightly. We either become wealthy like the Pauls of this world or keep mum.

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Travel / Re: See The National Minimum Living Wages at Top Japa Destinations by Gerrard59(m): 5:47am On Apr 13
ariesbull:


Chai Bro people spend 20m to 30m.
Some times is not someone’s fault, it is the perception one has. Before I traveled , my guys that were here told me they were making over 5000 euros a month after bills, so I was so desperate. I finally got here to find out that they don’t even have apartment of their own and not to talk of 5000 euro a month. The only reason why I didn’t regret it was that i didn’t contribute one naira to my travelling expenses. Imagine me spending 20 to 30m to experience what I saw when I came here, I wouldn’t I have forgiven them.
If not for social media, no body in Nigeria would have known that abroad is just packaging.
That is y I tell those who want to come the truth, so that they will prepare themselves financially and mentally before travelling.
Imagine guys in their late 40s still not married, no child, in dis abroad. A man who is supposed to be a family man will still be sharing apartments because of bills.

Obviously, they lied. Any Nigerian who makes 5K euros after taxes and bills in Continental Europe is highly skilled, most likely a naturalised citizen, speaks the native language, graduated from an elite university etc. Sorry, but the majority of Nigerians in Continental Europe are not in that group. Even for second generation Nigerians in Continental Europe (Nigerian parents, not biracial), I sincerely doubt.

In the US and UK, it is possible, most especially in the US as it is unarguably the best place to be a skilled black professional.

P.S. Which countries are these friends living?

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Travel / Re: See The National Minimum Living Wages at Top Japa Destinations by Gerrard59(m): 5:43am On Apr 13
ednut1:
why do you guys like to focus on the negatives Are there no Nigerian doctors, nurses, tech bros, auditors hired directly from Nigeria in UK. They didn’t spend 20-30m. Are they no Nigerian in big companies in Canada, USA, UAE, Germany, Belgium, Saudi etc.
Anyone who spent 20-30m for uk care work or study visa took a gamble that may or may not work. Their choice

We should look at the numbers as those people constitute a minute proportion of this new-age japa folks. Nigerians had a 1:1 migrant: dependant ratio in the UK. Certainly, the majority cannot be doctors, auditors or tech broses. The study route is the major means out of Nigeria, so work visa-dependent folks would always be in the minority. In summary, the majority of these new-age Nigerian migrants to the UK spent more than 10M to process their emigration.

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Travel / Re: See The National Minimum Living Wages at Top Japa Destinations by Gerrard59(m): 5:39am On Apr 13
maternal:


Nigerian immigrants abroad are the most successful among other immigrants. It's a fact. It's your loser friends that are the minority

In the US, Nigerians are not in the top five and earn marginally higher than native African Americans. In the UK, Nigerians are not higher earners and blacks there earn very low compared to other ethnic minorities. Elsewhere is going to be worse as the black population is below 2%, and they are not as capitalistic as the UK and US.

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Politics / Re: Nasir El-Rufai Was A Guest Speaker To A Harvard Business Class Yesterday Evening by Gerrard59(m): 5:36am On Apr 13
Raalsalghul:


Oh so you have read this book by Jared Diamond?

I am currently on Chapter 13.

No. I only read the Wikipedia part of the book.
Education / Re: Covenant Beats UI, FUTA To Retain Nigeria’s Best University Spot (Full List) by Gerrard59(m): 5:30am On Apr 13
Blessed4sure:
The Federal Government institutions can do much better, but a private institution coming tops is not necessarily a cause for shame.

Please browse the top five universities in the world. Most are private.

At least 8 of the top 10 universities in the USA are all privately owned.


Because they are located in the US. Most best universities outside the US are publicly owned.
Education / Re: Covenant Beats UI, FUTA To Retain Nigeria’s Best University Spot (Full List) by Gerrard59(m): 5:26am On Apr 13
Johncuppa:

You've not been around for a while.
Covenant university has been taken a lead and competing with federal universities since.

Harvard, Oxford, Cambridge are not advance secondary schools because they are private now.

