₦airaland Forum

El rufai your cup will soon be full like oshomole, rochas and sanusi. I see you going into another exile when buhari is solved. Your pastime is to destroy houses and sack workers, what a devilish legacy you will leave behind.

contigiency:
Because he left PDP that laid the foundation of all the problems we are facing in this country? You are simply worse than the names you called Umahi.

My friend it is not about party. Did you hear what he said recently about bandits? He is betraying his people to his Fulani masters simple.

If we arise as one no government can stand against us, they explore our differences

Na who allow this man enter him church sef let alone near alter. Umahi is part of Nigeria's problem. He is the Judas of the south east like Tinubu of the south west. He is a disgrace

Rosement:
I'm financially independent

My sister it is great to know you are sexually pure at 25. For you to preserve your virginity till marriage, the kind of man you chose matter. If that white guy cannot wait for wedding, let him go. Inability to wait is already a bad sign. This kind of man will not be faithful tomorrow. In today's world a man that can wait for you can only be found in serious conservative churches and with must prayer. If you rush into marriage you may rush out.
Someone has this to say
" Don't let sex make you a mother
When love has not made you a wife" Stand your ground and God will stand with you. Don't listen to perverts. I am sure you didn't keep yourself all these years only to fumble before marriage. There are a few good men who will wait, may God link you to one.

udoji2021:
My plan was to farm and get cash to re-open my closed provision shop for her.

Bros take it easy with your wife, pregnancy is responsible for the change in her behaviour. Do as you said, open a store for her and you do the caring for her now as she did for you when you were sick. If you are a Christian, take her regularly to church, it may help. Don't run away! Only fools and cowards do. Be there for her, return love for hate and work extra hard for provide for her. I think she sincerely loves you but she is still human. Hunger and pregnancy is a bad combination, it can drive any woman mad.

Sirjamo:
When bandits kill people in Katsina, it's just another bandits attack.

When the same bandits kill people in Benue or southern Kaduna, it's Buhari sending them to go and kill people just to occupy their lands.

PDP Dundees and some Christian hypocrites should stop bringing their useless inferiority complex into these security issues.
J

Southwest governors set up a security outfit that has been doing a great job, what is stopping the useless governor Ortom from doing something similar? Every time they give him a microphone, he will be shouting: Buhari, Fulani, Buhari, Fulani.





I AM DONE TALKING

better sir, because you didn't talk sense

baralatie:
I don't know why the problem is for some o'yall

if I recollect my nysc it is totally different.i counted a dozen girls who literally did change of post to meet their fiancees by fire by force.
in my zone the two women brought their fiancee to spend one month with them (in that bush of suntai,gashaka and lamido)
the Ibo girl was even crazy.she was getting her wedding done in camp.

Madness is not geocentric, a harlot is a harlot anywhere, service year just makes it easier.

Amotolongbo:
As a man of God serving the living God, the only help we expect from him is the miracle of healing the crippled man, not buying him a keke.

The pastor is man not God, only God can heal the sick anytime, any where and anyhow. When healings happen through pastors they are just like pens in the hands of a writer. The writer moves the pen and not the other way round. I once prayed for a little boy with withered legs on crutches in a crusade, he never got healed but weeks later I got a call and was told the boy could work without crutches.

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Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]I don't believe this story, but I like that kinda babe. And I wish she'd kick your gold-digging ass to the curb if it was true.

Yeah, right. We should keep our sexual histories to ourselves and then you get mad about the deception?? So if she lied she was a virgin, that's better? And what's to stop a woman from doing anything she wants? Pretty face? Like, I don't understand what the deal is, like it's new.

"You don't know the shitty things women do behind..." Pelee. Discoverer of the century.

If you can't deal with any lady's history, vamoose and move on. C'est fini.[/color]

The shitty past are not laurels to be proud of they are scares for life. To the young man in question, if you have indulge in premarital sex in the past you are a hypocrite to judge her. Your types created her type. If there are no hegoats there won't be harlots. If you were a virgin I can understand with you, but if you are not, you are not an ounce better.

