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I tried at 1am, the process started and alond the line it wrote "session timed out" and that was all. The next min I was to try against, it has started the "daily limit again. In less than 5mins ooo


Did anybody GH and was lucky today?

Awwwww and I just cancelled my order now. Wud wait till tomato again and see if I can GH.

I was not rematched so I have cancelled the order, waiting for the 30days expiration while my mavro continues to grow.

Hoping all things works out well!

fifty:
Good morning all,

I also confirm to recieving payment last night from a participant that ought to have paid since last week.

This is a good sign. Let's keep Tue spirit up.

Marvrodi is a real genius for helping u save that money u would have blown unnecessarily this Christmas

The participant was cancelled but still showing "your request has been received, wait patiently while the system match you with another participant"

So what do you advise me that I do!

Godtaye:
just been paid now...the spirit is still there..
mmm coming stronger
together we change the world

Lucky you, congrats.
Mine switched off fones and others cancelled their orders

Godtaye:
you not been rematched

Do you mean I will not be rematched?

Good morning guys. I was matched for payment since last week thurs but the persons to Ph refused paying me and their time elapsed this early morning. Will I be rematched or have to wait till 12th of Jan before I can GH. I need this clarification so I can know wether to cancel the order or not so it can keep growing.

adesbreath:
I don't know how to create a new handle... Pls can someone put me through.

Simply open a new email address, then click on join nairaland, register with the new handle u ve got in mind with the new email adress since notification wud be sent to the email adrex. Then you are good to go.
Hope I was able to help

Hmmmm seriously learning, my 80L note is almost filled, pls who will give me biro and new note cos I must write every details down . I must be better than my teachers ooooooo#keep it up sis#

@floodgater
I got it Sis

Food for thought!

WE WILL NEVER SERVE YOUR GOD (A Must Read
For Every Pastor & Parents)
At her father's funeral the pastor's daughter (who
was a prostitute) watched and listened as church
members described all wonderful deeds done by
the pastor of 10,000 capacity church and
worldwide television ministry.
They spoke about his care, love, generosity,
miracles, signs and wonders and tenderness when
he was alive.
But after the funeral the daughter of the late pastor
asked her siblings and her mother - who was that
man those people were talking about at the funeral
- is he the same man that raised us?
They must be telling lies. All the children including
Jack (a drug addict) agreed that they were telling
lies.
But their mother said they were not telling lies,
YOUR FATHER WAS A GOOD PASTOR, BUT A BAD
HUSBAND AND BAD FATHER,
HE GROOMED AND GREW THE CHURCH BUT LEFT
HIS FAMILY GROANING.
FIRE WAS IN HIS BONE TO WORK FOR GOD, BUT
LOVE, AFFECTION AND INTIMACY WAS NEVER IN
HIS MIND FOR HIS FAMILY,
I WAS HIS WIFE, CHURCH WAS HIS MISTRESS, HE
LOVED THE MISTRESS AND ABANDONED HIS WIFE,
HE WON THE CHURCH BUT LOST HIS FAMILY,
WHAT A SHAME!
The children later wrote and placed on his tomb:
DAD, YOU PASTORED AND NURTURED THEM BUT
ABANDONED US,
DAD, YOU DID A LOT OF REVIVAL PROGRAMS BUT
YOUR FAMILY IS NEVER REVIVED,
DAD, YOU COUNSELED THEM, BUT WE LIVED
WITHOUT COUNSEL,
DAD, YOU WERE A SHEPHERD BUT WE LIVED
WITHOUT A PASTURE, YOU SHOWED THEM LOVE,
BUT WE LIVED IN THE DESERT OF AFFECTION.
DAD, YOU WERE A SUCCESSFUL PASTOR,
COUNSELOR, BUT A TOTAL FAILURE AS A
HUSBAND AND FATHER.
DAD, WE HARDLY KNOW THAT YOU ARE DEAD,
BECAUSE YOU WERE NEVER THERE FOR US.
THIS ONE THING WE PROMISE YOU, WE WILL
NEVER SERVE YOUR GOD.
(Share it until it gets to every pastor and Churchleader, many pastors families are hurting, pleasesave one).
We all need to ask for help from our Maker. Wehave a lot to do as fathers and mothers especiallyleaders in the House of God.
You Will Not Fail In Marriage In Jesus Name!

God's grace on you bro.
Its my earnest prayer for all single on this thread, none shall miss it as it regards choosing the right partner. (Amen)

GoldenDr:
Marriage requires a lot. I am ready for it but you just keep coming across some.... Words would fail me.

