Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.
We married 9years ago. She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too. Though we were not in the same state. She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage. But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex. She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.
I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail. If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it. And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.
I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.
I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.
Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.
This has affected my psyche towards her. But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.
So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.
Since today, our relationship has dwindled.
Alot of things have been going through my mind.
I don't know what to do. Am confused. I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.
Pls is there any known solution?
I need help.
I envy you frankly, I wish I have this kind of wive. Sex is over rated, it is not worth skinning a man for. This problem will fizzle out by itself as you age and your libido falls. Don't destroy your family over what will pass off with time.
ayomilore: Bro. Don't spoil your marriage because of what you can fix. I heard there are some recipes that improve libido, try it, you can watch some adult films together too, try serious romance prior to your lovemaking, I believe there should be improvement... But your wife will be good for all these abroad hustlers ooo that are scared of all these local predators..
ayomilore: Bro. Don't spoil your marriage because of what you can fix. I heard there are some recipes that improve libido, try it, you can watch some adult films together too, try serious romance prior to your lovemaking, I believe there should be improvement... But your wife will be good for all these abroad hustlers ooo that are scared of all these local predators..
Adult movies is a no go area, it will utterly ruin your marriage. Don't try it!
Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.
We married 9years ago. She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too. Though we were not in the same state. She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage. But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex. She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.
I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail. If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it. And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.
I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.
I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.
Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.
This has affected my psyche towards her. But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.
So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.
Since today, our relationship has dwindled.
Alot of things have been going through my mind.
I don't know what to do. Am confused. I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.
Pls is there any known solution?
I need help.
If I were you, I will make the most of it. Like it or not, not every woman is sexy. If she doesn't deny you your conjugal rights, if she doesn't cheat, if she is not frigid or complain about your poor performance, why should you bother when she is not complaining. Satisfy yourself and let life go on. Sex is even over rated. I consider you lucky. Many homes are in crises today over wives complaining of husbands not satisfying them forcing many men into taking sex enhancement drugs.
SeraphEl: I have been watching your posts for some weeks. This I have observed and I have this to say to you from the Spirit of the Lord:
1. Your "Ministry" is motivated by and induces "fear". There's no LOVE emanating from your posts. According to scriptures, you are a nuisance AND God is not in fear. 1 Cor 13:1, 1 Tim 1:7.
2. It is originating from wrong and "deceptive" theology. That is: The Escaping or "rapture of church" before "all hell breaks loose". If that "hell" is the persecution (great tribulation), you are 100% wrong. Matt 24: 29-30, 2 Thess. 2 is clear the Church will be here to witness "all hell" of antichrist breaking loose.
3. You must spend a great deal of time carousing the internet looking for "bad news and terror". I have to wonder when you find the time for God in prayer and reading scriptures or evangelizing. Instead, most of your time is spent online so you terrorize people into thinking you are doing "God's work". SIR, you are not. And God is not impressed by your fearmongering messages. Change your method.
In summary: You terrorize people up with your fear based messages. Then you proceed to give them "false" hope of "escape" instead of building them up on how to "stand strong" thru the coming "hell".
What YOU fail to realize is that YOU, yourself, will end up being a victim of the antichrist when it shows up and you are still here. That's after all your terrorizing people with your posts, you end up hearing "depart from me for I knew you not...." Matt 7:21-23.
I have more confidence in what righteousness is posting. You seem to be the one trying to mislead people with heretical believes. Didn't the bible speak of perilious times? Repent!
Madmohamed1: Please somebody should tell Fulani terrorist that their commander buhari will not stay in power forever. They should know that terrorist command buhari have only two years to go.
Then we will meet them face to face every land occupy by terrorist in Biafra land will be recovered
If you refuse to leave the land we will use your blood for sacrificed to our god's
Which two years, are you crazy? who will endure this torment for two more years, God will deliver us from Buhari's hand very soon. PS: I don't subscribe to "your god stuff"
TarOrfeeek: If fornication and infidelity are the prerequisites for becoming a celebrity.
Little wonder why among that circle there is a lot of divorce, marital spats and paternity fraud.
