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Nairaland / General / Husband Scarcity!!!...A Must Read For Women. by gimmesome(m): 3:43pm On Oct 16, 2015
This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations,but i can no longer resist the push.
''Husband Scarcity" has become one of the major challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses,majority of their intentions are prayer points for a life partner. And this calls for a great concern,casting our minds back to the times of our others and grandmothers,was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity"problem?,Or maybe there were more women then,or there was adequate corresponding numbers of both genders...i don't think so.
Maybe then,the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not pack into a built home. Then,once a young man comes of age and at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman in return really appreciates him and then assists him fully to build a future...What am i trying to say?.
Women created what they now see as "Husband Scarcity" for themselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get answers like "he has to be tall,handsome,fair and rich,own a house at least,and be presentable" and then she adds"god fearing"in order not to sound so worldly. Then check the number of men that meet that meet that standard,and you will see the problem. You often hear girls say "I cannot suffer in my father,s house and then go and start suffering with a man all over again".
Oh..What a wonderful dream!!..What if from the beginning, you have everything you wanted and there is no suffering and later in the marriage,the table now turns around, then now comes the suffering?..will you now run away?..No one prays for such fate but its preferable to start small and end big,than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same, When 50 girls ant the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man and the man can only pick one. Then what becomes of the remaining 49 girls?. they simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity", Another irony of this time is that it is hard,due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who has all those attributes these ladies want,legally(except those involved in internet fraud),even the number of those in internet fraud is not enough to match those searching for already made husbands.
If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects,are married and are not complaining of this husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now is to change your view of who a husband is.
A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him without a helpmate and then made the woman and gave to him and he felt complete and fulfilled.
MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. WOMEN are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS....DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY, Where he is today may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow.
Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "Husband Scarcity", PICK UP the RIGHT VALUES. I'm not saying that you should pick any man that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What i am saying is that you girls should stop setting your standards on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical...WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF..and that which he is made up of is, most times not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing, whatever is seen is Temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer.
GOD DID NOT JUST MAKE EVE FOR MAKING SAKE, HE MADE HER FOR ADAM'S NEED TO BECOME COMPLETE AND FULFILLED....BE WISE...TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT.

Celebrities / Re: Top 20 Most Followed Nigerian Celebrities On Social Media 2015(+followers) by gimmesome(m): 9:32pm On Oct 15, 2015
So 2go fans like me no follow?....#downloading version 3.7 with my Nokia Express Music#
Music/Radio / Re: Throwback Test: How Many Of These Screenshots/Videos Do You Remember? by gimmesome(m): 5:40pm On Oct 02, 2015
1. ??
2. Micheal Jackson...black or white
3. Boyz 2 Men...end of the road
4. R.kelly...I believe i can fly
5. Joe....I wanna know
6. Craig David...walking away
7. DMX......ruff rhyders anthem
8. 2 Pac....California love
9. 2Pac....do for love
10. Carlos Santana...Maria maria
11. Micheal Jackson...You rock my world
12. Sisqo...Thong song
13. Ja rule....Always on time
14. Ja rule...Down a** bi**ch
15. Nelly furtado
16. Ashanti...Bad
17. Brandy & Monica...Boy is mine
18. Shakira...Hips don't lie
19. P.Diddy...I need a girl (pt 1)
20. P.Diddy...I'l be missing you
21. Nelly....I love you
22. Shaggy..It wasn't me
23. Lil Bow Wow....Bow Wow Wow
24. TLC....No scrubs
25. 2pac...Brenda's got a baby
26. R.kelly...I wish (pt 1)
27. 50 Cent...In da club
28. Styl Plus....Call my name
29. P.square...Busy body
30. 2face....Fire
31. 2face....African Queen
32. Olu Maintain..Yahooze
33. Shakira....Whatever Wherever
34. Sean Kingston...Suicidal
35. Mario.....Let me love you
36. Akon...Lonely
37. Sean Paul...I'm still in love
38. R.kelly....Burning Up
39. P.square....Do me

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Romance / Re: Why Guys Should Stop Complaining About Ladies Going After Readymade Men by gimmesome(m): 9:59am On Sep 24, 2015
Ana ekwugheri.....Op dis ur talk no follow at all
Fashion / Re: Excessive Dependence On Makeup by gimmesome(m): 3:57pm On Sep 11, 2015
beauty lies in the eyes of the 'beerholder'
Celebrities / Re: Ladies Are Rubbing Kcee's Backside On Stage (photos) by gimmesome(m): 10:45am On May 25, 2015
VictoriaBee:
undecided Good for them. No one has the right to criticize them.


