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Faber:
I spent 80k on Aso ebi just recently...but she don't know where I dey wait for her. I am like the devil...I give u with right hand, I collect double with the left hand

The lord will keep on strengthen to buy more aso ebi for her.

I never buy my mama 40k lace nah for another person wedding I go dey buy for a lady.......my mama no born mumu ooo

So in my lil over a decade of dating have experienced a lot.
In most relationships a man is at disadvantage cos you will lose more.
It always funny when I see people telling guys to let go of whatever they borrow or bought for a lady.......It is pure hypocrisy to me anytime I see such.

After break up trust me whatever money you borrow from a lady or whatever tangible thing she got you she will get it back...I have personally experienced this.

We have seen several times guys been molested,locked up over things like this but if the other way everyone tells the guy to move on.....so why the double standard.

Guy whatever money you borrow a lady make sure there is a written agreement and don't ever buy a lady phone or gadget henceforth.....doing that is totally waste of money cos you will regret it.

Relationship is a total waste of time in this part of the world cos is one sided.....a lady just want a money making machine of a man......she want a good life and her only plan is to get a man who can get her that.

I pity we men alot cos it very painful when you are only regarded and useful when you can provide money..lol.

Men enjoy your money, take care of your parents and siblings.....if you are lucky to find a woman that worth it ....do your best and make sure the love is mutual.

Currently I have a lady I intend to marry but have change my mind.....this someone practically staying with me and I provide everything in the house and all the bills.

She have been disturbing to help her with money to buy aso ebi for a friend wedding.....the lace is 40k which i find ridiculous at this time.....just becos I didn't give her part of the money she was expecting, she called me a stingy man....lol
Someone am practically feeding and providing for is calling me a stingy man cos of one useless aso ebi.

She made a terrible mistake and she suffering for it at the moment.......the shege am showing her in her next life she won't call anyone stingy.

I just want men to know this ladies don't really care about us....they want to take from you and if you don't give they blackmail you emotionally.....am too wise to fall for such.

Right now am at a joint eating Coker catfish with some senior bros while she at home eating whatever cos there is nothing in the house.

My money is for me and my family until I find another woman who is worth it.

Don't let any woman see you has money making machine.

Jazmine10:
someone who is begging for a second hand phone to buy online is antagonising someone who can employ him! wonderful! I no go school but i go sponsor you and your generation go school. Ode oloriburuku no be my fault you cannot read and comprehend with your first class pako. As you dey one hole for trenches no know say voice to text dey @ Dimaya you too follow collect, ewu Gambia. Una think say na every woman who na fit bully for this nairaland? I go piss ontop una head. Foolish mofos, mention me for nonsense without manner una mama no instill on una una go collect wotowoto.

Fools talks, coward stay silent and wise men listen.

Humpty dumpty keep bragging......lol

Jazmine10:
Fair enough. So what should the men do now? Date trees? As per number 5, nature made man the giver and the woman the receiver. It goes beyond money. The man for some reson is the provider, protector etc and somehow you men set the standards so why complain? Recently, i saw online a man mocking his wife of 10years comparing her with Tiwa Savage and how well taken care of Tiwa looks. Mind you this woman is by no means "fat".Tiwa savage as a single woman is making money, maybe this woman has access to the kind of money Tiwa has or not but she's in her husbands house and the man who ought to be the provider is publicly shaming his wife when apparently he has failed in his primary duty but still has the effrontery to shame his wife before the entire world which brings us back to your number 3. "If she starts earning more you will lose your spot in her life" If that woman chooses to leave that man for some reason to live a better life men will say women are this women are that. All the while the woman's been with thean when he even can't take care of her and this same man is shaming how publicly how she looks. Wetin una men want sef gan gan?

Someone who is actually educated typed this No paragraphs, just total jargons.

Nawa oooo.....this one go born and help her child with homeworks?? I just pity the child in advance.

jumper524:
One thing every religious person believes is that his religion is the true religion and that others are going to hell fire.
The emir should know Nigeria is a secular state and also the world is also a secular world as God himself permits multiple religion to exist and also teaches us to respect people's choice of religion.
In summary, practice your religion in peace and leave others to practice what they find peace at.

So why are some nitwit here twisting it to the emir asking yourbas to leave ilorin.

We all know how the Muslims can be a time which is very wrong but it is very irritating seeing the born sore losers turning it to the emir is telling yorubas to leave ilorin

What do this people gain from envying, hating ,crying and wailing all the time about everything except themselves.

Is so funny when I see lunatics hear crying about ilorin been taken over by fulani......is such a shame this sore losers who are just Bunch of headless chicken want to keep on displaying there stupidity.

Ilorin is the capital of kwara state been dominated by yorubas who are Muslims.