Publicly owned*

The best universities in the UK are publicly owned. The US is the only major country where the best universities are privately owned.
Education / Re: Covenant Beats UI, FUTA To Retain Nigeria’s Best University Spot (Full List) by Gerrard59(m): 5:25am On Apr 13
bmaster2000:
None of Ibo's private or public universities makes it to the 10 ..and they will come here and boast about their education acumen ...and WAEC result performances......pls., is it with the WaEC result that miracle centres plenty pass real centres...

Where mercenaries are used in most of the centres ...we are seeing the product all over ...it can be evidently seen.

UNN is number 7. Tribal jaundice won't allow you to see clearly. The Civil War greatly affected the growth of universities in the East. However, Igbos have grown and compete favourably in universities outside the East. A previous second BGS from UI is an Igbo lady, who is now an associate professor in China. A significant proportion of non-Northern students in most northern universities are Igbos. UniJos, universities in Adamawa, Borno, Sokoto etc. Covenant University, being Christian-owned gets a significant proportion of students from the East. Go and check for yourself, most CU students are Igbos. In fact, as the country gets more Islamised, church-owned universities, especially those in the SW, would have to rely on Igbos and ethnic minorities in the south south to fill them.

Additionally, it seems you are pained that Igbos dominate national examination rankings. Mind you, this has been historical, if not for the war, most ethnic groups would not see the backs of Igbos in national examinations. So, what you see is what has always been - Igbos dominate national examination rankings.

P.S. I don't expect you to believe me, but for unsuspecting readers and the general public, I consider it important to dispel lies on the Internet.

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Education / Re: Covenant Beats UI, FUTA To Retain Nigeria’s Best University Spot (Full List) by Gerrard59(m): 5:16am On Apr 13
ChiefS:
Ranking is not always very accurate and does not reflect reality and true picture. The truth is that private universities devote a lot of time to documentation and tailor all their energies into coming tops in global rankings.

This is true and especially a reason most science academics are not fond of the THEducation rankings compared to ARWU or QS rankings. For instance, the National University of Singapore and Nanyang University of Technology are ranked above some elite universities in the US, even though nothing exemplary or special or renowned has emanated from either NUS or NTU.

Many of the private universities are serviced by staff of Federal Universities as adjuncts.

To be fair, this point does not concern rankings. It is how those staff behave or their output that matters, not who employed them.

Ranking can be misleading as it does not reflect the quality of teaching and impact of the products of the universities.

That is not true. Quality of teaching is a methodology in both the QS and THEducation rankings.

For instance, there is no way a university less than 20 years can match the impact of the University of Ibadan which has existed for more than 70 years and produced various global icons. The truth is that the research of many old or retired professors at such universities may not be available online.

Sure, older schools would always top research output. But the bold is a weak point. Any research which is not publicly available for perusal or critical review is not worth its salt. If the research is so good, publish it or use it to obtain a patent.
Education / Re: Covenant Beats UI, FUTA To Retain Nigeria’s Best University Spot (Full List) by Gerrard59(m): 5:10am On Apr 13
SoNature:


Look at the yardstick used for ranking those universities. Private universities are supposed to be doing much better than public schools because they have enough funding to reach their goals. Educational institutions are useless without money.

I have to praise Covenant University for outpacing other private universities that started before them like Igbenedion University and Madonna University. Those two varsities are merely glorified secondary schools.

Poor management. Hate or love David Oyedepo, but he is a good manager who strives for excellence. Kudos to him and CU. I am proud to state I predicted Covenant's growth on Nairaland since 2016/17.

Nigeria's Harvard! cool

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Education / Re: Covenant Beats UI, FUTA To Retain Nigeria’s Best University Spot (Full List) by Gerrard59(m): 5:08am On Apr 13
Draslo:
Covenant, Babcock and Bells girls revolutionised hookup

Please explain further as I find it surprising since it is expected their parents are well-to-do.
Romance / Re: Ay's Cheating Saga: Men, What Do You Want Again? by Gerrard59(m): 5:03am On Apr 13
Eunoiaa:


This is so black-and-white thinking that I don't even know where to start from, my God. 😭😭

Please, pardon my job references but I hope it's able to communicate my point across effectively. grin grin

You made great points in this post, especially regarding the post about the student who worked assiduously in school achieving high grades, then getting shitty treatment from a company. Fair agreement. However, Euniola, you see the hormone Testosterone? It is a hormone, not a m.oron. Also, in my post, I exonerated women who were virgins prior to marriage and those whose men don't provide for their families.
Travel / Re: Everything US H-1B Visa Category by Gerrard59(m): 3:47am On Apr 13
Ormoretayour:

Vesti helped out with d job offer too, that what dey used for the lottery. They introduced me to the company that gave the offer.