You are such a bitter soul, your likers inclusive.
"We" women are not the cause of your frustration.
Purge your viles off and i'm sure you are darn ugly.

Nigerian guys and their stvpidity don't deserve decent women like us.
We are too blessed to be cursed.
You all should be thanking God that we are managing you.

Shame on you! We are not the cause of your predicaments that it's you all foolish idiiotic Nigerian male gender that's disgracing us globally e.g robbing, stealing, scamming etc

#TeamforeignGuys undecided
emmm....home n abroad prostitution nko...na nigerian guys still cause am?....truth is alomo
Jokes Etc / Re: Caption This Photo by gimmesome(m): 9:26pm On May 07, 2015
''MOTI CAKES''
Romance / Re: Top 10 Lies Men Tell by gimmesome(m): 8:13am On Apr 27, 2015
But come to think of it....GIRLS PREFER DISHONEST GUYS TO THE HONEST GUYS....you can evn see som of them tell their friends....''he swept me of my feet n blew me away wt his lies'' or ''dat guy sabi lie oo''{still currently dating him oo}
Crime / Re: Woman Dies After Mistakenly Taking Poisoned Soup Prepared For Cheating Husband by gimmesome(m): 1:24am On Apr 24, 2015
Ok oo

Celebrities / Re: Wizkid's Girlfriend, Tania Omotayo Stuns In New Photos by gimmesome(m): 2:13pm On Apr 22, 2015
Is dat d new 'Miss Ekpoto 2015'
Celebrities / Re: Photo: Timaya Still Saving The Dreadlocks He Shaved Off 3 Years Ago by gimmesome(m): 7:07am On Apr 16, 2015
See wetin a full man get time dey do....dey snap hair dey luk d hair lyk say e no lyk d size of food n meat wey dey d plate wey madam Ulasi serve am for mama put
Celebrities / Re: Nollywood Actress Maureen Cyril Speaks On Most Beautiful Model In Nigeria by gimmesome(m): 12:59pm On Apr 14, 2015
Another bleached piece of p***y....
Celebrities / Re: Check Out Femi Otedola's Handsome Son (picture) by gimmesome(m): 4:43pm On Jan 27, 2015
pretydiva:
He's cute. I need his no asap. grin..jst kidding
.....u sure ure jst kidding?
Phones / Re: If You Use Any Of These , Then You're Older Than Your Age.. by gimmesome(m): 9:54pm On Jan 25, 2015
Lol,,,,,i still have d nokia 6210 till now....omo na beta swag ooo.....once it rings....all eyez on me...lol..
Romance / Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by gimmesome(m): 6:44pm On Jan 16, 2015
You just broke d ''Guy Code'' bro....real bros luk out 4 each other...if u dnt lyk d idea just allow him dis once n then tell him u wont allow such next time...dats more fair.....put urself in his shoes...how would u feel.....glad??

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Family / Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by gimmesome(m): 12:26pm On Jan 16, 2015
freecocoa:
Oh! Okay.

I do agree that cheating isn't a mistake.
.......glad u finally agreed
Culture / Re: Is This What Happens At Nigerian Bridal Showers? by gimmesome(m): 2:45am On Jan 08, 2015
pickabeau1:
funny post...

wehave inculcated too many western traditions and despised our own

nowadays pry schoools even celeb halloween n vals

.....lol...i dey telling u oooo....me i tire oo
Romance / Re: Read Okey Bakassi’s Hilarious Message To Guys That Are Still Sampling Babes by gimmesome(m): 8:38pm On Jan 07, 2015
Coming 4rm a guy dat sleeps wt upcoming actresses(male n female) actors in exchange 4 roles in naija local videos.......imagine!!!....wolves in sheep's clothings

