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darelar:
ijebu ode. DM me

Na 30k I get ooo bro.......your whatapp number

buchichris:
I hv samsung a03 4gb ram 64g 40k

Can I pay 30k bro......your whatapp number let reason

darelar:
I have Redmi 9T 128GB 4GR.

Your location and how can we deal.

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Samsung or redmi.......(30k budget)

Location is lagos

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olabrinks:
A man that cohabits with the mother of his child for 10years without marriage is sleeping with her illegitimately. Their child is also illegitimate because he/she was born out of wedlock. When a man behaves irresponsibly, the outcome is chaos and mayhem. He should go to the police and narrate his story, they will laugh in his face. Even in first world countries, there is a reason why specifically single unwed mothers are protected. Continue..

Let see who will suffer most at the end.

olabrinks:
That is the mother of his child he doesn’t get a round of applause for feeding/taking care of his child, it’s what he is supposed to do. Illegitimately sleeping with a woman for a decade and wasting her youth that she can never get back does not equate to paying her school fees. The emotional/mental trauma can never be compared. Sometimes there is justification for actions, even if it’s wrong.

Illegitimately sleeping with a woman for a decade .....this just knocked me off honestly.

I guess he the one sleeping with her and she isn't involved and awear.......you ladies will not kill us ooo.

Keeping justifying the reason for her stealing.........like I said I no getting married is the biggest achievement for someone like you hence I rest my case.

Just keep the same energy and judgment if table are turned.

olabrinks:
it may not be illegal, but it is emotionally traumatic and provocative to waste 10 years of a woman’s life. We are not robots void of emotions. Mental trauma/damage has led a lot of people to their grave. When dealing with relationship issues, we weigh logic with emotion to choose the right outcome.. there must be a balance of both.

Why are painting as if the lady was helpless or an slowpoke.

Do you think is kid gloves to house and feed an adult for 5yrs?? He even funded her education or you didn't see that.....emotionally he has also invested a lot.

The only logical thing here....she is a thief.

If the guy decide to follow the law she is going to jail......he didn't tie her down or force her.

I hate it when you ladies go this route of emotional blackmail all the time.

What is bad is bad.........don't married people of 50yrs get divorce So what the difference

OH I forgot getting married is biggest achievement a lady can ever have in life...lol.

UyaiIncomparabl:
What if marriage is her priority? Even the OP would like to get married going by how he stated his story. If you won't get married to whom you are dating, it's best you inform them from the beginning about your intention so that they have contingency plans should the relationship go south.

Another man somewhere will suffer for the trauma and bitterness she will come with because she's frustrated already.

Hope if tables are turned with same senerio you will keep the same energy and judgment.

Because if a man should do same given the same circumstances then he did nothing bad according to you??

FYI
A man dating a lady for 100yrs and not marrying isn't a crime

A lady going to a man house to pack what doesn't belong to her is a thief......QED

olabrinks:
no Nigerian woman is living with a man for 10years.. happy without marriage. There will always be a level of resentment and unhappiness. In this particular situation, it’s obvious the woman was not happy, hence the ransacking.

Speak only for yourself..

Only if she comes to speak that herself then all this are assumptions that hold no water.

Once a again a man refusing to marry a lady he dated for 100yrs isn't a crime.

But lady going to a man house to take what doesn't belong to her is a thief...period.

If it was a man that did this will you be saying same thing.

Sentiment and bias mind is the reason why we have lot of single mother today.......only few of you ever say the truth without been blinded with Sentiment.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Between the both of you, who was supposed to talk about marriage? Her? Are you okay? I'm so peeved right now. A man initiates marriage, not a woman. So, you expected her to keep waiting and living in your house till she expires? This is why women should make sure a man marries them before they get pregnant. Many of these men aren't ready for true commitment.

Is it a must they get married

What if they don't want to be married and just be pathners??

I don't understand this obsession of women with marriage....Nawa ooo.

Is not every adult that want to get married.

olabrinks:
nothing can justify cohabiting with a woman for 10 years. If she was so bad he would’ve left after 2 years. It doesn’t take 10 years for a man to realise he doesn’t want to commit to a woman. Truth is he will never ever marry that girl.. he has seen her finish even if he decides to take her back. He has pushed that girl to the limit and frustrated her life for the past 10 years, she has finally reacted by ransacking his home and now he wants to use that as a justification for his wickedness.