So, how come folks with stellar work experience and degrees from elite institutions don't know about this firm that links foreign applicants to companies that intentionally wish to employ them and file for their H1Bs?
Travel / Re: Everything US H-1B Visa Category by Gerrard59(m): 3:46am On Apr 13
Ormoretayour:

Vesti started the whole process from the lottery stage till getting the notice of selection.

It is your choice to believe whoever you want to, but I refuse to believe an agent is needed in the H1B lottery process other than the company which employed the applicant.

However, please don't come complaining kini kon kini kon when kasala burst. Anything you see, take it like that.

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Politics / Re: Nasir El-Rufai Was A Guest Speaker To A Harvard Business Class Yesterday Evening by Gerrard59(m): 5:04am On Apr 12
CaveAdullam:



I do laugh when Blacks in the diaspora find pride in their works and achievements overseas, seeing it as an opportunity to rank on the same level as their European, Asian, or American counterparts. I'm glad of their achievements though. Happy for them. However, the White Man still dominates.

The White man is the template for Black's progress. It may not be so in the past. But that's the case now. And they can do to the Black race as they are currently doing. So what's the essence of the King Kong attitude?

We don't even care about nation-building and development as individuals. Everywhere you go in this country, you just see more reasons why the country will continue to remain in the dark. Hardly anyone thinks. Hardly anyone that's logical. Hardly anyone trying to make it work.
starts from the little we can do right now.

Thanks.

It is a coping mechanism, especially from those who can still relate to their African ancestry. I omit African Americans as those ones are culturally detached and for a very long time. It still affect them though as the majority of non-black see black as Africa. However, for those with relatively recent ancestry to Africa chanting mumbo-jumbo, I laugh.

Remi Adekoya has written many articles, and finally a book, (https://www.amazon.com/Its-Not-About-Whiteness-Wealth/dp/1408716666) on the issue of racism and wealth, but surprisingly, none of these black folks in the diaspora dey think of: why can't we have a successful black country to call our own? At least begin dey find way to implement the knowledge wey dem don garner so far. I watched a video by one second-generation British-Nigerian finance chick who is living in Dubai. She likes the place, but admits it is not a place to raise black children (technically admitting she would marry a black man as Dubai is not fair to black women with regards to dating) based on her upbringing in the UK. She complains of the lack of Black Dubai as that is where she would have raised her children. This is what the Chinese have achieved - alternatives to Mainland China, but still retaining Chinese dominance, safety and prosperity.

In this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5886610/racism-against-blacks-reduce-drastically I mentioned that should black Africa be prosperous, many African Americans would gladly return. People tend to forget the importance of living amongst folks who look like you. Humans are tribal.

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Travel / Re: Everything US H-1B Visa Category by Gerrard59(m): 3:31am On Apr 12
Theveez:
Good day all, Still H-1B visa category
I just signed up with an agent here in Nigeria called Vesti for H1B
Has anyone used their services before?

Please i need all necessary information to work with and the right questions to ask them.

Ormoretayour:
I got a notice from them that I was selected in the H1BLottery, next step is to pay $7k which have been doing finding abt them if it's real or scam. Please anyone on this track too.
ugreat:


Just signed up too, waiting to hear about them
micxwell:
I'm looking in this direction too but I know absolutely nothing about it.

You don't need an agent to file or process H1B for you. What you need is a job from a company which does the filing and processing, including payment. The employee does not pay anything.

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Politics / Re: Nasir El-Rufai Was A Guest Speaker To A Harvard Business Class Yesterday Evening by Gerrard59(m): 3:24am On Apr 12
DeepSight:


Thank you for noting this - but the effects extend far beyond these. No culture dwelling in such hot parts will develop technologies which have at their root the search for heat. The search for heat in itself is a thing that will very naturally trigger the development of much technology which is heat based and heat reliant. And aside from this, the existence of something such as winter alone, imposes a rigor to planning without which a people would simply die off. Entirely. There is a simple saying that summarizes this: necessity is the mother of invention and that also tells us why there is a spike in inventions during times of war.