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Romance / Re: Why Re Almost All (97%) Of Ladies Into "Runs"? by gimmesome(m): 11:52pm On Jan 04, 2015
emmanuelogbe:
Gosh! Ladies again? Wetin they do una? Could you guys pls let them be for once. Why not talk about guys who are into cultism, robbery, rape and other vices? Na only ladies una eyes dey see?
Haba!
.....i hope d ladies will love u 4 dis....protector of d feminine universe

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Romance / Re: Seven Unfair Situations Guys Get Ladies Into. by gimmesome(m): 11:45pm On Jan 04, 2015
prettyjo:
any guy that tries no.1 with me its as good as dead.

....lol....e show 4 ur long fingernails sef.....abeg oo
Celebrities / Re: Photos: Fans Accuse Sean Tizzle Of Bleaching by gimmesome(m): 8:46pm On Jan 04, 2015
Sean tizzler....dey bleach 'ur' skin dey go...make sure say u go white pass micheal jackson....if not..u still dey learn......#stranded#
Fashion / Re: Optometrists Advise Women Against Indiscriminate Use Of Artificial Eyelashes by gimmesome(m): 9:33pm On Jan 02, 2015
lol...cnt believe dis chick....ar u suggesting we dnt cut our hairs again?....must u girls fix those stuffs....our mothers really looked during their days witout such artificial stuffs....i really dnt get ur point oo
Fashion / Re: Optometrists Advise Women Against Indiscriminate Use Of Artificial Eyelashes by gimmesome(m): 9:27pm On Jan 02, 2015
Wendyslim:
It makes dem look like a dull baby. Dir is nothing like bin natural jare
.....lol,,,,,u really said my mind.....i just cnt help laffin whn they blink their eyes wit dose long tolotolo feathers they fix

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Religion / Re: T.B. Joshua 2015 PROPHECIES by gimmesome(m): 8:51pm On Jan 01, 2015
boman2014:
Please prophecy who will win 2015 election. Metchewww...

At this age and tyme, people still believe in religion ? SMH...
....some people still carry dis their mumu behaviour enter 2015...weda fake or real....leave him alone...nobody is perfect
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:45pm On Jan 01, 2015
ivyy:
can't c anything wrong with the pose angry
...lol...i know u won't

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Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:40pm On Jan 01, 2015
MizEmpress:
cheesy cheesy Hmmmm we'll see..
...see what?....more of those k-leg poses u mean?
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:39pm On Jan 01, 2015
Atk01:
We don hear. tongue
....eeyaaah....u pissed?
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:38pm On Jan 01, 2015
pretydiva:
He dat ve ears let him ear
....u sure ure nt posing lyk dat as ure typing this
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:36pm On Jan 01, 2015
loifez:
Guys, instead of washing the ladies, create your own style and let us be wink
...lol..why should we let u girls be...i mean look at their legs
Jokes Etc / Re: One Thing Every Lady Must Stop In 2015 by gimmesome(m): 8:20pm On Jan 01, 2015
nekaa:
Lol... didn't see that one coming
....so what do u have 2 say?
Agriculture / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Threaten Abia Villagers Over Missing Cows by gimmesome(m): 11:28pm On Dec 30, 2014
Collynzo22:

When did you conduct your census that gave you those figures?
Besides, what exactly do you want? One minute you are castigating Igbo males for not being at home to defend their people, when presented with facts and evidence that there are more than enough able bodied youths to do just that, you come up with your message of non-violence.
Are you a confused nitwit or what?
,,,,bros no mind am....effects of free orijin
Agriculture / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Threaten Abia Villagers Over Missing Cows by gimmesome(m): 9:57am On Dec 30, 2014
Forwetinnah:
I dey laff...Abia of all places naim these mallams dey go show power?? That the report stated the Locals are scared doesn't mean that would be the case if poo hits the fan...make yanga leave trouble to sleep o. The fulanis can't keep killing the Igbos up North and think they can try the same thing down South. We don't want Hausa people flooding Rivers State for protection o!!
...aba boys wey dey browse for trouble...dnt worry..dose fulanis go smell nwiiii

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