Is it everyone that will get married??

What if there decisions to be partners and not get married?? Have you thought of that or you just blinded with emotions.

Where is it crime for two adult to cohabit for 100yrs.....there decisions is non of your business.

The lady is a thief and that all.....if he decide to get her arrested in the eye of the law she is a thief.

So is only they were married and divorced that when he has a right to complain abi

Sometimes I just wonder if some women are created with fish brain.

edoncast:
Wow

My mate

Lols how ur own take apun..gist me na ..

Lol

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My ex family are the ungrateful type from ekiti.This is a family that abandoned their daughter for me since 2013.Sent her to school, trained her in 2 tailoring shops and later opened a shop for her but my ex attitudes stink.

She doesnt appreciate ,she doesnt say sorry and doesnt say pls .to cap it all,she doesn't say i am sorry .

I once gave her sister a supply contract when i was in lekki where they make at least 50k per week but when this wahala start ,they told me that even if i give them contract then ,did i also give them capital ?

This is a job they got through me been an accountant when my elder sister was broke .My sister would have gotten the contract instead .Even if she didnt have money then,i will give her the job with the company money as capital.

But in all these ,i still love her because she has my son and suffered with me .

She did CS to have my son and i know the paun she got then .Na she no just get sense .Always repeating small stuff we can settle to his senseless brother and that her k-leg sister

But seriously since she left ,i have been doing very fine and i am better now

Have narrated it...check again.

Most of them are ungrateful......someone you are feeding and housing will be doing anyhow.

Will have a terrible Character and will expect you to take her that way quoting no one is perfect BS.

At this point I don't give Bleep about any again......I just live and enjoy my money alone.

This last one really opened my eye.......let no one deceive you bro most of them are very wicked and heartless.

If things should go south that when you will see there true colour.....don't ever loose guard again.

Funny enough same thing happened to me last month ooo.

Came back from church to meet almost an empty house.

My kitchen was cleared.....all my food stuff gone up to salt...lol....fan ,window cutton,iron etc were all gone.

My ex came to pack everything.......this someone who I never ever believed could do such a thing.

I don't even bother dragging anything cos I blame myself completely.....it all my fault for dating such a terrible human being.

The break up was mutual.....so I didn't bother ask her to return my house key.

I send her a text a week later that have bought those things back and she can come clear them again.

I understood clearly how someone who you think love you can actually kill you without blinking an eyelid.

It was a lesson well learnt...

OP if you can get your stuff back ......try to get them and be careful of your new gf.

Most of them are just devil in human form.....they are out to ruin you......Men be wise.

If they say buhari conducted the worst election then i guess most of them weren't born or they were still toddlers in 2003 and 2007.....That man that conducted worst elections in Nigeria history endorsed there messuah and they were all happy.

What is NEW ......every 4 year same wailing and crying.

Only people from one region crying every four years 0while others move on.

2015 it was buhari didn't have certificates he should be disqualified

2019 it was on inec server atiku and PO won.

2023 it is someone who came third that won.

Every election is rigged and there mandate stolen once there prefer candidates loses.

They have use all tricks, lies ,threat, deceptions etc but we aren't fools to fall for those gimmicks.

These people don't love Nigeria...........the hatred is sow in everyone of them from birth.

They are always the victim, always chest beating and claim to be the richest in Nigeria (everyone of them is a millionaire according to there foolery).

My fellow patriotic Nigerians.......don't engage them, just leave them to there wailings.

NW, NE, SS, SW, NC have all moved on but for the next four years one region will curse and wish Nigeria bad again.......there evil wish for the country will never come to pass.

Tinubu will be sworn in May 29 and there nothing you sore losers can do about it because every other regions have accepted him and moved on.

Only a dunce will think or believed PO won the 2023 election.......if the election is to be conducted 100 times PO will lose 120 times.

When PO lose in court we expect them to restore back to factory settings (BOD).

