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some are good some are bullshiii. One of the b.s, put in laws on monthly allowance hahahahahahahahahahahaa you dont say?
Wth
you can help out or send them money sometimes, not on monthly basis. Are they your workers? It can only be possible if your wife is their only child and source.

But if your wife is a "wife", a ride or die chick then by all means make her happy.

harbosedey:
Guys are all the same....despite all I did for my boyfriend. he still cheated on me .....pls I need your advice on what to do......he cheated on me with my best friend..."and I love him dearly....we've been dating for 3years now.... love sucks....I hate guys

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krattoss:
I feel like insulting u

But u ain't worth my time..

Bro come on, I'm just making a joke. Damn, don't be uptight.

krattoss:
no no no..this isn't a case of G..

Am talking of my legit account which I open with my real details..

Laid and filed complaints. .but all to no avail

Well you should be OK bro since they haven't blocked your G accounts with your "work" abi fake details hahahhhahha enjoy.

Sorry dear, its OK that you're on the "I hate all guys" mode that you girls always switch to but take care of yourself.
its about time you girls grow from that I hate all guys bullshii though. If you hate guys then switch and be a lesbian, there's a lot of puni to go around dear.
Matter of fact what are you going to do now if you leave him? Get another guy that will NEVER cheat on you? lmao lol hahaha
If he truly and really loves you and just wanted to fuk another girl who happened to be your best friend my dear you need to watch who you keep as friends.
Nowadays fukin around is turning out to be the norm. We love to fuk around but we want to settle down and build a family with a chaste lady or a good lady that doesn't f around.
If you were a dude I'd tell you how to handle this like I did and I became happy and grateful it happened because it gave me the opportunity and freedom to......... ;-). Back in the game.
So ladies, help one of your own.

YelloweWest:
Bring a male is not an excuse to do stupid stuff!!!

For instance I can never hire this guy for any reason.

Stop giving excuses for male stupidity. Who care what society says??
When push comes to shove this guy will suffer cos of his poor choices.

lmao hahahahaha please take your issues somewhere else dear damn.

YelloweWest:
The consequences for stupidity and promiscuity should and is not gender selective. African views are irrelevant.
This is the 21century. It's a global world...

Sorry to burst your bubble sweetie but in Nigeria its gender selective because of the society. All eyes on the females but less on the males.

Safiaa:
There's no way this guy would ever get married. This business he is in has probably affected his mental evaluation on women for life. Kudos to him.

Its not just his business, nowadays when you have a little money those girls you thought are or seems responsible will turn to how's chasing you around and its so fked up that when one sees a girl now and tries to appreciate her the thought kicks in " shiiiiii she's just another p.a.y.g so why bother" and the worse is when you approach the girl it will only take a day maybe 3-4 or a week to discover she's nothing but a cheap hag and pls don't tell me its because of the circle or class I've been around but you can tell me that the cost differs.
I miss the times when the world had ladies, I believe there are few ones but where will one see them.

YelloweWest:
Why are people only attacking the girls? There's a boy in those pics too!

Or is his behaviour excused because he is male?

Yes there's a male there but remember that term what a man can do a woman can also do or better is a fat lie. Moreover its in Africa and their are society views and consequences about these types of things on different aspects, socially, spiritually or otherwise. Good for both of them, they have the right to do whatever they want whether they know the consequences or not.

