Music/Radio › Re: Wande Coal Officially Dropped From Mavin Records by Ghadafy(m): 6:07pm On Nov 07, 2013 |
Mavin Records is becoming M.oron Records. D'prince and his take banana will never take them anywhere! |
Celebrities › Re: Wande Coal Releases New Pictures by Ghadafy(m): 3:50pm On Nov 07, 2013 |
Why the fuq is he wearing a jacket inside the studio? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Zimbabwe's Mr. Ugly 2012 Reclaims Title by Ghadafy(m): 4:50am On Nov 07, 2013 |
He deserve the award. |
Career › Re: Are Indian Bosses In Nigeria That Bad??? by Ghadafy(m): 6:27pm On Nov 06, 2013 |
biotun: India bosses are not that bad,it is Nigeria employers that are very lazy See gobe, employers or employees. You're one of the bad lazy nigerians |
Health › Re: Deceased’s Relations Beat-up Nurse, For Administering "Wrong Medication" by Ghadafy(m): 3:27pm On Nov 06, 2013 |
This is just too harsh, I don't think it's necessary to call him all these unprinted names. Learn how to correct people without passing insults to them.. Raymondenyi: Shut up young maan, do not sspill trash that u don'tknow, n do not aact like the foolish, babrbaric n ignorant relatives, did u even read the post?
The laady had a terminal illness(liver failuree) n 4 ur information cases of CLD(chronic liver disease) has a very bleak prognosis! Peopple almost never survives it, n to add salt to injury, the lady in question has been in a "faith based home" (meaning she has been in those ur hopeless dubious churches,for months being milked of d little dey had) nd when d situation was outta control dey saw d need 2 rush to d hospital,just a day pprior to her pass- on expecting a miracle... That dia "faith based home" couldn't perform....
Young man it won't cause u anything to take ur tym read n comprehend! N not spewing trash n displaying ur foolery on a public forum. Thank you... |
Romance › Re: Guy Proposed To Girlfriend Dressed As A Homeless Man by Ghadafy(m): 5:01am On Nov 06, 2013 |
Nice concept.. |
Properties › Re: Uncle Sold My Dead Father's Land by Ghadafy(m): 5:15pm On Nov 05, 2013 |
You were born in the USA, you're the first son and you don't have money to travel to Nigeria, really? How old are you and what are you doing for a living? Some people are only here for three years, worked as security/CNA, and still have money to travel home.
Anyway, I will encourage you to stay back in the USA and work hard to acquire your own properties. Don't even try to come and fight for the land that's not yours in Nigeria. You don't even know maybe your father was killed by your uncle and if you don't careful, he may eliminate you too. |
Music/Radio › Re: Kcee Ft Wizkid - Pull Over (video) by Ghadafy(m): 9:34pm On Nov 02, 2013 |
Time to play some candy crush |
Travel › Re: My Experience In Port-harcourt Airspace & Airport Today by Ghadafy(m): 11:17pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Rusty air |
Celebrities › Re: Richard Mofe Damijo's New Slimmed-down Look by Ghadafy(m): 10:54pm On Oct 30, 2013 |
Kk |
Health › Re: Share Your Birthcontrol Experiences Pls by Ghadafy(m): 7:12pm On Oct 30, 2013 |
Proudly team withdrawal method. @op, back off from brth control; use withdrawal method or switch to mouth action. |
Politics › Re: South-East, South-South Professionals Tell Oduah To Quit by Ghadafy(m): 1:31pm On Oct 30, 2013 |
**following this topic vividly** |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Sentenced To Death For Drug Trafficking In Vietnam by Ghadafy(m): 4:13am On Oct 30, 2013 |
emmamaraihe: Who knows you would die before him .. Be carefull And who knows you could die before both of us? Psychopath ignoramus.. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Sentenced To Death For Drug Trafficking In Vietnam by Ghadafy(m): 2:30am On Oct 30, 2013 |
Now I believe there's sense in nonsense. Well done bro. God bless you. rudedough: [size=14pt][center]WHY IGBOS ARE EASILY ATTRACTED TO CRIME[/center][/size]
[b]An average Igbo man is brought up to be aware of his responsibilities. He is expected to adopt a ‘take charge’ attitude to life and so from childhood he learns as a boy to go out and take risks, get in fights, know his territories, protect it and every other person on it.
Every Igbo man needs no foreign interpretation to know that money is a must have to be recognized in your kindred. The more reason why at a very tender age, some unfortunate parents send their child out to their brother in-law in Lagos to learn trade. Reason not because they don't like their child, but because they want him to have a better life and be respected/recognized in his society.
Our culture does not tolerate poverty. In the eyes of our elders, poverty is seen as a sign of weakness or laziness. This misconception has driven our men to become extremists. Our elders/fathers also do not help matters at all, they like to compete among themselves, not in their child’s intellectual or academic qualifications but over whose child is the richest or drive the most expensive car or built the most luxurious house in the village.These classification based on how much wealth you have acquired has successfully driven gullible youths into undertaking extreme crimes like this one.
Every December, during annual village meeting, when Igbo youths gather in the village from various parts of the world, the talk of who brought back the best cars and who has built the most luxurious house in the village becomes the order of the day. Even some not-yet-wealthy youths travel all the way to the village just to see for themselves what their peers have achieved. This experience psychologically further drive their extremism to greater height.
In this village meeting, poor men (no matter what your academic qualifications are) are made to sit at the back, while "real men" (educated or not) give speech. And when an educated man tries to convey a message, they hurl all kinds of insult at him like "Sit down there, are we discussing grammar here? Is certificate the name of a currency". My Igbo brothers can testify to this.