My regards to NK.....if any of you hear from him.

udescolar:
One Obidient is already making money with the Yes daddy T-shirt

How many have you bought

My fellow Nigerians please don't be bother by this born losers antics...every 4 years after losing election they do the same thing.....lies,propaganda and spread fake news

Let me take you back memory lane.

2014 - it was buhari not having a certificate.

2019 - it was buhari not winning the election and they won according to inec server.

2023 - it is tinubu didn't win the election, he is a drug baron......am surprised they didnt even add tinubu is a bastard and fake is age.

This people are dumb , they are heads chicken who don't reason or think for themselves only follow what there messiah says.........Peter obi is the new Nnamdi cownu.

Where is cownu today They believed everything he said to the point of been gullible.......people who could believe buhari is dead!!!!lol because a fool said so.

They threatened on NL if cownu was touched Nigerian will burn.....cownu was brought back in chains and have been in detentions for 1yr now, what have they done?? Only chest beat and empty mouth making.

Tinubu will rule for 8yr and there nothing you sad east losers can do ..........your wailing is for another 8yrs lol.

God doesn't support lairs and haters that why your region is backward and you people keep losing nationally.

My fellow Nigerians may 29.....we will rejoice and dance while this losers watch us.

Afterall they are all millionaires who can't suffer in nigeria (lol).....(other tribes are poor)

Pride,mouth making, hate ,chest beating,intolerance, lies.......I don't know how people from a tribe will sleep and all face the same direction.

They will lose in court again and cry for 4yrs as usual......we are use to there madness.

Built2last:
Let me further declare my bias here; I am an Igbo man from Anambra State.

A Benin friend told me last week that I support Peter Obi because he's Igbo and from Anambra State! I was actually speechless at his prejudice!

Someone also said it's time we help the Igbos they have suffered so much in this country; I was like seriously?

I still hear some say voting for Peter Obi will be justice for the Igbos; ignorance is really really appalling!

Let me drop a few points here;

If some of the reasons alluded above is why you are supporting Peter Obi, then you are not different from the Tribal Warlords and Religious extremist!

Let me shock you further;

when I was at Abuja last year. I joined a discussion at the Hotel lobby and one Northern guy declared with uncommon arrogance; *" THE IGBOS SHALL CONTINUE TO SUFFER IN THIS COUNTRY, THEY WILL NEVER SMELL THE PRESIDENCY, THEY WILL PAY DEARLY FOR 1966...!"*

I asked him; Do you think the Igbos are suffering in this country? He thundered yes!

I told him my brother, let me help you a little bit; *" THE IGBOS WILL BE THE LAST TO SUFFER IN THIS COUNTRY!"* NO MATTER HOW BAD THIS COUNTY BECOMES THE AVERAGE IGBO BUSINESS MAN IS THE MOST INSULATED!

Everyone turned at me in shock; My Northern guy thundered; it's a lie, it's a lie! Which position do they occupy in this country?

I said let me help your ignorance a little;

Who paid for this Hotel? Your company or yourself? He said his company. I said do you know who owns the Hotel? He said no, I told him. He said then he won't lodge here again. I said my brother from TRANSCORP Hotels Owned by Tony Onyemaechi Elumelu to Bolingo to Chelsea, To Top Rank, To Rockview, to almost 95% of Hotels in Abuja here is owned by the same people you said are suffering!

I told him if you car is bad where do you buy your parts from?

If you are buying books, stationeries, school bags, etc who sells them at the market?

If you want to build where do you buy your building materials from?

I told him, I could go on and on.

I told him even in Port Harcourt, even in Lagos, almost every nook and cranny of this country; *"THE CHANCES THAT YOU WILL SPEND 90% OF YOUR INCOME ON AN IGBO MAN IS AS REAL AS TODAY!"*

Every where became silent! Let me explain why the Igbo man suffering is just a mirage;

The Government makes policy to increase import tariffs; Igbo man goes out import the goods, pays the tariffs and custom duties, afterwards he factors it into the cost of materials. You go to him to buy at the new price. He makes his Normal profit. *"AT THE END THE NEW TARIFF IS PAID BY WHO?* Everyone was shocked!

I told them no matter what Government does it can never affect the average businessman; The average businessman will always make his profit and shift the burden to the purchasers!