I also mentioned geography and one thing that should be noted is the way the developed nations of the world are all placed along certain latitudes on the Earth. They are almost all entirely within the temperate zones of the Earth horizontally, from the East end of Russia all the way to the West End of Canada - they fall within a certain geographical band. This is enough to trigger thinking persons towards understanding the reasons for certain things - and aside from this, the geography of that band permitted much movement and trade in ave the lowest IQ and in this, please be wary of IQ tests which are knowledge based because knowledge is not the same thing as intelligence. Also be careful enough to consider socio-economic factors in your assessment because children from hungry and deprived homes are certainly less likely to excel in school than well fed children from comfortable homes who have access to the best educational tools.


I once read that theory from this book: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guns,_Germs,_and_Steel

Some people oppose his theory, but it has some sense. However, a society in a tropical environment is supposed to invent, innovate and keep improving ways to cool themselves and their items. While too much cold can kill, too much heat can be uncomfortable.

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Politics / Re: Nasir El-Rufai Was A Guest Speaker To A Harvard Business Class Yesterday Evening by Gerrard59(m): 3:16am On Apr 12
wirinet:


Yes, Europe was stagnant for 1000 years, but it was not retrogressing. This was mainly due to religious and political conflicts that were rife at he retrogressing as a race and unable to build prosperous and stable societies.
The most annoying to me are Haiti, Guyana and Jamaica. Countries that were handed over to blacks to develop in the middle of the Americas, and we made a mess of them.

France messed up that country. France is a terrible coloniser. French colonies are poorer than their British counterparts. It is one of the reasons I have this belief that whites would not wish blacks to become economically powerful as China because we would avenge many atrocities. As the population of blacks (in Africa) increases, whites will become antsy. This paper talks in-depth about it: https://www.hoover.org/research/africa-2050-demographic-truth-and-consequences
Politics / Re: Tinubu’s Government Raises Electricity Tariff From N66 To N225 Per KPH by Gerrard59(m): 3:11am On Apr 12
IbeOkehie:


(1) I agree with you. No dispute.

I want to ask though, what is QUALITY that you imply? If a tribe or race PREFERS to wallow in poverty, or is ignorant of what better prospects are out there, that shouldn't be a problem. Does that constitute a negative?

Just as we agreed, all cultures are not equal. Some cultures promote enterprise, pragmatism, integrity, freedom of thought and beliefs etc. These are characteristics that, when combined with capitalism and the protection of private property and investments, would become prosperous. On the other hand, some cultures go against those attributes I mentioned, such that even though they might be homogenous, they would never be successful and prosperous. A very good example is: Ibibios in Akwa Ibom vs ethnic Somalis. Exchange both groups to live in the other party's environment, and present-day Somalia would become a place many people from different parts of the world would desire to visit, while present-day Akwa Ibom would become hell on earth.

As you stated, it should not be a problem nor should it constitute a negative PROVIDED the group keep to itself and not spread its results to other groups. In pidgin, they should dey their dey

(2) Such a tripartite nation would NOT be stable at all if it's a democracy. That's for sure.

Good Luck to Nigeria.

Because they are different racial groups, I might agree with you because Belgium and Switzerland are examples to prove that different ethnicities promoting the same characteristics can live in harmony even with equal population percentages. Olden day Malaysia, which had the present-day Singapore, could prove you correct. However, the Malays did not promote the same characteristics as the Chinese in the now Singapore. If those Malays exhibited qualities like Germans, it would have worked seamlessly.

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Politics / Re: Nasir El-Rufai Was A Guest Speaker To A Harvard Business Class Yesterday Evening by Gerrard59(m): 8:31am On Apr 11
Raalsalghul:


Can I get a screenshot of the tweet, the one by Paul Graham. Been going through his X profile, definitely a controversial figure.

But in all honesty, you don't need to go through his profile to know their thoughts towards us.

