₦airaland Forum

Michelle55:
dey are core players but dey are also romantic nd caring as well.. Unfaithfulness runs in dia veins lyk blood abeg.. Except u wana prove me wrong tho#i'll b waitn#..

Core players? are you comment based on hearsay or first hand experience because you can't make such statement about unfaithfulness running in their blood that's just ridiculous. Mistake we make most times as people is not accessing or analyzing ourselves but are quick to access and judge others, the fault might be from the other partner. Situations are different, since fornication is now the order of the day are you satisfying your partner? are you making your coochie to be a gold or whatnot that he have to behave a certain way to please you? relationship is a two way street and it takes two to tango most of the time.

Michelle55:
huh! Imo state guys faithful? Iffa hear. Wil rada go 4 either anambra or enugu tho.. Bt@op dis ur assertion eh,e get as e be oh

hmmmm why would you say IMO guys are unfaithful? how would you describe them?

@ItsQuinn how could you achieve a goal when you have already conceded defeat before embarking on the goal? Nobody is preventing or holding you back but you, dues must be paid and sacrifices must be made to finally reach the land of the greats.

ItsQuinn:
The male species of course!!!!
Because of our gender that's why

If we were male, we would be allowed of any privileges we desire

Its all in your mind, tell me a goal you have ever wanted to, forget about wants rather worked so hard, smart and was very competent to achieve and it was stopped by a male?
That's the problem with many of you, nothing great can be handed to anyone on a platter of a damn gold. Nothing great can be achieved with ease or no sacrifice! the problem is that most of you don't understand the concept of achievements, setting goals and achieving them. All I hear are EXCUSES, let me use an infant for example;

A baby can barely move when they're born as month passes by they learn how to sit, after the master sitting they start learning how to crawl after that they start learning how to walk then running after many falls, pains, tears, wounds and more that prepared them for that next stage they want to achieve! they don't pay to learn those skills. They sacrificed through bruises, wounds, blood, tears and more to get their and while they were trying all these .......... they never for once believed that someone or something is stopping them from crawling, walking or running! they just knew they want to do these things and started working towards it despite all there tragedies and what's the goddamn result? EVERYONE THAT HAS NO DEFICIENCY OR ACCIDENT CAN WALK!
1. Do you think those positions that men are occupying were handed over to them? ( Even in naija where I.M is the order of the day you still have to possess certain skills/personality or reputation)

2. Do you think Bill Gate is where he is because he sat on his azz thinking "oh lorrt these apple guys, Steve Jobs and other tech companies can't let me make it?

3. Do you think Alexander Graham Bell was waiting for apple, google or all these cell phone companies to invent or produce panel for him so that he can time travel and invent the phone which have been upgraded that you can use it to travel into cyberspace and alight on nl avenue to type all these things?!

Excuses are very bad especially in dreams, stop playing that nonsense game of the " victim", great people and people who did, doing and can do amazing things don't let such disease live in their mind. Its a cancer, get rid of it. Nobody can stop you from doing what you want, good plans, skills, competence, perseverance and more are the keys. Imagine as a baby you believed someone was always there to push you down anytime you try to crawl or walk? would have walked when you did? self-pity is a disease too.

ObaKlaz:
"...menstruating without control like the woman with the issue if blood"

While your arguments are mostly valid, You as an entity would find that quoted part above to be too indecently sexist. C'mon, bruh!

Perception bro, your perception.
1. Do females have control over their blood flow?
2. Some have heavy flows and light flows so by woman with blood issue, the dots links to heavy flow bro. Relax.

puresaint12:
this Ignorance pass me o "men and women have only one thing that differenciates them and that's their reproductive organs"

meeeeeeeeehn after I read that line " only difference be male and female is their genitals" I literally was weakened. how about psych? how about emotions? how about nature? how about damn instincts?! oooomylorrrt.

ItsQuinn:
I'm saying I can do whatever I want, whenever I want with no restrictions

I as a female should be allowed to make choices with no restrictions, socially, economically and personally.
As long as the requirements are met.

Who or what is preventing you from doing those things? incompetence? Illuminate me.

sweetcocoa:
And in peace keeping, war isn't involved?I see how fast you are.

War in peace keeping? my dear there is a big difference between war and shoot outs/confrontations. Use youtube and watch few clips on world wars before you use that word war again so that you can have a little understanding of what war is and by the way, war is worst than it looks on clips so please don't say that again.

couliss:
Feminism is the belief in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes.
Feminist activism is the struggle for that equality.
Feminist political activists campaign in areas such as reproductive rights, domestic violence, fairness, social justice, and workplace issues such as family medical leave, equal pay, and sexual harassment and discrimination.
That is feminism how can anyone not support FEMINISM.

Who is preventing them from achieving these things you mentioned?

ItsQuinn:
Did I say anything about being equal?
I know that for a fact dear!

Of course...I will leave it to the men, men take over!
I will just be observing in 3D

hahahahahaa you didn't say anything about being equal? so what were you saying?

sweetcocoa:
talking about biological set up and what not, clearly shows you don't even understand the concept of feminism.

A man is a man and a woman is a woman and they are both human. What feminism advocates is that men should not be treated as a superior human than the women.

How hard can that be to understand? Mschew.