Skyfornia:
The way things are going...if this country no break up before or by 2023...then it's obvious it won't break up again. I have never seen this level of insecurity in my life before...

Thanks to Buhari's government

No bi only cigarette allowance na igboo allowance

I say amen to that but op pls mind your english ooo

cocolacec:
Thank You Your Excellency Owelle Rochas Anayo Okorocha For given out 5000 scholarship to FULANI YOUTHS.

May Almighty God bless you for this giants gestures.

The entire Fulani Pastoralists Nation World Wide are saying Thank You.

I want to also use this singular opportunity to extend my Thanks and Kudos to the Leadership of Miyetti Allah Kautal Hore Fulani Sociocultural Association of Nigeria World Wide ably led by Distinguish Alh Dr Abdullahi Bello Bodejo,The Dogged and Vocal National Secretary General Eng Saleh Alhassan Kubah,The Vice President North East and others for displaying capacity in all ramifications.

May Almighty Allah continue to be your Guards and help you in your mission to Unites the Entire FULANI Pastoralists World Wide.

Thanks once again to Rochas Okorocha Foundation.

He will regret it, ask Dave Umahi

Kayberg:
I had similar dream weeks ago.
It was very terrible and horrible as I saw Islamists killing people with sporadic and aimed firings. I saw the nation burning and people running helter skelter, trying to escape to a neighboring country through its land borders.
It was a total chaos.
I didn't bother sharing it here on this platform because I know that most comments will be very much unreasonable because they will not regard it nor take it serious.
I know it is a warning from GOD to us in this country.
GOD bless you for sharing.
We need to start praying against it.

Only unwise people ignore such warnings. Didn't mailafia say they are planning to start a civil war next year? Danjuma once said that if he reveals what he knows Nigerians won't sleep. may God turn the evil agenda of our enemies on their own head.

Jman06:
Not only financial stability. Women generally age faster than men due to the stress of childbirth. Now, imagine marrying your age mate and after 10years of marriage with say 3-4 kids, the woman now looks older than the man. Ofcourse the man would lose interest and start cheating. But if the man is say 10yrs older, you will age together and that way he will not see himself as too young to be with his aging wife.

Reasons for Marital Infidelity
1. Indulging in premarital sex. Sex for the most part bind your soul to an individual, that bond often last for a life time. Each time you meet, the memory comes alive and there is a wish or an urge.
2. Marrying for pecuniary reasons and not love. When you marry who is financially ready not who you love, you are bound to flirt with the person you truly love
3. The age deferential you just mentioned is another factor.
4. The desire to retaliate. If a party cheats, the other may feel justified to do same
5. Lack of sexual fulfillment. A sexually dissatisfied partner will likely cheat if given the chance
6. Lack of fear for God
7. Permissive society
8. Imitation effect and peer pressure. And lots more

pocohantas:
Foolish, cheating woman... The husband thinks he has married a submissive wife, not knowing she is an undercover olosho.

On a serious note, this is the case with many Nigerian marriages. Some ladies date someone of their age for years. It doesn't work most times, 'cause when the guy is trying to build a life, the lady is already in her late twenties.

Everyone starts asking her "when will you call us for asoebi?". She starts putting pressure on the guy and he'll say "I'm not holding you, if you see someone good...go, I will wish you well". So, she starts looking for someone else, most times an older man. She sees and marries him ASAP. They are both married, but are they happy? It's a vicious cycle. I don't advise girls to date their mates. Most times, women marry up and men marry down. Don't rush into marriages only to cheat on your husbands.