The ratio of people religion in ilorin is 65% Muslims, 35% Christians and 5% traditionalist.

What happened in ilorin was only the emir telling the traditionalist not to hold there ceremony.

Only few yorubas today are traditionalist infact most people who practice don't really come openly to do it anymore cos of the stigma of using juju.

Can the emir tell yorubas who are Christians in ilorin not to hold crusade or vigils??

From airport, Taiwo isale,Taiwo oke ,a division ,post office, tankai, asa dam, offa garage etc there are many churches operating freely without any disturbance.

The popular COZA church started from ilorin, winners have big mega churches in ilorin.

It just so funny how people who know nothing about ilorin will come to be saying rubbish that yorubas are been asked to leave ilorin....like WTF??

We yorubas have actually dropped anything idolatry that why it was easy for the emir to stop the woman cos Islam is dominant there....in other part of kwara which are offa, omu aran, edu etc traditionalist are free to do there ceremony without anyone really caring......so it as nothing to do with tribe.

Ilorin isn't kwara state.....it is just a city in kwara.

I no alot of the people pushing this talk of emir asking yoruba to leave ilorin are actually primary school drop out serving there oga in 2/2 shops.

Ilorin belongs to the youbas and at no point can anyone ask a yoruba person to leave ilorin.

The emir only frown at idolatry and most of us agree to that.

With this I hope the foolish wailings about the emir not allowing idolatry in ilorin been twisted to him asking yorubas to leave ilorin will stop by the nincompoops pushing it here on NL.

Abagworo:
Oga as master is an Igbo thing borrowed by Yoruba. Yorubas use more of Baba than Oga but languages do grow and you as a newer generation now believes it's original . Wahala too isn't Yoruba but borrowed from Afro-Asiatic but it has so eaten deep that I don't even know the alternative. It's same way some Igbos now think gan is an Igbo word whereas the original word is kponkwem.

See how you boldly exhibiting ignorance just a Google would help you.

Oga nah igbo language Nawa ooo.

Una sha wan drag and claim everything.

So baba also means boss?? Baba wey be say nah almost every tribe all over the world to dey use.

Absuchat:
Hahaha this one is living in self deceit. However, let's admit what you posted is true.... It still shows igbos are not your mate.
Out of top 10 richest, 6 are igbos... The joke is on you. Silly miscreant

Ooh so you accept no dead or alive igbo man is richer than Adenuga.....😆

Anyway you igbo will always look up to us in every aspect of life.

We are larger
We are creative
Our language is spoken across west Africa
We don't brag or chest beat.
We have dominated richest in Africa for long(RIP Chief Antonio Oladeinde Fernandez)
Infact a yoruba man dominated richest black man in US in 1960 (RIP Chief Antonio Oladeinde Fernandez )

No igbo man dead or alive at any point has ever be above a yoruba man in the ranking of richest men.

Your people will always be below cos of the HATE and CHEST BEATING.

The yoruba race is the biggest in west Africa after fulani and we are well trained never to brag about our achievements......we let it do the talking Nincompoop.

Absuchat:
Hahaha carmart now a source of data for networth?
Agbado miscreants... That's why you always drag bottom spot with aboki

Well I don't expect much from a primary drop out and sales boy serving there ogas.

Humpty dumpty if you can't read just give someone among your tribe who atleast completed secondary to read to ears so will stop this show of shame.

Ciao......is too early for you illiterate cretins....HATERS

Absuchat:
Arthur Eze's underwears are worth more than the whole south westerners
Try leaving your cave for once na

I no most of you are primary school drop out.

Absuchat:
Billionaire with 6 packs... Whereas Adenuga's tummy na "amusement park " yet only Mark's pair of shoes is worth more than Mike

No igbo man dead or alive is richer than Mike Adenuga......the joke is on you.

Bunch of sore loser who will keep crying and wailing about everything......Haters

Pinkdimples:
Uncle,this one you are so concern about if I am jobless or not,I don't think it should be none of your business because you don't know anything about me. Besides I never made mention of the name of the phone. This phone is getting to 3yrs sef and it's not even an iphone so what's your headache? Besides I am not a single lady and I also have something legitimately doing. Thanks ❤️❤️❤️
Personally I don't like too much expensive or flashy things, right from my childhood,that's just my nature.

Haven't you seen where someone has business or working and yet one or two people still gifted that person ones in a while? How you also respect yourself says a lot. And by the way I am using 2 phones 🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️

I dislike people who always sound concurrent but later change mouth

Someone made a post about a lady using an iPhone 12 and she jobless.....you responded by telling what if she from a rich family.......I responded by letting you know that will be irresponsible of any parent buying her such if she is jobless but here you exnorating yourself of not been someone like.....lol

Why are you supporting what you know you aiin't doing yourself You are working and don't like flashy things but supporting someone who isn't working and loving flashy things......isn't that hypocrisy.