haske7:
Desr brother, it bleeds my heart when I see ex bankers going thru he'll after losing their jobs. Banking job is like playing Russian roulette and surely one day the only bullet in the gun will go off so u either quit the game before it goes off or have a neuro surgeon readily avaliable to treat. I don't know the unit you worked in the bank but I will assume it's operations because they are always the worst hit. I would advise that u make a list of the banks customers u had a good relationship with (hope u didn't get sacked for fraud) and meet the ones that have a consumer based business and try and become a middle man for them. Hustle for them and earn commission. If u left the bank due to no fault of yours you can always analyse your former colleagues and find the products they need and begin to sell to them on a small scale.
Lemme give u an example..... most bankers wear white shirts that they normally buy at the cost of 10k and above. U can start by sourcing fairly used white shirts from ok abi bend down select and u can get it for 1k and dry clean them and u can sell for 3k. It might seem small but imagine if u have constant supply of high quality ok shirts and let's sell u sell 50 shirts a month that's like 5shirts it to 10 bankers that's like a hundred thousand for starts.
You can also start become a land and house agent by the side considering that most of your colleagues don't have time act as an intermediary for them. Don't lose your self confidence cos your situation is temporary keep your head up and ignore your wife and reduce your dependence on her.
Just ensure that everyday u leave the house and start from your known friends. Most might shun u but once u are reliably and trust worthy a. Sure one or two will definetly assist. Keep looking for another job and remain prayerful God will see u thru........... shalom!!!!!

I don't know you but I want to fxxking kiss your hands, wow laaawd thank you! at least we have two oooooooo. May you marry a very good man that will treat you like a queen. Tah!! I de follow you jooor

DukeNija:
I cannot try it. You know why? I am a very selfish person. I will not invest a dime of my money on any woman, not even my wife. All my savings goes to me and me alone. I will set up businesses that i will manage on my own even if she is jobless. My major priority will be me. She is secondary.
The mistake the man made was believing he had someone behind him. If he had saved for the rainy day and even started something on the side for complementary income he wont be in this mess. Go figure.

Women are selfish beings who love money and only think of themselves. The earlier men learn to be equally selfish the better for them. I believe op has learnt his lessons now and the wife will get her pay in due time.

Bro thanks so much for bringing this to my attention, I've been noticing it but felt its nothing but now I do understand.

FortuneTeller:
Worry about your girlfriend who is stripping for men in the name of "medical checkups". Men like you don't even see what is before then. They come here shouting only to end up with what they thought they were avoiding. Another man is poking a woman you've been dating for months and you come with this rubbish. Work hard, make money and face your life.

lol lmao good, even if she was my gf I'm not married yet and will always pray that ur kind never cones near my radar.

emynike2001:
Hahahahaha i say AMEN for u.

Did you read what she typed?! Niaj guys are you reading what these girls are typing? OMG just like in America marriage will soon be useless (except for kids) in Nigeria. She typed " IF HE WANTS PEACE IN THIS MARRIAGE HE SHOULD GO AND GET A JOB?!

IF HE WANTS PEACE!!!!!!!! most of you guys better be ready to get a girl that is a little cool headed and impregnate her get your baby, take care of her and baby and live ur life because these girls are just suicide routes for any man. Babymama is going to take over, no way living with a devil.

FortuneTeller:
You are being very naive. She didn't marry him while he was unemployed, so why should she suffer now? I'm sorry to inform you but all things are conditional. No woman wants a broke man. It's not attractive. If he wants a peaceful marriage, he needs to find a job.

May God please remove anything like you on the radar, area, perimeter, 1mile radius from wherever me, my friends or any good man is forever in Jesus name Amen!!!!!!!

for better for worse? marriage=ATM ( if its not dispensing cash its useless and should be thrown to the dirt?! God May Jezebel never be in the same vicinity that I will ever be.

I wouldn't be surprised if the government is selling it but if its an individual then its a crime.

RaptorX:
He can be a racist if he wants to and I can be one too because I agree with him so you hush with your silly inferiority complex not everybody gives a rat ass about oyinbos. And by the way a black person cannot be a racist because White's invented racism, prejudiced yes but not racist.

Shut up dummy, talk about self esteem or inferiority complex so you have to stomp another race down in order to feel good or superior. Dumbazz I bet you haven't been anywhere that's why you posses the mentality of a caveman or something but wth be as stupidd as you can, I can't stop you so go on and keep doing you.

AAinEqGuinea:
Biafran swag, unlike any other


https://nigerianreviews.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/biafran.jpg

I just love that pix, if Biafranis going to be that beautiful then I want it too, fk Nigeria.