The only tribe in this country that have secured their Economy almost 100% is the Igbos. It's only in Igboland where Business and Property ownership is almost 98% owned by them! After they secured their homeland, they also arrive in your domain and in some instances control 50-80% of the entire commercial activities and sometimes upto 15-25% property ownership apart from Abuja they own about 70-75%. *"And you said they are suffering?"*

After about 40minutes of my indepth lecture, my Northern guy became silenced and confused. He suddenly realized that what his political leaders are telling him that we are suffering the igbos is actually boomeranging on them!

To be sincere, 2023 shouldn't be about Justice for the Igbos or it's the turn of the Igbos! How is Katsina after PMB? Go and ask! How did OBJ rule transform the West? Many Southwesterners insist to date that OBJ was never their choice! How did 6-years of Goodluck Jonathan transform BAYELSA?

If Peter Obi campaign goes tribal, I can assure you many people will abandon his campaign including myself!

Peter Obi should be treated on his merit and be given opportunity to rescue this country!

I laughed the other day when Asiwaju declared that he needs well meaning Nigerians to join him and rescue this country! *RESCUE? LIKE SERIOUSLY? FROM WHO?!*

That the problem i have with you people.....boosting about everything with igbo man will never suffer BS.

The one here in lag selling inside hold up or the one on my street sleeping in the shop he sells with is family are different igbo abi.

Keep lying to yourself with the BS of all igbo men are rich while other tribe are suffering.....keep deceiving yourselves since it makes you losers feel better.

ChiefJusticeFuc:
You forgot that there is No Erection in Biafra land.

They only get hardons when out of Osuland .

Shameless people .

Very irritating people.

Look at abia state......a state that is one of the worst in nigeria.

Election is going on there but they don't care if another useless man becoming there governor.....is tinubu they are after.

Even the foolish one in Abia state is tweeting about lagos.......lol

NothingDoMe:
Go and vote. Stop opening stupid threads.

Your stupid tribe will be taught a bitter lesson .....if them born una well am in iyana ipaja now ....make una come outside kan vote lp.

Election is going in 4 state in the south east but they are not concern about that.

There problem is lagos.....even the one in nnewi bush isn't tweeting about the govership election in is state but rather bother about far away lagos.

Most of them don't even know governorship aspirant contesting In there state today.

I don't know how a whole tribe will sleep and face the same direction.

They don't care if useless leaders are elected in there region.....infact they just have one governor performing in there region but is ok for the SE to be backward and shitty while they drag for lagos...lol

Keep focusing on lagos while your region is in ruins.......Sanwo olu will win today and y'all chinedus and iya chukuwudi will be shown who own lagos.


Bunch of bitter and hate filled people.......Like tinubu is the one ruling your backward states since 1999.

Anunakeeh:
Desist from Spoiling someone's Reputation.

If you have personal Issues with the lady. I advise you Iron It with her out of here. Shalom.

I said what I said which is my opinion.....you have an issue with that.....my friend that your headache.

missbae:
I was going to reply but then no need...you are wired like that already

Lol......am sure other guys who said the same thing about you were wired too.


Only a foolish seller will be rude to potential customers.

Tokkson:
How much is it going for? I'm interested in buying

I will advise you to avoid that lady.

She is very rude and mannerless.

DOVgadgets:
My brother
I just quietly blocked and deleted her number
Very rude and ill mannered

I tot i was the only one who experienced that from her.

She is terrible......like I don't know how a seller can be that rude and proud.

The reply I got for a product i asked about.....I just deleted her number asap.

Very mannerless cretin.

Anyone who has 3-6kg gas cylinder for sale in lagos....pls quote me.

Sixfeetbelle:
You became unfortunate this evening the minute you opened this thread. Cause how would a man who isn't unfortunate have the energy to be discussing silly nonsenses every time.

Like I said again.....am not the cause of your miserable life.

If my post struck a cord then that you and your family business or rather feel free to drink sniper to end it.

If you don't have money to buy one...u can send me ur acc details so I can help end the misery.

Monitoring people post on NL instead of finding a job to fix the worthless life of yours.

Dimwit.