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Nairaland / General / Husband Scarcity!!!...A Must Read For Women. by gimmesome(m): 3:43pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations,but i can no longer resist the push. ''Husband Scarcity" has become one of the major challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses,majority of their intentions are prayer points for a life partner. And this calls for a great concern,casting our minds back to the times of our others and grandmothers,was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity"problem?,Or maybe there were more women then,or there was adequate corresponding numbers of both genders...i don't think so. Maybe then,the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not pack into a built home. Then,once a young man comes of age and at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman in return really appreciates him and then assists him fully to build a future...What am i trying to say?. Women created what they now see as "Husband Scarcity" for themselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get answers like "he has to be tall,handsome,fair and rich,own a house at least,and be presentable" and then she adds"god fearing"in order not to sound so worldly. Then check the number of men that meet that meet that standard,and you will see the problem. You often hear girls say "I cannot suffer in my father,s house and then go and start suffering with a man all over again". Oh..What a wonderful dream!!..What if from the beginning, you have everything you wanted and there is no suffering and later in the marriage,the table now turns around, then now comes the suffering?..will you now run away?..No one prays for such fate but its preferable to start small and end big,than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same, When 50 girls ant the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man and the man can only pick one. Then what becomes of the remaining 49 girls?. they simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity", Another irony of this time is that it is hard,due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who has all those attributes these ladies want,legally(except those involved in internet fraud),even the number of those in internet fraud is not enough to match those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects,are married and are not complaining of this husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him without a helpmate and then made the woman and gave to him and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. WOMEN are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS....DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY, Where he is today may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "Husband Scarcity", PICK UP the RIGHT VALUES. I'm not saying that you should pick any man that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What i am saying is that you girls should stop setting your standards on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical...WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF..and that which he is made up of is, most times not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing, whatever is seen is Temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. GOD DID NOT JUST MAKE EVE FOR MAKING SAKE, HE MADE HER FOR ADAM'S NEED TO BECOME COMPLETE AND FULFILLED....BE WISE...TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT. |
Celebrities / Re: Top 20 Most Followed Nigerian Celebrities On Social Media 2015(+followers) by gimmesome(m): 9:32pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
So 2go fans like me no follow?....#downloading version 3.7 with my Nokia Express Music# |
Music/Radio / Re: Throwback Test: How Many Of These Screenshots/Videos Do You Remember? by gimmesome(m): 5:40pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
1. ?? 2. Micheal Jackson...black or white 3. Boyz 2 Men...end of the road 4. R.kelly...I believe i can fly 5. Joe....I wanna know 6. Craig David...walking away 7. DMX......ruff rhyders anthem 8. 2 Pac....California love 9. 2Pac....do for love 10. Carlos Santana...Maria maria 11. Micheal Jackson...You rock my world 12. Sisqo...Thong song 13. Ja rule....Always on time 14. Ja rule...Down a** bi**ch 15. Nelly furtado 16. Ashanti...Bad 17. Brandy & Monica...Boy is mine 18. Shakira...Hips don't lie 19. P.Diddy...I need a girl (pt 1) 20. P.Diddy...I'l be missing you 21. Nelly....I love you 22. Shaggy..It wasn't me 23. Lil Bow Wow....Bow Wow Wow 24. TLC....No scrubs 25. 2pac...Brenda's got a baby 26. R.kelly...I wish (pt 1) 27. 50 Cent...In da club 28. Styl Plus....Call my name 29. P.square...Busy body 30. 2face....Fire 31. 2face....African Queen 32. Olu Maintain..Yahooze 33. Shakira....Whatever Wherever 34. Sean Kingston...Suicidal 35. Mario.....Let me love you 36. Akon...Lonely 37. Sean Paul...I'm still in love 38. R.kelly....Burning Up 39. P.square....Do me 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Why Guys Should Stop Complaining About Ladies Going After Readymade Men by gimmesome(m): 9:59am On Sep 24, 2015 |
Ana ekwugheri.....Op dis ur talk no follow at all |
Fashion / Re: Excessive Dependence On Makeup by gimmesome(m): 3:57pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
beauty lies in the eyes of the 'beerholder' |
Celebrities / Re: Ladies Are Rubbing Kcee's Backside On Stage (photos) by gimmesome(m): 10:45am On May 25, 2015 |
VictoriaBee:emmm....home n abroad prostitution nko...na nigerian guys still cause am?....truth is alomo |
Jokes Etc / Re: Caption This Photo by gimmesome(m): 9:26pm On May 07, 2015 |
''MOTI CAKES'' |
Romance / Re: Top 10 Lies Men Tell by gimmesome(m): 8:13am On Apr 27, 2015 |