Anyway I drop my pen here cos obviously you talk with both side of the mouth...ciao

Pinkdimples:
Well,that's what you think,not my business. I was giving a birthday gift and I accepted it with gratitude and appreciation. Jobless or not Is not any body business,no one is living with me to know if I have something doing or not. So far it's my family members or dad that gifted and not some random guy is way much better to collect things from so called random men in the name of relationships, friends etc.

And don't you think for one to gift such phone to his sister's daughter means either your sister has done so much for you or the daughter herself? 🥰🥰🥰 Peace 🤗🤗

Even you know that is gross irresponsibility on your part.......he got you a phone randomly That doesn't just happen.

If you can have a conversation of needing a phone with your dad/uncle but couldn't have a conversation of them assisting with a business set up or a job says alot about you.

Surprising you with a phone of 50k to 80k is still responsible but a phone of 300k-400k while you been jobless is outrightly wrong.

RawSex:
The you should into conclusion without knowing well about her family is not wise!

Then she must come from a family that are irresponsible.

Any parent who buy her child iPhone 12 while been jobless is highly irresponsible.

Even billionaire children have jobs so it is stupidity to buy a jobless person such.

Pinkdimples:
If a lady ask for iPhone from some guys,they will start insulting her if he is her father or any of her family members,now she has it another complain that she's into coded hook-up. What really do some people want?

Ladies try to hustle legitly and make cool cash,it's very important 🤗🤗

This very phone I am using is a surprise gift from one of my uncle. Does that means I am into hookup? Nawa o.

Your uncle won't buy you iPhone 12 while you are jobless.

If he buys it and you collect it while been jobless then it shows both of you ain't thinking straight.

Gamesmart:
Cretins like Godoverevery and OkayDaddy should not read something like this.

Way above their baboon brains.

Just direct them to something about another tribe.

Since you are so pained.....just do us all a favor and end your misery...... chicken head.

Drop your aza let me credit youfor the sniper EFULEFU.

Gamesmart:
Look at the foool trying to now bury the fact that even AFTER googling, he did not understand what conflict of interest meant, by foolishly assuming I am Igbo.

Cretin, let me tell you now: You are finished!

You are useless in life! Your brain is dead and you have no value in the world on your own.

No wonder you cannot comprehend simple things, despite information being free to you, and no wonder you pre-occupy your life with tribalism.

You are brain dead and far closer to Apes than humans! I support Whites or Chinese taking you away, in the 21st century, as a slave.

Haaa......see premium convulsion 😆

When you and your retarded people stop casting negative aspersions on everything done in good faith in this country that when you and your people will be liberated from the chains of been SORE LOSERS.

Once again when you get your beeriafraud you can give your 2/2 container experience and advice about taxation till then hold your bleeping breathe and deep cos that will never happen dumbo.

Happy sit at home once again EFULEFU.

Gamesmart:


You googled conflict of interest and you found that one you are on people's side you have no conflict of interest?



AAAAHHHHHHHH! Nigeria is finished!

We are producing creeeetins in abundance.

To even Google is a challenge for this moooooron!

What da flying Bleep?

Brain dead "yoots".

Human waste that we foool ourselves is our potential.

Like I said earlier miserable life of always losing have affected people from your region hence the act of always crying and wailing about everything.

Once again so far he is on the people side it kills any conflict of interest narrative you dumbo want to push.

Happy sit at home efulefu.

Gamesmart:
How does advocating for poor people help me understand any conflict of interest he might have?

Why are you people so stupid?

Can you see the outcome of when you cheat in exams? You just copy and paste expo and never read and understand the question.

Nincompoop maybe you should first Google the meaning of conflict of interest before spilling gibberish here.

Once he is on the people side that what matters dickhead but am not surprised cos you sore losers are just Humpty dumpty.

Don't worry prof you be employed for that position when you get your beeriafraud ...lol.

Children of hate will soon come cry here now.....Bunch of sore losers whose prayers is to always hear bad news about Nigeria.

God bless every loving citizen who believes the country can be better and God punish the haters.

Nice development......we will surely get there.

Khd95:
The best thing to do is to just ignore her and her food for days but make sure you still provide food in the house

May we never end up with the wrong wife because this creatures dey one kind

Bible, don’t beat your wife


Quran, don’t beat your wife

Your wife, if you are man enough beat me 😭😂

For how long will you keep doing that??

Do you even think some give a Bleep if you eat or not ??

Nah you hunger go finish with that method oooo.....cos they have gotten use it

Anny69:
So many things is wrong with this write up.

Why should a woman FEAR A MAN? Especially HER MAN? What do y'all benefit from becoming an ABUSIVE PARTNER?!