It's as simple as looking for a topic or an article on immigration, then read the comments below to reveal what they're thinking. Helped me enough to guide my interactions with them.

https://twitter.com/paulg/status/1777030573220933716

To be fair to him, if you want money from American investors, one has to write and speak like an American. He was doubling down on it, which got Nigerian netizens angry. I was discussing with Tensa20 say the argument which erupted yesterday would further deter/discourage white Americans from investing in the Nigerian tech space. Thankfully, China is available. The problem be say we too poor to get profits compared to other markets like Indonesia and India. It is why I have never considered tech as a leeway to Nigeria's prosperity.

Anyway, Elon Musk has garnered new disciples in his anti-black ideology. As the population of blacks increase while whites decline, we should expect more outrage and backlash. The future go get as e be.

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Romance / Re: Is Africa Not A Weak Race? by Gerrard59(m): 8:23am On Apr 11
nearline:

Japanese housewives literally receive their husbands’ salaries and determine what goes to the hands of the husbands. They have no choice but to prefer being housewives.

But Emirati women don't get all of their husbands' salaries, but it is developed. It is men, not women, who develop and chart the course of successful societies.

https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women

A developed society is such that you, as the man, build it to high levels, then set societal rules for everyone to follow. Those wey no follow can go to hell, it is none of your business. You created that society. That is what Chinese men have done, and I admire them so much. As it is, all Chinese dominant societies are prosperous, safe and thriving.

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Romance / Re: Is Africa Not A Weak Race? by Gerrard59(m): 4:43am On Apr 11
toujurs:
Greed and inferiority are black people problem

Black women have an entitled mentality unlike white women who work and believe in gender equality, a typical black woman prefers her position is in the kitchen and bedroom. As long as the man is rich. A Fulfillment marrying who has money.

There is nothing wrong with that. Emirati and Japanese women prefer being housewives while their husbands earn money for the households. The koko be say, Emirati and Japanese men have built successful, safe and thiving societies. The question is: why has the black man not done the same?

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Politics / Re: Nasir El-Rufai Was A Guest Speaker To A Harvard Business Class Yesterday Evening by Gerrard59(m): 4:40am On Apr 11
Raalsalghul:


Well written Cave and I share the same thoughts as you but the most annoying thing about this after coming to the realization of how low the IQ of the black race is the fact that you have no control over your being black and that you might be the only one in the midst of a billion souls who's only come to this knowledge and enlightenment.

Most Black Africans from my own observation simply do not care and would rather give in to carnal desires rather than ponder on how to improve their race. It's all man for himself. The whites do not think like that.

Na wetin I realise few years ago. Person go think tire con later realise say na only am and few others dey reason like that. I recall when David Hundyein tweeted that in the coming years, whites would not be comfortable with blacks in their midst and the only solution is building a functioning black country in Africa. Even if it means seizing power and just create a functioning black dominated society in Africa.

Furthermore, I have also written on how I am reluctant to reproduce as a Black African person because there is no leverage to my offspring to succeed in this world where we are at the bottom of the pyramid.

I have lived with white people, I have worked with white people.

I have white folks as my friends.

I have studied them, how they think, their mentality and mindset, their preference for using logic rather than emotions or sentiments in dealing with issues, their inclusive thinking to nation buildings, their perchance for meritocracy, their immediate urge to look for a solution when something goes wrong and learn from it, their formulation of laws and swiftness to punish those who disobey them, their lazy approach to work and life which in turn makes them creative and come up/build on technology to make life easier for them, their respect of people's choices and way of life so long as it's legal and in line with the law.


To be fair, those qualities can easily be implemented in societies where there is a clear dominance by groups which desire those attributes. However, as I write, there exist countries with such dominance, yet dem no dey successful. The thing tire person sha. For instance, see Equatorial Guinea and Gabon. Fine, they are ruled by dictators, but why not implement similar policies like those in the UAE and Qatar? That way, you diversify from oil and attract people from around the world to live, work and play in your countries. No point to reinventing the wheel, just copy and paste. Finish!

Thank God say the tweet by Paul Graham has revealed some of the thoughts white Americans have towards black Africans. I hope more of such revelations happen, maybe some people go develop sense by force.

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Travel / Re: With 12m Naira, Can I Travel And Start Life Comfortably In Australia? by Gerrard59(m): 4:24am On Apr 11
ednut1:
asylum

Romance / Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Gerrard59(m): 4:21am On Apr 11
Nazgul:

Never take what a lady says online seriously. Most just want to catch cruise and mislead naive and unintelligent girls.