Victorclean1:
You see Nigerian men, we have loose this pussy. Why am very much angry is that the girl is loaded, did anybody see her hips. No problem I blame it on buhari the ineffective sick and foolish skeleton

Hahahahaha bro please stop, their is enough pusssi for every male in this world bro. At least a ratio of 1:3, have any Nigerian girl marrying a foreigner made or reduced your rate of getting pusssi? NEVER!! Just hit the pond, river, ocean (Universities/Politechnics/church/shop right/parking lots/) and cast your your net and so many fishes will be yours. Just buy the hiv test kit and take all precaution because ones life is too precious to be lost on the account of pusssi.

Me77:
Glad both of em are blacks, what i hate is those white-weaklings marrying our daughters. Very distasteful!

hush, stop being a racist. We are all human, I don't care what or who any race one marries so far they are happy and love that person that's it. Have you dated a white woman? or haven't you seen a black man marrying a white woman, does that make them a weakling? stop sounding like a biatch or some AAs that thinks brothers are weak or white washed when the marry a white woman.

makydebbie:
You knew she was fake when you were banging the pussy so what's your point now?

He got a taste of real pussi and is not happy for the time he wasted on fake pusssi :-(. Thank Lawwwd this fake shiit, transgender and all are not yet here in naija. We can have all the real pussssi we want before the fakes emerge.

Benignasweety:
I repeat! no matter what she did GodsLastBorn she doesnt deserve such treatment at all, does he want her blind before sending her away? wat sort of inhumane treatment is dat... Guess u wldnt be saying dix if she was ur sister unless u do same to your spouse...

If she's my sister? lol why do you girls always suck on the sentimental ish of "if its your sister, mom, bro and more" I don't know how to apply sentiments dear. I don't know how to, I'll ask her what happened? and I pray that she's its her fault BC if not whoever it is will experience worse. I HAVE TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENED FIRST.

NCANpatroller:
Did Dangote ever had a business plan?
Or bill gate
Or Steve Jobs
Or Oprah winfrey


Guy achieve monopoly in any business. You ll be rich

wow thats deep bro, mononpoly is the most important thing.

ivolt:
This statement just confirmed my doubt of you being a complete slowpoke.
Any thinking person understand that people marry for different reasons,
But being of little imagination, you cannot understand the fact that the violent
man is capable of unjustified atrocities.

Love and marriages don't matter to savages and their supporters like you,
to them violence is the only way to boost their non-existent ego.

Even parent-child bond which is assumed to be one of the most strongest
bond get abused by savages who brutalise their kids to death.

[quote author=ivolt post=57860237]hahaha get your ignorant, sentiment riddled azz out of here b. simple question and you're acting like I'm the guy that beat you up sometime ago? what will make a man that .... and ... for his wife to do this? in lieu to good answer you started ranting? b1tch pls take your issues somewhere else ;-) we don't know each other. lol these girls

#5, I don't believe that but the others are cool though.

This is awesome, discover/acknowledge a problem and provide solution and one elevated animal here is saying that the internet is a threat in Nigeria.

what happened? you guys should stop posting pictures without the story of what lead to such situation. Picture with the stories behind it in order to complete the situation. One thing I know is that actions and consequences goes hand in hand.

Benignasweety:
No matter wat she did, she doesnt deserve dix abuse...

No matter what she did?! If you are smart and understand the meaning of that line NO MATTER WHAT then you will never use it in the same context like you did. Now get off your emotional tantrums.

ivolt:
I pity the unfortunate woman that will end up with you guys.
One of the basic characteristics of human is the ability to empathise
with victims, even pre-historic cave men have been shown to possess
such trait.

But you guys are openly excusing violence while some dumb readers are liking your comment.