Superior? what's the meaning? higher in quality? higher in rank? above? better? OK. A pentium 3 computer system of 512mb ram and 20 gig hard disk and a Corei7 system with 6gig ram and 2 terabyte hard disk are both systems but one is higher band specification and can run task faster and better than the other right? so why would you want to rate both as the same in quality? one thing in life is NOTHING IS EQUAL! Men are not equal women are not equal so how can you expect men and women to be equal? women have their advantages and men do too but generally God created men to be better and Nigerian understanding of what feminism is ( chauvinism) won't make a dent on it. Women are wonderful and can do amazing things that men can't do and men can do mind blowing things that women can't do. how many female inventors do we have in the list of inventors? help me out pls, yet men are equal to females.

AngelsAndStars:
that's why you cannot be equal dear.

leave that to the strong. the men.

Don't mind the little one, band wagon fever of feminism is contagious to the feeble minds.

BuyGoats:
Only a girl with low self-esteem will resolve to be a side chick. That means shes not good enough to be a wife or fiancée. My point is I refused to be any guys side chick. If we had broken up, i would have had nothing to lose instead of being heartbroken.
I am a wife and i fulfil my role as a wife. I will never advise any girl to play a role she's not. She will most times be used and dumped or she will most likely be the one begging for marriage as the guy gets it all from her for free.

you are not the area of concentration, side chicks are like water;/they are here to stay. Obviously you think a girl dating an guy is doing him a favour so case closed.

Ohibenemma:
like this was prophetic, Chimamanda has come out to voice her preference for Clinton; and if you read between the lines, you will see that this preference was mainly inspired by her feminity.

Now, we're being mentally boxed into a corner by these feminists. For them, the only qualification that matters is one's sex. Don't you think we should all just lay low and allow the women take over?

Lol have you seen where a female president will blast another nation with nuclear war head because their first lady's hairstyle is better or that she's more beautiful than her? haha
Look at this lady she thinks I should endorse her proposal on or foreign policies because she thinks she's smarter than me? meeeeehn believe me you ain't ready to see where emotions takes more room than logic in vital decisions. hahahaha though we have some smart females that might handle it.

Chukazu:
alter this, alter that... Is your dad a reverend father, just asking?

lol hahahahahaa lmao its been a while I laughed like this because of something I read on nl, thanks bro.
@GirlInQuestion is your pops a Reverend father? hahahaha well i hope you read and learn or the worst is that time will do the teaching.

BuyGoats:
One hundred likes for you. I never wasted my time proving nonsense to my hubby. I was just my natural self. No washing plates or clothes no sex but he married me. Those that were playing wife's role were dumped at the end of the day. I vowed never to play a wife's role as a single lady to any guy but as a real wife when my bridesprice is paid.

Just check my signature

Have you heard of side chicks? They're are chicks that are there to do the things that the supposed main chicks/wives choose not to do.

[quote author=Goethe post=51826336][/quote]Truly I say/type unto you, flee from the deceitful person for you know not what other baggage they have with them, anyone that says age is not a number should Also add unless its in marriage.
1. What would she look like after first pregnancy then her age will surface like crazyyyy.

2. She will use the age thing on you someday no doubt, things women can say or do just to spite you.

3. Why is she being dishonest? Her ulterior motive is to receive you or bury her age so that she can bag you and it seems like she's more about getting you to marry her than putting her love for you first. Her love for you should have been stronger than lying to you about her age. Remember how big people and people in the market talk sh!t and present their goods and tell all lies of how good it is and withhold vital information and what happens to the guys that purchase damaged goods.

Bro you're a man choose wisely but if I'm to choose, I'm definitely Usain Bolting myself as far as possible. Beware of females that are on injury time (30-36), they can act better than female movie Grammy winners and make a vulnerable guy thing she's in love but after she achieves her aim ( the ring/marriage or give birth) then you will be welcomed to hell bro. Don't be among the if I knew better guys or team divorcées.

Thanks to everyone and the gurus on this thread. Pls I have a situation, I applied for F1 last year and was delayed and recently I applied again but there happened to be a terrible mistake (an aunt helped me with the scheduling of appointment but its my fault for not discovering this problem), the bar code on my DS160 is not the same with the one on my appointment which was brought to my attention by one of the guys that stays within the embassy so the guy now edited and printed out a new ds160 comfirmation page for me which I went in with to go and explain to the attendants inside the embassy and showed them the two print outs after which they told me (on wednesday)that I have to wait for two working days before I can reschedule and wrote TB on the first DS-160 print out so I went out and met the guy that printed the second one for me and he told me that he will charge me #20,000 to "update" and "move" my previous profile to my current profile before I can reschedule or I might loose my visa fee. After I went through the paper they gave me on the fourth instruction which I will snap and upload here, I decided to go and research about it. I want to reschedule asap, please help with these questions;
1. What does he mean by updating and moving my previous profile to my current profile? (I asked him to elucidate it for me but he wouldn't )

2. Would there be a problem if I edit and get a new ds-160 bar code which I will use to reschedule an appointment?( I want to edit a new one to ensure there is no atom of mistake or incorrect information then use its bar code to reschedule and stick with it).

3. What steps am I to take?

4. Is there anything like having two or more ds-160 profile?

Any steps or any advice that you gurus here will give me will go a very long way, I need clarification and verification. Thanks to you all for the amazing job and help you all have been rendering here, remain blessed.
Cc: walspring, Deetus, bigfrancis, justwise, lagosismyhome, slimmy2005, msnas, dickoflife.