@fxbot, chinum, iwatch, goldendr et al.,
i feel you guys pain really but the truth is that so many things is wrong in our world of today and thats why all we see re happening. its happening both in the male and female fols as such no known statistics to ascertain which group is suffering more. you can only hear of it when it happens to people around you or you urselves.

that being said, should we stop being males or females? definately no. life continues. if it happens to you, get up dust ursef and learn from it and be a wiser person. i cant wait to wake up to a world where everybody in it is morally disciplined. only a fool and one who does not understand the meaning of love cheats. so, no point castigating one folk over the other.

just pray God grant you your own partner who wuold love, cherish and care for you against all odds.

some guys are bad while some females are terible, whereas we still ve sweet, nice and responsible guys and babes out there. set your prioriies right, watch well, dont be desperate, dont just get married etc and all will be just fine!

shallom.

@motherskeeper
Am proud of you gal. That's a laudable move you made there. Believe me other things woud fall in place, just keep being focus. Don't even bother venturing into any rship now, until you ve cleared ur head of the mess @ hand.

I see you being a better, stronger & wiser babe!
Kudos dearie. Remember that there are a thousand and one nice and great guys out there.
Set ur priorities right NOW!

More grace!

True or false?

Sex.
Children.
Money.
Companionship.
Reasons why people get married.
In that list, the most important for me is companionship.
Someone I can really talk to.
Someone who gets me. Someone who I can journey with into old age.
It's not about crazy sex.
Sex doesn't guarantee anything
It's not about children and definitely NOT money.
That is for lazy women who are leeches.
Children, any sperm donor can give me that or I can just easily adopt.
My most important craving in a relationship is companionship.
Remove that from the mix and I'll get frustrated.

@GoldenDr
Hahahhahaahhahahahaha, Better be fast, introduce her to all your ancestors oooo before Bill gate or Otedola, Alinko Dangote etc collect her from you to avoid another scene of the "beauty & the beast" as we witnessed this past weekend.

On a serious note, Desperation is not the key my fellow ladies. The Society, Church, parents etc pls give us some space too, the pressure on single ladies is too much. If you re past 25yrs and still single, they start disturbing your life cycle. We ve got a lot to achieve while still single abeg. Marriage is not the ultimate goal for a lady, not even in this 21st century.

There is god ooooooo!

@MyMotherskeeper:
Its so unfortunate that this is happening to you but in all honesty, its the guy's loss. I detest it when guys treat babes badly in such manner, forgetting that karma is real and they ve relatives that re ladies.

This attitude of this uncircumsized phillistines should not deter you from trusting men but rather make you wiser and deal carefully with men, cos we ve got lots of better & great guys out there.

Ladies, I beg of you stop giving so much to guys you are not married to, to avoid this huge lost when things turn sour.
We deserve the best of all things in life. Being desperate Has never helped anybody.
I have made mine mistakes in the past and Devil himsef will slap me real hard if I try it again in my life.

If you can get ur cash, quietly get it and ditch him before he ditch you, @ least thank God you saw that message on time, so act on it wisely and smartly( one of the advantages of checking your mate's phone).
May God guide you!

@Iwatch;
Shebi you no wan leave this babe alon no allow her guy corner you ooooo.

You don't need all these u wanna embark on. It would seem as if you re trying to buy her over. The best gift I feel you can gift her is to set her loose, let her concentrate on her new rship while you invest your energy into sometin else. If she then return back to you without the influence of your gifts and attentions, then you re good to go and if not, guy chillax and move on.

My 2cents!

[color=#000099][/color]Happy Birthday to the King of Hotstepper's hrt. May God bless and keep you bro.
May He fill ur life with Joy and all the goodies of life. Bigger, brighter and BeTter you always. Llnp

@Hotstepper
Yipppeyyyyyyyyyyy, I did not miss dis one. Keep being you.

@floodgater
Yes I just did!

Muuuuaaaahhhhhhh!

@Hotstepper;
I am encouraged with your story. Would share my beautiful story soonest.
Your Angel is beautiful and from all indications she took after you in that department.

God bless your home dear.

@bukatyne & Cococandy, welcome back to the thread.
Expecting to read from @Efe & jennykandry.

moca:
heavyg and ttymyluv, u r not smart.
Before abraham,jesus was.

Hahahaahhahahahahahahaha. That awkard moment where u were busted. I feel same as you sis.

Waoh what a coincidence @ttymyluv & @heavyg. Or are you guys reffereing to the same person?