But come to think of it....GIRLS PREFER DISHONEST GUYS TO THE HONEST GUYS....you can evn see som of them tell their friends....''he swept me of my feet n blew me away wt his lies'' or ''dat guy sabi lie oo''{still currently dating him oo} |
Crime / Re: Woman Dies After Mistakenly Taking Poisoned Soup Prepared For Cheating Husband by gimmesome(m): 1:24am On Apr 24, 2015 |
Ok oo
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Celebrities / Re: Wizkid's Girlfriend, Tania Omotayo Stuns In New Photos by gimmesome(m): 2:13pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Is dat d new 'Miss Ekpoto 2015' |
Celebrities / Re: Photo: Timaya Still Saving The Dreadlocks He Shaved Off 3 Years Ago by gimmesome(m): 7:07am On Apr 16, 2015 |
See wetin a full man get time dey do....dey snap hair dey luk d hair lyk say e no lyk d size of food n meat wey dey d plate wey madam Ulasi serve am for mama put |
Celebrities / Re: Nollywood Actress Maureen Cyril Speaks On Most Beautiful Model In Nigeria by gimmesome(m): 12:59pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Another bleached piece of p***y.... |
Celebrities / Re: Check Out Femi Otedola's Handsome Son (picture) by gimmesome(m): 4:43pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
pretydiva:.....u sure ure jst kidding? |
Phones / Re: If You Use Any Of These , Then You're Older Than Your Age.. by gimmesome(m): 9:54pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Lol,,,,,i still have d nokia 6210 till now....omo na beta swag ooo.....once it rings....all eyez on me...lol.. |
Romance / Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by gimmesome(m): 6:44pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
You just broke d ''Guy Code'' bro....real bros luk out 4 each other...if u dnt lyk d idea just allow him dis once n then tell him u wont allow such next time...dats more fair.....put urself in his shoes...how would u feel.....glad?? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by gimmesome(m): 12:26pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
freecocoa:.......glad u finally agreed |
Culture / Re: Is This What Happens At Nigerian Bridal Showers? by gimmesome(m): 2:45am On Jan 08, 2015 |
pickabeau1:.....lol...i dey telling u oooo....me i tire oo |
Romance / Re: Read Okey Bakassi’s Hilarious Message To Guys That Are Still Sampling Babes by gimmesome(m): 8:38pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Coming 4rm a guy dat sleeps wt upcoming actresses(male n female) actors in exchange 4 roles in naija local videos.......imagine!!!....wolves in sheep's clothings 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Re Almost All (97%) Of Ladies Into "Runs"? by gimmesome(m): 11:52pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
emmanuelogbe:.....i hope d ladies will love u 4 dis....protector of d feminine universe 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Seven Unfair Situations Guys Get Ladies Into. by gimmesome(m): 11:45pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
prettyjo:....lol....e show 4 ur long fingernails sef.....abeg oo |
Celebrities / Re: Photos: Fans Accuse Sean Tizzle Of Bleaching by gimmesome(m): 8:46pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Sean tizzler....dey bleach 'ur' skin dey go...make sure say u go white pass micheal jackson....if not..u still dey learn......#stranded# |
Fashion / Re: Optometrists Advise Women Against Indiscriminate Use Of Artificial Eyelashes by gimmesome(m): 9:33pm On Jan 02, 2015 |
lol...cnt believe dis chick....ar u suggesting we dnt cut our hairs again?....must u girls fix those stuffs....our mothers really looked during their days witout such artificial stuffs....i really dnt get ur point oo |
Fashion / Re: Optometrists Advise Women Against Indiscriminate Use Of Artificial Eyelashes by gimmesome(m): 9:27pm On Jan 02, 2015 |
Wendyslim:.....lol,,,,,u really said my mind.....i just cnt help laffin whn they blink their eyes wit dose long tolotolo feathers they fix 1 Like |
Religion / Re: T.B. Joshua 2015 PROPHECIES by gimmesome(m): 8:51pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
boman2014:....some people still carry dis their mumu behaviour enter 2015...weda fake or real....leave him alone...nobody is perfect |
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:45pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
ivyy:...lol...i know u won't 1 Like |
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:40pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
MizEmpress:...see what?....more of those k-leg poses u mean? |
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:39pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
Atk01:....eeyaaah....u pissed? |
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:38pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
pretydiva:....u sure ure nt posing lyk dat as ure typing this |
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:36pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
loifez:...lol..why should we let u girls be...i mean look at their legs |
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:20pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
nekaa:....so what do u have 2 say? |
Agriculture / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Threaten Abia Villagers Over Missing Cows by gimmesome(m): 11:28pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Collynzo22:,,,,bros no mind am....effects of free orijin |
Agriculture / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Threaten Abia Villagers Over Missing Cows by gimmesome(m): 9:57am On Dec 30, 2014 |
Forwetinnah:...aba boys wey dey browse for trouble...dnt worry..dose fulanis go smell nwiiii |
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