I beg to disagree. Take people words and actions very seriously regardless of the medium or place those opinions were aired. Especially in this 21st century, take every girl's social media footprint to be her real life.

@tollyboy5: To be honest, the lady in question is apt. Just that her choice of words arent palatable. Sha, good luck to those involved.

yad2eidi:
the annoying part is that she is getting free sex from him. she is supposed to be paying

That is not free sex to a Nigerian woman. Sex is the cheapest commodity a Nigerian lady can get as I write and as you read what I wrote. The preek of a Nigerian man is cheaper than what you think.

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Politics / Re: Nasir El-Rufai Was A Guest Speaker To A Harvard Business Class Yesterday Evening by Gerrard59(m): 11:14am On Apr 10
CaveAdullam:


African elites are dumb. They represent a larger percentage of low IQ. Hence, rather than unite at both national and Continental levels, to improve the state of their country and continent respectively, they will decide to spend it lavishly or look for a soakaway to store their money.

Yes, of course, many do have investments here and there, both domestic and international. But the point is that they don't see a need to use their position as a medium to develop their nations.

It's elites that rule and run a country; politicians are their puppeteers, from the presidential seat to the last civil servant.

However, they would rather catch a cruise or use their position to oppress the common man. See Erisco as an example.

It was American elites: Vanderbilt, Rockefeller, Ford, Carnegie, Morgan, etc. that built America. Wealthy men who in a competition to become the most richest and powerful man in America used goods, services, and creativity to better their nation.


Honestly, after wetin I don see so far, I don't rate Nigerian elites and other black elites. Nigerian elites, in particular, because we are the most populous black country and should be a leading example of black strive for excellence. We no do well. Fine, the white and even Arab men don deal with us, but we suppose get sense and re-strategise for the greater good of ourselves. See China today, I can count how many times Xi has travelled out to visit other world leaders. But for the past few months, foreign leaders have been visiting him, soliciting for deals and treaties. In return, they are negotiating ruthlessly and stating their needs with terms and conditions.

Another thing is that from observation most elites believe the country is gone. Especially those that are not too close to the corridors of power and politics. If they've lost hope in the state of the nation, their lackadaisical attitude can't be far-fetched.

That is the bad thing about diversity. People lose a sense of belonging and patriotism in the country. But then, see the sit-at-home declaration and subsequent insecurity in the south east. I wondered what Igbo elites were doing. When a society falls, I blame the elites, both private and public. Many people seem to disregard the psychological comfort of living in their dominant environment, which is clean, safe and prosperous. I wonder how African elites would cope should the West institute the citizenship revocation the US did against Chinese-American scientists. Most renounced American citizenship and moved to China. If China get as e be for them, they move to Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand, Hong Kong, South Korea or Japan. Wahali! East Asians don try for themselves. In all of this, they would maintain the same living standards and live in prosperous places as they did in the US.


PS: Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell keeps popping up these days. It's high time I go read it. Funny enough, I won it as a gift prize from Rovenheights bookstore but haven't been able to go pick it up.

Funny enough, I have not read the book. I just keep adding would-be books to the private list on my Amazon account. The list go don reach 200 books. I wonder which day I go get time to read even ten embarassed

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Politics / Re: Nasir El-Rufai Was A Guest Speaker To A Harvard Business Class Yesterday Evening by Gerrard59(m): 8:40am On Apr 10
PureFace1:
The same El Rufai that Igbo called a terrorist and accused of aiding genocide against southern kaduna people is the one they are now clamoring for to ally with their Agulu messiah out of desperate bid to get a president from their region, they forgot how Peter Obi confined El rufai in an hotel in Anambra during a guber election, Peter Obi could have established better relationship with northerners if he was nice to them from the beginning instead of the pretentious act he is doing now and running helter skelter over the north for validation, he think northerners are stupid.

out of desperation to get northern votes.


Take it from me, most Igbos WOULD turn against Peter Obi should he run alongside El-Rufai. You don't understand the philosophy and ideology of an average Igbo person, so I understand your ignorance. Mind you, Buhari paired with an Igbo man, yet Igbos voted against him.