To whom less is given, nothing is expected.
Very shameful and despeakable. Adulterers cheered by a depraved crowd. Woe unto them that call good evil and good evil. Woe also to the powers that be that ought to use their God-given office to stop this evil but permit it. Woe unto the organizers who promote immortality, adultery and fake marriages all in a pursuit of monetary gains. Woe to the watchmen and pastors who fail to lift up their voice to cry against this evil but only emphasize tithing. Evil prospers when good people say or do nothing. God help them to repent and avoid the Vengeance of eternal fire.
MedaRophe: 10 Months after - Don-Davis Archibong has grown so big and refreshed.
Did follow the story of Mrs Deborah Okezie, the Mother of Don Davis, a student in Deeper Life School. Her mother cried out to the world last year, alleging that her son was sexually assaulted and molested in the Deeper life school. Mrs Deborah Okezie claims sparked rage among the populace and it went viral on social media. So many people didn't know how that case later ended.
Yesterday, Don-Davis celebrated his 12th years birthday. You can't believe how big and refreshed he has become.
[quote][/quote]It baffles me when people just think everyone has a dark past. Aside even Christianity, there are still people out there with decent upbringing and self discipline. So that thinking that you can't find a soul mate without a dark past is annoying. The gentleman in question should pray let God guide him aright. That lady has a lot to deal with concerning her past. If he feels God wants them to marry let them pray hard and conduct deliverance on that lady. She really has a criminal history.
lwisee: My first SUV is Toyota Highlander '05,I can't really say I enjoyed driving this vehicle. It came with a 13 pin gear and anytime I change the shaft the gear has to be reprogramed. The gear started having issue to the extent that my mechanic advised me to change the gear box to a 10 pin.
I really want Nairalanders to suggest the brand of a mid range SUV that doesn't give much issue.
You beat your dad and ran here to testify expecting us to clap for you? Two wrongs don't make a right. If your mother was smart she should have called you to order and not allowed you go overboard.
Panjshir Valley under the Northern Alliance forces has been holding the fort against the terrorists and has seen a strong resistance led by Saleh & Massoud
As the Northern Alliance continues to fight the Taliban fiercely in the Panjshir valley and nearby areas, the Ahmad Massoud and Amrullah Saleh-led army on Wednesday claimed to have eliminated over 300 terrorists while 130 others have been captured. The army also claims to have captured defense equipment which includes over a thousand guns, including dozens of heavy weapons from the terrorist group, during their fight in Shatel, Jabal Siraj Tappeh Sork, Saland, and Andarab districts.
Northern Alliance claims to have killed 300, seizes defence equipment Ahmad Massoud and Amrullah Saleh's army claims to have killed 200 in Shatel district while 20 and 24 terrorists have been eliminated in Jabal Siraj Tappeh Sork and Saland districts respectively. In the nearby Andarab province, the army claims to have killed over 70 terrorists of the Taliban.
From the terrorists, the army claims to have seized defense equipment, which include 15 Humvees, 1000 Kalashnikov rifles, 15 Pike bases, 15 RPJ rocket launchers, and a large amount of Kalashnikov, Pike and rocket-propelled grenades.
A member of the resistance force, in a video shared with Republic Media Network, confirmed the defeat of the Taliban terrorists. Narrating his own experience, the member of Ahmad Massoud, and Amrullah Saleh's army says, "The Taliban terrorists came here in a trench, and four of them attacked me. I called on them to fight one by one, and during the fight I killed them."
Soon after, the Northern Alliance also shared some disturbing images of the dead terrorists, lying on the ground blood-soaked, as a proof of their victory in the various parts of Panjshiw.
paxonel: it still do not mean that heaven is elsewhere away from this earth or heaven is not right in the spirit of a believer.
Do you know that when you die life doesn't end there for you, hence the scripture if only in this life we have hope in Christ we are of all men most miserable?
Our hope in Christ is that when we die we will continue to live on this earth after that moment, not we taken away from this earth.