People saying she isn't cheating, is it until she climbs into his bed? If you see your husband/wife, telling an ex they still love them with passion. Will you say it's not cheating ? This is emotional cheating. If the guy presses further, it's only a matter of time

That is why we preach chastity and abstinence before marriage. All these exes is the core reason for infidelity in marriages.

orgasm:
...the woman is not a stranger to him so try another quote

Strange woman in the Bible means any woman other than your wife who tries to seduce you.

sivel:
Mr OP somewhere in the bible it is mentioned "avoid every appearance of evil". Nairaland has many pastors to give you the verse and interpretation.

Mr. OP assume you are married, your wife opens a business with or without your help, she employs her 'ex' to manage the business without notifying you, somehow you eventually find out that the so called employee is her 'ex', be honest with yourself what will be your reaction?

Mr OP the thing wey di hungry you no dey for market.

IThess 5:22

Draslo:
This is why I'm turning her down. If I can work remotely from Lagos, then I'll take up her offer. I want to believe she just wants my professional help because she witnessed some part of my success in my own businesses. Nigeria don spoil. Everybody's got trust issues nowadays. How do we know she doesn't love her husband enough not to ever cheat on him. *Sigh*

I believe your story. If I am in your shoes I will take the offer and watch to see how things unfold. if she makes one false move, I quit. On having soft spot for her, if you know you can't control your feelings when you are with her, then stay clear.

McEphiks:
If she denies which of course is expected, what proof do you have to counter her?

Even if he caught her in bed she can still deny, it is your word against hers. let him just tell his friend what he observed and leave him to draw his conclusions thus freeing himself from blame. But am sure even you know from what was observed she is a stinking cheat

Esales:
Beautiful, just beautiful.
So there are streams this clear in Nigeria?

May I ask if it is terrorist and bandit/kidnappers free?

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Reminds me of one guy who went to Germany and left his wife in Nigeria for 5 years...òmó na so I just dey bang free toto

I think you are joking sha but if na true, EVIL SINNER na him be your name

McEphiks:
Those are not presentable proof bro. She can deny such allegations since there's no evidence. All I'm saying is you should get a proof she can't deny.

What other proof do you want? Must he catch them in bed? No man can play with another man's wife ass and you explain that away. They have gone further than you can imagine. The fellow made a grave mistake in leaving his wife behind. Between women and men, I think women are weaker these days. pls call your friend tell him what you have observed and let him draw his conclusions or else somehow if he gets to know he won't forgive you.

EmptyGarden:
Can't say this enough... FEAR WOMEN O!

Fear Valentine day too

Cheap prostitudes looking for patronage

This is how ladies make themselves cheap. A man you ve not seen in life you re already madly in love with, may be he will have his way with you u if he wants. He may even be a dwarf who knows. Every girl who loses her virginity before married was either raped or have floppy brain. Strong girls keep their hearts in iron cages and their legs chained till marriage.

triple996:
But people will never say they saw these in d north. They will only talk about crisis and bokoharams than deny any good development

If those bandits kidnap you for two weeks in the bush you won't remember these pictures you will avoid north like hell.

BabaOwen:
The lawlessness of this Fulanis is getting too much and out of hand. How you will invade people land, kill, rape and kidnap the owners of the land is what I am still trying to understand or can someone tell me why this people are doing this

They will tell you Nigeria will be better because of how big our country is and how massive our population is... Yet, people from small countries like Benin Republic, Togo, Ghana etc dey sleep with them two eyes close.

We need a new constitution in Nigeria.

ask elrufai

anonym0us:
they conquered benue, installed an emir, they will do same when the community grows to the size of a local government. Buhari is on a mission to Islamise the whole country. We warned you guys, it's never too late to correct this..

They conquered which Benue and installed which emir? are they running a fever? the Benue from where I am typing this or another one.

Fahdiga:
This man is overreaching himself. Yorubas are known for their accommodating culture and Igboho is trying to change that which is not good. giving quit notice to strangers is against Yoruba norms. now is the time for Yoruba elders to warn Igboho and his ilks before things escalate beyond control

Commot from here jare.