SMH

Bulshiii is everywhere because of people with your messed up mentality. Have you asked what lead to this? have you asked to see the man's picture to see if he's wounded? all you need is a pic of a battered woman and you hug unto your banana wilding out.
People should should understand about actions and consequences but no, some girls think because they are females there is nothing they can do that deserves this azz kicking. Really? so you can burn my family, burn all the things I've worked for in life or even kill a man's mother and father and yet you don't deserve any form of violence when you have dished one out physically or emotionally through vile words?! GTFOH.
there's always a thin line to respect for any relationship to go on, you don't jump into a lions cage and expect it not to eat you, you don't throw fire on a fuel and expect it not to burn, you don't put you pour acid on your body and expect it not to corrode your skin so why the fvck do you think you can step to a man, abuse him, drag him around, some even slap him and expect him to keep quiet?! since we're drunk on assumptions maybe she did all these to him and finally shot his father and he reacts to all these thing and you dummies call him a monster without hearing his side of the story?

one question for you airheads. WHY WOULD A MAN THAT LOVES/LOVED HIS WIFE, MARRIED HER, LIVES WITH HER, EATS WITH HER HAVE THE GUTS TO BEAT HER LIKE THIS?! guess the question never popped out from your porous brains. Men are beast my foot when a man will put his life on the line for his beloved wife no matter what, African men well I can't say for all but from where I'm from, how we are raised and everything we will rather die defending our wives because she's our queen, the mother of our kids, the nurturing capital of our kingdom and no one messes with her, we will go to hell and defend their wives (the ones that are really wives) in the face of devil or anything and you dummies are here castigating black men.

thotianna:
Preach!
You will never see white or asian men come out enmass to talk crap about how a woman deserves to be beat up because she and her husband exchanged words. Misunderstandings and quarrels are a normal part of every relationship but only beastly animalistic black men think that woman should be beat up for exchanging words with her spouse. What about the man? Who will beat him if he insults his wife?
I guess many of them don't even see women as human beings with rights that's why they say extremely sadistic and inconsiderate statements like that.
Funny enough black men have contributed least to whatever advancements we see today. Instead of them to remedy the situation, they're busx denigrating women and trying to strip them of basic human rights. These mofos actually think its cool to beat a woman because she hurt their egos

you've never seen a white or Asian man treat their women like this or worse? then you must be living in the same place/country all your life. Domestic violence cuts across race, white men do worse if compared to black men. Some white men can shoot their wife's face off with a pump action, club her to death or the brain shot likewise the women so don't come on here to paint black men with that useless brush and generalization. If anything, there are laws against domestic violence in America and its being seriously enforced yet mofos be killing their wives/ husbands despite the laws and its penalties then compare that to Nigeria where the laws are not enforced. Go and check the rate of DV in America and compare that to Nigeria then you will shut up. Black men are this and black men are that instead of focussing on the case here.

What lead to this? where is the man's pictures or story to see if he's wounded too or the situation?
Everyone is here tagging him a beast with no reason but a picture of a battered woman. What if she shot his mom or did something worse?
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For the women saying no woman (or man) should be battered like that NO MATTER WHAT THE PERSON DID, HAHAHAHA keep living in lalaland. I guess that was what this battered woman thought too and here's the result, ask questions people? ask what happened? how did it start in order to analyse the situation critically. GTFOH with the wife beater man beater nonsense.
Violence is bad but the bitter truth is that it is needed in some certain situations for good or bad purposes.
Black men contributed least to the advancement we see today? are you a modern slave? do you know the history of Africa? have you read about Egypt, Timbuktu and the rest? have you wondered why all the Pharaoh heads nose are all broken? That is the same reason your illiterate, white washed brain thinks black men are the least contributors in modern advancement. I'd understand if you're not an African but It will be a shame if you are an African or share this amazing, lovely, melanin, chocolate skin like me.

bro now u av got to man up! Where r ur homies? U need some guys time. Go out have a few beer n barbeque, fish or anything u enjoy a lot. U work? Maximum concentration on work or getting a better one or devising a way to make more money on d side. Use that time for nursing hrtbreak on having a goodtime n hustle or brainstorming ideas. Its ususally hard at first but after two days or thre when ur focus sets in u will b happy i bet u. D mode u need now is workhard playhard mode. Maybe a little side pusi will help u, it heps a lot. Side chick? These are moments that side chicks are so essential.

hmmm thats it?

Most Nigerians are repulsively gullible, this man Adebayo is pimping and running game on these people .