So heaven is here with us here on this earth, Heaven is right inside us in the spirit and no where else
princemillla: God bless you my brother. U understand the happening! I just can’t figure out why people kept on blaming Biden as if he was the initiator of the deal.
His fellow Americans who know him better are blaming him and you a very distant observer is here saying what you don't know. Biden is America's Buhari
FreedomArmy: how can you possibly be In the force and make such revelations? The military is bound by oath to be subordinate to their superiors unless you want to be court marshaled.
which nonsense oath, can court Marshall be worst than what is happening now.
tensazangetsu20: After Obasanjo left, people said he will be the last worst president. After Jonathan left, people said he will be the last worst president lol . Buhari is not the worst. There are more than 50 people currently in high political positions hundred times more demonic than Buhari who have a chance of becoming president. In fact Buhari will look like a saint compared to these people.
Alioune: Mark my words, if the 2023 presidency goes into the hands of a LEFT-LEANING, Secularist Southern Nigerian, our country will go to the dogs.
The propaganda against this current administration is nothing but the work of the Zio-borgs & their westernized Nigerian agents of confusion. They are using this "herdsmen" crisis as a tool to attack the Moslems of Nigeria, sacrifice the TRUE Christians, and turn the whole of Nigeria into a degenarate macro version of Lagos.
Muslims & true Christians of Nigeria, you worship the same Creator of the Universe. Put your differences to the side and prevent your country from the wicked elements being used to destroy it.
Do not let any MAN, whether from North or South, who is not a believer and a stalwart for maintaining African traditional values sit at Aso Rock.
Yes but everyone with a right working brain ought to be suspicious of this government going by what is happening. I have only one prayer: If buhari has a good plan and all people are insinuating are lies against him, may the Almighty bless, protect and prosper his regime. If however buhari has a hidden evil agenda against us, may he and his friends drink of their own medicine. May the fire they are lighting devour them.
I reject this negative prediction, buhari will remain the worst, he is the lowest point. As a matter of fact he may be our last president but if God so will that Nigeria continues, she will recover and not get worse. Buhari is a curse. When he leaves the curse goes with him.
[quote author= post=105130468].....and we pray the WAR you seek so much for everyday won't start on your head or abode. We sincerely pray for you and your ilks!
Peace out! ✌
Don't mind the kid! If he was alive during the Civil or world War, he won't be typing such rubbish. Most of us @MANNA still remembered how it all went down those perilous years. May we never witness WAR again in our lifetime.
Ija Ore......[/quote]You are missing the point, he was quoting a popular historical figure. It is a proven principle. There are people who hate peace and the only way to deter them from bringing war is to be prepared for war. Your adequate preparation is only what scares off warmongers
20 years ago, US sent Americans to Afghanistan for their own protection, thousands of Americans died, thousands more physical wounded, hundreds of thousands mentally traumatized, 1 trillion wasted in war expenses without any significant results or benefits to American taxpayers or Christian world
Joe Biden made it crystal clear, 20 years ago some American parents might have been sent to a pointless American mission in Afghanistan, in 2021 he is not willing to send more of the war veterans kids again to witness pointless war their parents witnessed
If you wish to join the Fight as a righteous Christian to defend Afghan Shi'ite, Sunni Muslim or orthodox Catholic, take a flight to Kabul
Joe Biden as a Father watched his son fight as a US Army Major from 2002 to 2015 in the Middle east till he died... That's personal sacrifice of a father
Its is Pakistanis, it is Palestinians that where formally called Philistines. Gaza was the Philistines town where biblical Samson went to meet a harlot.
Nigeria has just acquired some fighter jets and new weapons which have been lut into operation, there seem to be political will this time to fight the terrorist hence them surrendering..
When the government has not been proactive, you people have been condemning, now they are taking the war to the miscreants, it's another twisted story.
Even a Soldier in Bama who is a NL confirmed how they have been hitting hard on the terrorists
the question is why now. You mean to tell me 6 super tucanos are doing the magic? Believe them if you want to. Why the sudden political will now
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Kumuyi: If Your Wife Is Not Beautiful, Its Your Fault by godliman: 1:12pm On Sep 10, 2021