Now comes when an Igbo man needs to take a wife, the process and money involved can cripple a multi-national company if care is not taken to recuperate the losses within a certain period of time. Most of my tribesmen never made it back to their feet after their marriage. The truth is, the bride's parents (Most of them) do not care about how their daughter lives with her husband after their marriage. And when they start having kids, the problem escalates and it cripples the business totally, leaving most men to start all over again. Most of our men blame their predicament on some mysterious witchcraft or wizard in the village and the pressure is passed unto one child to another, so the virtuous circle continues.
I don't want to get start-ish on the burial rights. These old men don't care if you are financially stable or not, their brother is dead and he must be buried ASAP. The burial is not the problem here, but having to deal with all sorts of committee telling you their individual rights. One group may demand for 1 cow, 10 tubers of yam, drinks and all sorts of items, another group may ask for something else, believe me, these groups are almost endless. Most Igbo men become indebted after losing their parent, and they sometimes never recover from that financial crisis.
If only my tribesmen could be educated on the danger our tradition possess, we would work to abolish those wrecking customs of ours. I can go on and on and on but maybe my tribesmen could shed some light to what i just said. I am only a youth in my early 20s, maybe i don't know anything, or maybe I’m being too emotional. I'll appreciate if someone old enough would enlighten me on our core customs and traditional values.
Igbos are good people, I won’t blame our youths for the crimes they choose to undertake; I’ll blame our elders for putting those stipe traditions upon their children.[/b] |
Celebrities › Re: Janet Atayero Oluseye Is Dead (Nollywood Actress) by Ghadafy(m): 10:52pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
So sad, RIP Janet. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Sentenced To Death For Drug Trafficking In Vietnam by Ghadafy(m): 5:05pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
sylvar02: See your name self! What's it with your name? Is he your brother? Maniac |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Sentenced To Death For Drug Trafficking In Vietnam by Ghadafy(m): 11:37pm On Oct 28, 2013 |
RIP in advance bro.. |
Politics › Re: Clara Chime Under House-Arrest Imposed By Gov. Chime by Ghadafy(m): 11:32pm On Oct 28, 2013 |
simpleseyi: I hated this amebo sahara reporters until imPatience Jonathan went to church to confess that all the gossips that sahara reporters said about her are true, that she died and ressurected in a German hospital after she and her assistants have denied this several times.
Also recently, Stella Oduah confessed that all sahara reporters wrote about her spending 225 million like 225 kobo on cars is true but that she really needs the cars for security because Tinubu and APC and Yorubas are after her va-gi-na which is reserved for Uncle Jonah
After God, na Sahara Reporters I beleive next, why will I believe someone like Uncle Jonah who signed agreement with ASUU few years ago, but he is now telling us he cannot fulfil the agreement because he signed the agreement at gun point and secondly, he was under influence of ogogoro while negotiating. Are you serious bro? Lol.. |
Nairaland General › Re: Things People Regret Before They Die by Ghadafy(m): 4:36pm On Oct 28, 2013 |
Space booked, brb |
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Travel › Re: Over Three Million Nigerians In US, Canada – Carrington by Ghadafy(m): 3:03pm On Oct 22, 2013 |
Ok buddy.. |
Celebrities › Re: Kim Kardashian Is Engaged To Kanye West! by Ghadafy(m): 2:05pm On Oct 22, 2013 |
Booked, brb |
Romance › Re: Pls Help Me On What 2 Do by Ghadafy(m): 7:23pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
Drink battery water bro, it will surely calm you down. |
Romance › Re: Cool Pose Or Not? Groomsmen & Bridesmaids At A Wedding (photo) by Ghadafy(m): 4:52am On Oct 19, 2013 |
preetyqueen: Pose jakujaku Lol..pose "rederede" |
Politics › Re: Nwabueze Blasts Jonathan For National Conference Committee Nomination by Ghadafy(m): 12:08am On Oct 18, 2013 |
mugumugu: nwabuuuueze, omo nna ti o nko fuji. dis one na fuji house of commotion.
over to u my nna brothers and aro ibos. make I go drink palm wine with okorowanta and chikodi chukwumerije.  Truly, you are mugumugu!!! LOL.. |
Politics › Re: Nwabueze Blasts Jonathan For National Conference Committee Nomination by Ghadafy(m): 12:01am On Oct 18, 2013 |
seedord247: why did you quote that long sh1t.. Are you suffering from malaria?  Lol, maybe down syndrome.. |
Celebrities › Re: Kate Henshaw And Rita Dominic At A Recording (Picture) by Ghadafy(m): 11:59pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
So? |
Islam › Re: Do Muslims from Northern Nigeria have native names? by Ghadafy(m): 3:40am On Oct 17, 2013*. Modified: 4:53am On Oct 19, 2013 |
[quote author=Birniwa]Dumb head, SHEKAU is not even HAUSA, he's KANURI, a major tribe in Maiduguri.
Shekau only appears in media speaking Hausa because everyone who understands Kanuri understands Hausa as wekl (but not vice versa). Hausa is also a language that majority of Nigerians understand. [/ |
Music/Radio › Re: Davido Not Satisfied With Skelewu Video, Reshooting It as Fans complains by Ghadafy(m): 6:51pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
As if the song make sense in the first place.. |
Islam › Re: Do Muslims from Northern Nigeria have native names? by Ghadafy(m): 6:44pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
@OP, yes of course SHEKAU is not a Muslim name but Hausa native name. |
Romance › Re: Is It A Man's Fault If His Wife Runs Away From Her Home? by Ghadafy(m): 2:34am On Oct 15, 2013 |
Hopefully one day you would post a reasonable, complete, and meaningful topic. Perhaps, we may have to wait until you are 18. |
Romance › Re: 101 Ways To Make Love Without Having Sex! by Ghadafy(m): 9:57pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
I don't know which one is the most silliest between the poster and the topic. Perhaps, both of them. |