Our forefathers didn't practice healthy relationships. If it's respect you want from a woman you have to EARN it.

It's normal to have a fight in a relationship, if you feel offended as a man the best thing you can do is to be calm, listen to her rants, try to understand her and tackle the conflict between the both of you. It's not called SIMPING like some alfa meil call it here. Gragra doesn't solve things... It'll just make the relationship TOXIC.

My final words on this is that domestic violence isn't the only form of spousal abuse. Emotional abuse is also a form of spousal abuse; which according to you is the best way to treat a woman one is quarrelling with. And you're totally WRONG.

Always the same gibberish all the time.......only a foolish dull man will do what you wrote up there.

Even if you earn your respect that doesn't mean during conflict a woman won't even insult your mother.....most of you mouth are meant to be sealed for life.

This rubbish of trying to always paint women as saints need to stop honestly.

Most of you can't even stand yourselves but will expect a man to take all the rubbish and nonsense you do all the time.

The double standards is the reason why marriage is a joke this days.

Gamesmart:
This is nonsense!

Taiwo Odele did not address his point. He just want to bamboozle that "I know more about tax".

What the man asked for his DISCLOSURE.

Tell us how you will or could benefit by being appointed to shape a law that you get your daily bread from.

I guess you didn't see where he talked about advocating for people earning 30k to be excluded from paying tax and vat removed from diesel??

Most of you are just so blinded with hate that you don't even read to comprehend anymore.

ba7man:
This is a more realistic projection.

That suspended slab over the garage has defeated the N5mill quoted by the poster.

N5mill will hardly handle the shell sef.

Not everywhere is lagos or abuja.......building materials and labour are far cheaper in some state.

theophorus:
Location matters.
Double Load of Sand in some states is around 40k. In another, it's around 60k.

Labour is 2k in some and 3k in another. Mason abi Bricklayer is 4k in some and 6k in another.

All am saying is location is key.

The Block work will take nothing less than 1500 blocks @ 400# each = 600k
100 block molded @ 8k =8k*15 = 120k
Foundation works = 150k
Concrete for that small Decking = 800k
Concrete for Lintel = 400k
Roofing 2M
Sand for Blocks laying = 150k
Electrical works
Windows
Toilet fittings
Doors
Bulgary
Tiles and other finishings.

I think 5M cannot complete the work based on my rough estimates as a layman.

Hope you know not everywhere is lagos.

The cost of building house in some state is very cheap cos sand ,stone etc are very cheap.

Infact most people that made house in where my farm is don't buy sand or stone....they just pay boys to help load from a place for free.

DMerciful:
Was that not same excuse you guys use for Bubu until he ruined the country?

Is like hate had made you people stack illiterates??

This are personal and domestic staff appointments and he suppose to appointment people all over the country abi.

Sometimes I just wonder if this is a deliberate madness from you people.

So cookers,personal doctors etc he can't people he want again....nawa oo

stagger:
Goalkeeping has evolved. Man City's successes with Ederson's ball distribution has shown clearly that the way to go is to purchase a modern goalkeeper who is good with his two legs in terms of passes and ball distribution. De Gea does not have this skill and Man Utd conceded way too many goals from his poor clearances and outright passes to opponents.

Watch the 4-0 defeat to Brentford and you will see for yourself.

Andre Onana is the kind of keeper that Man Utd needs. They should move fast before another team beats them to it.

Ederson ball distribution without quality players is worth noting.

Let take out kDB and leave ederson to be distributing balls man city won't win shit.

Have anyone ever rated Ederson??
Have you ever see anyone compare him to great keepers

No one is talking about the rubbish players in the team is the DDG that is the scape goat.

Shebi last season it was Ronaldo that was the problem.....after he left what changed??

Now is DDG.......we will see how the new season will pan out.

delkuf:
I told someone this. As in what is the whole of a ball passing goalkeeper. And the painful part of this is that we wasting 60 millions to buy onana

We will all see nah.

Letting dea gea go for free is outright stupidity cos you want goalie that can play like messi rather that making saves.

Onana can't even make half of dea gea saves a season.

abufadllullah:
Is it the fault of the board or coach??
You need to learn more about Football business!

So a good football business is letting dea gea go for free??

Naw oooo......

FYI is the ten hag that doesn't want him cos he cannot play like messi.

frankson1:
Lots of of the goals came from very awful and terrible back play Ten Hag wants but they always turn to blame the Goalie.

If the team keep making silly mistakes and Ten Hag keeps behaving clueless in games, De Gea's errors would be child's play to Onana's...

We will all see it nah.........that onana can't lace dea gea boot when it comes making save.

It just madness letting dea gea go in the manner honestly.......it making me hate the coach already.