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Politics / Re: Nasir El-Rufai Was A Guest Speaker To A Harvard Business Class Yesterday Evening by Gerrard59(m): 8:37am On Apr 10
naptu2:
The legendary obstetrician and gynaecologist, Professor Tiamiyu Belo-Osagie, worked at the Military Hospital, Lagos and the Lagos University Teaching Hospital on his return from the United States.

He set up his medical practice, the Osagie Medical Centre, in the 1960s (that's where he delivered my brother).

He moved to Benin in the 1970s, where he established the University of Benin Teaching Hospital. He worked (at various times) as Professor of Obstetrics and Gynaecology, Head of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynaecology, Dean of the Faculty of Medicine and Provost of the College of Medical Sciences at the University of Benin between 1972 and 1979.

He was the personal physician to the President of Nigeria in the 1980s. In this position he was involved in the births of Saudatu Shehu Shagari in 1981 and Halima Babangida in 1989.

Professor Tiamiyu Belo-Osagie returned to the Osagie Medical Centre in the 1990s where he was in high demand.


Away from the medical world, he also served as the chairman of Societe General Bank and was on the board of many companies. He was the father of Hakeem Belo-Osagie who is a former chairman of UBA (Keem Belo-Osagie started out as a special assistant to President Shagari). He recieved the national honour of Commander of the Order of the Niger (CON) in 1982.

Professor Tiamiyu Belo-Osagie died in March 2005.
Hakeem Belo-Osagie is the son of Professor Tiamiyu Belo-Osagie. He attended Harvard University and worked as an assistant to Presidents Shagari and Babangida.

He has served as chairman of the boards of the United Bank for Africa (UBA), Etisalat Nigeria and Chocolate City Records.

His daughter has triple degrees from Princeton, Havard and Stanford universities. He is a relative of sort to the tech investor Victor Asemota. Malcolm Gladwell no lie when him write the book "Outliers". His trajectory mimics that of Adebayo Ogunlesi, whose dad was the first professor of medicine in Nigeria. Ogunlesi studied at Kings College Lagos, Oxford and Harvard Universities.

My annoyance be say upon all these profiles of Nigerian elites, we never even reach or attain the level of Malaysia. Some of the elites in Nigeria still believe in government subsidies. I respect Chinese elites as they used their brilliance, creativity and influence to develop their country.

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Romance / Re: Ay's Cheating Saga: Men, What Do You Want Again? by Gerrard59(m): 7:34am On Apr 10
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@ labake1

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The instruction code, from my research is totally serious and it takes mentally strong personae to resist the instruct set that alerts men to mate at the sight of a mature female. And it has been programmed so dangerously precise that if you resist the instruction to mate for decades, then men develop a form of cancer in their sex organs which is a direct consequence of not ejaculating the sperm when the instruction packet was sent.

What I am stating in essence, from my findings, is that the designers of humans, actually programmed men to mate or die. This is not about morality, so I can not question the designers of humans, but I can only tell them that this is a great curse to men cos sex is getting expensive and too regulated.

My assumption is that a man needs 4 wives or a wife and 3 concubines to really thrive but it is too tough on us men. I personally do not have the desire for such things, but I know these are facts. Sometimes women think sex is fun, hell no, most times we are fulfilling pressure instructions to mate.

The Biology of Cheating.

No wonder Islam is waxing strong. Muslim men have little to worry about, especially as the religion prohibits their women from marrying out and restricts those who wish to renounce the religion.

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Romance / Re: Ay's Cheating Saga: Men, What Do You Want Again? by Gerrard59(m): 7:30am On Apr 10
Acidosis:


n you, who will?

When men want faithfulness or a faithful woman for marriage, they don't tag video vixens, Nollywood actresses or Big Brother Naija women (call it stereotype, but that's the reality). You'll always find men on Nairaland, demanding virginity and all.

You all (women) should raise the moral standard too. It is not everyday steeze or money. If we have more women demanding virginity from men, things would be better. I mean, see how men are generally sitting up and calling for paternity test lately. What are you (women) doing in return? Telling a cheating man to stop cheating is already too late. An effort in futility.

When there are no known incentives for the male gender's morality, expect nothing but absolute unfaithfulness.

That would increase the divorce rates and in turn, marriage rates would plummet. It is seen in the developed world where women divorce their husbands simply because they cheated. People need to realise the effect testosterone has on men. The earlier, the better.

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