I think both patners needs the help of a sex therapist and if you can't acess one. Why not try and be patient with each other and remove this aura of fear around you guys.

The guy should give room for more of pre-intimacy, while d babe is readily open to receive this intimacies. Remove whatever notion(wrong) you ve heard/seen abt sex in the past from your head @ d moment, after all you guys are married now. Start seeing the good aspect of sex in marriage and desire them. This is no sin now so enjoy it. The pain is there cos she is not adequately stimulated.

And for the guys in this picture, I learnt something long ago, that is anytime the clarion call for love making arises, your motive should be to satisfy your spouse and not majorly your own enjoyment, by so doing, you would be patient with her and be ready to do all that will make her happy and by so doing, she would respond in the positive and in turn satisfy you and everybody will be happy.

Its a gradual process, don't expect a swift result. Read books too if you can.

I hope I was able to help a bit. All the bes

@Haryobaami:
I so love the way that man was dealt with. Such men cnt Lift their fingers against their match, its only vulnurable women they flex muscle on. I hate the sight of a man beating a woman or any level of abuse @ all. I wish we can ve people standing for these weak women, then the men would ve learnt their lessons.

Women abeg speak out when your life is being threatened and not die in silence (me and my husband alone, no family).

Let my dad catch that uncircumsized philistine who would lay a finger on me cos I did one wrong or the other, if sorry won't be his case.

@moca, welcome back, I can see the spirit has blown you this way. I dey feel you.

@madampinkolo, more grace. You spill it out the way it should be.

God bless our homes.

@Floodgater
Make I no hear say u dey go on break ooooo so that what Happened in 1850 don't repeat itsef on this thread #winks#

U re a Sis we can always reckon with (to whom shaLl we go........). I sent an update to u

@BabyOsisi
U allowed Moca to go on sabbatical leave, pls call her back, its enough na. We can not do without you Mamas in the house. Pls don't join them in this break things ooooo

SexyNne:
I think @ this point in time, you don't need to keep quiet and die in silence.
I love my privacy and don't love 3rd party in my rship but not when my life is in danger.
Since the mom can talk to him, why not let her know what's happening (this is not the first time he is doing it). Don't allow him hit bf u wud term it abuse oooo. Your life is important to you and ur family (u were a daughter bf being a wife)


I pray things work out well speedily in your favour (amen)

@Sexynne: Emotional and verbal abuse is worst than physical abuse in my opininon, cos it makes one think less of him/hersef leading to low self esteem.

I hope you find help and a lasting solution soonest. Its well with you

[quote author=omowumi19 post=33277327]Babe first thing first, remove the notion that you won't see someone like your ex again. There are other 1001 guys out there and they re wonderful in their own unique way. So Chill, that he left is cos he's not the best for you.

Now is not the time for rebound rship all because you want someone like your ex. Babe, take your time, analyse your self and your prospective hubby to be. You don't need just any Tom, Dick & Harry for a rship. Look inwardly, be happy, don't go about looking for who to love you.

As for that guy, I cnt say its love or not for asking for sex but his actions afterwards says so much. Meaning, he does not want you for who you are but for sex, that's not too good. If I may say, pls stop calling him, if he is serious and needs you badly, he would come look for you. You are not desperate for a rship so don't allow any uncircumsized phillistine use you shine for broad day light.

Go out and engage in activities that makes you happy & brings out the best in you. Soonest dearie, true love will find you.

babyosisi:
Good girl
Never ever fall for that 419 scam

Aunty BabyOsisi, no be small thing oooooooo. I can never fall for such scam in my life again by God's grace, not after all ve read here, on other threads and life experience. When dem babalawo no dey dance palango+etighi+azonto+shoki on top my destiny.
Will heaven fall if a guy too spend for me like ve done in the past?

PearlO:
U re funny my dear. Some guys can be so annoying at times. Am not married to you and you wanna rule my life, hmmmmm that one go hard

My ex once told me to go make some withdrwals from a certain investment so that he can use it for his house rents. I refused ooo cos you can't tell me to do such when ve got bigger prohects in view. The matter was big, anything he talks about support, he always make mention of that scenerio. I would just laugh. The once I borrowed and gave out willingly, till this seconds, he has not paid back.

That's called good radiance to bad rubbisish. Let him go find his match and see how it goes. Congrats dearie for that massive deliverance and freedom.

@floodgater;
Am pretty good Sis. How re you and all yours?
Keeping on as earlier discussed.